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How to Talk to a Guy and Make Him Like You

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Want to know how to talk to a guy and make him like you? Most girls wonder what to say to a guy in a conversation, but there’s a lot more than just words that matter when you want him to like you back. Find out here.

How to talk to a guy | make him like you

Knowing how to talk to a guy can be the difference between being a lady who draws guys and an annoying girl who doesn’t get any attention.

Now you don’t really need to know how to talk to a guy only to impress one guy.

Really, making a guy like you isn’t just about impressing one single guy.

After all, every guy likes a girl who is popular, fun and desired by all guys.

So if you really want to make a guy like you and become popular, you need to know these ten facts.

[Read: 20 circumstances when a guy just won't like you back]

How to talk to a guy

The next time you talk to a guy you like, use these ten tips.

And we can guarantee you, these tips will make you more desirable than you can ever imagine!

If you’re wondering how to talk to a guy or what to talk to him, no, you don’t really need to change your conversations for him.

You just need to play by a few simple rules. [Read: 30 super ways to keep a guy interested in you]

Guys like all girls, but they like a few girls a lot more.

And guys like these girls more because they make the guy feel special. Learn how to talk to a guy and make him like you and you’ll see the difference.

Smile often

The next time you’re talking to a guy you like, smile more often. Giggle at his jokes, smile now and then for no particular reason and bring that sparkle in your eyes. After all, when you’re happy, it shows. And no guy can resist a girl with a beautiful laugh!

Be coy and graceful

Through the ages, women have loved chivalrous men, and men have loved graceful, coy women. Now, there’s a big difference between being a shy timid girl and a girl who’s coy. Even to this day, guys love coy, graceful girls. So be that one. Twiddle your hair when you’re being thoughtful, have your own cute expressions, bat your twice instead of just once every time you close your eyes.

All these make you very lovable and aww-sho-cute! Learn to be a lady, and the guys will love to become your knight in shining armor. [Read: How to make him think of you all the time]

Touch him

Men have always been drawn to the gentle, tender touch of a girl. Even scientific research has shown that guys involuntarily start showing more interest and flirt more with girls who touch them in the middle of a conversation. Occasionally, touch his forearm or place your palm on the edge of his shoulder, or any other place that would be appropriate for casual touches, and you’ll see how his interest in you would grow in no time. [Read: How to flirt by touching]

Seek his protection

Throughout evolution, men have always been the hunters and the protectors while women have been the farmers and the foragers. When you rekindle this primal instinct in a guy, he would appreciate it and love it. Reach out and hold his arm while crossing the street, smile shyly and ask him if he can hold a heavy book for a minute, hold his hand as a big, scary dog comes near you, etc. You know the works, make him feel like your protector. And he’ll want to be by your side all the time. [Read: How to play the damsel in distress move and make him fall in love with you]

Don’t badmouth or bitch

Girls who are use foul language all the time are quite a bit of a turn off for most guys. Now if you’re Debra Morgan, that’s a whole new story because she knows how to be vulnerable, cry and be strong and independent at the same time. But for all other girls, try to avoid using bad language all the time. Additionally, don’t bitch about other girls or speak nastily about coworkers and passersby when you’re walking on a street.

Be mysterious

Guys find mysterious girls a tad annoying, but they can’t help falling in love with them. You don’t need to tell a guy you’re with every single emotion or thought that’s going through you. If you’re looking lost or if he catches you smiling to yourself, and asks you about it, you can just tell him it’s nothing. Don’t reveal everything that goes on in your mind or you’ll just become boring. A note of caution though, you can’t do this to your boyfriend. He’ll think you’re having an affair!

Be mischievous

There’s nothing better than a girl who can be shy and coy, and show off a streak of mischievousness now and then. It’s always nice to lighten things up now and then with a few pranks. You can tease him, nudge him by the shoulder, say a few jokes, or all of the above. Guys like a girl who is all sweet is cute and nice, but it can get pretty boring after a while. Show him your naughty side too. [Read: 10 naughty moves to make any guy hard down there]

Be polite

This is one of the qualities of a good natured, sweet girl that all guys want. If you want to know how to talk to a guy, keep this in mind. Be nice, good natured and polite. Mind your P’s and Q’s, and be nice, not just to him, but to the people around you. You can try to be pretentious and fake when you’re with him, but then, it’s not easy. Instead, learn to be a genuinely nice person and it’ll only make him want you more.

Appreciate him

If you use all the tips mentioned here, you’ll be a very likeable girl who’ll be desired by all guys. And the guy who likes you may try very hard to please you and impress you. And if some guy’s trying to make you feel nice, appreciate the gesture. Most girls take these things for granted, and over time, the guys will stop paying attention to them. Really now, if someone does something nice for you, don’t you think they deserve a thank you, or at least a smile? Never forget that. [Read: Get a guy to ask you out in 9 sneaky ways]

Play hard to get

Always play hard to get if you want to make him like you. Knowing how to talk to a guy is easy, but knowing where to draw the line is not. Speak to guys in a pleasant manner, but never let them take you for granted. And don’t ever be easily available. That only makes them take you lightly. [Read: The right way to play hard to get]

Use these ten tips on how to talk to a guy and make him like you, and you’ll see how likeable and desired you’ll be in no time!


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  • January 17, 2012 | Permalink |

    I wanna someone to love me make me have sex with them to

  • Lucy
    March 2, 2012 | Permalink |

    I tried almost all your tips but they don’t work. I tried it on 5 of my crushes but they all called me names ugly and fat.
    I don’t think I was meant to have anyone in my life.

  • Alex
    April 20, 2012 | Permalink |

    I love your website! So much quality info. I wish I had it when I was a teenager. I’m now 31 and still learning new things about the mysterious male psyche!

  • June 3, 2012 | Permalink |

    I found another way a guy could like you. When your in class with him and youre in a group or a partnership and he starts to look at yoy constantly while he thinks your not looking, thats
    another way to tell if he likes you

  • Fabiana
    July 6, 2012 | Permalink |

    I’m gonna try these steps. I think they’ll work out for me. Because there’s a boy in my class I really like, and I know he likes me too. So I’m gonna see if your steps can help me out <3

  • Heather
    January 29, 2013 | Permalink |

    Seriously great article. Best feminine website with only very accurate advice.

  • gear-for-life
    July 4, 2013 | Permalink |

    Well I guess that’s it for me, I swear A LOT

  • LESHA
    September 14, 2013 | Permalink |

    I tried most of these tips and a guy still have yet to ask me out!1

  • Jea
    September 17, 2013 | Permalink |

    some of these are really helpful :)

  • Hollywood01
    January 6, 2014 | Permalink |

    If u want a guy to notice u and get them to like u just ask them what they are interested in or there dislike and likes I did and he likes me and we have conversations going like everyday we’ll that is during texting but if your in person catch him when he isn’t around his friends guys act different when they are not with them so ask them what they are up to but in a cute way and act like your interested get him to laugh but don’t talk about girly crap like gossip or makeup or anything like that just remember don’t lie be your self he will come around eventually

  • Hannah King
    February 16, 2014 | Permalink |

    I need help to get this guy to like me and i told him i liked him and now he wont talk to me. What do i do. And im kinda overweight and shy.

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