The key to a successful relationship is knowing how to make him fall in love with you over and over again. Here’s how to show him you care daily.
Relationships are a lot more than just telling someone you love them. You have to put in a lot of effort throughout the entire thing, not just in the beginning. If you want to keep a partner, you have to work for it. That means you’ll want to know how to make him fall in love with you all over again.
That should be your goal every day. You should want to make your man fall for you repeatedly. It’s not enough to get him to say, “I love you,” and then stop doing anything that got him there in the first place. You both need to be actively showing your affection every single day. [Read: 15 classy ways to make any guy go crazy over you]
It’s not easy to put your best foot forward day after day
I get it. You can’t always look your best. You won’t always be in a wonderful, loving mood. So how can you try to make him fall in love with you again and again? The truth is that it’s just not that simple.
It’s not easy to do, either. If it was, there’d be far fewer failed relationships. But it’s still necessary. Sometimes you just have to sit back and think about your feelings for your partner. When you do this, you’ll see that doing something kind and loving for them isn’t too hard and it makes a big difference. [Read: 17 easy ways to be a good girlfriend to your boyfriend]
How to make him fall in love with you day after day
If you really want to keep your man and have a happy, healthy, loving relationship, here are a few things that’ll help.
#1 Tell him how you feel. Just open up and tell him. It’s a very easy thing and you probably already do it. However, after a while, we might grow to think that our partners already know. Even if they do, they still love hearing it. So tell your man just how much you love him. [Read: 15 sweet ways to make a guy feel needed and wanted]
#2 Do something you know he loves. There are probably a lot of things you do that your man loves. Think about what he compliments you on or when made him happier than you’ve ever seen him. Then do that!
If he really loves when you surprise him with date night plans, do that. Maybe he also really likes when you make him his favorite homemade dinner. Doing those things on occasion will help him fall more and more in love with you.
#3 Keep your sense of humor at the forefront. Life isn’t always fun and games. However, the difficult times can be made a lot easier if you keep your sense of humor alive. Don’t let it fall away just because you’ve been together for a while. Make sure he knows you still love to joke around and have fun. [Read: 12 types of humor and how it affects your relationship]
#4 Let your goofy side show. He’ll fall more and more in love with you the goofier you are around him. And this is simply because you’ll make him laugh. Don’t be afraid to be weird and goofy. He loves you for those little things, so let them show.
#5 Be understanding. There will be times in life when things go wrong. You won’t always have control over everything and you might be faced with a situation that’s upsetting. Just be understanding. Know that your partner isn’t perfect. Obviously, you don’t want to forgive everything they do right away. But with the little stuff, just stay calm.
#6 Keep doing the little things you did in the beginning. Remember when you two first started dating? What did you do that made him fall so hard for you? Think about those little things and remember to keep doing them.
One of the biggest issues in relationships is partners who stop doing the stuff that made the other love them. It’s not enough to simply say you’re in love. Keep doing the stuff that got you there in the first place. [Read: The little things in love that make romance better]
#7 Laugh at his jokes. It’s important that the two of you still laugh together. He needs to know that you still think he’s really funny, even if you’ve been together for a while. So when he makes some jokes, even if they’re silly, laugh.
Hearing your laugh and seeing you light up at something he said will make him fall in love with you all over again. Obviously, don’t make it seem fake or inauthentic.
#8 Appreciate what he does for you. Be appreciative all the time. He doesn’t have to be doing any of those things for you. He does nice things because he cares about you. Continuously be grateful for all he does, even if it’s as small as bringing you a cup of coffee in the morning. Knowing you appreciate him in your life will make him love you even more. [Read: 25 ways to easily show your appreciation without saying a word]
#9 Have sex like you’re still in the honeymoon phase. Yes, you read that right. Have sex like you still can’t believe you get to have sex with them. People just don’t understand the importance of a healthy sex life.
You might not have the time or energy to go at it like you did in your honeymoon phase but just think about it. Both of you were overly eager to hit the sheets, right? Bring back that enthusiasm.
#10 Remember the important stuff. If he has a big day at work that could lead to a potential promotion, make sure to get up and make him a big breakfast and pour him a large coffee. It’s not much, but it’s enough to show him that you still think about him all the time. He’ll love you more for things like this. [Read: 10 important things to do that’ll make you a better girlfriend]
#11 Pick up the slack when he’s having a rough day. Doing his chores when he’s super stressed is such a loving, caring thing to do. It’s a mutual thing. He would do it for you so you ought to do it for him.
When he’s hard a really hard day at work or is working extra hours, just pick up what he can’t get to. Let him come home and unwind without having to ask you to step in.
#12 Be compassionate with his family. Again, you probably already do this because you care about him. So therefore, you care about his family. But that being said, just make sure you’re more aware of this. Actively seek out his mother and talk to her. Let him see that you’re a part of his family and he’ll definitely fall for you over and over again.