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Is He Cheating on You with Another Woman?

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It’s never easy to know if your man’s cheating. After all, cheating men have evolved to become better cheaters. So is he cheating on you with another woman?

Are you feeling rather suspicious about your man’s behavior recently?

It’s never easy to know if your man’s cheating on you.

But there are a few sneaky signs that cheaters give away involuntarily.

So is he cheating on you?

In most cases, a man cheats for two reasons.

He’s having a bad relationship at home and he’s found someone who “understands” him better.

Or someone he finds extremely attractive has started to show an interest in him.

If a man’s confronted with these two situations, it’s almost certain that he’d cheat, unless he really respects you a lot and loves you to bits.

But even if he does love you, there may be times when he’d just want to do it.

After all, how often can he get to make out with someone he truly admires outside the relationship?

Is he cheating on you with another woman?

Men have started to get rather clever these days, especially when it comes to infidelity and indulging in a bit of heavy petting with an attractive looker.

Want to know if he’s doing the elvis-pelvis with his underwear around his ankles?

Here are fifteen signs that will surely help clear your doubt on whether he’s cheating on you, in no time.

#1 He’s wary of his cell phone

Does he keep his cell phone close to his little heart at all times, even if he has to go to the loo or take a shower? Well, that’s weird, isn’t it? A cell phone is almost always the biggest giveaway if a guy’s having an affair.

Does he crane his neck and see what you’re up to each time you touch his cell phone? Or do you find an empty inbox or an empty call list? Or gasp, has he locked his cell phone with a secret password that he doesn’t like sharing? Any of these signs usually mean something’s fishy.

If your man is rather clever, he’d be careful about these signs. But here’s the best giveaway. When he hears a text beeping on his cell phone, especially when his phone is further away from him, does he sneak a quick glance at you first? If he does this all the time, there’s a very good chance that he’s hoping you don’t reach his phone first, even if you’re closer to his phone.

#2 That old excuse – Stuck at work

This is the lamest excuse to use, but surprisingly it’s also extremely effective. You can’t do a thing about it anyways, can you? Is he sweating his back in office for several hours after work? There’s a good chance that he’s sweating for all the wrong reasons.

But then again, this sign alone isn’t good enough to know for sure. He may truly be working late, or may even be taking dance lessons with J.Lo like Richard Gere did. That’s not cheating, that’s him wanting to become a better man.

#3 He grooms himself without any motivation

Is he spending a lot of time admiring himself in the mirror? Or has he been splurging on great looking clothes and fragrances without any reason?

It’s alright if he wants to look good, but if he’s trying to look smart all of a sudden without even consulting you, something’s probably in the air and it’s just not his new expensive cologne.

Almost all the time, when realization hits a man, he talks about it with his wife or girlfriend, be it a bulging belly or bad dressing style. But if his ego hasn’t been shattered by someone else recently and he still spends time buying clothes (even alone) or lifting weights in the basement, there’s a good chance that he’s either going through a mid life crisis or another pelvis.

#4 He’s never ready for spontaneous sex

Women can have sex, and then some more. Your man can’t do that, well, unless he’s a little horny teenager or is extremely aroused by you all of a sudden.

Long term relationship… well, what are the chances of that happening unless you’ve brought out your sexy lingerie?

Have you ever tried to initiate sex with your man after one of his late nights at work? Chances are, he won’t be ready. Well, tell him you’ll blow him and bigger chances are, he’ll do anything to push your face away. Firstly, he’s not going to get an erection. Secondly, he doesn’t want you sniffing around his privates at a time like this!

[Read: What men want in a woman]

#5 He hangs out with friends you haven’t met

Has he been having lunch with friends you haven’t met? Or does he play golf with new friends you’ve never seen? When your man is cheating on you, he wouldn’t want to involve a friend you know well or have even spoken to.

He’d be afraid that you may just end up calling his friend and asking for him. The best way for a guy to squirm out of getting caught is to create imaginary friends or use the names of new friends that he knows you haven’t met.

The next time he’s on one of his special lunches or dinners with “new friends”, call him up and tell him you’re heading out with a few friends too, but don’t tell him where you’re off to. Just tease him around for a bit.

If he’s really out with his new girlfriend, there’s a good chance that he’s going to be paranoid or even angry when you don’t tell him where you’re heading to. After all, he wouldn’t want to be caught with a steak knife for your perusal when you coincidentally enter the same restaurant.

#6 He needs a lot of privacy

Has your man become a very private person all of a sudden? Does he walk into the next room when he has to take a call from an unknown number? Or does he actually walk out of the house and into the backyard or the street if the television’s muted?

Seriously, what the heck is that supposed to mean? Men can’t help but do that when they’re having a phone conversation they shouldn’t be having. Take a peek and watch out for his expressions. Is he blushing or smiling? Unless he walks back into the room with some good news, it may mean bad news, for you.

On the other hand, if he closes the browser or shuts his laptop all of a sudden when you walk by, he’s either watching dirty videos or staring at his new sex machine’s picture or probably even chatting with her. No guy starts behaving suspiciously all of a sudden unless there is something suspicious in his life.

[Read: What men like in women more than anything else]

So is he cheating on you with another woman? Don’t jump to conclusions just yet. Read the next ten sneaky cheating signs first.

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18 thoughts on “Is He Cheating on You with Another Woman?”

  1. Hamsa says:

    One guy has cheated me. I believed him so much that i gave my virginity to him. But that bloody bitch is ignoring me now. He is flirting with many other females now. He is aged 50 and i am 30.

    I want to take a revenge on him. I want to inform about our relationship to his wife and to his boss so that he should loose the job and family.

    Can i do this?

    Please advise as i am going mad.

  2. unicorn wife says:

    I am a wife of 50 yr old husband that I love and enjoy.

  3. unicorn wife says:

    Hamsa I think you should.

  4. sypher says:

    I think u shouldn’t do that, that is gonna ruin his life and won’t bring back your virginity..you should just forget about him.

  5. sherry says:

    Do to him what he did to you. He took your virginity and you’ll never get that
    Back so take everything from him he don’t deserve any of it.
    Just think of it as a blessing to his wife she should know everything.

  6. Ashley says:

    if i were u i would do it. people need to accept tconsequences for their bad behavior. maybe then he will learn cheatiing doesnt pay off in the end.

  7. alwaysright says:

    HAMSA?…wot were u doing having an affair with a married man in the first place??..did u think he was going to leave his wife for you?..they never do that!..sounds ur gullible and immature…

  8. Kate says:


    Being a side chick is always TEMPORARY. Accept the consequences (the hurt feelings) because you were part of the deception. You even deserve it! He has to end it with you because HE HAS A WIFE. If you don’t want to get hurt, then don’t play that game. And you have no right to HURT the wife by telling. And you have no right to ruin the man’s life because you consented to be part of a deception.

    -A Former Other Woman-

  9. Nelson says:

    Articles like this are the reasons why women are losing the battle in relationships. men are tired of this nonsense.

    1. With todays technology, mobile devices (that’s what they really are, not phones) have so many apps and other nonsense that taking one’s device into the bathroom is nothing. When I got my note 3, I was up until 3 am playing with it. I will also put music or a video on with my wireless speaker or water proof headset and jam while on the toilet or showering.

    2. hit or miss

    I will just group the rest. Men taking care of themselves is a problem? Perhaps they are having a crisis, perhaps they just want to feel better as they get older. Believe it or not, men have their own ideas and thoughts. WE DO NOT SHARE THEM WITH OUR SPOUSES 100%. Get real? who does this.

    This whole article is forgetting one thing. The individualism of people. My wife and I are not joined at the hip. I have friends she doesn’t know or know well. why would she? Not every person is going to be brought to her attention. Should I also give her the numbers to all my co workers? Get real.

  10. shazz says:

    Hi I’m in a relationship ship now for 11months. I have known my partner for year’s as a friend. I’m really confused and don’t know what to think. My gut feeling tells me his with other woman. He loves porn movies going on various sex site’s. In the beginning our sex was great. I couldn’t wish for better. The last few weeks things haven’t been the same. He will sit on his site every evening and when it comes to bed time he will get into bed and say night sleep nice and then turn his back. We have only had sex once in this two weeks and he couldn’t even cum . I really feel that maybe I am the cause of this. I feel worthless. He often tells me that he loves me. He tells me that his trapped in a woman’s body. I really do love him and don’t want to loose him. But I feel that his having affairs with other woman. Reason been his words are…I shoot here and there but still stays yours! ! Can somebody please give me the right advice. I feel terrible he continously moans that I’m to thin he wants fatty woman. Feel down and hurt. Please give advice I’m going mad.

  11. Giving Up says:

    I have been in a relationship for thirteen years he has asked me to marry but I don’t believe in divorce but I believe in leaving, When we first got together I thought was great till one day I had two different females come to my front door at the same time, And the best part is that their names was the same Michelle, I should have known then what I was dealing with but I was already in love with him…not to long after that I was working night shift and he needed to borrow my car that night I said as long as he don’t forget me the next morning, sure enough he forgot me for two hours…I couldn’t get him to get up to answer the phone…I shortly found out he was with another girl..yes I know I forgave him again…a few years went by…we moved outta state then back in to state..he was working in a computer store…He started an affair with the secretary there….now by this point my kids hate him,, but my love for him was stronger then the pain of the cheating…I forgave again…we moved to Az. where we reside as of today…and yes here I have found so much evidence of the same stuff…I just want to be happy now and move on with my life I realize i’m not getting any younger and now the sex is blah…I have to tell him to shower before intercourse…I do everything in our house cleaning wise he goes to work outside the house…I’m just getting the stuck end so if anyone in my area mesa az knows how to treat a woman write me a few lines.

  12. Shadowhark says:

    dear giving up

    do you ever wonder why he cheated on you? sometimes, us women think that we already in a relationship and we let ourselves go. we should always make ourselves desirable no matter what. I’m not talking about we should dress up at all times. we need to look presentable, clean and smell good. we have to make our love ones feel that there are no other women better than the ones their got at home. we have to make them feel they need us and can’t hardly wait to be home to see us and the kids. yes, there are times in life where we can’t always look pretty. no one want to come home to a nagging wife or girlfriend.
    we should always keep our romance alive and should never let ourselves go. go back to the beginning, why did he fall in love with you? what attracted you to him? see if you can recreate the same mood. it will be because it was so long ago.
    how is your self confidence? if you have low self-esteem and low confident he will feed on that. he knows if cheats on you AGAIN, you will take him back. save yourself and have some dignity, walk out.
    other men will find you desirable and attractive if you are happy and confident. work on yourself…be happy and who knows, there is one nice gentleman around the corner dying to meet and be with you.

    confident, happy and remember to smile.

  13. maymay says:

    I caught my husband with a hard erected penis while handling his phone, I asked him and he couldn’t give any reason, is he cheating on me? and having phone sex?

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  15. deaira says:

    it is never a reason for anyone to cheat if a person no longer makes you happy man or woman up and break up with them before you do something wrong just think how would I feel if that happened to me it’s not okay for anyone to make excuses for someone to hurt someone else in today’s world it is full of weak people making excuses for they’re mistakes instead of owning them if you can’t own your mistakes don’t make them

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