How to Talk to a Guy and Make Him Like You

how to talk to a guy and make him like you

Want to know how to talk to a guy and make him like you? Most girls wonder what to say to a guy in a conversation, but there’s a lot more than just words that matter when you want him to like you back. Find out here.

Knowing how to talk to a guy can be the difference between being a lady who draws guys and an annoying girl who doesn’t get any attention.

Now you don’t really need to know how to talk to a guy only to impress one guy.

Really, making a guy like you isn’t just about impressing one single guy.

After all, every guy likes a girl who is popular, fun and desired by all guys.

So if you really want to make a guy like you and become popular, you need to know these ten facts.

[Read: 20 circumstances when a guy just won’t like you back]

How to talk to a guy

The next time you talk to a guy you like, use these ten tips.

And we can guarantee you, these tips will make you more desirable than you can ever imagine!

If you’re wondering how to talk to a guy or what to talk to him, no, you don’t really need to change your conversations for him.

You just need to play by a few simple rules. [Read: 30 super ways to keep a guy interested in you]

Guys like all girls, but they like a few girls a lot more.

And guys like these girls more because they make the guy feel special. Learn how to talk to a guy and make him like you and you’ll see the difference.

Smile often

The next time you’re talking to a guy you like, smile more often. Giggle at his jokes, smile now and then for no particular reason and bring that sparkle in your eyes. After all, when you’re happy, it shows. And no guy can resist a girl with a beautiful laugh!

Be coy and graceful

Through the ages, women have loved chivalrous men, and men have loved graceful, coy women. Now, there’s a big difference between being a shy timid girl and a girl who’s coy. Even to this day, guys love coy, graceful girls. So be that one. Twiddle your hair when you’re being thoughtful, have your own cute expressions, bat your twice instead of just once every time you close your eyes.

All these make you very lovable and aww-sho-cute! Learn to be a lady, and the guys will love to become your knight in shining armor. [Read: How to make him think of you all the time]

Touch him

Men have always been drawn to the gentle, tender touch of a girl. Even scientific research has shown that guys involuntarily start showing more interest and flirt more with girls who touch them in the middle of a conversation. Occasionally, touch his forearm or place your palm on the edge of his shoulder, or any other place that would be appropriate for casual touches, and you’ll see how his interest in you would grow in no time. [Read: How to flirt by touching]

Seek his protection

Throughout evolution, men have always been the hunters and the protectors while women have been the farmers and the foragers. When you rekindle this primal instinct in a guy, he would appreciate it and love it. Reach out and hold his arm while crossing the street, smile shyly and ask him if he can hold a heavy book for a minute, hold his hand as a big, scary dog comes near you, etc. You know the works, make him feel like your protector. And he’ll want to be by your side all the time. [Read: How to play the damsel in distress move and make him fall in love with you]

Don’t badmouth or bitch

Girls who are use foul language all the time are quite a bit of a turn off for most guys. Now if you’re Debra Morgan, that’s a whole new story because she knows how to be vulnerable, cry and be strong and independent at the same time. But for all other girls, try to avoid using bad language all the time. Additionally, don’t bitch about other girls or speak nastily about coworkers and passersby when you’re walking on a street.

Be mysterious

Guys find mysterious girls a tad annoying, but they can’t help falling in love with them. You don’t need to tell a guy you’re with every single emotion or thought that’s going through you. If you’re looking lost or if he catches you smiling to yourself, and asks you about it, you can just tell him it’s nothing. Don’t reveal everything that goes on in your mind or you’ll just become boring. A note of caution though, you can’t do this to your boyfriend. He’ll think you’re having an affair!

Be mischievous

There’s nothing better than a girl who can be shy and coy, and show off a streak of mischievousness now and then. It’s always nice to lighten things up now and then with a few pranks. You can tease him, nudge him by the shoulder, say a few jokes, or all of the above. Guys like a girl who is all sweet is cute and nice, but it can get pretty boring after a while. Show him your naughty side too. [Read: 10 naughty moves to make any guy hard down there]

Be polite

This is one of the qualities of a good natured, sweet girl that all guys want. If you want to know how to talk to a guy, keep this in mind. Be nice, good natured and polite. Mind your P’s and Q’s, and be nice, not just to him, but to the people around you. You can try to be pretentious and fake when you’re with him, but then, it’s not easy. Instead, learn to be a genuinely nice person and it’ll only make him want you more.

Appreciate him

If you use all the tips mentioned here, you’ll be a very likeable girl who’ll be desired by all guys. And the guy who likes you may try very hard to please you and impress you. And if some guy’s trying to make you feel nice, appreciate the gesture. Most girls take these things for granted, and over time, the guys will stop paying attention to them. Really now, if someone does something nice for you, don’t you think they deserve a thank you, or at least a smile? Never forget that. [Read: Get a guy to ask you out in 9 sneaky ways]

Play hard to get

Always play hard to get if you want to make him like you. Knowing how to talk to a guy is easy, but knowing where to draw the line is not. Speak to guys in a pleasant manner, but never let them take you for granted. And don’t ever be easily available. That only makes them take you lightly. [Read: The right way to play hard to get]

Use these ten tips on how to talk to a guy and make him like you, and you’ll see how likeable and desired you’ll be in no time!

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35 thoughts on “How to Talk to a Guy and Make Him Like You”

  1. melissa says:

    I wanna someone to love me make me have sex with them to

  2. Lucy says:

    I tried almost all your tips but they don’t work. I tried it on 5 of my crushes but they all called me names ugly and fat.
    I don’t think I was meant to have anyone in my life.

  3. Alex says:

    I love your website! So much quality info. I wish I had it when I was a teenager. I’m now 31 and still learning new things about the mysterious male psyche!

  4. Cindy says:

    I found another way a guy could like you. When your in class with him and youre in a group or a partnership and he starts to look at yoy constantly while he thinks your not looking, thats
    another way to tell if he likes you

  5. Fabiana says:

    I’m gonna try these steps. I think they’ll work out for me. Because there’s a boy in my class I really like, and I know he likes me too. So I’m gonna see if your steps can help me out <3

  6. Heather says:

    Seriously great article. Best feminine website with only very accurate advice.

  7. gear-for-life says:

    Well I guess that’s it for me, I swear A LOT

  8. LESHA says:

    I tried most of these tips and a guy still have yet to ask me out!1

  9. Jea says:

    some of these are really helpful 🙂

  10. Hollywood01 says:

    If u want a guy to notice u and get them to like u just ask them what they are interested in or there dislike and likes I did and he likes me and we have conversations going like everyday we’ll that is during texting but if your in person catch him when he isn’t around his friends guys act different when they are not with them so ask them what they are up to but in a cute way and act like your interested get him to laugh but don’t talk about girly crap like gossip or makeup or anything like that just remember don’t lie be your self he will come around eventually

  11. Hannah King says:

    I need help to get this guy to like me and i told him i liked him and now he wont talk to me. What do i do. And im kinda overweight and shy.

  12. lily says:

    Oh please, I’ve gotten loads of guys and I have a terrible potty mouth – they all said it’s endearing and I blame my irishness! I’m just confident, have a good sexy walk and usually pick up any guy I want by the end of the night, swearing or not!

  13. Kasey says:

    Hang in there Lucy.
    1)Do NOT play hard to get. Don’t be easy either, Only put up honest limits and barriers, it’s great to make sure he’s a good guy and a good match, but if you hold back just make him try harder (more than just a tad) you become a prize not a partner, a thing not a person. And if you get caught at it you loose respect and look immature to any guy old enough to vote, and most old enough to drive. A little game is expected, more than a little is bad. The only guys I’ve every met who like hard to get are those who are looking to rack up a bedroom high score, they’re looking for trophies, not relationships. And the science supports this. Google is your friend.

    2)Guys are more verbal and less aware of subtext and hints. So significantly decrease subtlety with all guys on all subjects. Not just romantic interests. (we have a narrower field of vision, more geared for distance than immediate surroundings)

    3)Smile, YES this is a good one. goes both ways, but more so female to male by a small but significant margin.

    4)everything under coy is o.k., but it’s really mostly flirting and expressing romantic interest. So finding the right balance of how much to do can be somewhat tricky and dependant on the guy. Dump tons of it on a guy all at once out of the blue can sometimes come across as either desperate/easy or intimidating or all the above. None without something else to show interest can make him feel he’s wasting his time or, horror of horrors, friend zoned.

    5) Much of the rest could use a moderation warning. Small doses of most of them from time to time is probably best. BUT all guys differ in what they want personality wise and visually.

    A good overall point to remember is that on many things men and women a backwards from each other. A guy with women hanging around him is more attractive, a women with men hanging around her is probably a waste of time and possibly a danger to approach. Men tend to view sex as a path to intimacy whereas women see intimacy as a requirement for sex. Men are more likely to take words at face value whereas women tend to read into things and they both tend to communicate that way.
    And most of all don’t let society or worse tv and movies, tell you how men or women are or should be romantically, hell don’t let anyone just tell you. Look up actual studies and science on the issue(s), see what really happens and what really works, USE your brain. Then present the image society expects while being yourself. Note that our hormones and emotions tend to take over in matters of the heart and hormones so think ahead, plan ahead. This is doubly important as a woman due to the unfair physical advantages men have. Unwanted sex,std’s and pregnancies are a real hazard for you, and relying purely on instinct in the moment is even worse than ignoring it completely.

  14. stella says:

    There is this guy in my class he has been asking me out for a while now he said he likes me and I like him too but I did not give him a positive respond but recently when he sees me he goes another. Way he doesn’t talk to me like he used to and I don’t know how to go and ask him what is happening because I’m a shy person, I don’t want to seem desperate and I don’t know what next to do

  15. Sara says:

    I cannot stand the behavior of feminist types but even more than that, I despise the behavior of Asian girls. All act so dumb and vane. I have always been myself around men, sexy, over the top, dominated all conversations, stared the hell out if them if I liked them, and never ever compromised anything I didn’t want to, nor did I ever push my ways. I was always myself, in control, and on top of my own affair. It always worked for me. I had no problem dominating the attention of most men in any situation to myself no matter how many silly so called feminine timid girli girls were around. Just my take on ot all. I am now happily married and believe me, still get plenty of attention from all men of all ages. It’s the confidence and brains everyone likes, not the rest. And you wouldn’t want a guy who goes for less. I never wanted that anyways.

  16. Vidia says:

    Lucy-Everyone needs a guy it just takes a while to get, I’ve liked boys since year one and am year five now still trying to get the perfect boy

  17. Mango page says:

    Thanks. Most of what you say matches so I m all in hopes for it 😀

  18. Wtf wow says:

    I gave up reading when you told girls to be coy instead of shy. It’s true in some way, but you can’t just tell them to not be that way when they’ve grown to behaving so everyday. Clearly, you do not understand what it means to be introverted. Maybe this is why most girls fail to keep a relationship going, because what they call a relationship is actually a relationshit. If you force yourself to be someone you are not, don’t expect much out of your love life. If you try to do things that are impossible to even start with, it will just backfire right in your face. If any of you girls see this, trust me; you don’t want to learn this the hard way.

  19. Verinique says:

    I like this boy Ethan so much but he has a girlfriend and I just can’t stop thinking of him what do u think I should do

  20. jasmine says:

    I am going to the movies with a good friend of mine and I like him and he likes me so I’m going to take your advice and see what happens.

  21. Jayden says:

    Hey, so I really like this guy and we’ve been friends for long time now. I’m just not so sure if he like likes me back. Im gonna try and use these tips and I’ll get back to you if it works.

  22. Kala says:

    Hey, I know this is late. But you should just let the relationship run its course and maybe it’ll tucker out soon. Just get close to him and be there for him through everything, and he’ll start to see that you’re girlfriend material. Don’t put too much emphasis on relationships, feelings suck XD but for real just occupy yourself

  23. Amber says:

    This article is out of its element. Writers should not be making sexist evolutionary statements they know nothing or very little about. I do not know why I bothered clicking on this article; it is total crap!

  24. Sunny says:

    Okey. I read some of these tips based on this topic, but my situation it a little bit different..
    We were in a relationship but somehow it didn’t worked (after reading “how men fall in love”, I just realised that I think he didn’t really did that)

    Anyway, after breaking up, when I thought it was over but he continued to call and want to talk to me… And give me wrong signals…(suddenly he was all cute, and did and gave me all little attentions that I deserve as a gf, and acted nic)) I mean when I really asked him what did he want from me, all I received was an “I don’t know”..

    I know he is attracted to my body, and he likes me(his words) (but I’m a little afraid that is the only way he likes me…and still he doesn’t want a relationship)
    The only way we have a “normal ” talk via sms is when it gets more hornier or refers somehow to sex

    All this stuff happens from January till now.
    I’m really confused, because I like him, and still don’t understand how you can like and get turned by someone but still want nothing with her (I meant me here)

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