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Passionate Lovemaking: All the Sexy Secrets You Need to Know

Passionate lovemaking will put more than a smile on your face. Learn all you need to know about how to hit the passionate high notes with your partner.

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Having sex and making love are two different things. For sure, having sex is great, but when you make love, there’s something deeper involved. It’s a connection that makes everything more enjoyable and far sexier as a result. Don’t be fooled into thinking that lovemaking is boring – far from it! Passionate lovemaking has the power to move you in ways you never knew before. It’s also fantastic for hitting the big O!

Of course, when you make love, you’re doing it with someone special. You can still have animalistic or angry sex with someone special. But, when you settle down to make love, it has the power to make you feel things you’ve never felt before. That’s why is so earth-shattering – because there’s trust and love involved. But, obviously, there’s plenty of horniness involved too!

If you’re not sure if your time between the sheets is as passionate as it could be, you may just need to press the reset button. It’s easy for life to get in the way and make things monotonous. Use these tips to take your lovemaking to new passionate highs. [Read: 12 Reasons why passionate love can be the strongest of all]

What are the key ingredients for passionate lovemaking?

You might be wondering what makes passionate lovemaking actually dripping in passion? What do you need to be so crazy about your partner that you can’t wait to tear off their clothes and get down to it?

It’s not just about the desire to have sex, it’s about so much more.

For lovemaking to be passionate you need the following ingredients: [Read: How to increase passion in bed and get the sizzle back]

1. Trust

2. Love

3. Time and space

4. A true connection

5. Zero distractions

6. A desire to show your love through sexual touch

7. In some cases, you need a build up of tension, e.g. after an argument, or a stressful period of time

8. Zero inhibitions when you’re with your partner [Read: 8 Steps to get back your body confidence in the bedroom]

Passionate sex means that you’re looking into each other’s eyes. You’re touching each other and showing your appreciation and desire for one another. It means you’re not thinking about anything else and you’re truly connected in the moment. It’s sweaty, it’s loud, it’s breathless, and it’s utterly exhausting. But, it’s worth every single sweaty second!

The sexy secrets you need for passionate lovemaking

There are a lot of reasons why couples should strive to make passionate love every time they become intimate. First, passionate lovemaking is way better than ordinary sex. And, more importantly, it deepens the bond that you have and improves your relationship. Here are some secrets that will help you hit those passionate highs. [Read: How to make love to a woman: 21 Tips to leave her moaning for more]

1. Do some preparation beforehand

Clear your schedule and take on some light activities for the day to make yourself more relaxed and “in the zone”. Passionate lovemaking happens when both people are relaxed, full of energy, and free from any kinds of distractions during the act. You’re not going to be able to do that if you’re stressed from just finishing work. [Read: How to plan and create a sex bedroom effortlessly]

2. Set up a comfortable love nest

Whip out those high quality sheets that you’re saving up, set the A/C to a comfortable breeze. Maybe put on some mood lighting and music. The ambience will help you get into the mood easily and give you a comfortable sleep once it is over – not that you’ll struggle after being so exhausted!

3. Ladies – Wear some sexy lingerie he’s never seen before

Surprising your man with some new and very sexy lingerie will get him going, for sure! He will also love tearing it off your body as he can’t wait for a second longer. However, be sure to give him a sexy show and let him drink in every inch of you, before you let him touch you. [Read: How to pick the perfect lingerie]

4. Build up foreplay long before you take your clothes off

Passionate lovemaking takes a wild turn when you reach a point where you just can’t get enough of your special someone. All you want to do is carry them to bed and rip their clothes off. [Read: 10 sexy conversation starters to get you both horny]

Once this happens, the passion naturally comes in without having to force the mood. To do this, try starting a foreplay ritual that doesn’t involve direct touch. This will build up your desire for one another once you’re ready for the action. Here are some ideas:

*Naughty hints – Leave a seductive note, text message, or a surprise phone call with your bedroom voice. Drop those hints without being explicit to give your partner equally naughty ideas.

*Strut your stuff – If he or she is around, wear something that flatters your best physical assets or caters to your partner’s fetishes. Walk near your partner, show your goodies, and swat their hands teasingly if they decide to get frisky. [Read: 10 sexy ways to get your partner in the mood for naughty romance]

*Build tension – Let them touch, smell, and caress a bit, but only to whet up their appetite more for some evening fun.

5. Be confident in yourself

Right at that moment of heightened passion, you are the sexiest creature on earth in your partner’s eyes. So you’d better live up to that expectation! Break off your usual character and be the sexiest you can be; be a treat for each other. Anyhow, the more confident you are, the more you’ll be able to shed your inhibitions and just enjoy the moment.

6. Take it slow and savor the moment

And by slow, we mean really slow. Don’t start with the rough kisses while hastily taking your clothes off just like in the movies – even if your libido has reached the breaking point.

Enjoy every second from the moment you take off your partner’s clothes. Admire each other’s nakedness and take time to explore each other’s bodies. You could even try a sex massage to get you both totally unable to hold back. [Read: I want to have sex with you – 15 ways to seduce without words]

7. Start with kisses

Kissing is an important part of foreplay that most pay little attention to when the fun begins. However, taking the scenic route with a long make out session will build up sexual tension and allow your brain to flood your body with the necessary hormones to tune you up for more physical action later on. So pucker up and do some lip work! [Read: 15 sexy ways to tongue kiss and arouse your partner in seconds]

8. Hold off on the key areas and do a little off-road exploration

A common tendency for couples during lovemaking is to immediately attack the main erogenous areas such as the breasts, the clitoris, and the penis. Obviously, it’s because they just can’t help it.

However, do hold off on these for the moment and explore the hidden gems of your partner’s body. Give those areas a little more attention and you might discover something new.

9. Focus on the moment you’re in

During your long foreplay, make sure that you are focused and concentrating on the task at hand. This way, you’ll discover new aspects of your partner’s body and get to enjoy seeing their reaction to your stimulation. [Read: How to foreplay – The key for the best sex of your life]

10. For men – Take long, slow thrusts

Your loins may be in such a rage that you want to pump really hard, but let’s leave that thought behind. Give her a romantic love scene and take long, slow thrusts during passionate lovemaking. Then enjoy her reaction as she takes in every single inch of you.

11. Make eye contact

Maintaining eye contact makes your lovemaking more passionate because you can see your partner’s reaction with every thrust or caress you give him or her.

Keeping your eyes fixed on your partner is can also turn you on during sex, giving you passionate lovemaking. It might seem awkward or even too intimate at first, but stick with it and grab the rewards. [Read: Slow sex – 13 steamy reasons why it’s the best sex ever!]

12. Remember to communicate

If it feels good, say it. If you feel like moaning, then don’t be shy – do it! Vocalizing what feels good is very erotic and encouraging to your partner’s ears. Compliment your partner from foreplay to finish, and top it off with that sweet “I love you” after you collapse on each other in a sweating heap.

13. Finish things off with a cuddle

The best ending to a bout of passionate lovemaking is to cuddle your partner and do a little bit of pillow talk after sex. Of course, it won’t be long before you both fall into a deep and relaxing sleep!

14. But, if you want to do it again – go for it!

It could be that you start to feel the stirrings of horniness again not too long afterwards. If that’s the case and your partner is up for it, don’t be afraid to go for round two!

[Read: How to cuddle with a guy – All the cuddle secrets you HAVE to know]

Lovemaking is called such for a reason. It is an act that transcends the physical aspects of sex. Passionate lovemaking does wonders to a relationship because it doesn’t only provide good sex, but also allows you to form a deeper bond as a couple.

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