250 Dirty Things to Say to a Girl to Make Her Horny & Dirty Talk Mistakes to Avoid

Let’s be honest, there’s a huge difference between blurting “I want to f*ck you” and whispering something so deliciously filthy, it makes her lose her breath and bite her lip in anticipation. Mastering dirty talk, and the perfect dirty things to say to a girl can hit deeper than just skin.

It taps into her imagination, sparks arousal before you’ve even laid a finger on her, and makes everything feel more intense, more intimate, and way more orgasmic.

So if you’ve ever fumbled through the same few dirty phrases in bed, or worse, said something that killed the mood faster than a wrong name, this guide is your golden ticket.

And don’t worry if you’re new to this or feel a little awkward. The sexiest dirty talk isn’t just about what you say, it’s about how tuned in you are to her desires, her fantasies, and the things that make her melt.

Also, according to Lehmiller’s research on fantasies, over 90% of women have recurring sexual fantasies involving dominance, praise, or taboo scenarios, and many of them love when their partner brings those fantasies to life through words.

📚 Source: Lehmiller, J. (2018), The Psychology of Human Sexuality

And the truth is, dirty talk isn’t just hot. It’s neurologically engineered foreplay. It shows confidence, makes her feel deeply wanted, and allows both of you to explore new territory, without even leaving the bed.

How to Talk Dirty to a Girl

If your girlfriend or wife tells you that she likes the idea of talking dirty, that’s great news! After all, now you can actually blurt out those perverse thoughts that run through your mind when you’re banging your woman, and turn her on at the same time.

But before you go saying everything that comes to mind, you need to realize that the dirty thoughts in your mind may have existed for a long time, but your girlfriend has no idea about it!

Take it easy, and always start slow. Paw your way around dirty talking like a cat stealthily walking through new grounds.

Say something tame and easy to start with, and work your way up as the days pass if both of you enjoy talking dirty and fantasizing while having sex.

Over time, both of you will get hornier, bolder, and the fantasies too will start to get wilder. But if you say something too perverse too soon, she may just want to duct-tape your mouth while having sex for the rest of your life. [Read: Freaky sex – How it works, 48 signs and sexy ways to be a freak in bed]

Want to start with sexting?

If sexting is what you’re looking for, and not just things to whisper in her ear, here are several perfect guides to leave her weak in her knees just reading your texts!

All the Dirty Things to Say to a Girl to Make Her Want You Bad

If you’re looking for a way to make your woman horny as hell, we have what you need. These are all the dirty things to say to a girl that’ll make her wet and begging for you to satisfy her. [Read: What do women want in a man – 41 traits that make a guy very desirable]

Romantic + Sensual Dirty Talk Lines to Say to a Girl

These aren’t just about getting her hot, they’re about making her feel craved, cherished, and fully wanted. Perfect for when you want the mood to be passionate rather than purely filthy.

[Read: 30 ways to please a woman and get her addicted sexually and emotionally]

1. “I love the way your skin feels against mine. I could stay like this forever.”

2. “The way you look at me when you’re turned on? It ruins me.”

3. “Every time I kiss you, I forget where I am.”

4. “I want to explore every inch of you, like I’m discovering you for the first time.”

5. “I don’t just want your body tonight. I want your mind, your breath, your everything.”

6. “When you’re in my arms, everything else fades.”

7. “Your moans are my favorite sound in the world.”

8. “I want to kiss you so slowly you forget what day it is.”

9. “I want to undress you like you’re my favorite secret.”

10. “You smell like something I never want to stop craving.”

11. “Just being this close to you makes me hard.”

12. “You’re so damn beautiful when you’re turned on.”

13. “The way you gasp when I touch you there? Say my name again.”

14. “You’re not just sexy. You’re breathtaking. And right now, I want to lose myself in you.”

15. “I want to hold you down and kiss every place that makes you weak.”

16. “Slow or rough, I want it to feel like a love letter written on your body.”

17. “You don’t know what you do to me when you bite your lip like that.”

18. “I want to make you cum just by whispering what I want to do to you.”

19. “Every time I look at you, I think about how lucky I am to touch you.”

20. “Tonight, it’s just me and you, no rush, no rules. Just hours of you and pleasure.”

[Read: How to initiate sex and 25 seductive ways to take the lead in bed]

21. “You make me want to cancel all my plans and spend the night between your thighs.”

22. “Every inch of your body tells me a story I want to hear again and again.”

23. “Your body was made to be worshipped, and tonight, I’m your most devoted follower.”

24. “I want to kiss your shoulder, your neck, your spine… until you’re begging me to go lower.”

25. “I’ve never wanted anyone the way I want you when you’re lying next to me like this.”

26. “I don’t want fast or rough. I want slow, deep, and unforgettable.”

27. “Your touch stays on my skin long after you’ve pulled away.”

28. “Looking at you like this? I want to take my time and make you melt.”

29. “Let me hold your hips while I kiss you like you’re the only thing I’ve ever needed.”

30. “I want to wake up with your taste on my lips.”

31. “You feel like home. And tonight, I’m staying in.”

32. “I want to trace your curves with my mouth like I’m learning them by heart.”

[Read: Sexy Words: 23 Seductive Words, Dos & Don’ts to Make Dirty Talk Sound Erotic]

33. “You make my whole body ache in the best way.”

34. “You’re the fantasy I never want to stop replaying.”

35. “I want to whisper everything I love about you into your neck while I make you shake.”

36. “You undo me, every time. And I don’t want you to stop.”

37. “There’s nowhere I’d rather be than between your legs, listening to your breath catch.”

38. “You’re the sweetest thing I’ve ever tasted, and I need another bite.”

39. “Let me show you just how slowly I can make you fall apart.”

40. “I don’t need music tonight. I just want to hear your moans.”

[Read: 25 sexy text messages to initiate a dirty conversation with anyone]

When you want to take charge, get rougher, and bring out her submissive side, these lines are designed to excite without overstepping. They work best when you’ve built trust and she’s turned on by surrendering control.

41. “Get on the bed. Now. Hands above your head.”

42. “You’re not going anywhere until I say so.”

43. “You’re mine tonight. I make the rules.”

44. “Say you’re my good girl. Louder.”

45. “Open your legs for me. Wider.”

46. “I want to hear you beg for it.”

47. “You don’t get to come until I say you can.”

48. “On your knees. Show me how much you want it.”

49. “If you keep teasing me like that, I’ll have to punish you.”

50. “Turn around. I want to take you from behind while you look at yourself in the mirror.”

51. “You’ve been such a dirty little thing. And now I’m going to make you pay for it.”

52. “Do exactly as I say, and maybe I’ll let you finish.”

53. “Lie down. Hands tied. You’re not moving until I’m done with you.”

54. “Tell me who owns you tonight.”

55. “You’re so wet, and I haven’t even really started yet.”

56. “That moan? That belongs to me. Keep making it.”

57. “I want to watch your body give in to me. Inch by inch.”

58. “Good girls get rewarded. Bad girls get flipped over.”

59. “I don’t need to touch you yet. I can get you off with my words alone.”

60. “You’re going to take all of me. And you’re going to love every second of it.”

[Read: 72 Dirty, Sexy Texts + Secrets to Make a Girl Wet & Horny in a Subtle Way]

Praise Kink Dirty Talk Lines to Say to a Girl

When she loves being admired, worshipped, and told how irresistible she is, this is your lane. Praise kink isn’t just about compliments. It’s about making her feel like the sexiest, most powerful thing you’ve ever laid eyes (or hands) on.

61. “You’re so f*cking good at this. Do you even know what you do to me?”

62. “You make everything feel better. I’m addicted to you.”

63. “You’re the best I’ve ever had. No one even comes close.”

64. “You look like sin wrapped in lace.”

65. “Your body is a goddamn masterpiece. I could stare at you all night.”

66. “No one makes me lose control the way you do.”

67. “You’re so hot when you’re needy for me.”

[Read: Emoji Sexting: 30 Fun Emojis to Make Any Text Seem Extra Flirty & Naughty!]

68. “That little noise you just made? Cutest, sexiest thing I’ve ever heard.”

69. “You don’t even have to try, and I’m already hard.”

70. “Every time I touch you, it feels like I’m winning the lottery.”

71. “You’re everything I want. And then some.”

72. “You’re so sexy when you take charge.”

73. “Look at you, all spread out and perfect for me.”

74. “You taste better than I ever imagined.”

75. “You’re such a good girl for me, and I love watching you lose yourself.”

76. “You ride me like you were born to do it.”

77. “I can never get enough of you. You ruin me in the best way.”

78. “I wish you could see yourself the way I see you right now. You’re unreal.”

79. “You have no idea how hot you look when you’re falling apart under me.”

80. “You don’t even need to move. Just lie there and let me worship you.”

Poetic + Sensory Seduction Dirty Talk Lines to Say to a Girl

These lines are for when you want your words to linger like fingertips on her skin. Think: imagery, detail, and depth. Less vulgar, more hypnotic.

81. “You feel like velvet and taste like a dream I never want to wake from.”

82. “Every time I touch you, it’s like writing poetry with my hands.”

83. “You’re my favorite place to be lost in.”

84. “I want to kiss you slowly enough to memorize the shape of your sighs.”

85. “You melt against me like your body knows I belong there.”

86. “Your skin is a map, and I plan to trace every line until I know it by heart.”

87. “Every moan you make sounds like a symphony meant only for me.”

88. “I want to devour you gently, until you forget everything but my name.”

89. “The way your breath hitches when I tease you? That’s my new favorite addiction.”

90. “Being inside you feels like coming home in the rain, warm, wild, and absolutely right.”

91. “I could write novels about the way you taste.”

92. “I don’t want to f*ck you, I want to consume you, one gasp at a time.”

93. “You move like temptation dressed in skin.”

[Read: How to Dirty Talk: 36 Sexy Tips & 55 Examples to Turn Anyone On with Words]

94. “I want your body trembling from the sound of my voice alone.”

95. “Touching you is like lighting a fuse, I can feel you spark.”

96. “You’re not just beautiful. You’re mythic.”

97. “Let me sink into your softness and make time disappear.”

98. “Every inch of you is a verse I want to learn by heart.”

99. “You taste like sin and feel like salvation.”

100. “Tonight, I want to speak to your soul, with my hands, my lips, and everything in between.”

[Read: 90 Sexy & Dirty Would You Rather Questions to Make Anyone Horny AF]

Teasing + Flirty Dirty Talk Lines to Say to a Girl

These are playful, cheeky, and suggestive, the kind of dirty talk that builds anticipation, makes her laugh, and turns her on before you’ve even touched her.

101. “You keep looking at me like that and I’ll have to misbehave.”

102. “Is that outfit for me or do I just get really lucky today?”

103. “Careful, baby. Keep tempting me and we won’t make it to dinner.”

104. “You really want me to keep my hands to myself right now?”

105. “If you sit on my lap right now, you’re not getting up anytime soon.”

106. “The way you’re biting your lip is going to get you in trouble.”

107. “You know you’re making it really hard for me to be good, right?”

108. “Keep teasing me like that and I’ll have to take you somewhere private.”

109. “You’re dangerously close to being kissed within an inch of your life.”

110. “Tell me what you’re thinking. Or better yet, show me.”

111. “Every time you laugh, I want to pin you against a wall.”

112. “You wearing that perfume should be illegal, it’s not safe for my self-control.”

113. “I dare you to whisper something dirty in my ear right now.”

114. “Your bed or mine? Actually… both.”

[Read: How to Talk About Sex Without Sounding Like a Pervert]

115. “Let’s skip the movie and create our own heat, yeah?”

116. “You’re not getting any sleep tonight. Just a heads-up.”

117. “If I told you what I want to do to you right now, you’d blush for days.”

118. “You look too good to behave around.”

119. “Keep talking like that and I’ll have no choice but to make you moan instead.”

120. “You’re not even trying, and I’m already hard for you. What are you going to do about it?”

121. “We’re not making it past the front door, just so you know.”

122. “I can’t wait to see how long you last once I finally touch you.”

123. “You’re trouble in heels. And I love it.”

124. “How are you this hot and still pretending like you don’t know it?”

125. “I bet you taste even better than you look.”

126. “You keep this up, and I’m going to have to kiss every inch of you in the elevator.”

127. “I’m already undressing you with my eyes. Want me to use my hands too?”

128. “You’re the reason I keep thinking inappropriate thoughts in public.”

129. “Careful where you touch me, you might start something you can’t stop.”

130. “You really think I’m going to behave with you looking like that?”

Mental + Fantasy Seduction Dirty Talk Lines to Say to a Girl

These lines are pure psychological foreplay. They’re imaginative, scenario-driven, and designed to make her crave what comes next, without even needing to touch her.

131. “Close your eyes. I want you to picture me pinning you down in the shower. Can you feel the water and my hands on your hips?”

132. “If we were alone on a balcony right now, I’d have you pressed up against the glass.”

133. “I want to tie your wrists and kiss you until you forget your own name.”

134. “You ever think about what I’d do if I woke up with you straddling me? Because I do.”

135. “Imagine me pulling you into the dressing room and locking the door behind us.”

136. “I want to sneak into your office during lunch and slide my hands under your desk.”

137. “If we were stranded on an island, I’d still find a way to make you scream my name.”

138. “I’ve had a fantasy about bending you over the kitchen counter while something’s cooking.”

139. “Ever thought about us in the backseat of a car, windows fogged, hands everywhere?”

140. “If I had you right now, I’d start with your ankles and work my way up… slowly.”

141. “What if I blindfolded you and made you guess what part of me is touching you next?”

142. “Picture me whispering all the things I’m going to do to you… while we’re sitting across from your friends.”

143. “Imagine being on your knees, eyes locked with mine, while I tell you exactly what I want.”

144. “I want to watch you touch yourself while I sit back and tell you how beautiful you look.”

145. “Next time we’re alone, I’m going to whisper a fantasy in your ear and make it come true.”

146. “What would you do if I told you not to wear panties tonight, and didn’t let you touch me until we got home?”

147. “What if I told you to bend over a chair and wait for me in nothing but heels?”

148. “Sometimes I imagine us getting caught. Not stopping. Just locking eyes and going harder.”

149. “Ever fantasize about being tied up and teased until you’re begging for it?”

150. “If I gave you one command right now, no matter how filthy, would you follow it?”

151. “I want to kiss you while your hands are tied and your thighs are trembling.”

152. “Ever thought about me watching while you please yourself? I’d guide every second.”

153. “I want to take you somewhere no one else has ever touched, mentally and physically.”

154. “What if I told you I want to be the star of your dirtiest daydreams?”

155. “I want you to think about me every time you close your eyes tonight. Every. Single. Time.”

156. “Let’s make a new memory you’ll replay every time you’re alone.”

157. “Next time you’re in the shower, I want you to imagine me behind you… whispering everything I’m about to do.”

158. “I don’t want to just turn you on, I want to live inside your fantasy.”

159. “I want to tease your mind so much that your body begs me to catch up.”

160. “Tell me the filthiest thing you’ve ever wanted someone to do to you, and let me make it real.”

Slightly Taboo + Roleplay-Inspired Dirty Talk Lines to Say to a Girl

These lines flirt with edge and power play, tapping into fantasy roles, secret desires, and bold scenarios, with a strong foundation of mutual consent and trust.

161. “Be a good girl and take everything I give you.”

162. “I love when you pretend to be innocent, makes it more fun to corrupt you.”

163. “Let’s play a little game. You misbehave, and I punish you, with pleasure.”

164. “I want to spank you until you’re moaning my name.”

165. “You’re my little secret. No one else gets to see you like this.”

166. “You don’t get to touch me until you’ve earned it.”

167. “Tonight, I want you on your knees, begging for permission.”

168. “I love how dirty you get for me when no one else is watching.”

169. “What if I took you while you were still dressed, like I couldn’t wait another second?”

170. “Say please like a good little slut, and maybe I’ll give you what you want.”

171. “You look so innocent, but I know what a filthy mind you have.”

172. “I want to make you blush with the things I whisper in your ear.”

173. “Play along. You’re the student, I’m the teacher. And you’ve been very, very bad.”

174. “I want you to act like you don’t want it, but make sure I know you do.”

175. “Let’s pretend we’re strangers meeting in a hotel. No names. Just lust.”

176. “You have five minutes to get undressed and kneel. Time starts now.”

177. “You’re under my control tonight. Every move you make belongs to me.”

178. “No talking. No thinking. Just obey.”

179. “What if I made you keep quiet while I made you fall apart?”

180. “I want to edge you until you forget how to speak.”

181. “Let’s pretend we’re in public and can’t get caught. Think you can stay quiet?”

182. “You’re my toy for the night. And toys don’t get to decide what happens.”

183. “I want to tie you up, blindfold you, and give you orders with my mouth on your skin.”

184. “Imagine I’ve locked the door. You can scream all you want, but no one’s coming.”

185. “You like when I’m rough with you, don’t you?”

186. “Don’t move. Don’t breathe. Just let me take what’s mine.”

187. “I want to hear you say you’re mine. Again. Louder.”

188. “I want to make you lose control while you pretend to resist.”

189. “Let’s play truth or dare, with no truths, and very dirty dares.”

190. “Tonight, you’re not my girlfriend, you’re my little plaything.”

Public Risk + Sexting Vibes Dirty Talk Lines to Say to a Girl

These lines are for when you’re not alone, and that’s exactly the point. Think whispered threats in her ear at a party, sexts she opens under the table, or things you say when she’s across the room but fully aware of your stare.

191. “If you keep touching me under this table, I’m not going to be able to stay quiet.”

192. “You’re wearing those panties I like, aren’t you? Don’t answer. Just know I’m thinking about them.”

193. “When I look at you like this in public, it means I’m picturing you on your knees.”

194. “What if I pulled you into the bathroom right now and made you beg to come?”

195. “I want you to imagine my hands between your thighs while we’re smiling at everyone else.”

196. “Next time we’re in the elevator alone, I’m going to press you against the wall and slide my hand under your skirt.”

197. “You better not be wearing anything under that dress.”

198. “I don’t care if we’re in a room full of people, I can still make you blush from across the room.”

199. “Your phone’s going to buzz in five seconds. And when you see what I sent, try not to bite your lip too hard.”

200. “What if I told you to come find me in the back room, and leave your panties behind?”

201. “I can’t wait to taste you later. But for now, I’ll settle for the way you’re looking at me.”

202. “I want you to touch yourself tonight and send me one voice note. Just one.”

203. “I just saw you read my text. Now I want to see you react to it.”

204. “I’ll be thinking about how wet you’re getting while we sit through this dinner.”

205. “I dare you to excuse yourself for five minutes and text me exactly what you’d want me to do to you.”

206. “You know the risk of wearing that outfit near me, don’t you?”

207. “I’m not going to stop staring until you’re squirming.”

208. “I want to tell you what I’m going to do to you later, over text, one word at a time.”

209. “Let’s make tonight’s dinner a countdown. Every hour, one more piece of you comes off.”

210. “When you read this message, I want you to excuse yourself, go to the restroom, and take one picture just for me.”

Bonus: Wildcard Kinky Dirty Talk Lines to Say to a Girl

These are for when you’re fully in sync, the chemistry is peaking, and you both want to get a little filthy and fearless.

211. “You’re going to choke on how much I want you.”

212. “You’re not allowed to cum until I say. And I’m not saying it anytime soon.”

213. “Crawl to me. Just like that. Keep your eyes on me.”

214. “You’ve got ten seconds to strip for me. Nine…”

215. “I’m going to tie you up, use you, and make you thank me for it.”

216. “You’re going to forget your own name when I’m done with you.”

217. “Lick your fingers. Now pretend they’re mine.”

218. “You won’t be able to sit tomorrow, and you’ll love me for it.”

219. “I want you dripping for me before I even touch you.”

220. “If I tell you to spread your legs and hold still, will you be my good girl?”

221. “Let me ruin your lipstick, and then ruin your body.”

222. “I want to push you against the wall and leave fingerprints where only I can see.”

223. “You don’t get to come. You get to beg.”

224. “Don’t worry, baby. I’ll use my mouth until you forget how to speak.”

225. “The mess you’re about to make on my sheets? That’s my favorite part.”

226. “I want to be the reason you can’t stop blushing tomorrow.”

227. “Sit. Stay. Obey. Good girl.”

228. “Tell me what you want me to do… then watch as I do it even better.”

229. “You’re going to scream into the pillow, and I’m still not going to stop.”

230. “Let me mark you tonight so you remember who made you feel this way.”

Dirty talk might be thrilling, but the sexiest thing you can ever do? Make sure she’s just as into it as you are. Here’s how to keep things hot and respectful.

Before we continue with the steamy stuff, let’s quickly break down why dirty talk works so insanely well on the female brain.

[Read: How to dirty talk – 36 sexy tips and 55 examples to turn anyone on with words]

Why Dirty Talk Works (According to Science, and a Few Wildly Good Nights)

Here’s the thing: for a lot of women, arousal doesn’t start with visuals. It starts with imagination.

Unlike men, whose brains are often stimulated by direct visual cues, many women rely more on narrative, context, anticipation, and emotional immersion during sex. Which is exactly why dirty talk works like an erotic movie trailer for her mind.

Studies in sexual psychology have shown that verbal stimulation activates brain regions tied to arousal, fantasy, and memory. When you paint a picture with your words, what you want to do to her, how she sounds, how she tastes, you’re essentially creating a private movie just for her.

📚 Source: Janssen & Everaerd, 2002, The Role of Imagination in Sexual Arousal

Now that we’ve got that covered, let’s get into the real reason you’re here.

Men Are Visual, Women Are Better at Imagination

If sex has started to feel a little… rinse and repeat, you’re not alone. A lot of couples hit that phase where the physical stuff still works, but the mental spark? Not so much. And when the only dirty phrase you can think of is “You like that, don’t you?”, it’s time to level up.

Here’s something a lot of guys don’t realize: what turns you on isn’t always what turns her on.

Visuals, like sexy outfits, porn, or that split-second when she bends over to grab her phone, might flip the switch for you in a heartbeat. But for many women, the route to getting wildly turned on is far more internal. It starts in her mind. Her imagination. Her senses.

That’s why calling her a “bad girl” might work the first few times, but if that’s the only phrase in your dirty talk vocabulary, things can go stale pretty fast. Repetition with no emotional nuance feels flat, and worse, she might start to tune out.

And no, dressing up as a fireman or doing that smirk you saw in porn doesn’t count as mental foreplay.

What she craves is verbal intimacy, words that make her picture it, feel it, ache for it. She wants to be mentally transported somewhere erotic and unexpected. She wants to feel like you’re inside her mind before you’re inside her body.

Dirty talk, when done well, isn’t just raunchy. It’s poetic porn for the imagination.

So, whether you’re whispering about how you’re going to slowly undress her, or describing in vivid detail how good she tasted the night before, make it about her experience, not just your arousal. She wants to feel wanted, not just used.

That’s the key to dirty talk that doesn’t just turn her on, it makes her obsessed.

[Read: 72 Dirty, Sexy Texts + Secrets to Make a Girl Wet & Horny in a Subtle Way]

Before you unleash that wild, filthy line you read three seconds ago, pause. Consent doesn’t ruin the mood, it builds trust and makes her feel safe enough to fully let go. Dirty talk is hottest when both of you feel free to say what you really want.

1. Start slow

See how she reacts to softer, teasing lines first.

2. Watch her body language

Moaning, eye contact, leaning in = yes. Going quiet, freezing up, or turning away = pause.

3. Ask what she likes

You can literally say, “You like when I talk to you like this?” or “Tell me what words turn you on.”

4. Use a code word if you’re into kinkier talk

A simple safe word ensures she can stop the game anytime and feel safe.

If it turns her on, it’s dirty talk. If it doesn’t, it’s just dirt. [Read: Meaning of Safe Words, Best Examples & 27 Ways to Use Them in Rough Play]

Sexting Etiquette 101: Turning Her On Through Text

Sexting is an art form, and it starts with reading the room. Or in this case, reading the vibe.

1. Ask first

A quick “Can I send you something a little dirty?” works wonders.

2. Build the tension

Don’t just jump to body parts. Tease. Flirt. Make her want the next text.

3. Don’t send unsolicited nudes

Especially not as an opener. [Read: Unsolicited Penis Pics: Why Guys Send Dick Selfies & 30 Ways to Respond]

4. Mirror her energy

If she sends you a flirty reply, level it up slowly. If she pulls back, respect it.

5. Make her feel safe

Remind her: “No pressure at all, but I’d love to hear what turns you on too.”

Dirty Talk FAQs

1. What if I feel awkward saying dirty things?

Totally normal. Start with simple, honest lines like “I want you so bad” or “You’re driving me crazy.” As you gain confidence, build up. Even a whisper can sound sexy when it’s sincere.

2. What if she doesn’t respond or goes quiet?

Take that as your cue to pause and check in. “Too much?” or “Wanna switch gears?” shows maturity and respect.

3. Can I use terms like ‘good girl’ or ‘slut’?

Only if she likes it. These can be super hot, but only if they’re consensual and pre-agreed. Try asking outside the bedroom: “Do you like when I call you that?”

4. Is it weird to ask her what turns her on to hear?

Not at all. In fact, it shows confidence and emotional intelligence. Dirty talk is way better when it’s collaborative. [Read: What Turns a Girl On? 65 Emotional & Sexual Moves to Arouse & Seduce Her!]

5. Can I dirty talk during foreplay or just during sex?

Anytime the mood’s right, texting, cuddling, kissing, even while cooking. Just match the vibe and keep it genuine.

Dirty talk isn’t just about being bold, it’s about being in tune. Say what makes her melt, ask what makes her blush, and build something unforgettable. Because when the words are right, the connection goes way beyond physical.

Tips For Making Your Dirty Talk Even More Powerful

These phrases may all seem perfectly useful when you’re thinking of dirty things to say to a girl, but only if you know how and when to use them. Here are some tips for making the most out of dirty talking to your girl. [Read: 37 secrets to have more sex as a couple and how often is totally normal]

1. Say something naughty in public

Nothing is sexier than a man getting intimate and naughty in a public setting. Obviously, you’ll want to be quiet about it and make sure nobody else can hear you. But if you do this right, it’ll be a huge turn-on for her.

Just whisper what you want to say very low in her ear and watch her squirm.

2. Text it to her

If you’re not together, take the opportunity to text her something very dirty. Not only will you make her feel horny while away from you, it’ll also increase the anticipation for a great time later.

This may also give you a window into some great sexting. There’s not much better than getting really turned on with a good dirty texting conversation. [Read: 45 sexy ways to start sexting and 50 sext examples to get someone horny]

3. Give her a slow, romantic kiss, and finish it by whispering in her ear

This is extremely effective because of the parallels. A really deep, romantic kiss will already turn her on and then you say something very dirty when she’s expecting something sweet.

The surprise and your words specifically will make her wet for you. You can take things right to the bedroom after doing this!

4. Know what she likes

If you know what your girl likes, you can better tailor what you say. The dirty things to say to a girl that work the best are always the things that’ll spark the most interest in her.

If you know your girl loves when you go down on her, then focus on that. Talk about how much you love it and how much you wish you could go down on her right there. She’ll start picturing this and will be horny in no time. [Read: Sexy words – 23 seductive words and dos and don’ts to make dirty talk sound erotic]

5. Only say what feels natural

Don’t try to say a bunch of these things if they sound foreign and awkward coming out of your mouth. That’ll basically just ruin the moment.

If you’re new to this, then start slow. Start with phrases that are simple and that make sense. “I want you so bad,” is a perfect place to start. You can also see how reactive your partner is and continue down a path she’s responding well to.

[Read: The secret art of making any girl wet just by casually sitting next to her]

6. Call her names

For starters, dirty names are the perfect way to take a walk down the road of dirty talk. As you penetrate her, grab her and claw her, and say something dirty and sexy about each body part of hers that you touch with your hands. Or just call her a dirty slut and work with that as the minutes pass by.

7. Describe it

This is another safe way to see if both of you enjoy dirty talking together. Tell her everything you’re going to do to her about five to ten seconds before you actually do it.

If you’re going to do it harder, whisper it in her ears before you do it. If you’re going to bite her neck or let your hands wander, breathe into her ears and tell her before you do it.

8. Ask her to open up

When in doubt, ask your girlfriend or wife what she wants to talk about in the bedroom! She may feel awkward to say something during foreplay though.

So wait until you penetrate her so she can feel completely uninhibited and bold, and then ask her to say something dirty and sexy.

Or ask her to imagine something naughty and tell you where she’d want to be. And once she says something that arouses her, take the cue and get into the dirty descriptions. [Read: 90 sexy and dirty would-you-rather questions to make anyone horny af]

9. Instruct her

Tell her what you want her to do. You could use this during foreplay, or while having sex with each other.

To make it just a little kinkier and sexier, mix in a few questions too. “Would you skinny dip with me if we were on a vacation and the beach was empty?”, “When we’re in a club, I want you to grind against me with your butt, and I want you to reach your hands into my jeans…” You get the drift?

10. Taboo fantasies

Dirty talk about things that are beyond the bed. Talk about different places, involving other people, or just doing things that are considered rather risqué like flashing in public or making out in front of someone else. [Read: Mutual fantasy – how to fantasize and talk about someone else while having sex]

Use These Words to Drive Her Wild

Now that you have perfect examples of dirty talk and know how to use them, what’s stopping you?

Bringing new things into your sex life can not only improve your evening. It can rejuvenate a stale relationship, lift lowered spirits, and bring the honeymoon phase right back to your door.

So say some naughty things. It’ll show your girl just how much you love and cherish her.

[Read: 23 sweet, love-filled gestures to make your girlfriend feel special and loved]

Knowing which dirty things to say to a girl to turn her on will be useful for so many reasons. The next time you want to make her yours in the bedroom, try a few of these.