Maybe all you have time for is a quickie, or he’s taking a long time to cum. Here are some helpful tips to know how to make a guy cum fast.
So, you’re wondering how to make a guy cum fast. Though most of us wish we had all day to lay in bed with our lover, that’s typically not the case. Most of us are going to school or have jobs, and long days in bed end up being reserved for the weekends.
What can I say? We decided to make a five-day work week! Is there some way we can opt-out of that? Asking for a friend… Anyways, you don’t need to wait until the weekend to have sex with your partner; during the week, when you have time, squeeze in a quickie.
But how do you make your guy cum fast? You don’t have all day! Even though you’d love to enjoy more of it, there are some things you can do to help speed things up. And sometimes men need a little helping hand when it comes to finishing.
If your partner struggles to cum or needs to make this quickie quick, here are some helpful tips to get things going. You’ll need to test them out to find which ones work the best for you, but once you figure it out, he’ll be climaxing in no time.
All aboard the cumming train!
#1 Do it because you want to. We’re human beings at the end of the day; we’re not robots. If you’re having sex with someone and just want it to end, then you need to think about why you’re having sex with this person.
Do you really need to be sleeping with them? But if this is something you want, and you’re on a time-limit, allow yourself to get into it. Enjoy it and do it because you want to. Those are the times when he’ll cum fast. [Read: What is a nooner and how to perfect this sexy activity]
#2 Dry humping. We tend to underestimate dry humping, but if you do it right, you’ll have the guy ejaculating in his jeans. Rub yourself against him, throw in some dirty talk, and keep it going. If you’re both in the zone and things are hot and steamy, there’s no way he won’t cum. [Read: Dry sex: Your how-to guide for dos, don’ts, and the best positions]
#3 Find out what he likes. Maybe you’ve slept with him before; maybe you haven’t. But if you have slept with him before, think about what’s really turned him on. Is it blowjobs? Is it your breasts? Think back and use the things that turn him on to make him cum fast.
#4 Go slow. I know what you’re thinking, but I want him to cum fast; why would I go slow? During foreplay, go slow. This will build up the sexual tension between you two. Keep building it up, and by the time you have sex, he’ll be cumming in no time.
#5 Skip the alcohol. I know alcohol may lower one’s inhibitions and have you feeling more relaxed, but it doesn’t do well when it comes to climaxing. If he’s been drinking, it can take a while for him to climax, and depending on how much he drank; he may not be able to get an erection.
#6 Talk dirty to him. If he’s someone who’s into dirty talk, then you should be using some dirty words to help speed things up. Talk about how he feels inside of you, how your body feels, how much you want it. And in no time at all, he’ll be ejaculating. [Read: Dirty talk examples for how to dirty talk best in bed]
#7 Take control of his perineum. Hello, perineum! Haven’t seen you in ages! A man’s perineum, also known as the “taint,” is the area between his balls and penis. It’s very sensitive and ignored during sex and blowjobs. Why not pay that area a little attention by applying pressure to it. [Read: How to play with the perineum and stimulate his G-spot]
#8 Throw in some role play. Who doesn’t like a little role play? The idea of being someone else can be a real turn-on for some people. If you and your partner are in a long-term relationship, maybe it’s time to play a role-play game. Stay in character, and he’ll cum quickly.
#9 Relax. If you’re only focused on making his cum fast, then maybe next time, rethink if you should have sex right now or wait until you have more time. If you’re pressuring him to cum fast, it’s not going to be fun, and he may not be able to. So, just relax and enjoy it. Get into things, and when he sees you’re really into it – bam! [Read: How long should sex really last? The real score]
#10 Anal play, anyone? Ah yes, the forgotten area when it comes to knowing how to make a guy cum fast. It’s still a bit taboo for many men, so you’ll want to talk to him about it first. Not every guy will be up for this. But if he wants anal play, then you’ll want to press your finger against his anus. It can help him ejaculate quicker.
#11 Do it cowgirl. Cowgirl is really a fun position, and it’s a great one if you want your partner to cum fast. Men are visual, and you riding him will do the trick. Plus, cowgirl allows the guy to penetrate his partner deeply, so he’ll cum quick. Oh, doggy isn’t a bad one either. [Read: How to own the cowgirl position and make it hotter]
#12 Play with yourself. We tend to think if we want to make a man cum fast, we need to put all the attention onto him. But that’s not necessarily going to make him cum fast. Try pleasing yourself in front of him. Touch yourself in front of him and don’t let him touch you. Now that will turn him on.