The thought of having a sex party can seem exciting and scary at the same time.
For most of us, the idea of a sex party always seem fascinating and taboo, like something we shouldn’t do, but yet want to do!
It’s just like skinny dipping.
What’s so great about jumping into a pool of water with no clothes on, surrounded by friends?
The concept sounds silly.
But the sexual high it gives, well, that’s a big sexy rush, isn’t it?
[Read: How to convince your friends to skinny dip with you]
A sex party sounds silly and taboo too, but if you know a few things about how to plan a perfect one, and avoid complicating things, a sex party can give you and your lover a sexual high that’ll stay for several months.
Why have a sex party in the first place?
Let’s face it.
There’s a big probability that you’ve never been to one.
You may wonder what goes on there, and how people do the things they do.
You may even be repulsed by that idea, but the sexual voyeurist in you would want you to take a peek into the wild side, just to see what that world looks like, wouldn’t it? [Read: Sexual voyeurism and why it’s such a sexy rush for us all!]
Sometimes, doing something crazy can kick start and give a boost to the boring sex lives you and your partner lead.
And just as long as you and your lover enjoy it, and don’t cross any intimate boundaries, what’s the harm in trying something new and sexually exciting?
The sexy and happy side of intimate sex parties
The rules of a happy relationship are set by you, not by society or what others think.
You don’t know the things that go on behind your neighbor’s closed doors.
After all, there’s a little deviant within us all. And it’s only when you talk about these dark fantasies with someone else would you realize just how common your dark and dirty sexual fantasies really are! [Read: Top 50 kinky sex ideas that’s worth trying at least once in your life]
If you’re in a secure relationship with your partner, and both of you really love each other, don’t let the world set the boundaries on what’s right or what’s wrong for you. Test the waters, try something new now and then, and before you know it, your sex lives would be soaring with passion, even if both of you have been together for several years.
Things to know before hosting a sex party
Here’s a tip for a great sex party. You need to remember that the best sex parties are the ones that start off just like a normal party, but end up turning into a sex party!
Start a party just like a normal one, and if everything just feels right, try something new. Chances are, everyone will enjoy it a lot more. [Read: 20 tips and guidelines to having a threesome or a sex party]
#1 The right number of people. As exciting as the idea of having a room full of naked people may sound, it also leads to a lot of confusions and chaos. Too many people at a sex party almost always spoils the fun.
A close intimate group of anywhere between four to eight people is the perfect setting for a good sex party that ends with sex, but if you’re just looking for wild fun without penetration, a few more people can make the party feel more alive and fun.
#2 Couples or singles. It’s a good option if there are only couples involved, unless there are a few attractive singles in equal ratio that are looking to have some fun. [Read: 30 questions for couples to explore each other’s sexual minds]
#3 You don’t need to have sex. Remember this, a sex party doesn’t always have to end with sex. Even a bit of fondling, fooling around, watching or flashing can be just as sexy and can give the same sexy rush as a full blown orgy. You don’t need to go all the way to call it a sex party.
#4 Looks are important for a sex party. Admit it, sex parties are all about lust, voyeurism and physical attractiveness. Everyone involved should look attractive and appear fit, or you’ll just kill the mood.
#5 Don’t invite the prudes. Prudes just kill every sex party. They’re annoying and pathetic, because they make faces or turn into party poopers *even if they’re secretly interested in doing something!* Invite friends who are friendly, and love having a bit of fun. [Read: 13 untold sex secrets that can change your sex life overnight!]
The 9 types of sex parties you can have at home!
Are you ready to dive into the horny world of crazy sex parties? Here are 9 types of sex parties you can have at home, without really feeling awkward about it!
#1 Anything but clothes party. ABC parties are a really safe way to test the waters of a sex party. You can dress up in anything you want, as long as you’re not wearing clothes. Plastic sheets, duct tapes, boxes, or anything that makes you look sexy and trashy at the same time are perfect attire for this kind of a party.
Anything but clothes parties are fun, and watching several other people dance around in attire that almost always fall off or reveal far too much can be a laugh and a loin arouser at the same time! Add a few cocktails and mixers, and the night will end with several people in bed. [Read: 7 really naughty texting games that would arouse anyone!]
#2 Role playing party. Everyone dresses up as their favorite fictional character. You can even pick a theme like porn stars, anime characters, etc. But the only catch is that the attire has to be the sexiest outfit worn by the character. As long as everyone’s game for fun and not being prudish about the attire, the dance floor would be full of skimpily dressed people who’re just looking forward to a night of wild fun. [Read: Role playing characters you can use for a sex party]
#3 Key party. In a traditional key party, all the men drop their car keys *or women drop the keys to their door* into a big bowl, and the other sex picks a key randomly. And at the end of the party, the people that have hooked up go home together.
But that may be too bold to begin with, so you could try something with a twist. All the guys need to drop their car keys in a bowl. And the girls need to randomly pick one. And once the pairing’s done, the newly hitched couple takes a walk down to the guy’s car and spends half an hour in it. What happens in the car stays in the car though, the couple could just choose to talk, or do something naughty. You could also improvise on the game. The couples could also lock themselves in a room for half an hour instead of walking down to the car. [Read: Blowjob confessions of a good girl!]
#4 Truth or dare sex party. Trust or dare is a perfect game to shed inhibitions and bring out the wild side. If there are an equal number of couples involved in the party, this could be the perfect game for all of you. It starts out smooth and slow, but before the night is over, you’d realize that the particular night would have been one of the sexiest and horniest nights of your life! Use the questions from this list of 30 dirty truth or dare questions for naughty couples.
#5 Seven minutes in heaven with a twist. You know the rules of a typical seven minutes in heaven game. A couple is randomly chosen after spinning a bottle on the floor, and the two of them get locked in a closet for seven minutes.
But in this new couple’s version of the game, the couples sit together and spin the bottle. And two couples are selected to go into a tight space like a small bathroom and the lights are turned off. It may feel awkward for the first few minutes, but the pitch darkness will bring out the sexy side in no time! And if there are singles present at the party, the game could involve one couple and one single with each spin of the bottle.
#6 Dirty drinking games. Drinking games are easy to play. It needs no planning and you just go with the flow, and if the mood feels right, all of you would be right in the thick of a sex party without even realizing it! Try these 10 dirty drinking games for naughty guys and girls.
#7 Put on a show. This is racy and rather obvious. If you and your friends are okay with having a sex party and don’t feel awkward about it, have a casual get-together with friends, but invite a few strippers to the party. As the show starts and the booze flows, many other guys and girls will join the performance or end up taking their clothes off anyway!
#8 Porn party. This is a customizable party that can be planned depending on how you want it. If you have a few televisions at home, play a different porn movie in each television that’s placed in different rooms or in different parts of a big room.
If you want something cozier, invite a few friends over, share a few drinks together, and call all your friends into a room that’s cleared of all the furniture. Spread mattresses and blankets all over the floor of the room, turn off the lights and play a porn movie. *reduce the brightness of the television screen if you want the couples to feel bolder and naughtier* The first fifteen minutes may seem tame, but wait a while, and the room will seem like it’s on a high of sexual frenzy. [Read: 10 naughty sex games for couples to feel horny again!]
#9 Roman orgies. This is the biggest and the wildest kind of sexual party you can have, unless you’re talking kinky. But it’s also something most people aren’t comfortable with. If you and your partner are interested in having a full blown orgy with several other couples, then this may be the perfect answer for you.
Of course, the risk of sexually transmitted diseases is always higher if you’re involving someone you don’t know, so try to restrict sexual intercourse with just your partner or one or two trusted friends. [Read: Does your wife secretly want to sleep with another man?]
When you participate in an orgy, the sexual energy created in a room full of people indulging in sexual activities will definitely give you an orgasmic high *only if you’re into orgies*. And if you want to enjoy a roman orgy sex party, make sure you carry a few pills to keep your erection up and carry a lot of protection, especially if you and your lover are planning to stay up the whole night.
[Read: 30 dirty would-you-rather questions to bring out the sexy deviant in your partner]
These 9 wild types of sex parties are great ways to test your sexual boundaries in your relationship, and make sex more exciting. You can start slow with the first few types of parties and work your way down to the bolder ones if you still want more!
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