12 Signs She Wants You to Notice Her & Get More Intimate with Her

signs she wants you to notice her

You have a big crush on a girl. Obviously, you want her to reciprocate. Maybe she does, but you’re clueless to the signs she wants you to notice her.

You may really like a girl, but you don’t know how she feels about you. She may be acting a certain way, but you’re unsure if that’s just her or if she’s putting on some sort of act in front of you. Regardless, it’s always good to clear this up in your head. That way, you know her intentions and you can then figure out what you’re going to do *if anything*. If you’re not 100% sure, here are some important signs she wants you to notice her.

How to tell the signs she wants you to notice her

There have been so many times where I liked a guy and I wanted him to notice me so badly. I would literally do everything I could to get his attention and used all the tricks in the book. Mind you, I was pretty inexperienced at the time, so my tricks were pretty limited. But the point is, I put in way more effort than needed to get his attention.

It turned out in the end, he liked me too. He was simply scared to do anything, because he wasn’t sure how I felt about him. I thought I had made it pretty clear. And if you’re not paying attention, you’ll miss the signs she wants you to notice her too. [Read: The 17 signs she’s clearly interested in you already]

#1 She’s just always there. She manages to always be around you in some shape or form. Maybe she doesn’t know you, but she seems to never be far away. Now, this doesn’t mean she’s into you, maybe she has the same classes or work break as you, but is she looking at you? If so, she’s trying to make you notice her. [Read: Subtle signs a shy girl is crushing on you]

#2 Eye contact. Listen, women will not subject ourselves to prolonged eye contact unless we’re either a) indicating we need help or b) showing you that we like you. You have literally two options to choose from. Okay, you also have the option that you’re doing something that she finds unusual, hence why she’s staring at you, but let’s ignore that.

If she’s looking at you, really looking at you, then that’s a sign that she may be trying to get your attention. Try to smile back and see what happens. [Read: Subtle eye contact flirting moves to try]

#3 She actually spends time with you. At the end of the day, everyone has time to see someone. It just depends on whether or not they actually want to see them. You have girls that will tell you how busy they are and they don’t have time, however, it’s bullshit. If she is taking the time to see you and hang out with you, it’s probably because she’s attracted to you. [Read: 16 signs a woman is attracted to you and wants you to make a move]

#4 She amps up her style. If you’re used to seeing her wearing sweatpants every day, but recently, she’s been wearing makeup and dressing a little nicer, it could be because of you. But you’ll have to look closely at this one because it could also be that she met someone else. However, if you just met her and now she’s spending more time on her appearance, she wants you to notice her.

#5 She’s touchy. We don’t touch people that we’re not interested in. Now, this doesn’t mean she wants to be with you, she may be flirty with you and not have the intention of acting upon it. But she’s feeling something for you. If you’re looking for really obvious signs she wants you to notice her, you need to keep in mind that physical contact is a huge sign of someone being attracted to you. If she doesn’t come close to you, then she’s not into you.

#6 Playing with her hair. I know this sounds a little lame and girly, but believe me, even I play with my hair in front of a guy I like. I don’t even know why I do it, it’s just an automatic move. But this is basically the equivalent to your leg shaking when you’re nervous. It’s completely subconscious and shows that they’re nervous. [Read: 14 signs a woman is attracted to you sexually and how to read each of them]

#7 She shows it through body language. If there’s one thing that doesn’t lie, it’s body language. Non-verbal communication is a huge indicator of whether or not a woman is trying to get your attention. If she is, she’ll open herself up more towards you, move her hair out of her face, exposing her neck or legs, caress her body while talking to you. These things are meant to get your eyes on her.

#8 She’s energetic. When she’s around you, she’s ready for anything. Skydiving? Sure. Go for a run? She has her runners in the car. She wants you to notice her as an option for a partner. Her energy levels will be right up there with you, regardless what you want to do. By focusing her energy on you, she wants you to notice her. [Read: 20 signs of attraction in a conversation]

#9 She talks to you. But not just a “hey” or “what’s up” every now and then. Whether you’re in a social place like a bar or if you’re at work, she takes the time to really talk to you. Sure, if she’s a little reserved and only answers with one word, then, maybe she’s not someone you should focus on. But if she’s responding and engaging with you in conversation, she wants you to notice her.

#10 The way she dances. So, maybe you’re at the bar and you see her dancing. Every woman can dance, it doesn’t mean she likes you. But if she wants you to notice her, she may look at you while she’s dancing and then ignore you for a couple minutes, and then look at you again, waiting for you to connect through eye contact.

#11 She doesn’t want other women around you. She wants you to notice her, right? So why would she want other women around you? Exactly. If she could have it her way, there wouldn’t be a woman within 50 feet of you at any given time. You may catch her talking about some other girl in a negative way, warning you about them. But this is because she wants your eyes on her. [Read: The right way to make your move when you know a girl likes you]

#12 She finds a way to talk to you. If there’s a will, there’s a way. She’s trying every trick in the book to contact you. She needs to borrow your notes from class, her car broke down and she needs a ride, she needs to ask you a question for work.

Whatever it is, she’s always finding a reason to start a conversation with you. And the conversation doesn’t end with you answering her question, she continues it and talks to you about other things that aren’t related.

[Read: 15 body language cues a girl gives away if she actually likes you]

See, the signs she wants you to notice her are there. All you need to do is pay attention. So… does she want your attention?

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Natasha Ivanovic
Natasha Ivanovic
A serial dater, Natasha Ivanovic knows a thing or two about men and the dating scene. Much of her writing is inspired by her encounters with men - and for good ...
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