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Feet Fetishes: Incorporating Feet into Your Sex Life

Think your lover’s feet look sexy whether wearing shoes or barefoot? You’re not alone! Feet fetishes are more common than you think.

Feet Fetish

Have you ever had your lover express some delicious interest in rubbing, sucking, or licking your feet? Feet fetishes are definitely out there and can easily take their stand as one of the most common sexual fetishes! If you’re unfamiliar with the wide world of fetishes, they’re basically what get your rocks off between the sheets… or between the toes!
Having a fetish means that you have a form of sexual desire for a particular object or body part above the rest. We’ve all heard of “butt guys,” “boob guys,” and “leg guys,” right? These are all fetishes. Some other common sexual fetishes include:
-BDSM *Bondage, Domination, Sadism, and Masochism*
-Voyeurism *watching people have sex*
-Anililagnia (milk fetish)
-Tattoos and piercings
-Older partner with a much younger partner
-And, of course, feet fetishes!
The official name for a foot fetish is podophilia *not to be confused with pedophilia*. This term covers both the attraction to feet and to footwear. From why it happens to what to do when you have one, we’re looking at 9 aspects of feet fetishes. [Read: The different types of fetishes: Dirty little secrets]
What is a foot fetish?
A foot fetish is a strong sexual attraction to feet. People can be attracted to pretty much any part of the foot: the heel, arch, men’s feet, women’s feet, dirty feet, pedicured feet, smooth feet, curvy feet. There’s no shortage of aspects to love!
What causes foot fetishes?
Boot licking, stomping feet, stepping on squishy things/penises/faces, mud submersion, and basically anything to do with penises rubbing against feet are all common fantasies involving feet. Why do people end up with a fetish for the same things that we walk on? Sigmund Freud suggested it was a form of submission. Other researchers suggest it has something to do with your mother kissing your feet when you were a baby. Weird, right?
How to indulge in feet fetishes
If you have a foot fetish, you may be wondering how to incorporate them into your sex life. Luckily for you, there are a number of ways to do this. As always, we’re here to expand your sexual horizons with these 5 failsafe foot fetish sex ideas.
#1 Massaging. Giving your partner a massage is a great way to incorporate those sexy feet fetishes into your foreplay! Use lube or moisturizer to really get things slippery. Not only will your partner be super relaxed by the rubdown, but you’ll be able to touch, caress, and fantasize about their feet all night long as well! This is also a great way to ease your partner into your fetish since the act isn’t overtly sexual. [Read: The perfect romantic massage to turn your lover on]
#2 Dressing up your feet. Another way to ease your partner into your foot obsession is by having them dress up in sexy high heels and stockings, wearing toe rings, and getting that fancy pedicure!
#3 Licking toes. Ready to get serious about your sexual fetish? It’s time for toe licking! While a foot in your mouth may seem like an unsanitary punishment to some, others who fantasize about the soles, toes, and heels of a foot are really, really going to like this act. Incorporate some toe licking into your sex life! Make your way to sucking those toes by kissing your mate from top to bottom in a sexy tease, or by plain ole sucking them while you have your partner’s legs raised during intercourse.
#4 Take a bubble bath. Looking for a cute way to incorporate feet fetishes into your nakie time? Take a bubble bath together! Giving your partner a cute and sexy rubdown with a bar of soap is such a dirty way to get clean! [Read: 7 smelly body parts that can ruin great sex]
#5 Pleasuring your partner with your feet. Move over, subtleties, it’s time to go all-out with your feet fetish. Bring your love of feet to life by making them the main event. Let your partner put his penis through your toes, or practice giving him a “foot job” by taking his penis in between the arches of your feet, twisting them so they lock into place, so to speak, and rubbing the length of his shaft as you would with your hands.
For female pleasures, learn to get dexterous with those toes and rub her clit with them, or let her grind against your feet. Hey, whatever floats your boat!
Are feet fetishes weird?
The short of it? Yes and no.
Yes, because fetishes can seem pretty odd in general. A sexual obsession with a particular body part that often isn’t shared by the vast majority of people is bound to gain some weird reactions, especially when it surrounds the things you walk on. Why? Because feet, in particular, have a stigma of being dirty, humiliating, or ugly. Who could possibly be attracted to them?
The real truth is, though, that a lot of people are! If you’re nervous about sharing your foot obsession with your partner, don’t be. There are way stranger things out there! Plus, odds are that your mate isn’t going to turn away in disgust if you’re offering them a foot massage. Win-win! [Read: The kink list: 20 freaky fetishes that aren’t weird at all]
What to do if you have a foot fetish
So what should you do if you have a foot fetish? First of all, stop taking yourself so seriously! Second, stop caring what people think. Either your partner is going to go along with it or they’re not. If you’re truly bothered by your attraction to feet, there are “treatments” available, such as cognitive or behavior therapy.
Bottom line? If your partner really likes you, odds are they’re going to get at least a little bit of a thrill from it, even if it’s only from seeing how turned on you get by them. At the end of the day, you like what you like, and nobody should make you feel bad about it. [Read: 10 fiery hot reasons you should date someone with a fetish]
Feet fetishes are totally common, so stop worrying! Eventually, you’ll find that Cinderella *or Prince Charming* of your dreams. In the meantime, chill out and enjoy sucking those toes!

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