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How to Think Like a Man and Impress your Guy

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Men complain that women are just too different and difficult to understand. So learn to think like a man and impress your guy just the way he wants!

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Do you want to know to think like a man, especially in a relationship?

Ever heard your man grumble that you just don’t understand him?

Or did he whine about how women are just so different?

Now before you try changing yourself for his sake, you should know that men may whine a lot about women and their behavior.

But all said and done, men still want women to behave like women, and leave the “manly” behavior to the men.

There are a few times though, when you behaving like a man can make him exceptionally happy.

So if you want to know how to think like a man, and impress your guy, here are a few starting points.

How to think like a man

Thinking like a man is easy. Girls grow up and become women. Boys get bigger and become men.

If you want to think like a man, all you need to do is bring out your inner tomboy child.

Try these manly behavior traits when you’re with your own man. And big chances are, he’ll bear hug you in happiness or brag about how his girlfriend is the bestest in the whole world to all his friends!

Men don’t beat around the bush

If you want to think like a man, start with this one.

When you’re angry, do you always tell your man straight out about the reason behind your frustration? Most women don’t. They’d rather hold it in and grumble in a corner while the man goes back into a series of flashbacks just to understand what and where he did wrong. And almost always, until he realizes what offended his woman, he pays the price. [Read: Annoying girlfriend habits that men hate]

Men don’t do that. If your man is angry with you, he’d rather just blurt it out to you in a bad way than hold it in and rephrase the crushing annoyance in a manner that would have the maximum impact. If you want to be a man, the next time you’re upset with him for something, say it out straight and don’t beat around the bush. At least then, he’d know what he’s apologizing for!

Men like their space

Ever seen your man sitting by himself and happily building a car scale model or polishing his car? He likes doing that. Men absolutely love their space. He may feel guilty at times and try to spend more time with you to make up for it though.

The best way to deal with this is by keeping yourself occupied with your own hobby once in a while. Go out with your friends now and then, or indulge yourself in a few activities that you enjoy around your own place. By doing this, you’d lift your man’s bag of guilt off his back, and help him appreciate your independence a lot more!

[Read: How to give each other space in a relationship]

Men like sex a lot more than foreplay

All women know this well. Your man may be nice enough to spend a while indulging in foreplay for your satisfaction, so learn to return the favor now and then by excusing him off a few tongue twister moves and cuddles before sex. Take him straight to bed and ask him to get on top as soon as you feel ready down there. He’d probably be surprised, but it’s going to be a happy one! [Read: How to make out with a guy like a sex goddess]

Your man loves his gadgets and games

All men love playing on their game consoles or even spending time with their little remote controlled cars. It may seem immature, but for a man, it gives him a bit of time to get away from the world. Now men know their women would never understand this fascination.

But if you want to know how to think like a man, let him know that you can enjoy a good game too. The next time your man’s out for a while, play with his man toys and try to enjoy a good game. There’s a good chance that you may understand his fascination after a while too.

And when your man does get back home and sees you busy enjoying his game, there’s a big chance his eyes will well up with tears of joy!

Men love getting wasted

Men just love losing control of their senses now and then. Every man has his own reason, all the way from hoping he’d get molested in a drunken stupor by a group of sexy girls, to drinking being his way of dealing with the crap life throws at him.

Plan a Saturday night for him. Stock up your refrigerator with beer and booze and get wasted together. Just make sure the doors are locked and you’re close to the bed and the loo. Remember, the fun starts when both of you start trash talking. The best part is that your man would never forget those happy nights when you both have fun binge drinking together. Dealing with the hangover come Sunday morning, well, that’s a small price for a load of happiness, isn’t it?

Men love porn

Ever caught your man in front of his computer late at night with his hands deep inside his pants? Of course, your man will be embarrassed to get caught in a compromising position.

You may be pissed off or even insulted to see that he actually had to watch another naked woman to get an erection and have a bit of fun when he already has you. It’s natural that you’d feel that way, but men don’t understand that.

For men, porn is porn. And looking at another naked woman or two isn’t cheating, it’s having a good time.

Instead of rebuking him or getting upset and throwing a pillow for him to sleep on the couch, join him and watch the movie together if you want to think like a man. Watching erotica together can be a lot of fun and he’ll feel relieved too.  How many lucky guys get to have sex with their woman while watching a few other women at the same time? And odds are, you’ll love the hot men in the movie too!

[Read: How erotica saved my sexless marriage]

Times when he won’t enjoy your manly behavior

Now that you know how to think like a man, use these tips to impress him and let him know how understanding you can be.

But at the same time, don’t overdo it. It would only upset him or make him wonder what’s going on. Here are a few great examples of woman showing man behavior gone wrong.

# Sex is just sex. Don’t fall asleep immediately after sex like a man does, without even looking at him. If it happens a few times in a row, he’ll probably spoon you and cry himself to sleep.

# Men look at other women even if they’re in love. Don’t do the same. He’d probably pick a fight with the guy you’re staring at, or think you’re a flirty cheat-in-the-box. But use this move if he disrespects you by ogling a lot at other women all the time.

[Read: Men who stare at women]

# Men don’t change their favorite frayed pants or tee shirts unless his woman throws it out. If you wear your old, fading clothes and laze on the couch, he’ll probably think you’re starting to look ugly.

# Men burp and fart with their friends. But in your endeavor to think like a man, don’t ever do that. He’d think he’s turning gay or you’re turning into a guy. Either ways, it’s not good news for you.

[Read: How to look sexy while sleeping with your guy]

Now that you know how to think like a man, try these moves and impress your guy with ease. Well, just as long as you don’t go overboard with your manly behavior!


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  • semicharmed22
    October 16, 2012 | Permalink |

    I feel the need to applaud the author of this article for having the balls to tell woman everywhere that she should not treat her man exactly like he treats her, for fear of “hurting him”. Oh that poor man (sarcasm) ugh. Its this type of BS that has caused me to lose faith and respect in the male gender. Seriously men, if you want a good relationship where you know your gf isn’t going to cheat and leave, then start using your brains!!!! Treat your woman how YOU wish to be treated. Yes, that does means your going to have to ‘empathize’, and even worse, ‘comprimise’. Sound like too much work? Invest in highspeed internet and your dominant hand b/c that’s all you’ll end up with.

    Men used to be symbols of strength and protection. Now, their not even strong enough to battle their own lust. Its a sad sad world after all. SMH.

  • that wording....
    July 22, 2013 | Permalink |

    i have a bit of a bone to pick with this: “He’d think he’s turning gay or you’re turning into a guy.”

    just, wow! as a bigender and bisexual woman, whose boyfriend loves my masculine side and has many times called me the “perfect woman” for it, it was utterly cringeworthy to read that. this sentence was soooo offensive in so many ways:

    1.) i cannot believe that, in 2013, someone who writes this coherently would use the phrase “turning gay”. there are exceptions everywhere in life, but generally, that does NOT happen. any human who would let this asinine fear creep into their brains sounds a little bigot-y in my opinion. you were born one way, or another, and that’s it. it doesn’t just emerge one day, when your girlfriend is behaving unusually!
    2.) if one *could* “turn” gay– what on earth is wrong with that? seriously? other than having to fight for basic civil rights, i cannot think of one bad thing about being LGBT.
    3.) “turning into a guy” has left me scowling. yeah. i’ve been fighting my femininity since my early teens, if not before. this just makes those of us whose gender identity doesn’t match up with the plumbing, sound like a joke.

    it makes me sooooo sad that there are people out there who would and do judge my life without knowing me, simply based on gender and sexuality. i’ve been told i’m weird, freakish, an anomaly, disgusting (that last one’s from my mother), but thank heavens i have such a wonderful man. i don’t want gender reassignment surgery, but when i asked him hypothetically if he’d still want to be with me if i had a sex change, he said yes. thank goodness for variety in life!

    i’mjust really NOT caring for this “make sure you act girly” type advice that keeps popping up in various articles here. in my mind, i feel that i am about 40% male, 60% female– and i’ve never had an ounce of trouble attracting men OR women, whether i’m dressed like a teen boy, or in a tank top and cut-offs.

    i don’t mean to bitch; i am not a bitchy woman, and i apologise if i came off that way, but this is all kinds of wrong, to see that people are still so clueless. i’m most definitely going to do my part to clear up misinformation.

  • *facepalm*
    July 25, 2013 | Permalink |

    In complete agreeance with that wording. That “turning gay/into a man” comment is incredibly inaccurate and offensive, not to mention downright ridiculous. I find it very hard to believe that any man on this earth ever with a burping/farting girlfriend would jump straight to “I’m gay!” or “she must be a man!”. I may not be an expert on the male mind, but even I can near-guarantee this happens a grand total of never.

    Even if its a joke, it doesn’t read like one, and is still very offensive. As mentioned by that wording…what on earth would be wrong with that? Aren’t we past this?

  • Jasmine
    March 7, 2014 | Permalink |

    OMG!!! Ummmmm no porn is not just porn, it is distasteful and sorry men but it is a form of cheating. Sorry to also burst your ego, but my man likes me to just be me, not be like him, just be like me. He likes his girl to just be a girl. This article looks like it was written by a man just there to justify his behaviour

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