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25 Tips to Look Cute and Melt Any Guy’s Heart Effortlessly

How To Look Cute And Melt A Guy's Heart In 25 Ways

Want to be a cute chick who can make a guy go weak in his knees? Read these 25 cute flirty ways on how to look cute and melt a guy’s heart instantly.

Want to look cute and make any guy melt?

Well, here are 25 things that can do just that.

[Read: Tips to make a guy want you more than ever!]

Before we go any further, you should know that cute doesn’t work for all the girls.

It’s all about the persona you create.

They work best for shy girls. If you aren’t a shy girl, well, you can try to be one when you’re trying to play cute and demure.

How to look cute and sweet

If you want to look cute and make a guy go awww, use these 25 tips and work them around your own personality.

It’ll work wonders in no time, and you’ll be more approachable and lovable just as soon as you try a few of these tips.

#1 Don’t try to look sexy. Don’t behave in a sexy manner if you want to look cute.

Cute is fragile and nervous. Sexy is confidence and oomph. They don’t mix too well.

[Read: How to look sexy without trying]

#2 Pastel shades. Avoid bold colors in your wardrobe unless they’re subtle and blended with other colors. Pastels are softer on the eyes and they make you look soft and cuddly.

#3 Shift your weight. Don’t stand firm in one spot when you’re standing and talking to a guy. Shift your weight from one foot to another now and then.

#4 Play with your hair while talking to him. Tease your curls or let your fingers caress your tresses, especially when you’re thinking or deciding on something. You can also tuck a few strands of hair behind your ear when you feel awkward.

#5 Minimal makeup. A lot of makeup can make you look sexy or glamorous. You’re not trying to be a seductress, so avoid heavy makeup. Stick with subtle hues and nude shades to enhance your innocence. [Read: How to be a sexy seductress]

#6 Speak softly. Don’t speak in a loud voice when you’re talking to a guy. Instead, speak in a soft, low tone. And smile just a little bit every time you say something to him.

#7 Be fun. Always look at the bright side in life. Be happy and you’ll have a cheerful and positive face that draws people.

#8 Smile. A lot. A girl who smiles always seems more warm and approachable than girls who behave like snobs. Smile a lot. And look cute doing it either by scrunching your nose or curling your lip now and then *watch yourself in a mirror and perfect your cute smile*.

#9 Learn to blush. Instead of punching a guy in his arm or shrugging your shoulders, blush coyly when you’re complimented instead of taking it in your stride.

#10 Don’t dominate the conversation. A cute girl is rather shy. You may be smart and clever, but play along with the conversation and let the guy take the lead in asking you questions or making conversations. [Read: How to talk to a guy and make him like you]

#11 Subtle down. While a quiet girl may intimidate a guy at first because he wouldn’t know what to talk about, he’ll feel more confident in the conversation as the minutes tick by. And the more comfortable you make a guy feel, the more he’ll fall for you.

#12 You can be shy. Don’t try to be bold all the time. If you’re a naturally shy girl, it would be really easy for you to look cute all the time.

#13 Be subtly mischievous. Pull his leg and have a lively laugh out of the blue when you’re talking to a guy. You’ll look so cute!

#14 Your attire. Wear soft, flimsy fabrics that flow or drape over your body instead of dressing up in crisp, sharp clothes. [Read: What to wear on a date to awe the guy]

#15 The way you sit. Keep your feet together and bring your hands close together near your knees when you’re sitting with a guy and having a conversation. You’ll look cute without even trying.

#16 Awkwardness. It’s alright to feel awkward around a guy. In fact, that’ll make you look cuter. Instead of concealing your awkwardness, use it to your advantage.

#17 Your gaze. Look down at your own feet coyly now and then in the middle of the conversation, and he’ll pursue you harder. [Read: How to flirt with a guy without really flirting]

#18 Watch your hands. Don’t move your hands about while talking to a guy. Keep them by your sides, or even better, interlace your fingers in front of your tummy.

#19 Nod more than just your face. Be fluid and flexible in your movements. Slightly move your back along with your facial movements when you nod an affirmative while talking to a guy.

#20 Eye contact. Don’t fix your eyes onto his when you’re talking to a guy for any more than a few seconds. While confidence may make your intentions clear, playing cute and coy will make him work harder to get you to stare back into his eyes. [Read: 10 subtle eye contact flirting moves]

#21 Don’t pretend to be stupid. A few girls may assume that guys like silly girls. While a guy may like that for the first few minutes, he’ll be bored in no time. Stupid is not cute. And don’t babytalk either. You’ll become annoying. [Read: 20 circumstances when a guy won’t like you back]

#22 Soft hairstyle. Anything delicate makes you look cuter. Soft hairstyles that flow with your waves or even straight down your shoulder delicately make you look naturally sweet and cute.

#23 Don’t be aggressive in your body language. Mute any exaggerated gestures and hand movements. Be gentle in your body language and delicate in your movements. [Read: 10 steps to be graceful and elegant]

#24 Floral perfumes. Wear sweet smelling perfumes that aren’t too rich or sensual. Fragrances that smell sweet and fruity add to your cute persona.

#25 Sound cute. This may seem funny, but make cute noises when you bump into something or trip accidentally. A soft ouch or an oww makes you seem so much cuter.

[Read: The real reason why a cute and feminine girl will always have an edge over other women when it comes to attracting men]

These 25 tips on how to look cute are all you need to impress a guy in the very first glance and melt his heart. Use these tips and watch his interest in you peak in the very next conversation.

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52 thoughts on “25 Tips to Look Cute and Melt Any Guy’s Heart Effortlessly”

  1. Melanie says:

    This is an amazing website! Now my crush loves me(: thankss!

  2. Lola says:

    #26 Now wait for Aliens to change you for a another human being…
    Is more Simple, you can be cute, sexy whatever BUT ALWAYS be yourself because in one moment or another HE will discover the REAL you…

  3. Jen says:

    #27 become Lola the ape that can’t ever get cute.

    Really, these tips are really nice. At first, I was apprehensive to try them, but I must say as subtle as these suggestions are, they can make a big difference when you’re talking to a guy. The very day I started using these tips, all my friends could notice a difference in my behavior and yet, no one could pinpoint how I was behaving differently. Everyone, especially my guy friends, couldn’t stop trying to make conversation with me!

    Lovepanky, you’ve really made a difference in my life. Thank you so much!

  4. May says:

    I agree with Lola. There’s nothing wrong with being cute or inserting a little cute thing in here or there, but if that doesn’t mean you have to change yourself. If so then what’s the point? And seriously, “You may be smart and clever, but play along with the conversation”!? Always be yourself, honesty is essential in a relationship, and Lola’s right, he will eventually find out.

  5. Ivy says:

    I think alot of this stuff is just unnessecary… I disagree with changing yourself and alot of the things that are supposed to seduce men, its not a one size fits all deal, the same thing that helps your cause with one guy could blow it with the next

  6. Zoe says:

    Wow! I realized I do lots of what’s already mentioned here. I was being cute without knowing. I always pictured my behavior as being awkward and that no guy would ever like me for them.

  7. Millie says:

    Cute is my problem. I can’t seem to ”do” sexy at all because I can’t wear short mini skirts or hot pants. I wear fashionable clothes and dresses but they are never too short. I have naturally blonde curly hair as well. Do I have guys bashing my door down? nope :((

  8. Lj says:

    Helpful and seem easy enough, I’ ll give them a try.

  9. Bri says:

    2 recommendations are great. Smile a lot. Let the guy do the talking as he goes gaga over you just giving you loads of complements.

  10. Neville says:

    As a guy, I can definitely say these things work… But of course, as the articles says, it won’t work on all girls. It works best on girls who appear shy and endearing like Audrey Tautou, Kirsten Stewart or Natalie Portman, and may not work as well on a girl who behaves like Angelina Jolie.

    Find out where you fit into before you use these moves. If you can use this well, I don’t think any guy can stop himself from falling for you, or wanting to extend the conversation with you.

    Think about it, guys are manly, and any guy loaded with testosterone can’t help but get attracted to a girl who behaves like a damsel! I know I would fall for any of these cute ways!

  11. cutie says:

    I do basically everything on that list (am very shy) but that doesn’t get me all the male attention rather it makes boys treat me like a baby and am not.

  12. Oh My Christ says:

    Best damn page on this site.

  13. Samotage says:

    This article is horrifically offensive.

  14. Christal says:

    Don’t be fake. Be yourself…
    Good advice though, especially for acting or icebreakers for shy girls

    One thing though…Cute and sexy don’t mix well? Of course they do. Those two things put together in the right combination just ooze of feminine essence. Don’t believe me? Consider Asian pop culture.

  15. KawaiiKitten says:

    I am naturally shy so this works for me, i also love cute things so..this was pretty helpful 😀

  16. Jem says:

    I do all these things already! I don’t find myself cute at all though. Are you sure this is going to help me lmao

  17. sarah says:

    Wow. How offensive is this? I hope young girls aren’t reading and believing this tripe! Try to be shy, don’t dominate the conversation, make cute noises and twirl your hair. It’s like something from a Victorian rule book. Girls – be yourself and don’t spend your life hunting boyfriends! Live, learn and love life – then you’ll meet someone without these insane, outdated ‘tips’. Don’t be a f*cking doll – be yourself and have some self respect.

  18. Evelyn says:

    These are some really nice tips. I’ve always been more cute than serious and outright in my behavior, so it was easy to try these steps.

    I picked a handful of these tips to test them, and many of my friends actually noticed a difference right away. They were all asking me if there was something I’ve done, because I seemed different in a good way. I just shook my head while laughing inside.

    And the best part, the guy I like, he likes me too but we’re not dating yet, walked up to me and said I seemed happier and more alive. But he also said he couldn’t explain why he feels that way! This is amazing… thank you, guys!

  19. Nana says:

    OMG hope this works the guy is so cute but he never seems to notice me!?

  20. Sahr says:

    Isn’t all this about being a genuine person?, how can someone try so hard to be who they are not before the cracks begin to show?.
    Take it from me (a 42 year old man) as soon as a woman is trying too hard she stands out for all the wrong reasons.
    I know 2 women out of 4 long term relationships that have the cute thing locked down, one in particular I would say is the champions league of cute, I have never met a woman like her to this day, the other two tried but it never lasts for long if it’s not in their nature to be that way.

  21. KL Baudelaire says:

    This article is abysmal dross.

    Be yourself. Unless your idea of happiness is to slavishly follow this set of rules for the rest of your life with a man who is in love with an idea of a person who is not actually you.

  22. Aki Aahir says:

    Thanks…btw i m naturally a shy girl..and my boyfriend thinks that i am cute ….just needed to be sur :3

  23. Jo says:

    I know we all want to be attractive but this is a bit sexist- “speak in a soft voice” “don’t dominate the conversation”- I dont think you should be submissive because you are a girl, only if you are a naturally shy person. Girls dont have to be sappy and sweet to be attractive. People should just be themselves and be nice, thats the best way forward. Boys don’t like fake girls usually, and you cant keep up an act forever.

  24. Lucy says:

    I agree with sarah and Samotage. It all sounds like “be a robot, make him fall for the idea of a woman who has no personality”. Do you really want a guy to love you because you look and dress like a child? Do you really think you need to shut it up so he’ll like you? I’m sorry but if these tips work for you, it means you’re dating a horrible guy. I’m reading that stuff because I’m writing articles on social skills through the web, but it seems so odd to me that girls in 2013 still think they’re allowed to be treated that way. The whole things sounds like a chauvinistic manual to a full-sized doll figure. I know many great guys and they all respect me for who I really am, you know why? be cause I don’t put on a show, I’m not afraid to speak my mind, and those who are interested in a real, mature relationship, seem to find me attractive for the fact I’m quite manly and firm, a strong woman, and only a strong man isn’t afraid of a strong woman…
    Please leave the nonsense here behind and move along with your daily routine. I guarantee things will work better in the long term for you!

  25. Anna says:

    Haha, this is ridiculous. You can be cute without changing your own personality.

    Besides, I do most of these things, and even though a few people find it cute, the majority of people don’t

  26. SillySilly says:

    I’m a guy and this is the really good advise for girls! Perfect display of what feminine energy should look like it doubles your physical attractiveness way above “sexy looking girls” or girls generically better looking. This is what makes me stop in my tracks and hit on that girl at the bus stop etc.

    Only part i disagree with is the eye contact, i lose interest quick if a girl cant hold strong eye contact with me. Eye’s build a connection and makes both people feel like your being honest and real with each other, and interested, and it builds sexual tension.

    But again don’t be fake, so become it make it a habit so its how you eventually start to naturally be, you are allowed to change yourself and be who you want, while greatly improving who you are, these woman are rare. . Remember your feminine energy (main attractive trait) is expressed through your body language but the actual feminine part has to be alive inside you, this is that main thing! Be caring, honest, giving, nurturing, sweet, friendly. I have read some horrible advise on the internet for girls, like being bitchy, and be bold, be a challenge which can get guys chasing you, but only for egotistical reasons not actually for you. (and a guy with a big ego will drive you crazy) who are you trying to attract. You become a challenge to accomplish rather than a girl he actually likes.

    side note to Anna “your body language and appearance” have nothing to do with your personality, if you don’t have the personality to back up what your saying with your body language, then its like a shinny car with no motor in it. Some girls have the opposite problem and that’s why this advise would be good for them. Guys can sense when a girls being un congruent, with the situation there in, if your looking like a sweet girl while acting like a man…

    I’m happy to give advise if anyone wants it. abarnett1991@hotmail.co.nz

  27. Kate says:

    I think these tips are great. I use most of them, and they always work. Not just with guys, but with everyone else too.

    And to those people commenting here telling other people to just be yourself, really are you doing them a favor or just making their life worse? If life isn’t working for you, it means you need to change because you’re doing something wrong. So sometimes, change is good especially if it works for you. And these tips will surely help.

    And for the naysayers, just curious, why is Nigella Lawson so famous and so awesome?

    Well, she does most of these signs too! What do you have to say about that? After all, she is considered to be one of the most feminine women in the world, and she doesn’t even have to be size zero to win over men! That just shows how you can flaunt your femininity and go places without coming across as an idiot.

  28. Viviane says:

    I am naturally shy, but definitely not that type of person, shyness bothers me from acting as I please. And nah…. I’m not that type of girl lol

    I’m cute in a different way though

  29. Jeanne says:

    While I believe most of this stuff is totally useless, such as the making cute noises, wearing pastel colors, twirling their hair and avoiding eye contact, some of it is useful in attracting guys. The best advice is to speak softly, let the man talk about whatever and be a listener, and be funny.

    Sadly, it all boils down to women’s femininity validating one’s masculinity right down to it’s primal basics. A man is manly and he needs a woman to care for. Women are soft, nurturing, and they can give birth to babies. They want someone to go home to after a hard day of whatever they do, and be fed and cared for. Their mom’s did it, and they want to find a girlfriend to pick up where she left off. (ughh) Guys do not have no real understanding as to why dudes like “cute, feminine” girls. Rather it is natural human instinct for guys to seek out girls that appear this way. That is why the commentors who noted a change in other people’s behavior from following some of these rules have gotten positive results.

    Even if a girl seems assertive or tough, if she shows some femininity and a little vulnerability, she will be attractive to a lot of dudes. A line will form outside her house….

  30. Zowie Martin says:

    Whooa….I never noticed how uncute I was but now am saved……thanks

  31. Roxie Lavigne says:

    Jeeeez!!!!!!i have to get my man to see the shy part of me,,,,,,,nice to know all this,,,,he will be surprised!!!

  32. Chichi says:

    These tips have a lot of great points i must say. I am naturally shy, awkward and nervous around alot of people. My friends say i’m too soft and fragile which i’ve come to notice is true and i used to see those traits as flaws but apparently they aren’t. I’m usually surprised when guys say they like me because im not a typical bombshell but i apparently it’s the ‘cute’ factor that i have without trying lol. I don’t mean it in a boastful way, just that i now understand why some guys might be attracted to that. So yeah the tips are very useful and they work

  33. Sarah says:

    Wow…I’ve never thought of myself as bold and sexy but every single one of those “tips” are the polar opposite of how I behave normally. I guess I’m not the type to be coy or shy. I prefer lively conversation and bitchy intellectual face-off to initiate an sweet and intimate session of kisses and touching. Well, I guess that’s just the two sides of my Gemini personality showing!

  34. Anonymous says:

    Funny, because I actually do these things already. My mother says I’ve always been cute and girly XD

  35. Jackie says:

    All that is listed as ways to be cute, is exactly how I act in everyday situations! Like I’ve recently moved to a new school(I’m in tenth grade & it’s about the end of the year so closely in eleventh) and I have boys somewhat all over me. I mean even my teacher(girl) called me cute. And as I read throughout the suggestions I remember the times I was exactly as stated. Lol but yes, I am a natuarlly shy girl. So it’s just how I am. Also it’s very true about little voices and acting dumb. Be a smart, shy, soft speaking girl.<3

  36. Kerry says:

    I don’t really agree with this. I’m considered cute and guys don’t seem to want that. You can be cute and have confidence. Everyone should be confident it’s just a way of being humble about it. Being cute comes from within…..if you are naturally hot and sexy then I say don’t change it and if you are naturally cute don’t change it. Be you!

  37. Jasmin says:

    Girls just remember to be yourself , these are great tips , they work , but sooner or later if you are not naturally cute the real you will show and you’ll seem fake.

  38. Girl with a fully functioning brain says:

    Well, now that we’re all done dumbing ourselves down and literally silencing ourselves based on the advice in this article, let’s all climb on the short bus and get transported back to a time when women had no rights. WHO WRITES THIS GARBAGE? (Don’t worry; I wasn’t too too bold while typing that overly assertive question; I was twirling my hair and making cute noises like “owe” or “ooh” softly of course… Clearly in order to be cute one must go beyond objectifying herself, she must put herself at a volume of about ,001decibels away from mute.

  39. Alexi says:

    For those that do want to try the cute approach, you can turn to anime for some ideas. There are plenty of good, non-sexual ones out there with the shy, awkward cute types of girls that the above list would match up with.

  40. Some of these sound like me and others don’t, I like to consider myself as cute and aggressive;)

  41. Bfjdhd says:

    Shut the fuck up. Being cute is great. This isnt garbage. Go away stupid feminazi and keep acting like a man. Cute doesnt mean stupid. gtfo

  42. Mariah says:

    These tips literally are telling you to be passive-aggressive and submissive under guys. That’s not what cute is.

  43. sofia says:

    I can’t believe that this list is saying. Speak quietly, let him talk, try to “enhance your innocence”, be submissive in your body language, act vulnerable and weak when you hurt yourself. And yeah, I am shy in real life and none of this even looks good on me. “Cute is fragile and nervous.” “wear soft flimsy fabrics.” A “cute” girl has to talk softly, have long feminine hair, wear pastels and, oh god, MAKE CUTE NOISES? You may as well include “Be white and skinny” in this list. “Soft hairstyles that flow with your waves or even straight down your shoulder” kind of excludes black girls who don’t straighten their hair, and plenty of east asians have no wave to their hair at all.

  44. adorabletuffy says:

    This isn’t really me… Though I already make sounds when I bump into something or even my boyfriend who claims them to be the most adorable sound ever but other than that I’m cuter than a button but I’m extremely confident, tough, aggressive, but then when I’m around him he makes me soften up and I become innocently and unententially irrisistable and he holds me tight forever and I’m thinking awww but at the same time I’m thinking thanks babe but this really isn’t helping… U might need to carry me back home… lol XD good thing I’m light…

  45. Cadence_talks ? says:

    Though, some of these CAN help you be the cutesy little flawless angel you want to be, but I don’t think you have to exactly, ‘change your style’ or ‘act shy’ i feel that most men like a confident girl who can look great in their own way then love it. Other than that this may help you. All the other bit is, is how to get them to notice you as the ‘cute-friendly-girl’. I hope this helps your girls! Bye flower buds! <3

    ~Cadence R.

  46. ?????? ?. says:

    Reads like a magazine from the 50s. I thought we had come a long way since then. Smh, article author.

  47. Tomoko's Twin says:

    This actually sounds exactly like me…I do most of these things except for wearing makeup and perfume, wearing only pastel colors, blushing, and being “fun”. But I’m not “cute” at all. I’m just painfully awkward and shy and I don’t know how to talk to people and no one finds that attractive…it seems most of the comments agree too.

  48. Orchid Swan says:

    So how long do you plan on playing somebody you aren’t? 6 months down the road? A year?

    You are either naturally cute, or you aren’t. Also, guys will find something cute in almost any girls. I actually find it incredibly annoying when girls try too hard to be cute. It’s cloying and obvious.

    Just be yourself!

  49. velvetinnightmare says:

    You might be smart but let the guy lead the conversation… yet don’t pretend to be stupid…
    This is so… ugh…

  50. velvetinnightmare says:

    Being naturally cute is great. Pretending to be stupid (even though you’re not pretending to be stupid, the list contradicts itself a lot) is NOT cute. I do a ton of the things in the list naturally and yet I’m a natural leader, I lead a lot of projects, friend meet ups, even in my relationship I lead when needed, and my girlfriend still thinks I’m too cute she feels she’ll melt if she doesn’t squeeze me tight. I also am loud as fuck, say a ton of curse words, and can be such a tomboy sometimes, yet people still find me cute, specially guys. So this list is stupid and the people who follow it are stupid. Girls can be cute without speaking softly, without letting guys lead, and without dumbing down…

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