How to Kiss a Girl on the First Date

kiss a girl on the first date

Have you always wondered about the best way to kiss a girl? Most guys can kiss, but there’s always a time in a man’s life when he gets rejected and the girl jerks her head back, leading to embarrassment and a big hole in your ego. Here’s a complete guide on how to kiss a girl on the first date in a way that she won’t decline you!

Going for a kiss is a scary moment for most guys.

Just like the initial first conversation, and just like when you ask for her phone number, it is that strategic point where you could be rejected.

[Read: 10 steps to arouse a girl and make her want to kiss you]

How to kiss a girl on the first date

Most guys will talk for a few minutes or hours and then lunge in to kiss a girl on the first date, not knowing exactly how to kiss a girl.

Knowing the key moments before locking lips is just as important as remembering your own name. So Lovepanky’s smooching experts have come up with 5 easy instructions to help you know how to kiss a girl on the first date. Let the lip service begin!

#1 The touch before the kiss

Touch her hand and her arms in a much more sensual manner than you normally would. While talking to her, emphasize on her sensual spots like her forearm and upper arm.

This is the perfect way to make her feel at ease and comfortable. If she enjoys your sensual touches, move your hands up to play with her hair, by slowly going from the arms up to the neck, then earlobes, moving slowly into her hair.

Twiddle her hair and don’t start ruffling it up like she’s a dog. Be gentle.

#2 Stop talking before you kiss a girl

Stop your mumbo jumbo dialogues, and slowly notify her of your intentions by looking at her mouth which will show that you want to continue this conversation silently with your lips. Don’t stick your tongue out like a panting dog. Keep yourself composed. You don’t want her to think you’re going to lick her.

#3 Make eye contact

If you want to know how to kiss a girl and want to figure out if she’s ready, make eye contact once, and see if she looks back at you for longer than five seconds. If it’s any less, it’s obvious your gaze at her didn’t convince her. You need to go back to step 1! Your eyes should look tender. You’re a lost puppy. She may go shy, but hold the gaze and let your eyes communicate that you’re ready.

#4 Tease her with kisses

Don’t go for the kill just yet. You’re doing really well so you need to tease your prey by kissing her cheek and her neck on one side of her face. She will want to kiss you, but brush your lips across hers and avoid kissing her and move onto the other side of her neck. The feeling and tension you’re creating for her will be titillating, turning her hormones into moans.

#5 The kiss of bliss

The real secret behind knowing how to kiss a girl on the first date is to take it slow. Move your left hand to her lower back slowly, holding her softly, but not so softly that she could tip over if she rested her weight on your hand! Your right hand should be on her neck. Tilt your head slightly to the right (or left if you’re a lefty), and close your eyes just before your lips connect. Move into her and let your lips part towards her. You are now officially the Kissing King of the Jungle. Not only can you kiss with ease, you can proudly walk around knowing that you know just the right way to give a chick the Kiss of Bliss. [Read: How to make out with a girl on the first date]


1. Check your breath before you kiss. The last thing you want is being rejected for smelling like garbage.

2. Don’t force yourself onto her. You could end up with a black eye and sore testicles.

3. Don’t French kiss until she starts using her tongue. Remember, when kissing a girl, she is always right. You may have initiated the move to kiss, but let her work with it.

[Read: How to make a girl feel horny just by sitting next to her]

Go on and pucker your lips, loverboy. Now that you know how to kiss a girl on the first date, there’s no more rejection after this one!

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7 thoughts on “How to Kiss a Girl on the First Date”

  1. Ruben says:

    The main problem that guys face when trying to kiss a girl is knowing if they’re ready. Get the timing wrong, and things will turn awkward. I waited to kiss a girl so long that when i finally kissed her she said that she’d thought i’d never take the initiative and she wanted to kiss me since many days. This a great post, its not about how long you’ve waited but how you go about it that matters.

  2. Steve says:


    About the timing issue, a girl can “reject” you one minute, then be all over you the next! They just react in the moment. It doesn’t mean anything.

    When you’re experienced you can tell exactly where she’s at and what you can do. Infact, if you’re confident and dominant, the act of “pushing” a little bit can induce her to follow your lead.


  3. Deb says:

    The Jungle kiss is the worst, please what ever you do, don’t keep ramming your tongue down my throat like you are raping my mouth, it is so disgusting, I don’t know any woman who likes this. Good way to never get another date!!!!

  4. Casey says:

    Hello, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3yrs ,3mths,
    And we’ve two beautiful babies together.
    Problem is that my bf has never passionate kiss me or neither French kiss except for only contact would be is lips to lips. I’ve asked him before I want French kiss. He replied ” French kiss what’s that ” I explained to him by seeing couple on television French kissing then he says ” go kiss someone else like that ”
    Well that point on he broke my heart, I love him so much. I just don’t know what to do or even think ? He has mentioned his cheated before in his previous relationships. So what makes this one so perfect? I do think he has or is cheating on me? Since I’m always with my children & his not. Any advice?

  5. Akinola O. says:

    How do i recandle my relationship with my long time girl friend?

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