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How to Get a Guy to Kiss You When You Want Him To!

Just don’t know how to get the message across when you’re on a date with a guy? Find out how to get a guy to kiss you, just when you want him to!

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Ever been there before?

You’re on a great date with a guy. You like him a lot. And it seems like he likes you a lot too.

But there’s just nothing happening at all!

You want him to make a move to kiss you, but he’s holding back?

He may be worried about going too fast or he may be scared to kiss you. If there’s one thing that scares guys more than anything else, it’s a girl who backs away from a kiss hastily.

No guy likes that.

A guy may like you a lot, but almost always, he’d wait to get a sign from you first, especially when it comes to leaning in for a wonderful first kiss.

So do you want to know how to get a guy to kiss you when you’re on a date? Well, you just can’t go wrong once you read these tips.

How to get a guy to kiss you

Getting a guy to kiss you on a date can be tricky.

If you make the first move, it may seem like you’re too easy to get. If you hold the thought and wait for him to kiss you first, there’s a good chance that you may lose the opportunity once and for all.

Use these tips and you’ll be able to get the message across in just the right way, without ever seeming desperate or too easy to get. [Read: Signs that he’s into you]

#1 Move in closer

When you’re standing next to the guy after the date, don’t just stand an arm’s length away. Try to find any excuse to get into his comfort space. Pretend like you slipped your foothold and take a step closer. If you’re sitting down, move closer to him in an obvious manner and say something like “it’s pretty chilly, isn’t it?” By moving in closer, you’re discreetly letting him know that you don’t mind the little space in between both of you. And that’s a great way to warm him up and let him know you’re ready for some puckering! [Read: What men love most in women]

#2 Stare into his eyes and use this trick

When you’re sitting next to each other, stare into his eyes deeply as he talks about something. Ending the date is always an awkward thing, for men and for women, especially with so much uncertainty in the air. Every time he says something, listen to him and stare into his eyes without bobbing your head up and down. Don’t move around a lot, and just give him the time to look back into your eyes and build a connection. [Read: Ending a date in the perfect manner]

And as both of you speak to each other with your eyes locked, look down at his lips for a second or two and look back into his eyes again. He’ll instinctively understand that you’re ready for a kiss, and may even make a move sooner than you think.

#3 Touch his fingers with yours

There’s nothing like some sizzling flirty touches and sexual chemistry to work this shy guy up to kiss you when you want him to. Most guys feel pretty scared to kiss a girl without knowing for sure that she wants to kiss him back.

When you’re sitting really close to each other, move your fingers closer to his, almost to the point where his fingers are touching yours. There’s a good chance that he’ll place his palm over yours, but even if he doesn’t do that, you can touch his palm in the middle of a conversation while trying to emphasize something like “I’m having such a wonderful time with you…” If he has anything more than sawdust in his head, he’ll know that you really like him and are interested in kissing him. There’s nothing like a chemistry inducing touch to warm a guy up for a kiss. [Read: Flirt with a guy without making it obvious]

#4 Whisper sweet nothings

If you’re standing next to each other, and find it hard to try any of the earlier moves, here’s a tingle inducing move that can make him kiss you within seconds after you try this move. As you stand beside him and have your shoulders almost touching each other, move closer to him and take your lips close to his ears.

When you get near his ears, place one hand on his cheek or near his ear and say something like “…thanks for a wonderful date” in a very soft and happy voice. If he doesn’t have the hair on the back of his neck standing upright, we’d definitely be surprised. But if he doesn’t get the complete hint and ends up just blushing, use the next move. [Read: How to be a seductress]

#5 Kiss his cheek for no reason

When you’re sitting next to him or standing next to each other, and there’s no one else around to make the moment feel awkward, lean into him either to whisper something or for no reason at all. Go close to him and softly kiss his cheek. Don’t rush this or it’ll seem like a joke! If you give him a sweet little kiss on the cheek and let the moment linger for a few seconds, it’ll immediately create enough of a sexual tension to force him to turn towards you and kiss your lips within seconds. There’s no way you can ever go wrong here! [Read: How to seduce a guy]

#6 Kiss him goodbye and linger

If you want to know how to get a guy to kiss you, there can’t be any better way than to use this move as you say goodbye. If the guy you’ve just dated isn’t manning up or trying to initiate a kiss even when it’s almost time to say goodbye, it’s time to try this perfect move.

As he comes closer to give you a hug and kiss your cheek goodbye, turn your face towards him ever so lightly so that both your lips almost touch each other’s, even better if you can get his lips to touch yours. Of course, it’ll never seem obvious at all!

He’ll realize that both your lips touched each other by “accident” and he may just smile at you awkwardly. At this point, don’t move away from him. Just look into his eyes and stare like there’s something he still has to do. And before you know it, he’ll be embraced in a passionate lip lock with you in no time!

[Read: How to make out with a guy like a sex goddess]

Can it get any easier than this? Now that you know how to get a guy to kiss you on a date, go on and work your magic with these never failing tips.

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