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How to Talk to a Guy and Make Him Like You

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Want to know how to talk to a guy and make him like you? Most girls wonder what to say to a guy in a conversation, but there’s a lot more than just words that matter when you want him to like you back. Find out here.

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Knowing how to talk to a guy can be the difference between being a lady who draws guys and an annoying girl who doesn’t get any attention.

Now you don’t really need to know how to talk to a guy only to impress one guy.

Really, making a guy like you isn’t just about impressing one single guy.

After all, every guy likes a girl who is popular, fun and desired by all guys.

So if you really want to make a guy like you and become popular, you need to know these ten facts.

[Read: 20 circumstances when a guy just won’t like you back]

How to talk to a guy

The next time you talk to a guy you like, use these ten tips.

And we can guarantee you, these tips will make you more desirable than you can ever imagine!

If you’re wondering how to talk to a guy or what to talk to him, no, you don’t really need to change your conversations for him.

You just need to play by a few simple rules. [Read: 30 super ways to keep a guy interested in you]

Guys like all girls, but they like a few girls a lot more.

And guys like these girls more because they make the guy feel special. Learn how to talk to a guy and make him like you and you’ll see the difference.

Smile often

The next time you’re talking to a guy you like, smile more often. Giggle at his jokes, smile now and then for no particular reason and bring that sparkle in your eyes. After all, when you’re happy, it shows. And no guy can resist a girl with a beautiful laugh!

Be coy and graceful

Through the ages, women have loved chivalrous men, and men have loved graceful, coy women. Now, there’s a big difference between being a shy timid girl and a girl who’s coy. Even to this day, guys love coy, graceful girls. So be that one. Twiddle your hair when you’re being thoughtful, have your own cute expressions, bat your twice instead of just once every time you close your eyes.

All these make you very lovable and aww-sho-cute! Learn to be a lady, and the guys will love to become your knight in shining armor. [Read: How to make him think of you all the time]

Touch him

Men have always been drawn to the gentle, tender touch of a girl. Even scientific research has shown that guys involuntarily start showing more interest and flirt more with girls who touch them in the middle of a conversation. Occasionally, touch his forearm or place your palm on the edge of his shoulder, or any other place that would be appropriate for casual touches, and you’ll see how his interest in you would grow in no time. [Read: How to flirt by touching]

Seek his protection

Throughout evolution, men have always been the hunters and the protectors while women have been the farmers and the foragers. When you rekindle this primal instinct in a guy, he would appreciate it and love it. Reach out and hold his arm while crossing the street, smile shyly and ask him if he can hold a heavy book for a minute, hold his hand as a big, scary dog comes near you, etc. You know the works, make him feel like your protector. And he’ll want to be by your side all the time. [Read: How to play the damsel in distress move and make him fall in love with you]

Don’t badmouth or bitch

Girls who are use foul language all the time are quite a bit of a turn off for most guys. Now if you’re Debra Morgan, that’s a whole new story because she knows how to be vulnerable, cry and be strong and independent at the same time. But for all other girls, try to avoid using bad language all the time. Additionally, don’t bitch about other girls or speak nastily about coworkers and passersby when you’re walking on a street.

Be mysterious

Guys find mysterious girls a tad annoying, but they can’t help falling in love with them. You don’t need to tell a guy you’re with every single emotion or thought that’s going through you. If you’re looking lost or if he catches you smiling to yourself, and asks you about it, you can just tell him it’s nothing. Don’t reveal everything that goes on in your mind or you’ll just become boring. A note of caution though, you can’t do this to your boyfriend. He’ll think you’re having an affair!

Be mischievous

There’s nothing better than a girl who can be shy and coy, and show off a streak of mischievousness now and then. It’s always nice to lighten things up now and then with a few pranks. You can tease him, nudge him by the shoulder, say a few jokes, or all of the above. Guys like a girl who is all sweet is cute and nice, but it can get pretty boring after a while. Show him your naughty side too. [Read: 10 naughty moves to make any guy hard down there]

Be polite

This is one of the qualities of a good natured, sweet girl that all guys want. If you want to know how to talk to a guy, keep this in mind. Be nice, good natured and polite. Mind your P’s and Q’s, and be nice, not just to him, but to the people around you. You can try to be pretentious and fake when you’re with him, but then, it’s not easy. Instead, learn to be a genuinely nice person and it’ll only make him want you more.

Appreciate him

If you use all the tips mentioned here, you’ll be a very likeable girl who’ll be desired by all guys. And the guy who likes you may try very hard to please you and impress you. And if some guy’s trying to make you feel nice, appreciate the gesture. Most girls take these things for granted, and over time, the guys will stop paying attention to them. Really now, if someone does something nice for you, don’t you think they deserve a thank you, or at least a smile? Never forget that. [Read: Get a guy to ask you out in 9 sneaky ways]

Play hard to get

Always play hard to get if you want to make him like you. Knowing how to talk to a guy is easy, but knowing where to draw the line is not. Speak to guys in a pleasant manner, but never let them take you for granted. And don’t ever be easily available. That only makes them take you lightly. [Read: The right way to play hard to get]

Use these ten tips on how to talk to a guy and make him like you, and you’ll see how likeable and desired you’ll be in no time!


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  • January 17, 2012 | Permalink |

    I wanna someone to love me make me have sex with them to

  • Lucy
    March 2, 2012 | Permalink |

    I tried almost all your tips but they don’t work. I tried it on 5 of my crushes but they all called me names ugly and fat.
    I don’t think I was meant to have anyone in my life.

  • Alex
    April 20, 2012 | Permalink |

    I love your website! So much quality info. I wish I had it when I was a teenager. I’m now 31 and still learning new things about the mysterious male psyche!

  • June 3, 2012 | Permalink |

    I found another way a guy could like you. When your in class with him and youre in a group or a partnership and he starts to look at yoy constantly while he thinks your not looking, thats
    another way to tell if he likes you

  • Fabiana
    July 6, 2012 | Permalink |

    I’m gonna try these steps. I think they’ll work out for me. Because there’s a boy in my class I really like, and I know he likes me too. So I’m gonna see if your steps can help me out <3

  • Heather
    January 29, 2013 | Permalink |

    Seriously great article. Best feminine website with only very accurate advice.

  • gear-for-life
    July 4, 2013 | Permalink |

    Well I guess that’s it for me, I swear A LOT

  • LESHA
    September 14, 2013 | Permalink |

    I tried most of these tips and a guy still have yet to ask me out!1

  • Jea
    September 17, 2013 | Permalink |

    some of these are really helpful :)

  • Hollywood01
    January 6, 2014 | Permalink |

    If u want a guy to notice u and get them to like u just ask them what they are interested in or there dislike and likes I did and he likes me and we have conversations going like everyday we’ll that is during texting but if your in person catch him when he isn’t around his friends guys act different when they are not with them so ask them what they are up to but in a cute way and act like your interested get him to laugh but don’t talk about girly crap like gossip or makeup or anything like that just remember don’t lie be your self he will come around eventually

  • Hannah King
    February 16, 2014 | Permalink |

    I need help to get this guy to like me and i told him i liked him and now he wont talk to me. What do i do. And im kinda overweight and shy.

  • lily
    May 20, 2014 | Permalink |

    Oh please, I’ve gotten loads of guys and I have a terrible potty mouth – they all said it’s endearing and I blame my irishness! I’m just confident, have a good sexy walk and usually pick up any guy I want by the end of the night, swearing or not!

  • Kasey
    June 4, 2014 | Permalink |

    Hang in there Lucy.
    1)Do NOT play hard to get. Don’t be easy either, Only put up honest limits and barriers, it’s great to make sure he’s a good guy and a good match, but if you hold back just make him try harder (more than just a tad) you become a prize not a partner, a thing not a person. And if you get caught at it you loose respect and look immature to any guy old enough to vote, and most old enough to drive. A little game is expected, more than a little is bad. The only guys I’ve every met who like hard to get are those who are looking to rack up a bedroom high score, they’re looking for trophies, not relationships. And the science supports this. Google is your friend.

    2)Guys are more verbal and less aware of subtext and hints. So significantly decrease subtlety with all guys on all subjects. Not just romantic interests. (we have a narrower field of vision, more geared for distance than immediate surroundings)

    3)Smile, YES this is a good one. goes both ways, but more so female to male by a small but significant margin.

    4)everything under coy is o.k., but it’s really mostly flirting and expressing romantic interest. So finding the right balance of how much to do can be somewhat tricky and dependant on the guy. Dump tons of it on a guy all at once out of the blue can sometimes come across as either desperate/easy or intimidating or all the above. None without something else to show interest can make him feel he’s wasting his time or, horror of horrors, friend zoned.

    5) Much of the rest could use a moderation warning. Small doses of most of them from time to time is probably best. BUT all guys differ in what they want personality wise and visually.

    A good overall point to remember is that on many things men and women a backwards from each other. A guy with women hanging around him is more attractive, a women with men hanging around her is probably a waste of time and possibly a danger to approach. Men tend to view sex as a path to intimacy whereas women see intimacy as a requirement for sex. Men are more likely to take words at face value whereas women tend to read into things and they both tend to communicate that way.
    And most of all don’t let society or worse tv and movies, tell you how men or women are or should be romantically, hell don’t let anyone just tell you. Look up actual studies and science on the issue(s), see what really happens and what really works, USE your brain. Then present the image society expects while being yourself. Note that our hormones and emotions tend to take over in matters of the heart and hormones so think ahead, plan ahead. This is doubly important as a woman due to the unfair physical advantages men have. Unwanted sex,std’s and pregnancies are a real hazard for you, and relying purely on instinct in the moment is even worse than ignoring it completely.

  • stella
    June 6, 2014 | Permalink |

    There is this guy in my class he has been asking me out for a while now he said he likes me and I like him too but I did not give him a positive respond but recently when he sees me he goes another. Way he doesn’t talk to me like he used to and I don’t know how to go and ask him what is happening because I’m a shy person, I don’t want to seem desperate and I don’t know what next to do

  • Sara
    July 13, 2014 | Permalink |

    I cannot stand the behavior of feminist types but even more than that, I despise the behavior of Asian girls. All act so dumb and vane. I have always been myself around men, sexy, over the top, dominated all conversations, stared the hell out if them if I liked them, and never ever compromised anything I didn’t want to, nor did I ever push my ways. I was always myself, in control, and on top of my own affair. It always worked for me. I had no problem dominating the attention of most men in any situation to myself no matter how many silly so called feminine timid girli girls were around. Just my take on ot all. I am now happily married and believe me, still get plenty of attention from all men of all ages. It’s the confidence and brains everyone likes, not the rest. And you wouldn’t want a guy who goes for less. I never wanted that anyways.

  • Vidia
    September 11, 2014 | Permalink |

    Lucy-Everyone needs a guy it just takes a while to get, I’ve liked boys since year one and am year five now still trying to get the perfect boy

  • Mango page
    September 19, 2014 | Permalink |

    Thanks. Most of what you say matches so I m all in hopes for it :D

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