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How to Make Out with a Girl and Make Her Love It!

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Making out with a girl is an art that has to be learnt with experience. You may have been lucky at times, but if you want a foolproof guide on how to make out with a girl, here’s a guide on how to make out, and make her love it!

So you want to know how to make out with a girl and make her go weak in the knees while you’re at it?

Making out can be so much fun, but at most times, the guy can’t really understand how far he can push his luck or his hands.

Ever been there? You’re kissing a girl, and you place your hand on her boobs.

And all of a sudden, it’s shut down mode.

The girl pulls herself out sharply, tugs her clothes closer together, stares at you like you just violated her and tells you it’s time to go. And then, yeah, there’s that deathly silence. Hmm… awkward!

How to make out with a girl

You may not know this, but there’s a sexy way to make out with a girl, make her love it and make it so hard to resist, she’ll want you all over her in no time.

[Read: What to talk about on a first date]

But before we talk about how to make out with a girl like a sex god, we’re going to have to ask for your ID.

Look, this is no kids stuff, and the Super Fella isn’t here to teach little wankers the game of the players. This is for grown men who want to know the art of seduction. If you’re under 20, you’ve still got time to learn these moves, so go read yahoo answers!

Making out and making her love it

Let’s get straight to the point. You’ve been out on a date, and now, you’ve somehow strategically found yourself in some quiet corner, alone with your date. You may be in a car, your room, her living room or even in a park. And there you are, sweating and gulping air, wondering what to do.

We’ll get talking about how to make out with a girl the smooth way. Don’t put your arms around her, that’s just lame and too dominating. She has to be involved and play the game too. [Read: How to charm a girl]

Now to really understand these steps, you need to slow down and visualize these steps, one at a time. Understand how it works, and you’ll be a super make-outer in no time!

Arouse her with words

Now we’re not talking about getting dirty with words. It’s your first date, so play nice. Talk about feelings. We know how much girls love that anyways. Talk about how nice the date was, how great a time you had, and more butterflies and pillow talk. [Read: What to talk about with a girl]

Breathe and relax

Let’s get creative. When you’re talking to her, face her and sit back in an overly comfortable posture, recline on the car seat like you have no backbone. Be really relaxed and soon, you’ll get over all your nervousness. And you know what they say, your vibes will soon rub off on her and she’ll be really relaxed too.

Tease her with your hands

The first step is to make her comfortable, and now we warm her up. As you’re talking to her, try touching her. You could hold her pinky and slowly run your fingers along her fingers, or you could use your index finger and run it along her arm or over her jeans. Don’t linger and don’t make it seem like a big deal. And while you’re doing this, don’t stop talking. You don’t want all the focus on the touching. You have to make her feel comfortable with your touch. [Read: How to flirt by touching]

Read the signs

Always remember this, watch out for how she reacts. If she feels threatened at any time, or if her tone changes, she’s probably feeling uncomfortable. You’ve got to back away for a while and push your luck again later. [Read: How to get a girl to like you]

If she’s feeling all comfortable with your touch, she’ll probably start speaking a bit slower and look a little sleepy by now. Get the flirty touches right and she’ll be purring inside like a cute kitty that’s just got horny.

Warming up for the kiss

Slide a bit closer to her. Don’t do it discreetly. Girls are good at reading signs, and by doing it discreetly, it can appear a bit creepy or even too desperate. Make it obvious. Slide up closer or shift your butt until you’re only a few inches away from her. Don’t stop your talking or listening, and don’t stop the occasional touching.

Wait for a couple of minutes, and without any hesitation at all, go close to her and kiss her cheek softly. Linger for a second and sit back calmly. Now most experts say you should go close to her and wait for the kiss, but the Super Fella doesn’t like leaving things to chance, so screw that waiting game. [Read: Super Fella’s embarrassing first kiss story]

If things have been going well, she’s probably going to break into a big grin. And if it hasn’t gone too well, just look awkward, apologize and say “I’m really sorry, I just couldn’t help myself…”

You just kissed her cheek. No girl’s going to take offence for that anyways. But if you’ve got the earlier moves right, trust me, she’d love that soft kiss on the cheek.

If you want to know how to make out with a girl and get lucky, you need to play it safe and not take too many chances unless she leads the play.

Moving in really close

Now that you’ve kissed her cheek and she’s feeling all warm and fuzzy, you’ve got to take that next big step. Place your palm near her ear and gently move your fingers from her ears towards her chin. Be very delicate, slow and calm, and move your fingers across her cheek a few times. Stare into her eyes and stop talking.

Now we build up the tension. All the attention should now be focused on your fingers. As you caress her face, move in closer slowly and kiss her cheek. Kiss her cheek again, and this time, kiss her very close to her lips. And then, kiss the other cheek, very nearly missing her lips. Linger for a few more seconds with every kiss, and then come really close to her lips and let both your noses touch on the sides.

It’s kissing time!

If you’ve played by these moves, both of you will probably be breathing heavily and almost panting in excitement.

Go closer and graze her lips with yours a few times, but don’t kiss her. Come as close as you can without touching her lips and stay there for a second. That’s enough time for anyone to back away. But obviously, she’s not going to want to back away! Not after how well you’ve warmed her up, you player!

And then, move in for the kiss. Be gentle and soft, and don’t get pushy even if you’re excited and can’t hold back. You want to know how to make out with a girl, not how to kiss a girl and chew her face off!

You’re less than half way in this guide on how to make out with a girl and you can’t let aggression get in the way of passion.

Get this first step right, and you would have warmed up for a lot of good things to come. To get to know how to make out with a girl and get your hands under her shirt while you’re at it, click her to continue reading about how to touch a woman’s breasts.

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28 thoughts on “How to Make Out with a Girl and Make Her Love It!”

  1. Natty says:

    The best way is to learn it your own way. I would say go with the flow and do what comes naturally for. Try not to think about it too much and psyche you out. To put it simple, you both lock your lips and play with each other and follow her lead.

  2. easymakeout says:

    If you like the girl that well it’ll come natural…well sorta.. 😉

  3. privatepublicschool says:

    Well I studied in a private school and well had to adjust to the whole public school thing, and that

  4. sexgod says:

    It’s really not hard to makeout with girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, these are definitely some sick guides out here. Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist.

    Making out with girls like a Sex God is a skill. Educate yourself and you’ll laugh at how easy it is.

  5. amgrowing says:

    virgin 🙁 HELP

  6. palyergirlfriend says:

    Hi Superfella I have a question. There

  7. Help says:

    Hey Superfella what if you had an shitty college life, moms don’t wanna work with you cause you are always tired, you

  8. Thishelped says:

    Not gunna lie… this helped! (: I know I

  9. latebloomer says:

    @Thishelped, YEAH! I AM READY! WOO!!!

  10. Unluckyme says:

    I can

  11. Specialsomeone says:

    Guys, if it

  12. Alone says:

    I am



  13. Effin says:

    lol some of the people commenting on this are freakin ridiculous, like, “forever alone” . Obviously no one can stay a virgin forever, so why sweat it? Keep going at it bro, you’ll get tons if you just put a little effort into it. Btw there is no real way to “seduce” a girl. It

  14. Hillary says:

    If y’all need help making out, call me or texted me and I will teach y’all how to kiss.

    Love y’all all

  15. FirstTimeWasGreat says:

    just thought i’d share my story here for those of you who were like me and beat yourself up for being a late bloomer, or maybe you were scared of making out for fear of looking stupid (this was the case with me).

    well my first time making out was with a girl i really like, i’d say this was the key factor in helping me break out of my shell. we both really like each other and have been dating for about 2 months without even doing anything sexual. she was really accepting of my fears and made me comfortable and that gave me the confidence to make the move.

    now i’ve seen a lot of movies and read guides like this thinking someone else could teach me what i needed to know, but in all truth (and i didn’t believe this until i actually put it to the test) no one can prepare you for your first time.

    it all happened so smoothly, and she was shocked when afterwards i told her it was my first time. now don’t get me wrong, i’m not trying to sound cocky, or like i knew i was going to do great. i was petrified, but it just hit me suddenly. like hey, i’m 18 years old and i’ve never made out with a girl, but now i have one who i really like and this is as good an opportunity as ever. so i made the move. we were cuddling, and i just went for it. it was the most awkward few moments of my life, but in all honesty about 10-15 seconds in it was feeling pretty natural. i think the hardest part was getting over the fear of “oh my god, i don’t know what i’m doing” and just doing it.

    i’m not even going to lie. i feel a lot more confident now after my first time, and we make out pretty often. it’s actually really fun when you get the courage up to try it.

  16. ItsTriangleTime says:

    I dont know if this is all girls but I really like it when I’m against a wall with him kissing me . And its also a huge turn on if when you’re kissing her you stroke her spine lightly

  17. Homer Orfaeus says:

    All stories of this kind are missing advice about the critical moment when the girl makes the decision to go to your place (or invite you to hers), or not. You seem to assume that at this point the girl has made up her mind about having sex with you. For every girl who is of that kind, there are three who – consciously or not – like flirting seduction on man’s part, and teasing-resisting-teasing game on the woman’s part. The best is when walking into your/her place happens so smoothly that is almost un-noticed. It is the art of achieving this, where we need experienced advice!

  18. laurenann says:

    Best move ever (and don’t use it till you have been kissing deeply for a minute):
    The “Reach Around”! Keep one hand on her back, let the other hand very gently slide down her butt and towards her butt-hole/vagina area. gntly keep rubbing all around the “gap” area between thighs, butt, vagina. Stroke with a light feathery touch in & out. Kiss her mouth, then groan & start kissing her neck. Don’t be afraid to let her feel your erection against her leg. This is a great move for a girl that won’t let you go farther than kissing. Also, it only works standing up. She will be grinding against you & wet in no time. Just remember to take your time and relax. Let her enjoy it. It is a sensual move, so if you don’t do it in a gentle sensual way, it will just be you poking her butt. Also don’t try to reach her clit from there. she will eventually start angling her hips back to get your fingers to her clit, but just tease & keep it light! Enjoy!.

  19. Jose says:

    Thanks for all the help I have been reading it all and most of it works, but I might add that you should always know how she feels the entire time.

  20. Itsgoodadvice says:

    I’m a girl and I think this is good advice
    The only thing I would criticize is that there is a little but too much lingering
    Less kissing on the cheeks!!

  21. swagalicious says:

    I made out with a chick yesterday and this page was extremely helpful! This superfella knows what he is talking about! Shot bro!

  22. aloera gilman says:

    Im a girl and i just wanted to point out that if u were friends with the girl before then dont be afraid to put your arm around her and u really dont have to be all that subtle were not mind readers ya know

  23. Svengalis says:

    so silly that there is a technique that everyone has to follow to get girls .

  24. Antoinette Reyes says:

    Alot of this is dead on. Very sensual and doesn’t feel dirty. But a few things I’d change. Good article.

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