126 Sexy, Dirty Things to Say to Your Boyfriend & Talk Dirty to Him Like a Pro

Learning how to talk dirty to your boyfriend might sound intimidating at first, but trust us, it’s one of the easiest (and sexiest) ways to turn him on. Dirty talk isn’t just about saying filthy things, it’s a form of sexual communication, and studies show that it strengthens emotional intimacy and improves sexual satisfaction.

📚 Source: Byers & Demmons,1999, Sexual communication and relationship satisfaction

According to another study, couples who openly communicate about sex, even with playful or explicit language, tend to report higher levels of trust, satisfaction, and emotional closeness.

📚 Source: Cupach & Metts, 1991, Sexual communication and intimacy

So whether you’re sexting or whispering sweet filth into his ear, here’s your ultimate list of dirty things to say to your boyfriend, and a full guide on how to deliver them like a total vixen.

Sexting or dirty talk?

If you want to master dirty talk, read on. But if you’re looking for guides on texting something naughty, use these guides instead:

How to Start Sexting: 59 Hot Examples & 51 Sexy Ways to Sext Someone

23 Hot Ways to Sext a Guy & 48 Naughty Examples to Make Him Hot & Hard

Sexy, dirty things to say to your boyfriend

The next time you’re in bed with your boyfriend, over the phone, or even while texting him, use any of these dirty lines to arouse him.

But remember, talking dirty isn’t just about mouthing a series of naughty lines in random order. Follow up each line you say with something you feel. It makes the whole dirty talking experience more personal and sensual.

If you say something dirty to your boyfriend like “I wish you were my sex slave,” don’t follow that up by saying something completely different like “I want to bang you in a French maid costume.” Instead, describe how you feel when you say that.

Tell him why you think he’s your sex slave, or what you’d want him to do if he was your sex slave. Play along, instead of jumping from one story to the next. [Read: What men want in bed – 32 things they absolutely love and lust after]

Doing this gives the dirty talking continuity, which makes the whole experience a lot sexier and a lot more arousing!

And now that you truly understand how to say something dirty, use this list of sexy and dirty things to say to your boyfriend, and give him a sexual explosion that’s beyond his wildest fantasies!

These aren’t random one-liners, they’re carefully picked to match every dirty mood, from playful teasing to full-blown filth.

Playful & Flirty Dirty Talk

These are perfect for easing into dirty talk, keeping it fun, sexy, and low-pressure. They’re cheeky and confident, but still light enough to work in any situation.

1. I’m touching myself right now.

2. Meet me for lunch. I want you to finger me in the car.

3. I’m not wearing any underwear right now. [Read: Lingerie selfie – how to perfect the art of foreplay from afar]

4. I can’t wait for you to put it in me.

5. I want you here right now.

6. I woke up wet this morning.

7. You have such a dirty mind, and it works on me!

8. Tell me where you want to touch me first. *Get naked and stand in front of him*

9. I want you to tear my clothes off my body. [Read: How to Have Rough Sex & 15 Dirty Moves to Have the Sexiest Time Ever]

10. You feel so good in me, I wanna scream.

11. I’m not horny all the time, it’s just that you’re so f**king sexy.

12. I love how your tongue feels down there. [Read: 25 Hot Ways to Make a Guy Go Down On You & Signs to Tell If He Likes It]

13. Bite my neck and f**k me harder.

14. You’re such a sex machine!

15. I’ve been thinking long and hard about what I’m going to do to you tonight…

16. Show me where you want me to bite you.

17. You’re such a bad boy! [Read: Foreplay Ideas for Him: 29 Moves to Get a Guy Mad-Horny With Ease]

18. Please f**k me. *Plead with him*

19. F**k me now! *Order him*

20. Squeeze my boobs harder and suck my nipples.

Check out these dirty talk guides for specific scenarios:

Naughty & Bold Dirty Talk

These are confident, daring, and irresistibly seductive. They’re bold enough to make him blush—but still cheeky enough to say with a smirk. Perfect for when you’re in the mood to turn up the heat without going full-on filthy… yet.

21. I wanna f**k you in every room tonight.

22. I’ve been waiting for this all day.

23. Undress me… slowly.

24. Call me a bitch.

25. Just looking at you in those boxers makes me wet.

26. You’re not leaving this bed until I’ve had you three times.

27. I want to feel your hands pinning me down.

28. Just thinking about your mouth is making me lose focus.

[Read: 76 Sexy Texts to Send Your Boyfriend & Tricks to Get Him Hard Imagining You]

29. Tell me how badly you want me right now.

30. You’re going to make me beg, aren’t you?

31. I want you to ruin my makeup tonight.

32. I want you to f**k me while I’m leaning against the window.

33. Grab my ass and bang me harder.

34. You’re so big it hurts me so much but I still want it.

35. F**k me like I’m your bitch.

36. You can have all of me, but you have to pay me first.

37. I want you to kiss me here… now.

38. Spank me on my ass and bite me.

39. My panties are soaked just thinking of you.

40. I want you to lift my skirt up and f**k me right now.

[Read: 85 Sexting Tips & Examples to Talk Dirty Over Text With a Guy & Get Him Hard]

Filthy & Hardcore Dirty Talk

These lines are raw, intense, and all about unleashing your dirtiest side. Use them when you’re fully in the mood and want to drive him wild with explicit, no-holds-barred desire.

41. I want you deep and hard while I scream your name.

42. Let’s break the bed tonight.

43. I want to taste you all over.

44. Don’t stop until I can’t feel my legs.

45. I need to be filled up with you right now.

46. I want you to take me like you don’t care if anyone hears.

47. Pull my hair and f**k me.

48. I want you to cum all over my face.

49. Talk into my ears while you’re banging me.

50. The sheets are so wet with my cum right now.

51. Just watching you makes me want to finger myself.

52. My panties are soaked right now.

53. I get wet just remembering how good your tongue feels down there.

54. I want you to cum in my mouth.

55. Ohhh, I feel so weak when you enter me.

56. You f**k me so well, I’d f**k you even if I weren’t dating you.

57. I want to sit on your face until I forget my own name.

58. F**k me like you own me.

59. Don’t stop until I beg you to.

60. I want to feel every inch of you, deeper and harder.

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Dominant & Submissive Dirty Talk

These lines tap into the thrill of power play, whether you’re feeling like a commanding queen or a teasing submissive. If you love the energy of giving or surrendering control, these lines will hit just right.

61. Yes, sir. I’ll do whatever you say.

62. Do I make a good little slut for you?

63. Get on your knees. Now.

64. Don’t move a muscle until I say so.

65. I’m yours tonight, use me however you want.

66. You like it when I obey, don’t you?

67. I want to be your good girl.

[Read: 25 Femdom Secrets to Be a Dominatrix Mistress & Dominate a Man in Bed]

68. Tie me up and show me who’s in charge.

69. I love when you take control like that.

70. Beg for it.

71. You don’t get to touch me until I say so.

72. Use me.

73. Am I being a bad girl again?

74. Good boys don’t make their girl wait this long…

75. You’re not done with me yet.

76. I love being your little plaything.

77. I want you to mark me everywhere.

78. Keep your hands to yourself, unless you’re going to pin me down.

79. Please, sir… I need it.

80. You own me tonight.

[Read: Domestic Discipline: How It Works & 29 BSDM Rules and Tips for Beginners]

Fantasy & Roleplay Dirty Talk

These lines are perfect for exploring kinky scenarios, teasing him with “what ifs,” and playing out your sexiest shared fantasies. Whether it’s roleplay or naughty imagination, this section opens up a playful (and totally steamy) new dimension.

81. Let’s pretend we’re strangers who just met at a bar. [Read: The complete guide to sexual role play for beginners]

82. What if I was your boss, and you had to earn your promotion?

83. I want to play house… but the dirty version.

84. Let’s act out your dirtiest fantasy tonight.

85. What would you do if you caught me touching myself in public?

86. Be my professor. I’m here for an after-school lesson.

87. I’ve been such a bad girl in class today.

88. I’ll be your maid… but I’m not doing much cleaning.

89. Let’s pretend we’re at a hotel. You’re sneaking into my room.

90. Tie me up and call me your little toy.

91. Tonight, I’m your prisoner. You decide my punishment.

92. Would you f**k me in public if no one could see?

93. Let’s make a sex tape tonight.

94. I want you to tell me your kinkiest fantasy, and then do it to me.

95. You can be the cop. I’ll be the bad girl who needs to be searched.

96. Let’s have a threesome, just us and your imagination. [Read: Mutual Fantasy: How to Fantasize & Talk About Someone Else While Having Sex]

97. Make me your secret. I want to be your dirty little secret.

98. Imagine we’re at a party, and you pull me into the bathroom…

99. I want to wake you up with my mouth on you.

100. I’ve been thinking about you bending me over your office desk all day.

Dirty Talk Over Text

These lines are perfect when you’re apart but still want to make things hot. Whether you’re just teasing during work hours or building anticipation before seeing him later, these sexy things to say to your boyfriend over text will keep you both buzzing all day.

101. I just had the dirtiest thought about you… want to hear it?

102. My fingers are busy right now, but they wish it was you.

103. I’m lying in bed, completely naked, just thinking of you. [Read: What Turns a Guy On? 51 Subtle Sexual Turn-Ons that Arouse Men in Seconds!]

104. If you were here, I’d already be on my knees.

105. I want to whisper all the things I’d do to you if you were here.

106. You should come over… I’m not wearing anything under this.

107. Every part of me is craving you right now.

108. Just sent you a pic, don’t open it in public.

109. I woke up horny… and you’re the reason.

[Read: How to ride a man and look sexy doing it!]

110. I want to be your favorite notification.

111. I’ve been so good today. Don’t you think I deserve to be ruined tonight?

112. You turn me on without even trying.

113. I need you inside me tonight, no excuses.

114. If you don’t text back, I’m going to touch myself without you.

115. Imagine me pulling you in and whispering everything I want to do to you.

[Read: How to moan and sound and look even more sexy in bed]

116. My body’s aching for your touch right now.

117. I miss your hands all over me.

118. Just tell me what to do… I’ll follow every word.

119. I keep replaying last night in my head. Over. And over.

120. I want to hear the dirtiest thing you’ve ever wanted to do to me.

[Read: 30 subtle, obvious, and really sexy flirty lines for girls that’ll rock any guy’s world]

Does your guy like talking dirty?

Before you go any further into the lane of dirty talking in bed, you need to know your boyfriend’s opinion about it. Remember, not all guys like dirty talking. Some guys just cringe the very instant they hear you say something crude or dirty.

If you’re dating a guy who isn’t into dirty lines, don’t fret. You can still use your words to stimulate his mind by fantasizing together in bed or talking about something that arouses both of you.

Arousing your boyfriend’s mind by talking about things he finds sexy will always give him a sexual high, even if he isn’t into dirty phrases.

For example, as both of you start making out, whisper about the first time he undressed you and how you felt that very first time. It’s literally that simple to say the right things to a guy who isn’t into dirty talking! [Read: How to satisfy a man in bed – 25 ways to leave him wanting more]

The basic steps to turn him on with your words

When you want to know things to say to turn a guy on, you not only need to know specific things to say, but you also need to know a few other basics too.

1. Be genuine

Think about what keeps you attracted to him. Whether it’s the way he smiles, his firm butt, his strong arms, or the smooth moves that sweep you off your feet. The best seduction trick is to mean what you say.

So whether you want to compliment him or just show your appreciation in a sexy way, make sure that it’s real, and your words will really do the trick. [Read: 30 compliments for guys they’ll never ever forget]

2. Tease him

You can definitely turn your man on by teasing him with just a few well-said words. You can give him a sneak peek of what’s in store for him or describe what you’re going to do to him later.

Pair this with a wink or a sexy smile, and you can definitely turn the heat up.

3. Tell him how he turns you on

Whether it’s by the way he touches you or how he kisses you in intimate places, you can easily turn on a guy by telling him what turns you on.

By being vivid and descriptive about it, you can excite him and get his imagination going. Just remember not to give everything away, though. Leave some details out to make him anticipate and look forward to more. [Read: 40 naughty, playful texts to keep things hot and horny]

4. All about timing

As with anything, timing is important. There will be moments, such as when your guy is stressed at work, when dirty talk will not just cut it. He may even think you’re being weird *and not in a good way.*

Be sensitive about timing and appropriateness.

5. Know what to say

There are also such things as soft-core and hard-core dirty talking, and you should know which one you and your partner are comfortable with.

Soft-core dirty talk is more like teasing, but you can build it up and go all the way hard-core with slang and even swear words, especially when you’re already doing the deed. [Read: 25 sexy text messages to initiate a dirty conversation with a guy and arouse him]

6. Be natural

You can be genuine and all, but if you feel awkward or uncomfortable, it will translate with how you say it.

When it comes to talking dirty to seduce your man, it’s actually not what you say but how you say it that matters the most. The secret here is not to sound forced, but rather natural and spontaneous. [Read: The art of talking dirty to a guy and sounding really, really sexy]

Talking Dirty Isn’t Silly: It’s Sexy, Smart, and Powerful

Let’s clear this up: Talking dirty isn’t cringey or immature. It’s sexy. It’s bold. And according to relationship psychologists, it’s one of the easiest ways to boost emotional and sexual intimacy.

Of course, it might feel awkward at first. Your brain might scream “this is weird!” the first time you try it. That’s normal. But once you get past the giggles or self-consciousness, dirty talk becomes natural, and seriously fun.

The trick is to start small, stay playful, and use a few of the lines from this list to warm up. Soon enough, you’ll be whispering naughty things in his ear without a second thought.

And when you see how turned on he gets? You’ll wonder why you didn’t start sooner. [Read: Bad girl traits every boyfriend wants to see in his girl

The Real Secret to Talking Dirty Like a Total Seductress

Ever wonder why some girls can make a guy hard just by whispering a few words? It’s not magic, it’s confidence, comfort, and a little mental reprogramming.

Most of us grow up being told to be “good girls,” so it makes sense that dirty talk can feel awkward or even shameful at first.

But the truth? Your sexual thoughts and fantasies are completely normal. Talking dirty isn’t something to be embarrassed about, it’s something to own.

The moment you accept that desire is natural, the easier it becomes to express it. And when you say the right words with confidence? You become the fantasy. Every guy wants a girl who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to say it, especially in bed.

So yes, you can totally be that girl. Start small, go at your pace, and own your dirty side. Confidence is the real turn-on. [Read: How to be the sexy girlfriend your boyfriend has always wanted]

What are you waiting for? Talk dirty to your boyfriend tonight

Whether you’re texting something filthy or whispering in his ear, dirty talk isn’t just sexy, it’s powerful. You don’t need the perfect line, just the confidence to speak your desire.

These sexy, dirty things to say to your boyfriend aren’t just fun… they’re your secret weapon to connection, chemistry, and unforgettable moments.

[Read: 20 naughty questions to ask your man and open up a whole new side to your sexual relationship]

Use any of these dirty things to say to your boyfriend. You’ll definitely arouse him with your sexy words, just as much as you arouse him with your dirty actions!