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12 Arousing Sex Fantasies to Try in Real Life

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Fantasized about having an orgy? Curious about BDSM? Life is meant to be lived, so don’t be too embarrassed to turn your sexual fantasies into reality.

Sexual fantasies are meant to stimulate your senses, break down barriers, and offer you a risk-free glimpse into a world fueled with intense energy unlike any other. It is a place where your deepest, darkest, and kinkiest yearnings are brought to life. The thing is, many of us choose to leave these fantasies exactly where they are: in our imagination.

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to usher these fantasies into real life? Ever wondered whether you would be as satiated doing these acts for real, rather than just in your mind? Well, there is only one way to find out. Don’t be afraid to try it because, honestly, what’s the worst that can happen? You broaden your sexual horizons? You try something new? You have mind-blowing orgasms? As long as your sex fantasies don’t lead to jail time, there is no reason why you shouldn’t try them out in real life.

Adventure awaits in fantasy land

They say that the type of sexual fantasies you have says a lot about the type of person you are—and some even go so far to say that it draws on your fears and dreams. Personally, I’m not up for discussing the technical and scientific side of things, and want to dive right into the sexual fantasies that you can try in real life.

So, ladies and gentlemen, here are 12 arousing suggestions you can try the next time you feel like spicing things up in the bedroom.

#1 Playing dress up. As tame as this may sound, many people don’t have the courage to approach their partners for dress-up play time. Don’t worry, because you’d be surprised by how many people are willing to don a costume to appease a sexual fantasy. Whether you end up dressing up as Princess Leia and Han Solo, or start with something simple like naughty nurse and patient, the sky is the limit when it comes to playing dress up. Don’t forget the crotchless underwear! [Read: The sexual roleplay guide for beginners with dress up examples]

#2 Using toys. I’m not talking about the usual staples, like handcuffs and vibrators. There is a whole world of sex toys out there just waiting to be played with. From the Picobong Transformer, to the Tantus Juicer, bring your kinky fantasy to life by playing around with these highly sought-after toys. Whether solo or with your partner, I’m sure that you will have a ball of a time. Oh yes—don’t forget to buy extra lube. [Read: The vajankle and other creepy sex toys you probably have no idea about]

#3 BDSM. BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism. The movie 50 Shades of Gray turned this taboo topic into something acceptable, so why not turn up the kink and indulge in this sexy lifestyle? Keep in mind that there is a vast array of practices out there, so be sure to only consent to things that you feel comfortable doing and receiving. Start by gathering more information from chat groups and blogs before seeking out a partner. [Read: 50 shades of dangerous? The right way to get risque!]

#4 Rape Scene. According to a piece published on Psychology Today, “From 1973 through 2008, nine surveys of women’s rape fantasies have been published. They show that about four in 10 women admit having them (31 to 57 percent) with a median frequency of about once a month.”

Sexual assault is a horrible thing, yet many women indulge in these erotic fantasies. There’s no harm fooling around, so grab your partner *with prior consent, of course* and force them to sexually surrender to you. Whether you are a man or woman, it works both ways. Go all out together and stage a kidnapping scene for good measure.

#5 Role playing. The difference between role playing and sexual dress up is that role playing focuses more on the storyline than on the costumes. This is perhaps the easiest fantasy to indulge in. Examples include hooker and customer, plumber and bored housewife, and pool boy and MILF.

#6 Practice cuckoldry. Cuckoldry is more common than you think. It is so popular that the internet has even come up with a term to describe it. It basically entails a husband letting his wife sleep with other men. He doesn’t have a problem with this and, in fact, gets aroused from it. Don’t be too ashamed to bring this up with your wife, because at the end of the day, her being able to sleep around with Alpha males while you watch in enjoyment may turn her on, too. [Read: How to explore cuckold fantasies and have fun doing it]

#7 Threesomes. Why not invite a third party into your bedroom? Many couples love doing this, so there’s no reason why you shouldn’t give it a whirl. Whether you invite an open-minded friend to join in the fun or source for someone outside of your circle of friends, the sexual world of threesomes is your oyster. It may be a complicated topic to broach with your partner, but certainly one worth trying. [Read: Threesome sex or three times the trouble? The complete guide to the ménage à  trois]

#8 Orgies. Also known as a sex party, an orgy is something that satiates everyone involved. Think of it as achieving multiple orgasms as a team. Whether you have several people working on you at once, or you take turns doing everyone in the room, orgies are basically threesomes with twice or even thrice the number of participants. [Read: 9 types of wild sex parties you can have at home]

#9 Swinging. If you’re not up for something as crazy as an orgy, or are too embarrassed to have more than one person working on you, swinging is just the thing you need. It’s basically cheating with consent. It entails switching sexual partners with someone else, so there’s still privacy and intimacy. There are parties that cater to this lifestyle, so do the research with your partner and do yourselves a favor by attending one.

#10 The one that got away. Both women and men constantly fantasize about the one that got away. Whether you have slept together in the past or made it to the door, but were never invited in, it is time for you to bust out your little black book and make some booty calls. Whether they’re already attached to someone else or single, they may just be up for a little one night stand.

#11 Public sex. From joining the mile high club, to doing it in the bathroom of the local pub, many sexual fantasies entail doing it anywhere but at home. Whether you want to do it on the down low or make others aware of what you’re doing, there are a myriad of places you can get down, dirty, and loud at. Examples include fingering your woman at the cinema, giving a blowjob in a changing room, having sex in the VIP room at the club, or indulging in a good ol’ quickie in the car. [Read: 7 sexiest places you can ever have sex in]

#12 In front of an audience. If you are proud of your sexual prowess and want the world to know what you can do, then making a little porno and posting it online is the way to go. You can either go all out and show off, or you can artfully position the camera so that it doesn’t capture your faces. Another way to have sex in front of an audience without worrying about your mother coming across it is live streaming. ChatRoulette, a website that randomly connects people from around the world for webcam chats, is a good option.

[Read: The top 10 sexual fantasies for women and the top 10 sexual fantasies for men]

There is truly no point being a prude when it comes to sexual adventures. Sex is a pleasurable act and should be enjoyed as such. The better you make it, the happier you will be. What are you waiting for? Try these sex fantasies, and turn up the kink today.

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10 thoughts on “12 Arousing Sex Fantasies to Try in Real Life”

  1. Jenny says:

    I wish more guys would be into the idea of using toys in the bedroom. No, I’m not trying to make another guy feel bad about their thing when I’m suggesting it against my toys, but instead I’m just trying to spice things up between one guy and me. I don’t really fantasize about group sex, but toys definitely bridge the gap when it comes to having my other areas pleased during sex. I guess a part of me would like to explore a group option, but I just don’t have the guts to. Either way, I’d much rather use toys in the long run. Cleaner, safer, and stay harder for longer lol.

  2. Millie says:

    Playing dress up is probably my all-time favorite. It also goes into role playing a little bit too. I love buying outfits to wear around the house and when my boyfriend gets home, I’m in that outfit cleaning or doing some work. He is always surprised by it and immediately turned on. He will often get into a little character of his own which is where the real fun starts. I love when he plays along with me and we have some amazing sex at the end of the fantasy. I love playing these little games. I think it is very healthy for our sex life.

  3. Jake says:

    This is a real story me and my girl conspired to do. I rang the doorbell, she hears it and comes to answer it. I step in press her to the wall, and shut her mouth with mine before she could do anything. I grabbed her hands and held them behind her. My cloak is open in front and as she blinks down she cannot see anything on me, as I press myself to her bikini bra covered breasts. “You know you cannot escape.” I whisper. I am still holding her hands, as I am pressing myself to her you can feel the warmth of my body. My chest around her bikini bra, my bare belly, and my pulsing warm dick against her belly. I am pressing it to her belly, she can even feel my pre cum wetting her skin. My knee is sliding up between her naked thighs. My thigh is reaching to her moist panties, and I am pressing it against her pussy. “I want to take you right here by the door!” I whispered turning and pressing her facing to the door. I released her bra, and tied her hands behind with it. I let my dick into your tied hands, and start to caress your pussy from behind. I squeeze them a bit to hear you voice. “Do you want me to fu*k you with that?” I whisper biting her neck as she holds my hot and solid dick in her hands. Now I am pressing her shoulders ahead, her face and her pussy are pressing against the door. I grabbed her panties and tore them down. “Separate your legs! More!” I knelt down behind her. “Bend forward, and grab your ankle!” I say releasing her hands. As she grabs it I push her closer to the door. “Now you will feel my tongue first!” And you are facing my shaven hard cock from under, she sees me as I lay my hands on her butt, pull her pussy lips apart, and lean forward. My breath is touching her first and I start to lick. She is leaning forward she pushes her ass against me and spread her legs wider. I am licking slowly. From her pussy through your pussy lips over your entrance to your perineum, and back slowly. Really slowly. Moaning to your pussy, whispering “So, hmmmm, you want me to fu*k you? Is this not enough? Hmmmm What? I didn’t hear that, What do you want me to do?”. And my fingers tear into her ass, pulled her pussy lips more to the sides. As I am licking, her hand was reaching out to my dick, she wants to touch it, it is totally in front of her. “No, you can not touch me now, put your hands back on your ankles”. I stand up, and tie one wrist to her ankle with her bra, the other with the belt of my cloak which is the only thing I am still wearing. “What was that you want? Tell me what you want!” I stood up holding my cock “You wanna feel it inside?”. Touching her wet shivering pussy with the glowing head. Making small circles around her wet entrance. Making bigger circles on her pussy lips and her prominent clit. I put my hand on her hips, and grab it tightly. I slide the head of my dick inside and stayed there, and I started to make circles with my hips, and the head of my dick inside her. “I want to feel how hard you can squeeze me! If you squeeze me well, I will slide deeper. I promise.” I whisper smiling holding her ass tight making those circles. “Very good!” I moaned slowly, and grabbed her hips tight, and the next moment she feels my rock solid cock sliding down inside her, slowly inch by inch. Her wet pussy is so moist and taking me inside. I am pulling her all over my cock as deep as I can reach. Pressing the head against her cervix. And now I start my circles again. Deep and nice circles never sliding out a bit. “Squeeze me again honey, if you want me to fu*k you hard.” My hands are on the door, I am pushing her against it with my strikes. She is feeling it deep inside, she sees my balls hitting her pussy and inner thighs as I sled in again and again. She felt a wave of constriction in her pussy, her entire body was shivering. She moans louder and louder… I grabber her hips again and I released my load deep inside her in phase with the waves of her body. I helped her stand up removing my cloak “Would you show me other parts of the house? May I leave my coat here in the hallway?” And then she took me to unfamiliar rooms. How do you like them apples?

  4. Anita says:

    As a woman i find this disgusting.No woman wants anything to do with sex let alone some guys sick fantasies.

  5. dres says:

    Guess I’m like most of the women. I’d love to be completely dominated. There are many ideas about it, but mostly it starts the same. He comes into the room, his sleeves rolled up, he has a watch around his wrist. I am sitting on my knees on the ground. He holds a rope (or belt, depends) in his hand and I close my eyes as I kiss it. Whatever he does, my fantasies always include choking / hard spankings / control / biting. I like it when I have no power. It makes me feel so free.

  6. Dora says:

    You need to see a therapist Jake.Seriously.

  7. Dora says:

    You are evil.You need mental help.Assaulting women and bragging about it.You should be locked up for life!

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