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9 Ways to Make Doggy Style Your Favorite Sex Position

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Men love this position, but women? Meh. We’re looking at 9 ways you can you grab doggy style by the tail and make it your new favorite sex position.

Doggy-style: the sex position with one of the most unflattering and disrespectful titles out there. Regardless of the name, this little position has the female on all fours with her man entering her from behind, and men love it. Why? Not only do they get a great view of your rear end, but many say it takes less effort and they’re able to enter you deeper than in other positions.

Women, on the other hand, seem to have a “so-so” relationship with doggy-style. Many women find this position not only impersonal, but also completely the wrong build for their anatomy. Hello, the clit’s way too far away from where you are right now. Not to mention this position can be entirely painful if you are:

#1 Not excited enough. If you’re not yet worked up or wet enough down there and your guy’s penetrating you deeper than he normally would *and let’s face it, more excitedly than he normally would* then this position is more likely going to hurt you than bring you waves of ecstasy. [Read: How to get yourself worked up before doing the deed]

#2 If your man’s too big. If your guy is rocking a huge dick then firstly, lucky you, but second, this may not be the best position for you. Have your guy go super slow and wait until you’re very turned on before he puts it all the way in. [Read: What women think of their guys’ penises]

#3 If you have a tipped uterus. Having a tipped uterus usually means your uterus is tipped forward towards your bladder, or backwards towards your spine. Those with a tipped uterus may find doggy style extremely painful, due to the angle and depth of the penis entry. Interestingly, some say doing doggy style with your head down is one of the only ways women with the condition can conceive a child.

How to make doggy style work for you

So how can we tilt the scales and make doggy style make you feel like a sex kitten?

#1 Let him use his spit. Having your guy lay a little spit on your bum can be a seriously sexy and slutty experience during doggy style. You may even be inspired to have a little ass-play while you’re having sex. Let your guy do a little backdoor action while he’s pounding away. Having your backside played with or penetrated with his finger or a toy can be a tantalizing experience when it comes to doggy, and may even inspire you to go over the edge. [Read: The curious guy’s and gal’s guide to anal play]

#2 Vary your positions until you find what you’re looking for. Changing positions can make all the difference when it comes to doggy style. For example, you may find doggy a little more romantic if he enters you while you’re lying on your stomach. This way he’s able to caress and kiss you while the magic’s happening, not to mention it’s way easier for him to reach around and play with your clit while he goes at it.

Another great position for doggy is being bent over the bed, the counter, or the arm of your sofa. This is a super risqué, dirty way to do doggy.

Put your head down, instead of being on all fours during doggy style and you’ll be in for a treat. Not only does this better stimulate your G-spot, but many women find this less painful than being on all fours.

A personal favorite option for doggy style involves your man crouching down more than he normally would, and getting up close to your entrance so that his balls are tickling your vulva. This is one of the best ways to orgasm during doggy style, since it stimulates your clit and creates more of a rubbing motion as opposed to him simply going in and out of you.

#3 Dirty talk. Doggy style is one of those positions that makes you feel absolutely dirty, likely due to its impersonal nature. Embracing a little dirty talk while you do the deed will make it feel that much naughtier. [Read: 50 dirty, dirty things to say during sex]

#4 Get your hair pulled. Much like talking dirty, having your hair pulled while engaging on all fours is totally sexy. Not too hard, though! Put your hair in a tight pony tail, or pigtails, and have your guy use them as dirty reigns, while you go at it for the ultimate slutty experience. [Read: 10 tips to help you discover your kinky side]

#5 It’s all about that thrusting. Have your guy use shallow, quick thrusts instead of long, deep penetration while you do the deed. Due to the sensitivity of the opening of the vagina, having your boyfriend do shallow thrusts will not only allow him to last a little longer, it’ll also do wonders to tickle your sweet spot.

#6 Go slow. Not many people stop to think that doggy style can actually be a romantic experience, rather than a dirty one, but going slow can make all the difference. Not only does slowing his pace and throwing in a few sweet caresses onto your back here and there make this more of a sweet embrace, but it also encourages your guy to take his time.

Instead of pounding away, he can make this last longer for both of you and enjoy every inch of your warmth. Encourage him to slow it right down, lean forward to touch your breasts, massage your clit, and enjoy the explosion of fireworks that happens once you have your first slow climax.

#7 Spanking and pushing that booty forward. Completely opposite of the sugary sweet, candle-lighting, romantic doggy style sex talked about in #6. For this dirty doggy, you’ll want to have your man give you a little spank. This can be great foreplay, and role-play fodder if you’re so inclined, before you get to penetration.

Admit it ladies, as long as you don’t end up with a red bum afterwards, getting spanked during sex is a real turn-on. Beyond spanking, have your boyfriend tilt your butt up while he enters you. He can do this by grabbing your cheeks and pushing forward, grabbing onto you. This will encourage his pubic mound and balls to come into contact more with your vulva and give you those good-time feelings. [Read: 10 sexy games to play with your boyfriend]

#8 Use a vibrator, or a pillow. If your guy can’t seem to position himself to give you clitoral stimulation, don’t be afraid to bring a vibrator into the mix, or simply use a pillow between your legs. Being able to grind against a pillow as he thrusts into you allows for great clitoral stimulation, and once you’ve mastered your moves, it’s a sure-fire way to bring you to climax.

#9 You can do the thrusting. It’s amazing how different doggy style can feel when the women is left in control. Not only does being the one to do all the work give your legs a great workout, it is also incredibly sexy for the woman to tease her guy by controlling the depth, speed, and movement of their doggy style action.

[Read: 18 tips for making the girl on top position work for you]

Following our tips and tricks may just lead to an entirely different experience on all fours. So the next time your guy wants to come in doggy-style, don’t roll your eyes. Instead, try these sexy suggestions and see if you’re in for the ride of your life. 

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3 thoughts on “9 Ways to Make Doggy Style Your Favorite Sex Position”

  1. Irene says:

    My boyfriend loves doggy-style as oppose to my not liking it. This is a good read for me. Now I have an idea how to enjoy this style together with my boyfriend. This might be difficult for me at first but I am all to learning it with all my heart. This will surely please my boyfriend and this will make us enjoy our time together more and more.

  2. Homer Orfaeus says:

    Why that misconception that the clitoris is too far away when lovemaking doggy style? When the man is leaned down on the woman’s back, the clitoris is right there, waiting for one of his hands; fingering that area pleases men very much, too. At the same time his other hand is free to enjoy her breast, which is not flattened as it is in other positions, but is swinging joyfully. Generally, firm breasts are in higher esteem than sagging ones, but in the doggy situation the opposite is true: fondling dangling breast while making love from the rear wakes up the primal instincts in the man. For women this is a mystery: “Granted, breast is an erogenous zone providing pleasure for the woman, but why do men grin lewdly when staring at a cleavage? Isn’t this a kind of a dirty fetish?” Gentle Ladies, you need to know that there is an inner animals in men, and it is that primitive animal whose ejaculation is accelerated by the lewd fondling of the dangling breast. Why so? The Nature knows. The doggy style is great, but not for those who like vanilla sex.
    Talking of dogs: A little boy was in a park and saw two copulating dogs.

  3. Russel says:

    I love it when the ladies let me tug on their hair as I’m drilling them from behind. Pigtails are especially good. I’ve been with a few girls who have had pretty fragile ends and, of course, I’m not thinking about it in the heat of the moment. Yeah, that’s lead to a few handfuls of broken hair and even a few knots in the process lol. The girls who pigtail their hair not only look sexier in my eyes, but help avoid this embarrassing and pretty painful situation I’d imagine.

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