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How to Touch a Girl’s Breasts & Feel Her Up for the First Time

Here’s a gentleman’s guide on how to touch a girl’s breasts for the first time when you’re making out with here. Want to do it right? Do it like this!

How to Touch a Girl's Breasts

Want to know how to touch a girl’s breasts and make her love it when you’re all alone and cozying up with her? Grabbing is never okay, consent is everything, and making her want you to run your hands over her body? Well, that’s the only way to do it right!

Making out is confusing, but it can be so much fun if you really know how to do it well.

Now, if you’ve landed here, I’m going to assume you’ve kissed her already. Or the two of you have made out already. Because we’ve covered how to initiate making out with a girl in the first part of this two-part article.

If you want to know how to warm a girl up, kiss her and make her love it, I’d recommend you read the first part of the article here:

Part 1 – How to make out with a girl for the first time and make her love it!

The link above opens in a new window, so I’m recommend starting with that, and coming back here so you’re familiar with all the steps you need to take before you get to the stage where you’re already kissing her. If you’re done with that, read on!

How to touch a girl’s breast and feel her up for the first time

Now, if you’ve done everything right so far while making out, you’re golden. You’ve got the perfect setting, no interruptions, and you’ve kissed her. And now she wants more! Don’t rush through any of these steps, and just continue kissing her for now. And then, follow these steps.

[Read: How to seduce a woman and make her want to get into bed with you]

How to use your kisses to arouse her and make her want more

Once both of you have started kissing after using the steps from the introduction, keep it nice and slow. Of course, you can get aggressive if she’s getting aggressive and handsy with her kisses.

But unless she’s taking the lead, build the passion up instead of the aggression. One of the things that most guys do wrong is push their chances, and hurry through the process. Don’t be one of those guys who are so happy to be kissing a girl and getting a chance to cup her breast, that you forget to keep the passion alive *or realize that there’s a lot more to come!*.

Getting too aggressive or grabby could end your chances of touching your date’s breasts midway, and no one wants that.

When you’re making out and trying to figure out how to touch a girl’s breasts for the first time, all your attention should be on her pleasure and not just on yours. So however far you go, remember to keep the focus on her. Do that right, and you’ll be making out with her until the sun comes up.

[Read: How to kiss a girl for the first time and not screw up]

Work your kisses down her face

Kiss her gently at first and very tentatively, use tongue while kissing, but only if she seems comfortable with it. How can you tell she’s happy with where this is going? She starts using tongue too!

As you’re kissing, pull back gently now and then and kiss her earlobes and her chin, slowly moving your lips down towards her neck. The nape and the sides of a girl’s neck are extremely sensitive and arousing for almost all girls, unless they feel ticklish.

[Read: The 11 sexiest spots to kiss a girl and completely arouse her]

As tempting as it can seem, don’t get too close to her breasts or cleavage. You don’t want her to freeze up because it’s all happening too fast! Border your kisses around her neck and her shoulders occasionally, but remember to keep going back to her lips often. And when you’re kissing her, keep this in mind – Moist kisses are great, wet kisses aren’t.

A lingering cool reminder of where you kissed her feels nice, but it’s definitely not enjoyable if it feels all watery! Absolutely no ones likes a drooler while kissing.

[Read: 15 secrets to make your first kiss really memorable]

Playing with her hands to guide the pace of making out

When you’re making out with a girl, she’s obviously going to reciprocate your moves too. But if you follow these steps, there’s a very good chance she may just sit back and allow you to take the lead because she’s in a hze of horniness and enjoying all the things you’re doing to her.

If you ever feel like things are getting slow, or if both of you are getting extremely aggressive and her hands are all over the place and upsetting the pace, you can clasp her hand and kiss the inside of her elbows or her wrists. As surprising as it may seem, kissing the insides of her elbows can actually calm her down. At times, you don’t want the making out to seem like a one night stand or a one-time thing. Going too fast could even make her dislike it the next time because it would all have happened so suddenly.

Remember, when you’re trying to touch a woman’s breasts, it shouldn’t feel like an impulsive one night stand. It should feel real, and she should love everything you both are doing together! You’re making love to her, not using her to satiate your horniness.

[Read: How to make out with someone for the first time and do it really well]

Taking it beyond the kiss

In the first part of this guide on how to make out with a girl, you would have figured out how to kiss a woman and make out with her. Here, we’re going to take it to the next level on how to touch a girl’s breasts. But remember, we’re talking about making out with a girl, not banging her, so take it easy and play it slow. No woman likes to be treated like she’s an easy lay who’ll part her legs for you a couple of minutes after kissing her.

As you kiss her passionately, move your hands around her shoulders and down to the sides of her tummy, slowly and firmly. As you reach her waist, linger for a minute and slide your hand over her lower back and rest your hand.

Slip your hand under her shirt and run your hand on her bare back for a second, before moving your hand out of her shirt and placing it on her lower back again. Repeat it a couple of times while kissing each other, and linger a bit longer with each time.

Before you try to reach out and touch a girl’s breasts, you should make her feel comfortable with your touch and yet, not feel awkward at the same time.

[Read: How to get a girl to sleep with you – 15 crucial steps that count]

Learning to guide your hands

After running your hands across her lower back, bring your hands back to the sides of her waist. You can use these moves when you’re sitting next to her, standing, or even if the two of you are lying in bed.

As you kiss her, place one palm gently on her tummy, and feel your way around it. Don’t move your hands over her breasts just yet. Instead, place one hand back on her lower back and bring the other hand on her collar bone, just under her neck. She has to feel comfortable with your touch across her body. By hurrying this up, you’d just end up making her feel uncomfortable and used.

Resting one hand on her lower back, softly slide the hand you’ve placed on her collar bone down over her breasts, and bring it to rest just under her breast, without really lingering your hands over her breast for more than a second.

Hands in the shirt

Now remember, you’re doing all of this as you kiss her passionately. This should feel natural. If you find yourself getting distracted, don’t overdo it and try to hurry the pace. Take your time, even if you need a whole hour to get to this part!

You can’t make mistakes here. You don’t get second chances when you’re trying to touch a girl’s breasts, so it’s better to take it slow and enjoy every minute of making out, rather than speed up.

With one hand on her lower back, bring down the other hand from under her breast and place it on her belly near her midriff. A few minutes of kissing later, slip your hands under her tee shirt and place it over her belly. Don’t speed this up, or you may find her stiffening up with discomfort.

Bend down and kiss her neck and collar bone. And at the same time, move your hand smoothly and rather quickly higher up inside her shirt. Move your hands up until you touch her breast over her bra.

[Read: The art of making a girl horny and wet just by sitting next to her]

The hand where it matters

When you do this right, not only will she be comfortable with your touch, she’d also want more! Your hesitancy would make her impatient instead of wary. So follow these steps right, and she’d be wishing you’d do more, and faster too!

The second your hand touches her bra, bring your hand back to under her breast. She knows you’ve touched her breast and so do you. But you’re being gentlemanly enough to bring it back down because you felt “it was all too soon”. You’ve got to give her enough time to feel comfortable with the breast touch. You can’t linger on her breasts on the very first touch. Just like a first kiss, you have to warm her up to it.

Don’t take your hand out of her tee shirt, and don’t move it over her breast either. Let her feel comfortable with your hand under her breast. The very second you touched her breast for the first time, she knows where this is going and so do you. So there’s really no need to hurry.

After a few minutes of kissing and hand moving, gently move your hand over her bra. This time, place your hand over it and don’t remove it. Don’t move your hand or try to snoop around. Just place your hands on her breast and continue kissing her.

[Read: 20 sex god moves to attract and seduce women in style]

Taking the plunge and touching a girl’s breasts

If you’ve followed these steps perfectly, she’d understand where your hand wants to go and what you have in mind each time. And by simply placing your hand over her breast, you’re mentally preparing her for what you intend to do next. By doing this, you’re not surprising her and that would only make her feel more comfortable and secure with your hands over her body.

A minute or so after placing your hand over her bra, move your hand an inch or so upwards. Now you’re actually feeling up her breasts slowly, and you’re giving her the time to feel comfortable with it.

Move your hand around gently over her breasts and when both of you feel comfortable enough, move your hand upward to her bra strap and slip it down her shoulder. Don’t hurry any of these steps. Once you’ve slipped her bra strap off her shoulder, move your hand down gently. But this time, as your hands come down, don’t move your hand over the bra. Instead, slip your hand under the bra.

Place your hand over her breast gently and don’t do anything just yet. Remember, it’s about making her feel comfortable, and anticipate and enjoy your touch. You really should never initiate a move she won’t like.

And there you have it, the perfect way to touch a girl’s breasts the very first time you kiss her! If you repeat these steps exactly as I‘ve mentioned here, I assure you any girl is going to have a hard time resisting your charm and your super sexy hands when it runs all over her body.

Use these steps on how to touch a girl’s breasts and you’ll see that the world is a happy place, especially in love, sex and matters of seducing women in a way they’d absolutely love!

Want to know a few more things about seducing women and making them love it? Try these:

Nipple play – How to pleasure a girl and make her orgasm by focusing on her breasts

17 sexy foreplay moves that’ll get any girl hot and horny in no time

How to pleasure a woman – 16 moves that’ll turn a girl on every single time

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Vinod Srinivas Serai
Vin Serai
A proponent of chivalry and romance, Vin Serai sees himself as a gregarious gentleman with an active imagination, who still manages to spend more time living in...