You want to make a move on a girl you fancy, but you’re not sure how to approach her. What you need are smooth pick-up lines. And I have a few for you.
As a woman, I know all there is to know about smooth pick-up lines and the not-so-smooth. Women are constantly approached by men. Whether we’re at the park walking our dog, at the library, or at the bar.
Wherever we are, there’s a high chance we’re going to be hit on. Now is this a bad thing? It depends who you ask. Some women like being approached by men and other women do not. Usually, women who aren’t in favor have had bad experiences with men.
Maybe the men that hit on them were too aggressive or the pick-up lines were vomit-worthy. Either way, none of those guys succeeded in getting any numbers, and if they did, I’d be surprised if they were real numbers. [Read: 13 rules of etiquette for the modern gentleman]
Approaching women the right way
I know it takes balls to approach a woman. Think of it like this—you’re only one out of hundreds of guys that have tried to make a move on her. In other words, she’s literally heard every line in the book. This doesn’t mean you need to come up with some mind-blowing card trick to get her interested, but you can’t use the “Did you fall from heaven?” line.
Seriously, just don’t do it. I’ve seen women literally roll their eyes at men who tried those lines. There’s really an art to picking up women. Learn how it works or else your lines won’t work. So, it’s time you learned some ultra-smooth pick-up lines that’ll impress *almost* any girl you approach. [Read: Get over your fear of approaching women in 3 moves]
How to use a pick-up line
You can have the best pick-up line, but if you don’t use it properly, it won’t work. There’s more to a pick-up line than the line itself. A guy who gets the girl using a pick-up line and a guy who doesn’t are clearly using two different methods. Here is what needs to come with the pick-up line. Here are some tips when using a pick-up line.
#1 Believe in the line. If you want to convince someone to talk to you and listen, believe in what you’re saying to them. If you think it’s bullshit, that’s how she’ll see it. So, choose a line which you feel comfortable using or else it won’t go as you planned. [Read: How to start a conversation with a girl and create some sparks]
#2 She’s not a sex object. Stay away from lines that make her feel like a sexual object. Don’t talk about your dick or having sex the minute you open your mouth. Ew. Treat her like a lady, not a woman you just see as an object. If there’s one thing women know, it’s when we’re being treated with respect.
#3 Don’t be too confident. Yes, you should be confident, but you don’t need to be an asshole. If you’re too arrogant and give off the vibe that she’s just a notch on your belt, you’ll never get the girl. When have you ever seen as asshole get the girl in a romantic comedy? That’s exactly my point. [Read: How to approach a girl without seeming like a creep]
#4 Be genuine. Pick-up lines are lame if you look like you just read it off your phone. Be genuine and be yourself when using them. If it doesn’t feel comfortable, drop the line. Trust me, she’ll appreciate you much more if you’re not forcing the pick-up line on yourself and her.
#5 Make sure to carry the conversation after. Using the right kind of smooth pick-up lines work, but have a conversation after it if you want to get anywhere. You’re more than a pick-up line! Show her your intellect and personality, the real reason she’ll give you her number.