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15 Sexting Messages to Send Your Boyfriend: Go Flirty or Go Dirty

Sexting is a great way to keep your relationship hot! Here are 15 great sexting messages to send your boyfriend we’re sure he’ll love.

sexting messages to send your boyfriend

Sexy messages – or ‘sexting’ – is a great way to spice up things in your relationship, especially if you have to spend time apart. Saying that, however, sending flirty and sexy messages can still be lots of fun even if you see each other all the time.

They can be used at any stage in your relationship – whether you’ve just started seeing one another or have been together for many years. Sexting is fun, a little naughty, and can build up anticipation, so when you do see each other, you just want to rip one another’s clothes off!

Or you can keep things light and flirty and just use them as a way to let that guy know you are thinking of him and to show him how much you like him.

Flirty and naughty sexting messages to send your boyfriend

So, you want to know some sexy text messages to send your boyfriend, but you aren’t sure what to write? Never fear! Here are some great ideas that will give you all the inspiration and ammunition that you need to make his heart melt… or get the blood pumping furiously through his veins!

Let’s break it down into different categories, so you can choose the kind of message you want to send, depending on the mood. [Read: 30 hot sexting examples to start a naughty text marathon]

Flirty messages

Flirty messages are perfect if you are just starting out in a relationship. They work well if you have been on a date or two and are waiting for the next time you see a guy. The perfect flirty message will let him know that you are interested in him, while also making him smile and think of you too.

Flirty messages can be a little cheeky, a little funny, but whatever you do make sure that they indicate to the guy that you are interested, and leave it open so he can easily respond with something flirty too. If he does – you know you are onto a winner. [Read: 40 cute texts to make him smile and miss you more]

Here are some great examples of flirty sexting messages to send your boyfriend:

#1 Stop making me think about you. I’ve got things to do!

#2 You are lucky that you are hot. It’s the only reason I’ve decided to keep you.

#3 I’m warning you that I am about to head out – expect gushy drunk texts later!

Cute messages

Cute messages are great if you are in a long-distance relationship and you know you won’t see your man for a while. [Read: 12 super steamy sexting tips to turn a guy on instantly]

They also work well if you know your boyfriend is feeling a bit down, and you want to let him know how much he means to you and want to cheer him up. Cute messages will make his heart melt, they will prove to him how much you care about him, how highly you think of him, and let him know that you will always be there for him.

Cute messages will make him smile and think about how lucky he is to have you by his side. They can be a little bit cheesy, and maybe they won’t be ones that he will show his mates, but they will mean a lot to him and probably be the ones he saves and reads over time and time again.

Here are some examples of cute sexting messages to send your boyfriend:

#4 I’m smiling right now just thinking about you.

#5 You make everything so colorful. The world just seems black and white without you.

#6 I can’t think of anyone else in the whole world who makes me feel as amazing as you do.

Sexy messages

Sexy messages are great if you want to ramp up that sexual tension between you.

It may be that you have been sleeping together for ages but want to spice things up a little, or you might want to send them before your first time together to really get him feeling hot under the collar. [Read: 20 sexy sext messages to start a sexy conversation]

Sexy messages are great when they are sent shortly before you are going to see one another. If you know you are not going to see him for another week, it will be hard to keep that momentum going.

However, if he has just gone to work that day and you want some seriously sexy action later, then a sexy text conversation can be just the thing to get both of you in the mood.

Here are some examples of sexy sexting messages to send your boyfriend to really get him going:

#7 I can’t stop thinking about that thing you did to me last night. It’s going to keep me smiling all day long.

#8 Want to bunk off work and spend the day naked together?

#9 I had a dream about you last night. It’s the kind of dream that’s making me want you right  here, right now.

[Read: How to sext a guy – Your complete guide to safe and sexy texting]

Teasing messages

Teasing someone is one of the most commonly used forms of flirting and can be a fun way to test the waters with your boyfriend and let him know how much you like him.

Teasing messages are often used quite early on in a new relationship. It lets you work out exactly where you stand and what kind of sense of humor your man has. [Read: Sexy, naughty texting games to have fun all night long]

If you tease him for being a dork or for the funny way he wrinkles his nose every time he talks and he responds well, or he teases you back, it can be the start of a fun and flirty conversation. If he is able to take the joke and tease you back, it shows that he has loads of confidence and is a fun and laid back sort of boyfriend – probably a keeper!

Here are some teasing sexting messages to send your boyfriend:

#10 I saw this little cute dog in the park today – it totally reminded me of you.

#11 If you fancy doing something other than playing video games and eating pizza tonight, then why not give me a call 😉

#12 Stop thinking about me already – you’re embarrassing yourself 😉

[Read: Sexting ideas – 14 sexy tips to effortlessly sext like a real pro]

Downright dirty messages

Of course, sometimes you just want to get right down to it, and want to send seriously dirty texts to your boyfriend to let him know exactly what you are thinking about, and what you plan to do to him later.

These texts are usually best sent if you are in a pretty stable relationship and know he will respond to them exactly the way you want him to. [Read: 50 sexy and really dirty things to say to your boyfriend]

If you are in a new relationship, try sending some flirty or sexy texts first and see where it takes you. Then you can move onto more dirty texts as your relationship progresses!

Some examples of downright dirty texts that are sure to get him going are:

#13 I feel like there is something missing in my life. Oh right. That’s it. It’s you, here, between my legs.

#14 I’ve been very naughty today. What are you going to do to punish me later?

#15 Having some seriously dirty thoughts about you right now, want to know what they are?

[Read: 20 sexy questions to text a guy and seduce him within minutes]

Knowing these flirty, sexy text messages to send your boyfriend can be great and can lead to making you feel closer, having more fun in your relationship and to some seriously mind-blowing sex too!

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Bethany Locke
Bethany was born and raised in Scotland and now resides in Brighton where she lives with her partner and rather disobedient cocker spaniel pup. She works as a f...
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