14 Signs a Woman Is Attracted to You Sexually & How to Read Them

signs a woman is attracted to you

You may be bummed out, thinking no woman is interested but what if you’re just not paying attention to the signs a woman is attracted to you sexually?

There probably have been hundreds of time where you saw an attractive girl at school, the club, or on the street and though you could have approached her, you got cold feet. You thought she wouldn’t be into you or she’d reject you before you even said hi. But did you notice that she stared at you? Did you notice the small smile she gave when you walked by? You probably didn’t think that those were signs a woman is attracted to you sexually, but they were. [Read: How to tell if there’s no chemistry and you need to move on]

How to read the signs a woman is attracted to you sexually

See? See how the smallest sign matters? Women are more likely to be low key and subtle when showing signs of interest compared to men. Men usually approach a woman rather than the other way around. So, she lets out subtle signs in order to show you it’s okay. Yes, you can approach her.

In fact, that’s what she’s wanted you to do this entire time. But, what are the signs a woman is attracted to you sexually? I’m going to show you now. They may be subtle signs, but they’re there.

#1 Eye contact. It’s not always true that looking at someone automatically means they’re interested in you. I mean, it could be you look at them because it’s normal social behavior. However, if a woman is interested in you then you receive prolonged eye contact from her. Which means she stares at you just a little longer than usual. If she’s not into you, she avoids looking at you. [Read: Prolonged eye contact – What it means and how to do it right]

#2 Preening. If she’s into you, she wants to look her best around you. So, she spends some time getting herself prepped and pretty. Plus, she’s nervous so that also causes her to preen herself. She’ll fix her hair, make sure her lipstick is on point and that her shirt isn’t wrinkled. These are small, yet powerful acts. [Read: 20 signs of attraction in the first conversation]

#3 She sits close to you. Unless she absolutely must sit close to you, but if she doesn’t and she’s in your personal space, it’s a sign. If there’s plenty of room, yet, she squishes herself next to you, she’s into you. If she wasn’t into you, you would never have the chance to touch her.

#4 She laughs at your jokes. You may not be a comedian, but she finds whatever you say hilarious. One of the best signs to pay attention to is if she laughs at your jokes. Women love a man who makes them laugh, but your jokes probably aren’t even that funny. Why is she laughing? Because she likes you, that’s why. If she laughs, she’s enjoying your company.

#5 She’s all about her neck and mouth. Who thought she’d be into herself in order to get your attention? Well, it’s true. If she touches her neck, mouth, and lips, this is called autoerotic touching. What this means is that she touches herself in places she’d like someone to touch.

This strong message probably arouses you as well. I mean, if you like her, and she licks her lips, how can you not be aroused?

#6 She touches you. Now, here’s the thing. If we aren’t attracted to you, we’re not going to touch you. It’s that simple. But if she finds a way to touch you playfully when she laughs, tries to hug you, touches your hair or hands, well, she wants to get closer to you. She works her magic with her powers of seduction. [Read: 20 types of physical touch and what it all means]

#7 She mirrors you. I know this sounds a little too pantomime, but it’s true. People attracted to others mirror the other person’s actions. So, if you grab your cup of coffee to take a sip, she does the same. We do this subconsciously because people like people who act similar to them. So, mirroring is essential.

#8 She asks you personal questions. It’s easy. If we don’t like you, we don’t care about your personal life. But if we’re into you, we want to know everything. What you do on the weekends, where you go out, who your friends are, we want to know you. By asking you questions, we build a bond with you, adding emotions to the relationship.

#9 She starts the conversation. Unless you notice she only talks to you when she needs you, then, that’s different. But if she goes out of her way to start a conversation with you, she’s most likely attracted to you. Women attracted to men go out of their way to initiate conversation. [Read: 15 signs she’s leading you on and taking you nowhere]

#10 She talks about her sexuality. She won’t discuss this with guys she’s not interested in, but with you, she has no problem opening yourself up. If she opens up and expresses her sexual desires and fantasies with you, it shows that she’s comfortable starting a sexual conversation with you. This is a hint she’s into you if you didn’t get it by now.

#11 She wants to hang out with you. There is no way a woman wastes her weekend with a guy she’s not into. No way. If she likes you, she spends every hour of the day with you, but if not, you never see her. So, if she wants to hang out with you, it’s obvious that she’s interested in you. If you like her, don’t let this opportunity slip.

#12 She puts effort into her appearance. Some women have a face full of makeup all the time while other women only wear makeup for special occasions. But you may be able to notice if she puts in more effort in her appearance when you’re around. Maybe the clothing she wears is sexier or she wears heels around you. Pay attention to these small changes.

#13 She invites you over. Now, this doesn’t mean you get laid and this shouldn’t be your assumption. But her inviting you over is a sign that she’s allowing you into her intimate space. This doesn’t mean you should make a move, but this is the opportunity where you speak more openly and relaxed with her. [Read: 10 sneaky ways to build sexual attraction with someone you like]

#14 She makes a move. Now, if she goes in for a kiss or takes her clothes off in front of you, that’s a very solid sign she’s interested in you sexually. I mean, you can’t really get more obvious than this. She’s now taking matters into her own hands. No more waiting for you to do something.

[Read: 13 lusty signs of sexual attraction to keep your eye on]

Now that you know the signs a woman is attracted to you sexually, start paying close attention to the women around you. Maybe they’re interested, but you had no idea.

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Natasha Ivanovic
Natasha Ivanovic
A serial dater, Natasha Ivanovic knows a thing or two about men and the dating scene. Much of her writing is inspired by her encounters with men - and for good ...
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