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How to Do the Reverse Cowgirl: 12 Must-Know Tips & Tricks

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Have you heard rave reviews about the reverse cowgirl position but aren’t a fan? We’re looking at reverse cowgirl tips and tricks for better sex!

Have you heard nothing but rants and raves about how amazing reverse cowgirl feels from your girlfriends, only to be disappointed by the lackluster reality? You’re definitely not alone. With females going gaga over this naughty sex position, you’re bound to feel left out once you do the deed without getting off.

The bottom line? If it doesn’t feel good, you’re not doing it right! We’re here with many tips and tricks on how to do reverse cowgirl right!

The reverse cowgirl – Getting into position

If you’re wondering how to do the reverse cowgirl, we’re here to get you started. Reverse cowgirl is exactly what its name suggests: simply “girl on top” missionary, with you spun around. Have your man lay down on his back and insert his penis into you with your back facing his face.

From here, you may choose to bounce up and down *tiring, and rarely pleasurable for the girl* or lean forward *as if in doggy style* and thrust against his penis. Other variations include leaning back and grinding, or having your man sit up as you mount him. This can be totally hot, or amazingly romantic—your call! [Read: How to ride a man and look really sexy doing it – Tips and tricks]

Pros and cons of reverse cowgirl

Have you or your partner expressed a wary attitude when it comes to getting down and dirty in reverse? Your reservations may be warranted. Before getting into our tips and tricks, we’re looking at the pros and cons that may have you excited, yet hesitant about the prospect of reverse cowgirl sex.

Pros

#1 Great control for the ladies. Women love to be on top because they get to control the speed, depth, and angle of penetration. This is a big deal when it comes to reaching that big O! [Read: 10 foolproof sex tips every girl should know]

#2 A great view. If your man is a butt guy, he’s going to absolute love the view he gets from reverse cowgirl. [Read: 18 physical turn ons that arouse guys instantly]

#3 Free to fondle. Whether it’s you or your man, reverse cowgirl position leaves both of your hands free to do a little bit of fondling. He can reach forward and rub your clit and you can reach down and play with his balls. Definitely a fun position for those roaming hands.

Cons

#1 Penis breakage. Some men fear the reverse cowgirl position, since it is one of the easiest sex positions to have… erm… “accidents” during. If your man slips out of your vagina and you plant down hard, but miss his penis, this can break the penis and render it “out of commission” for several months. Definitely not a sexy experience! [Read: 15 really embarrassing and painful things that can happen during sex]

#2 Squats suck, especially when you’re trying to come. Girl on top sex positions are a huge workout, and reverse cowgirl is no exception! Squatting over and over to get the rhythm just right can prove exhausting.

#3 Penis angle. Depending on how your man’s penis is shaped and angled, having his member hit up against the reverse walls of your vagina can actually prove painful. [Read: 13 types of penis that women love… or laugh at!]

#4 Pooping sensations. Angles aren’t just a reverse cowgirl problem for your man! Since your lover’s penis isn’t facing your g-spot, the angle of his penis may actually make you feel more like you have to do a number 2 than have an orgasm. Gross, but hey—it’s true!

Reverse cowgirl tips and tricks for better sex

#1 Look it up. Reverse cowgirl may seem fun and exciting, but may get a little confusing when things aren’t fitting together the way you’re used to them fitting. Combat this uncomfortable start by becoming familiar with the position beforehand.

Since X-rated movies are incredibly staged, especially when it comes to positions, porn isn’t going to be your best friend for figuring this one out. Instead, try looking at visual aids in photos or YouTube videos that show you exactly how to perform the position. This will give you way more confidence going in. [Read: 25 silly porn myths that people still believe today]

#2 Relax and have fun. The #1 thing that will ruin any great sex session is overthinking or feeling tense. In order to let loose and feel good about your new position, you’re going to want to relax. Make sure you’ve already had a fun round of foreplay before hopping on top. Essentially because you’re going to want to be wet and ready beforehand!

#3 Avoid exhaustion! To avoid being overworked and tuckered out mid-session, be sure that reverse cowgirl is mixed with another favorite sex position. For example, have your man enter you doggy style and then when you both feel close, switch into reverse cowgirl for the big finale. You could also take turns in this position, grinding against him, and then having him take the brunt and thrust into you. [Read: 9 sexy tips to make doggy style your next favorite sex position]

#4 Ride shallow. As previously stated, one reason men get iffy about reverse cowgirl is because so many penises have been harmed by this scandalous position in the past! If your man fears the breakage of his favorite body part, try doing shallow thrusting. This feels great for both of you, makes for a longer session, and ensures him an intact penis by the end of your orgasm!

#5 Do whatever feels right. There is no strict formula when it comes to doing reverse cowgirl “right,” nor does sex have to look a certain way to feel amazing. Basically, do whatever feels good! If you love to bounce on your man’s member, have at it! If you like grinding or wiggling motions better, or prefer to hold yourself up while your man pounds into you, that’s what you should do.

[Read: Reverse cowgirl: 13 reasons why it’s the best sex position ever!]

If you tried the reverse cowgirl position in the past and felt more “bored” than “on board,” we urge you to give it another chance. With any luck, it may be your new favorite go-to position. Follow our tips on how to do reverse cowgirl and let us know your success stories in the comments below!

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4 thoughts on “How to Do the Reverse Cowgirl: 12 Must-Know Tips & Tricks”

  1. Shelly says:

    Avoiding exhaustion is easier said than done lol. I suppose switching things up position wise could help, but my boyfriend and I get really into the whole experience and we end up just sticking it out until the finish. That’s definitely tiring, but it is one of the best possible experiences in bed for me and I love every opportunity I get to indulge in it. Keeping some switch ups in mind could really help us in the future though. I’ll mention it to him when I see him next 😉

  2. stef says:

    I love reverse cowgirl. The feeling his cock gives me in that position is out of this world and I control the speed and angle. It also feels so dirty because he has a great view of my asshole, more than doggy. Best way is when doing 69 then slide right up after he’s made me come. I love doggy when I want to be pounded, reverse cowgirl when I want to control.

  3. Danny says:

    Do what feels right is great advice for sex! When you get with a new partner, sometimes it can feel a little awkward because the two of you have yet to determine how the other one works. Not a problem, relax and do what feels right. The most important point is you don’t stress out and no one gets hurt. It is just sex after all and once you get the hang of it with your new partner, there can only be awesome things to come out of it!

  4. ASAKABOY says:

    With a few women, I’ve pulled the bed away from the wall so I can let my legs hang over the edge of the bed below the knee, and she can still reach the wall while in reverse cowgirl. That’s a bit iffy and might not wok if you can’t reach without leaning, but you get the idea. One plus size woman I see occasionally is so very clever – she lays her pilates mat on the floor, partly under her kitchen table or under her desk in her bedroom, then has me lie down with my legs underneath the table and my core area out from under it. When she’s mounting or we’re in reverse cowgirl, she grabs the table or desk to steady herself or push back whenever she likes. It’s a little unusual, but it gives her total control over her body positioning and reduces the physical effort required. Reverse cowgirl is her thing, and trying something different like that is very sexy. Any object that gives you leverage will do. One partner used a sawhorse once while we were in the garage.

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