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11 Moves to Seduce a Woman and Get Her in Bed with You!

11 Moves To Seduce A Woman And Get Her In Bed!

It can’t get easier than this! Just read these 11 moves and you’ll surely know how to seduce a woman and get her in bed even before she realizes it.

Are you infatuated by a sexy friend?

Or do you find a girl you see occasionally completely, irresistibly sexy?

It doesn’t matter whether you know her already or she’s a complete stranger.

If you want to seduce a woman, all you need to understand are a few things about how attraction works, and learn to use it in your favor.

Seducing a girl and the things you need to know

Firstly, if you want to seduce a girl or even make her like you, you need to be a great guy who can get the girl’s attention.

If you can’t be the kind of guy who can impress a girl easily, you may still be able to seduce the girl you like, but it’ll be a lot harder to win her flirty attention.

[Read: 15 traits that differentiates a great guy from a regular guy]

If you can be the kind of guy that girls want and desire, it makes seducing them as easy as a walk in the park.

But even if you aren’t that kind of a guy, try these steps.

After all, it’ll only take a couple of steps to know if you’re going to end up in bed with her. So what’s the harm in trying, right?

All women have their own preferences when it comes to dating a guy or making out with him, but if you keep it mysterious and play your cards right, you could seduce any woman you like and make her want to sleep with you within a few days!

[Read: 6 signs to recognize a girl who’s ready for a hookup and 12 ways to hook up with her in different circumstances]

How to seduce a woman before she even realizes it!

Women aren’t difficult to read. Most guys just go wrong while trying to seduce a girl because they try too hard and blow their chances, say all the wrong things at the wrong time, or they make their intentions clear too early into the flirting stage.

If you want to know how to seduce a woman, the first thing you need to focus on is building the sexual chemistry. Don’t make it obvious that you’re trying to get her in bed. Make her wonder what’s on your mind.

And while she’s still wondering about your intentions, you can sneak past her defenses and make her want you and desire you sexually. [Read: 12 devious and sneaky ways to see a friend naked without getting caught!]

11 smooth moves to seduce a woman and get her in bed

Just follow these 11 really simple moves, and you’ll surely be in a great position to seduce her and get her in bed.

Use these moves one step at a time, and as long as you play your cards right, she’d be in bed with you even if there are several other guys trying to get her attention at the same time! [Read: How to call a girl and turn the conversation into a successful booty call!]

#1 Get close to her. If you want to seduce a girl, the first thing you need to do is get to know her better. Don’t come on too strong or she’d feel threatened or find you too easy to get, and may get bored of you. [Read: How to approach a girl you don’t know and impress her instantly]

Talk to her and get to know her better. Text her now and then, and be warm and friendly. Don’t hit on her just yet, but don’t behave like a doormat either! [Read: How to avoid the friend zone when you start talking to a girl]

#2 Be likeable. This is a pretty important stage. And this is where you can actually tell if she’s warming up to you or shrinking away from you. As you talk to her now and then, try to get to know more about her and the things she likes.

Text her or talk to her frequently, and try to bond over something both of you find interesting. If the things you say seem to be working its magic, she’d start to enjoy your chats and your texts and keep in touch with you. [Read: Smooth ways to keep a conversation going while talking to a girl]

But if you come across as a bore, she may start to distance herself from you. She may avoid responding to your texts, or she may take hours to respond to you. And eventually, she may just get bored and avoid you completely. If you ever notice that she takes a while to get back to you, you really need to talk about something else to keep things interesting.

#3 Get active at night. The best way to get naughty and intimate with a girl is by texting her late at night, or by calling her up when she’s in bed. Start by texting late in the evening to begin with, and within a day or two, she may be comfortable enough to text you or speak with you late into the night even if she’s uncomfortable with the idea at first. [Read: 15 tips to text flirt with a girl and make her want you]

Keep the first couple of texting conversations clean, and flirt casually without making it obvious that you’re trying to get her to fall for you. Right now, all you need to do is get closer to her and make her flirt back with you. Don’t try to get into her pants already, or there’s a chance you may blow the whole thing off! [Read: How to turn a girl into a sex buddy by texting at night]

#4 Live two lives. This is where you need to confuse her. Each time you speak with her at night or text her, be flirty and naughty. But when you meet her during the day, don’t talk about the naughty texts at all, unless she talks about it *which means she really likes the flirty texts!*.

Completely avoid talking about the texts when there are other friends around. But flirt with her when it’s just the both of you. By doing this, you’d make her convince herself that there’s already a secret passionate something brewing between the both of you, because no one else knows what’s going on but the both of you. Who doesn’t love a bit of fun, flirty secret drama in their life? [Read: How to trick a girl into thinking about you sexually]

#5 Don’t let her know you like her. Many guys make this mistake here. They tell the girl they like her, or that they have feelings for her. Of course, you like her. She knows that already, doesn’t she? You text her all the time, both of you flirt all the time, and she can definitely feel the chemistry.

But even though she has a hint that you like her, she needs to hear it from you to confirm her doubts. Play it cool and don’t confess your feelings for her anytime now. Her excitement and curiosity would make her addicted to you. Revealing your affection for her will kill the suspense, which won’t help you in any way.

#6 Get into her comfort zone. When you get some alone time with her, sit closer to her and pretend like you didn’t notice how close you’re sitting. You’ve been flirting with her, now you need to get into her personal space to make her feel the sexual chemistry.

Touch her arms or her fingers while saying something, place your hands around her waist while sidestepping across her or walking past her, touch her while complimenting her, or hug her for just a second longer while saying goodbye. [Read: How to make a girl wet just by sitting next to her]

#7 Build the sexual tension. By now, she’d feel the sexual tingle each time you touch her accidentally or otherwise. This is where you need to make her crave your touch. Let your hand linger on her back or on her arms as you touch her. Go really close and whisper something in her ear. Speak softly and play with her fingers when no one’s around. Build the sexual attraction right, and she’d turn into putty in your hands! [Read: 10 ways to build sexual tension the flirty way]

#8 Play games. If you’ve been flirting with her and feeling her up now and then while sitting next to each other, you’ve seduced her already and you’re in a great place to even take her to bed.

But if you want to play it safe and take it slow, continue to text her late at night. Play a few naughty texting games this time around, and initiate them casually. Before you know it, you’d be seducing her while having fun and playing games with her at the same time. [Read: 7 naughty texting games to have fun all night long]

#9 The dirty conversation. You’ve been texting her, flirting with her and seducing her every single night. And if she’s been playing along all this while, this is where you talk dirty and make the big move. Initiate a dirty conversation over the phone. Start simple, and ask her a question that seems innocent, but would definitely lead to something dirty. And before you know it, both of you would be having phone sex with each other! [Read: 20 dirty questions to ask a girl and leave her wet!]

#10 Ask her out. Once you’ve had phone sex with her, you’ve seduced her already. Now all you need to do is make out with each other in person. Ask her out, or tell her you really want to meet her sometime. Make plans to meet up in your place or hers, and avoid going out on a date unless you’re trying to woo her or make her fall in love with you. This is where you need to choose whether you’re looking for a friends-with-benefits relationship or a romance. [Read: 25 friends with benefits rules you should never forget]

#11 Make out with her! And when you finally do meet her *and she knows why you want to meet her*, don’t jump on her right away just because both of you have had phone sex already.

You may just end up killing the mood, or she may tell you that she’s not feeling the connection, which would take you nowhere. Play it slow, warm up to the act and make sure she’s in the mood before you try to kiss her for the first time. [Read: How to make out with a girl and touch her breasts on your first date]

[Read: How to arouse a girl while sitting with her and make her want to kiss you]

If you use these 11 steps on how to seduce a woman and get her in bed, you’ll definitely be able to work your magic and seduce her. But remember, this works only if you get her interested in you first. So take it slow, watch her response, and make your move.

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20 thoughts on “11 Moves to Seduce a Woman and Get Her in Bed with You!”

  1. CompassionRyder says:

    This is all very well for when you’re trying to seduce a new mate, but what if it’s a girl you’ve been with for a year and started living with? My partner has sex phobia because of her past experiences – we still do it occasionally, but honestly you’d think we’d been married 10 years with kids than just passed our 1st date anniversary. Usually, if I make a move on her, she instantly turns sour and gives me some excuse. How do I “seduce” her so she’s as comfortable letting me get intimate with her now as she was when we started dating?

  2. Thomas says:

    i’ve a new date and she’s a virgin. please help me text her with seductive messages…thanks

  3. Thomas says:

    i love to kiss her but i’m afraid..pls! me

  4. teresa says:

    Are you kidding me, this is horrible advice. The reason we don’t repond to your text messages or wait hours to repond is becuase we don’t want a guy that just sends text messages. That is lazy! If you want to get a girl it isnt’ that hard, but put in effort and let her see that you are trying. Which means call her and ask her out, its not that big a mystery!

  5. tanya says:

    games… they never work out with women. Men just be straightforward, generous, caring, protective and then just ravish us, we won’t resist to ya

  6. elycia says:

    As a girl, I’m currently on an escapade to find manipulative techniques that men use on women so that I can recognize them and not get hurt. However, if you’re just meeting a girl and only intend to have her as a sex mate, this is wonderful advice. I honestly would feel a little honored to know that this much work went into seducing me, and rather than feeling manipulated would ravish the fact that someone found a way for me to enjoy them while they enjoyed me. Regardless, the one point they left out and that you should remember no matter what your purpose is: DON’T BE A DICK. Because if you quit communicating right after sex, the girl will not only be offended but probably wonder if there’s something wrong with her, thus killing any chance you had of future sex with her. And let me be clear:

    This method would not work *as well* for a girl with which you want a long term relationship. If that’s your goal, remember my point above and also try to be yourself. The relationship isn’t worth it if you can’t relax around her.

  7. peter says:

    awesome, it really works

  8. Franco says:

    Some of the commenters address the topic of “manipulation” and seduction. Love life requires being active and affecting the other person. Without being active and affecting the other person nothing happens. Seducing is affecting the other person so to create positive feelings and emotions. Normally “manipulation” is meant to hurt of gain something. Seduction is meant to create good feelings, instead.

  9. James R says:

    You can tell the advice is dated when one of the steps involves phone sex.

  10. Rachel says:

    I’m a woman and I can tell you this is the worst advice I’ve ever read… Please do not do this.

  11. Jhonny says:

    What if the girl Loves her partner, will she still be seduced by this tricks?
    I’m the partner actually :p

  12. andy says:

    woman is not logical. even they read it over and over AGAIN. haha..
    they just can not avoid their basic instinct.
    it would works every times.

  13. josh says:

    It’s greath I have slept with 6 polish 4 English 3 Asian and 4 Latvian within 3 weeks

  14. omalleydp says:

    Why does it have to be a game?

  15. Muslim_Always says:

    Because if one is too direct most times women don’t respond too well. No matter at times what we do there is a problem.

  16. hugo koch says:

    Just whip it out upon first meeting her and tell her to swallow!

  17. MR.TRUTH says:


  18. not a sex offender says:

    The most frequent thing I do to get her in bed is just ask. I go out in broad daylight asking a girl for sex. Sure, most would reject, but just try it. I’ve gotten myself laid so many times, I don’t even know my number anymore, It’s somewhere in the mid one thousands. The perfect place to ask women is in Venice beach, where most of them are on a vacation. So, it doesn’t matter if she’s taken, just ask her and if she says yes, bang her. That simple. If she says no, go find another one to ask. It’s not a sex offender offense if you know what you’re doing.

  19. Darc Gibson says:

    Aren’t you… like… Muslim? Why are you trying to seduce women…?

  20. Muslim_Always says:

    Sir not because we are Muslims we do not know what happens in our societies.

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