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30 Hot, Sexting Examples to Start a Naughty Text Marathon

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Met someone new, and need advice for when things get sexy? Here are 30 sexting examples to get a head start on texting dirty, and steaming it up.

Sexting is an art form, capable of bringing two interested individuals together for the first time, or keeping an established couple passionate about each other. A crucial, yet often forgotten part of sexual arousal is the verbal part—the one everyone rushes past—so if you need some help, you came to the right place.

The following list is a collection of sexting examples to choose from, ranging from tame, to toe-curling. Once you sext, things tend to escalate, so being covered from beginning to end is preferable. [Read: Should you sext? Study shows you should start now!]

How to sext – 30 sexting examples for you dirty, dirty people

#1 “You going to be alone tonight? Want to play a game?” This starts things off simply, and safely. If they’re not up for sexy business, just say you meant a silly game. Sure, they know it’s not true, but it makes you look cute instead of creepy. [Read: Sexy, naughty texting games to have fun all night long]

#2 “I bet you’d be amazing in bed.” Direct, insinuating you have been entertaining thoughts, but not over the top.

#3 “I can give you a hand, if you want.” Casual, but forward. Don’t use this unless you’ve been flirting or dancing around things for a while.

#4 “I’m about to get in bed, want to join?” Another direct one, this is silly, but fun to use on someone you’ve been talking to for a bit.

#5 “I’m imagining you’re with me right now…” This is a bit more serious, and a bit more romantic—great for long-distance couples trying to be sweet. [Read: 8 steamy sex tips to get naughty on Skype]

#6 “Thinking about kissing you… everywhere.” Here’s the first real example of doing “physical” things with the person. This opens their mind to imagine how you’d start things off.

#7 “I’ve been wondering lately… about what you’d do to me.” This is a gateway to get the person to tell you what’s on their mind. From here, things can get interesting.

#8 “Be honest… have you ever fantasized about me?” Classic tactic of using honesty to get the fire going.

#9 “I think I want you.” Sexy and simple, this is good to use when you’re unsure and shy, but ready for something to happen. [Read: 12 super-steamy sexting tips to turn a guy on instantly]

#10 “I don’t know why, but all I want is sex right now.” Blunt—and hot—this will get their mind wandering to all corners of your body.

#11 “I need you here. Now.” This sounds desperate, but a sexy desperation, like you’re dying for them to be there and touch you.

#12 “I’m dying to find out if you’re as good in real life as you are in my fantasies.” Admitting you’ve thought about them opens up a path for them to admit their inner desires. [Read: 40 naughty sexts to keep things hot and horny]

#13 “I keep touching myself.” This sets an image in their mind, one that gets them going. Things will only escalate from here.

#14 “Can I have my way with you?” This one is asking for permission before you transition from sexy to hot and steady. After this, things get pretty intense—but not overly intense yet.

#15 “I want to serve you.” Clearly, you’re all about giving, and you want this person to tell you their inner desires.

#16 “I am so into you, I want to be in you right now.” A powerful mental image goes with this line, and it’s one they’re dying to visualize.

#17 “I feel wasted just by looking at your pictures.” As if to say, they’re so hot, you’re ready to explode.

#18 “If you could do anything you wanted to me, what would you do?” This lets you in on their inner thoughts and desires. Not only will you learn a lot, they’ll be trying to turn you on, too, so it’s a win-win. [Read: 50 sexy and dirty things to say to your boyfriend]

#19 “I don’t know what you did to me last night, but…” This is assuming you’ve slept together or have done something sexual already—preferably the previous night.

#20 “My _______ gets super ________ when I think about you.” Fill in the blanks, and go tame *kind of*, or all-out graphic.

#21 “You’re a dirty little boy/girl, aren’t you?” Asking them if they’re dirty, when you already know it, is a classic turn-on.

#22 “I’m going to wait until you’re begging for more…” This is slightly cocky, but in the best of ways. This means you know you’ve got them going crazy over you.

#23 “Promise not to stop, even if I ask you to?” This gives them the green light to try some roughness, despite what you might scream out in the throes of passion—within reason, of course.

#24 “Could you go nice and hard on me?” This signals that you want things to get rough, and you want to know if they do, too. It’s a sexy method of clarifying your wants and needs. [Read: 23 sexy tips to talk dirty and say the sexiest words]

#25 “I want to go deep inside you, hard.” The visual is only part of it; this line is going to make the person feel something below the belt.

#26 “I want you to pull my ________, and force my ________ on your ________.” This can get super raunchy and hot, but you can take it in a few directions. Your call.

#27 “I’m going to hold your hands down and….” This means you’re going to essentially have your way with the person, which is pretty hot… unless they’re not into it.

#28 “Are you going to _______ for me, baby?” Many ways to take this, too, from tame to raunchy. If you’ve been sexting for a while, try your hand at being a little risky. [Read: 36 racy, random questions for flirty guys and girls]

#29 “I’m going to _______ you so good tonight.” This leans more toward dirty, so be careful to use this one once you two are comfortable.

#30 “Mmm, I want to taste myself on your ______.” Dirty! All the way! Don’t use this one on someone random; do it with someone you’ve been talking to for a while.

[Read: 20 dirty questions to text a girl and make her wet]

There you have it: a list of sexting examples to get your creativity going. Remember to start off tame, and escalate into something more, so the passion and desire burn slowly into a roaring fire. The key to sexting is patience. Being too rushed isn’t a good idea, as a fire burning too hot will just become too much too soon.

[Read: 20 naughty questions to text a guy and leave him hard in his shorts]

Use these sexting examples, but remember that being raunchy together is fun, but it’s important to match the other person’s pace while sexting. Have fun and don’t be afraid to get dirty, should it come down to it!

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5 thoughts on “30 Hot, Sexting Examples to Start a Naughty Text Marathon”

  1. Sasha says:

    Thinking about kissing you everywhere is one I keep the holster for new guys, who always love getting that sort of text and they’re over to my place within minutes lol. I’ve even had it a couple of times myself, so I know the sort of power it holds and yeah it definitely turns me on a lot as a woman, too. It’s definitely one of the texts that will drive anyone crazy. If you’re struggling for what to send, this is exactly the one I’d choose. In fact, I might send it out a couple of times myself right now lol.

  2. Christina says:

    I can’t wait to taste you again is one that my fiance will send to me when he is at work. It really gets me going. I think that if you have feelings for the person that is texting you, you may get more out of these texts. It will absolutely get me ready to see my fiance as soon as he is off of work. I really enjoy sending and receiving the flirty texts. It really makes me feel good when he sends them and he always says he looks forward to seeing ones from me too.

  3. Shower Curtain says:

    It might make things easier if you decide to tell her a sexting story. You can describe a fantasy of yours in details. I.e. “I have this explicit fantasy where I’m just grabbed out of nowhere, pushed against a wall, where I have my wrists pinned up above my head. Then [“you” – if you decide you want him to be your lover or “someone” – if you decide to keep it anonymous] have your/his hands all over my body, and your/his knee forces my legs open and I’m completely helpless.” In this case, you can give details about the scene and sort of step by step how the fantasy plays out in your mind. You can retell a sexual experience that you’ve both shared in detail. I.e. “I can’t stop thinking about last night/that time when you tied me up, and went down on me.” In this case, your details can incorporate how you felt when certain acts were performed. “I got so wet when you were fingering me, your fingers were completely soaked with my juices.” You can describe what you want to do to him in the near future: “I can’t wait to get home to you. I can’t stop thinking about stripping you down, and having your perfect cock in my mouth. I want to suck you off until you’re begging me to cum.” In this case, you can be teasing and take control of describing what you want to do to him. A good way to start out is suggesting that you sext together, instead of it being one-sided and you feel pressured to come up with an entire story yourself. Just start off with some flirty texts and gauge his reaction. I.e. “I had the sexiest dream last night, and you were in it ;)” “I can’t stop thinking about what we did last night, I’m getting so turned on at work/school right now…” “I can’t stop fantasizing about your cock in my mouth, I can’t wait for you to get home”

  4. Jennifer says:

    Good sexting toes the line between smut and subtlety. It’s like lingerie; there are things left to the imagination. Saying “I want to fu*k your pussy with my big hard dick” is great, you know, but that’s a one-dimensional statement. After you read it, the excitement is done. Ambiguity, however, is far more enticing. But not clueless ambiguity; dancing around the edge of being literal, coming as close as possible, but never saying what you want forthright until the time comes. I’ve also found that “self-aware” sexting can be a whole lot more exciting. Instead of talking about what you’d like to do, because there’s only a finite list of things you can describe, talk about the predicament itself. Explore your feelings regarding the situation. Open up about how it makes you feel to be involved with him/her in the first place.

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