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How to Tell if a Girl Likes You

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When you’re out with friends or at a party, do you ever get the feeling that some girl around you likes you? And what do you do about it? Find out how to tell if a girl likes you, and more importantly, what you should do at that very moment.

Knowing how to tell if a girl likes you isn’t always easy.

While guys are more vocal and obvious with their flirting moves, girls really aren’t.

The art of flirting with girls is riddled with insecurities and confusions. And the worst part, you can’t really tell if a girl likes you or not.

It’s definitely not an easy task to figure out if she likes you and is flirting back or just being herself, even if she’s got her hands all over you.

[Read: 10 biggest dating turn offs for women]

How to tell if a girl likes you

What if you’re just sitting back in your chair at a café, waiting to meet a friend when you catch a girl giving you one of those fleeting glances that vanish in a second?

You look towards her occasionally, and you find that she’s looking back now and then.

So does she want you to come over and talk, or is she just keeping herself busy by looking around?

How to tell if a girl likes you and wants you to make a move on her?

These fine tips should help you out when it comes to flirting games and girls who make the first move. And the best part, we’ll tell you the right thing to do at the right time.

She keeps glancing at you

If you’re hanging out at a club or at a café, and find a girl looking straight at you now and then, and hurriedly turning her face away each time you look her way, there’s definitely something in the air, and it could also be a crush. There’s a fair chance that you’ve got something funny stuck on your face, but if she blushes or looks away each time you try to catch her stare, then that’s just good fortune! [Read: What girls notice in guys]

What you should do

She may just be a tad too shy and coy, and may require a bit of coaxing to warm her up towards you. Instead of showing off your confidence by walking right up to her, give her some time. Smile and blush too, and make her feel warm and special inside.

A direct approach may just shock her and she may shrug you away without really wanting to. You can tell that this girl likes you, so why ruin the moment. You too can join in the game of “fleeting glances” for a while, and then make a move towards approaching her, when she’s ready for it.

She overdoes herself

Everyone has a little excited kid in themselves, even a girl who fancies you. Remember the time when you were a little boy and were eyeing a little girl? She would get all blushy and squirmy, and at any possible time when she can get to strut past you, she’d do that, tagging along her giggling friends.

Now that you’re a bigger boy and she’s a bigger, well endowed girl, you may think she’d behave different. But at times, her kiddie side may still kick in. If you’re at a restaurant or at a club, she may walk past you to get to the ladies room or to the exit, even if it’s the longer way around. And when she does that, she may even give you a shy smile that would probably melt your pounding heart.

What you should do

Look, if she wants to play kiddie games, show her that you too are a pro at that. If she can walk past you, why can’t you walk past her? Even before you know it, you may be doing a little courtship dance like the lovebirds they show on Animal Planet, which can get giddily exciting.

The best way to approach women in these situations is by using the opportunities to make the move. If she’s standing at the ice cream counter, you too can walk up next to her for an ice cream, can’t you? Out of the blue, you could just suggest a flavor to her, and you know what’s going to happen next, a long conversation! Or if you’re at a club, you could just say, “I heard this club serves the best wasabi mojitos.”

[Read: What to talk about on a first date with a girl]

It doesn’t matter what you say, just as long as you say something. If she’s giving away a few signs, then you can tell if a girl likes you. Really, you know she’s waiting to talk to you too.

She’s excited to talk to you

Now, if you’re already on talking terms with this girl and you bump into her someplace, like a café or even in your office lobby, is she excited to talk to you? Here, ‘excited’ doesn’t mean a “Hi” with a smile, we’re talking a big smile, and a sparkle in her eyes that just light up her face. It’s involuntary, but when a girl’s happy to see you, it shows.

How to tell if she likes you? Well, if she really likes you, you may find that she’s standing a wee bit too close into your comfort zone, which is a great sign if you like her back. [Read: How to touch a girl and make her love it!]

What you should do

So how are the conversations both of you share? Is she happy to have bumped into you, and wants to keep talking, adding an occasional flirty giggle now and then? Obviously, you’d know if she’s behaving in more than just a friendly manner, so make the best use of that.

Tell her how happy you are to see her, and the best thing you can do about these chance meetings is, ask her out on a date! Just tell her you love talking to her and want to do it again, and that you would love to meet her off campus or off office hours where there are no distractions. In fact, tell her you’d really really want to see her again! [Read: Best places to go on a first date]

Ask her if she could meet you for coffee in the evening, or the next day. A coffee can soon turn into a romantic candlelight dinner!

Do you know now how to tell if a girl likes you? Well, we’ve just scratched the surface here. Click here to read about the signs that a girl likes you, and the exact thing you should do to impress her in a single move.

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11 thoughts on “How to Tell if a Girl Likes You”

  1. nick bellman says:

    So is it a good sign a girl likes you and you get her number and the last couple times you’ve seen her she has given you a hug and takes time to talk to you

  2. Sarvesh says:

    Well I have a friend of mine, we met about couple of years ago, eventually we became very frank and started flirting. Till a few weeks back we were like you know share talk anything and we both were very happy talking to each other. I could see a big smile on her face every time we talk. We were playing truth and dare so since we already flirted we were talking about bf and gf so she told that she broke up with his bf and suddenly she asked do you like me I said I kinda do and she texted blushing smiley and ya Now I remember evert time she used blushed smiley and then I asked same question so she said I do but as a friend. Which I kinda expected but then what shocked me was when I just went through all the messages and she used to tell me some things as flirt but she never said tried to tell I don’t mean such things even in a dare I proposed her just for dare sake and her yes was like yeessssssss yesssssss…I just ignored it and yet she just said jokingly while flirting I love you and you are the best boyfriend ever and then suddenly texted laughing smileys of whatsapp and then said this is the biggest lie I have ever said…another instance was when she asked what relation you want with me in next birth..I said wife at first obviously I was joking then she said no bit wife then I said okay gf she said okay done. I mean is she giving me signs an I’m not picking them or what ?
    Okay guys as y’all think I should propose her or kiss her surprisingly but there is a small thing i haven’t seen her in few months as she is on a hostel for higher studies. So we don’t talk that much for now cause we both are kinda busy in our own worlds so yet y’all think I should propose ?
    Guys I just asked her whether she has crush on me or not and she simply said no and asked me why? Then I explained her that on yahoo this happened I may have lied abit that you all suggested me to ask her but she said no nothing like that then I said I know I’m an idiot and I don’t understand even if something like that exist between us if at all she said I know. Then after chatting more I asked do you think I can get a girl so she replied yea for sure and used blush smilies and I said you sure she said trust me ! So I don’t understand what the hell is she doing ?
    I’m getting uneasy you know cause I really feel a connection something between us cause I don’t have to pretend I talk frankly and she tells she likes when I tell her my problems and all she always tell me to keep sharing although she just shares a less. What you guys think ?

  3. European guy says:

    I was was walking at the beginning of a street. Then I saw a woman further on my side of the street. To walk at the end of the street I must pass her, you can imagine??? is hard to tell in words.

    but anyway, when I kind of approached her.. she turned away so that I can see her back. So was looking at her back for like 30 SECONDS

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