18 Physical Turn Ons That Arouse a Guy Instantly

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Sexy moves and flirty conversations are a sure turn on. But do you know these 18 physical turn ons for guys that arouse them instantly and helplessly?

Ever wondered what makes a guy give you a second glance or feel aroused when you walk past him?

The game of arousal is fun for both sexes.

And especially if you’re not making it overly obvious to a guy, the thrill of being seduced and teased would blow a man’s mind and his shorts!

How to arouse a guy and turn him on

The art of turning a guy on depends on your relationship stage.

If you’re still single and trying to get a guy to like you, these 30 sexy flirty tips are perfect to turn any guy on and make him want you like crazy!

[Read: 30 subtle, obvious and really sexy flirting tips for girls]

And if you’re already in a relationship with a guy for a while, you need to do more than just arouse him with glances and subtle flirting moves.

Use these moves to make your sex life feel like a one night stand starting tonight!

[Read: 10 easy and sexy tips to make long term sex feel like a one night stand]

Physical turn ons that guys can’t resist!

Talking dirty and mastering the art of seduction is really good for a romantic and sexy relationship.

And for a guy, there’s nothing sexier than a girl who knows her moves in bed.

But do you ever wonder if there are a few turn ons for guys that arouse them helplessly just by looking at you, even if you do nothing sexual at all?

[Read: 10 sexy moves to seduce a guy without making it obvious]

18 physical turn ons that arouse a guy instantly

For a guy, physical appearances matter a lot when it comes to getting aroused. But appearances and assets by themselves don’t arouse a guy. It’s what you do with what you have that makes all the difference.

There are a few physical turn ons for guys that are simply irresistible. And these are the kind that drive him crazy and make him want to push himself against a wall because he can’t help himself. And even if he isn’t hard yet, his imagination would be racing with fantasies of all the things he’d want to do to you if he could.

Check out these 18 physical turn ons that turn a man from a respectable gentleman to a primate in heat in no time!

#1 The lingering kiss. If you want a turn a guy on while saying goodbye to him, just try this. Give him a goodbye hug, and as you kiss his cheek, let your kiss linger just a second longer than normal. You’ll definitely leave him visualizing the kiss in his mind and wishing he could get some more. [Read: 6 naughty ways to accidentally kiss a friend and get away with it]

#2 Pressure on his lap. When you’re sitting next to a guy, and he’s showing you something on his tablet or in his book while it’s on his lap, use your finger to point out something in the book without taking the book away from him.

He’d definitely feel the pressure of your fingers pressing down on his manhood or his thighs, and that’ll get his imagination racing. And if you’re pretending to be innocent and unaware, it’ll make him feel all the more aroused. [Read: 16 signs you’re a sex kitten and loving it!]

#3 The kissing whisper. Pretend like you have a secret to say to him, and cup your hands over his ears. As you whisper something to him softly, make sure your lips touch his ear lobes a few times. As long as you whisper softly without tickling him, he’ll feel helplessly aroused instantly.

#4 The flash of skin. A flash of skin is sexy because it’s unexpected and taboo. Every guy knows he needs to look away if a girl accidentally shows off more than she intends to, but the sight would be too turning on for him to look away. You could show off a bit of skin while bending over or when you’re wearing a skirt. It always works and it always gets a guy’s attention.

#5 Tattoos. Tattoos in strategic regions are a huge turn on for every guy because it gets his imagination running wild. It’s especially sexy if he can see a bit of the tattoo, but not all of it. [Read: 12 bad girl traits every guy wants in his girlfriend]

#6 Midriff and lower back. There’s something really arousing when a bit of midriff or the lower back peeks out of a tee shirt like it was unintentional. And if you have strong oblique muscles and a shaped lower back, the v lines that stick out would make it hard for any guy to take his eyes off it.

#7 Well fitting clothes. A well fitting top or a pair of hugging jeans accentuates your body without revealing anything. And as long as you look fit, his imagination will do all the work. [Read: 15 real life tips to look a lot sexier naked!]

#8 Accidental grazes. If a guy grazes your boobs or your butt accidentally, he can’t help but recollect the moment and get turned on by it. If you want to seduce a guy, make sure he *accidentally* gets to brush past your body now and then, be it while hugging him, while standing in an elevator, or even while pointing out something to him. [Read: 20 sexy questions to ask a guy and seduce him]

#9 The downblouse. Even the most respectable guy can’t look away when an attractive girl bends down in front of him to pick something up, especially if he can sneak a peek of her cleavage. And it’s a definite turn on for all guys.

#10 Triangle thigh gap. The triangle thigh gap is the little triangle that forms between the thighs, and it’s extremely noticeable when you wear a pair of well fitting jeans. If a guy who’s flirting with you sees this triangle between your legs when you walk up to him or walk away from him, all he’d want is to get in there and snuggle up.

But you need to remember this, the sexy thigh triangle is not the same as the anorexic thigh gap which spreads all the way along the length of the thigh and makes a girl look frail and skinny.

And not all girls can get the thigh triangle naturally, because it depends a lot on the body shape. The curvier the body and the wider the hips, the easier it is to have the triangle thigh gap. So if you don’t have it, don’t fret it because there are so many other things that matter too! [Read: Why inner beauty and confidence play a bigger part than outer beauty]

#11 Your boobs. Every guy is aroused by a good looking pair of jugs. And if you want to turn a guy on, remember that you get bonus points for stiff nipples or not wearing a bra! [Read: Why are men so crazy about breasts?]

#12 A round butt that’s lifted up. Did your fitness instructor ever tell you that you need to do your butt lifts? Well, if you’ve been listening to him, you’d definitely turn a guy on as you walk past him. Butts are sexy, and just as impressive as boobs to a guy. And a sexy round butt just makes a guy want to lift you up by holding your butt!

#13 Brushing arms. When you’re sitting close to a guy, make sure your arms are accidentally touching his. Brushing your arm or feet against his is a subtle and yet subconscious way of letting him know that you want him.

And it’ll turn him on and make him desire you even if he doesn’t realize that you’re the one who’s subconsciously making the first move. It’s a subtle, delicate art of flirting and arousing a guy without ever making it obvious. [Read: The art of flirting and arousing by touch]

#14 Intense eye contact. Stare at the guy you like for a second or two from across the room, and let him know you want him. As long as it’s mischievous and flirty, it’ll make his heart race in seconds. [Read: How to get a guy’s attention in any circumstance]

#15 Hair. A girl’s hair is an extremely sensual asset. You can do so many things with it to turn a guy on and attract him. You can run your hands through its length to look sexy, or you can twiddle the strands at the side of your face to act flirty and coy at the same time.

#16 A tease. Every guy is turned on by a tease. Walk right up to the guy while staring at him, but instead of talking to him, just say ‘excuse me’ and walk right past him with a teasing smile. And as you pass him, stare into his eyes, smile and say ‘thank you’. It’ll boost his ego, and make you irresistible to him! [Read: 16 lusty signs of sexual attraction between a guy and a girl]

#17 Long legs. If you want to turn a guy on, accentuate your legs by wearing heels. But even if you’re not comfortable with heels, well fitting clothes and skirts work its magic just as well. A good pair of feminine legs are something that always catch a guy’s eye, even when you’re walking away from him.

#18 Her curves. The hourglass figure is an irresistible asset that all guys admire in a girl. After all, wider hips in a woman is an evolutionary sign which instinctively tells a man that she’s attained puberty and is ready to procreate. Accentuate your curves and let it be see, and the guys will definitely be turned on by it.

[Read: Does he like me? – 18 sure signs to decode his body language!]

So if you’re trying to attract or seduce a guy, just keep these 18 physical turn ons for guys in mind. As long as you flaunt it, he won’t be able to stop himself from getting aroused around you!

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Christopher Villa
Christopher Villa
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15 thoughts on “18 Physical Turn Ons That Arouse a Guy Instantly”

  1. Stan says:

    This is spot on with my own mind. I especially like the little space in between a girl’s thigh and her girlie part. I just didn’t know it was called a triangle thigh gap. Seriously, when a girl walks away and you see a little bit of space sticking out under her curvy butt, it just makes me go “boink!”

    It’s just sexy!

  2. GK says:

    I like the girl in the picture! She’s so hot!! Hubba hubba!

  3. Justine says:

    The words “if you’re fit” have shown up a lot in this article along with some others, does this mean if I’m 5’7″ and 16lb that these suggestions and tips won’t work for me because I don’t look like the girl in the above picture?

  4. JW says:

    I agree with Stan on the triangle thigh gap. And if that gap is formed while wearing well fitting jeans that accentuate a sexy round butt, I will melt where I stand. Oh, and tattoos are not “a huge turn on for every guy”. This guy doesn’t like them, strategic or otherwise. You don’t put bumper stickers on a Bentley.

    Long legs, heels, big hips, boobs, yes, yes, yes, yes. Hair yes, be flirty and all that, but to really get us aroused, let us run OUR fingers through it.

  5. Guy123 says:

    About #10 rule im a straight guy and the triangle thigh gap
    Really isnt that much of a turn on/draw card. All about her eyes, smile, personality
    And having some good assets is a bonus! But the triangle thigh gap
    Is not one of them… In my opinion 🙂

  6. nunyoconcern says:

    who the hell cares about a thigh gap? If a guy thinks your attractive most the time he is already aroused. The one thing guys think about is if the girl likes him, BE STRAIGHT FORWARD IF YOU LIKE HIM. (straight males opinion)

  7. Margot Trett says:

    Well , i haven’t introduced me yet in this forum , so go on !!!.!

  8. JustMaisie says:

    Why would anyone do these to a guy and leave him right afterward? That seems like teasing him and messing with a rather fundamental part of his nature. Is this not a bit cruel?

  9. Tantripad says:

    Didn’t realise the triangle thigh patch is erotic . I hated it when I buy jeans n it shows triangle patch thinking it’s bad jeans!!!!

    Great now I’ll love my triangle thigh patch !!!!

  10. Deeya says:

    Well I will surely try some tips just to be a bit flirtious with my own fiance but I had never done anything intentionally before to get him turn on coz my man is always turn on by me :p but I just want to tease him a bit spl during his workout coz he’s a total gym freak… hopefully ur tips will help me surely gonna try from today itself and update if it works…

  11. marriedheat says:

    Great stuff. This is a re-blog for sure.

  12. c_chandler says:

    great idea

  13. Nev says:

    As a guy I would have to say that thigh gaps aren’t really that sexy… Granted I am a thigh guy so yeah lol I would say the pressure on the lap is the best one here

  14. Jonathan Kamp says:

    I don’t think this Christopher guy can really speak for all men on this, and I found most of the points to be as if though a woman had decided what should be talked about, if that makes sense

  15. bella says:

    Having a thigh gap has nothing to do with being anorexic, just like the triangle thigh gap, it has to do with your bones and body shape. All body shapes are beautiful don’t put one over another.

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