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  • charley
    September 15, 2011 | Permalink |

    Great article. I’ve been doing many of these things the last two years at work. NOT to get a woman at work. I did them to improve my work environment.

    I had NOT had a promotion for 10 years, and was stuck in lower management.

    Two years ago, I started doing many of the things you mention and in last two years I’ve been promoted twice, received a LARGE bonus, and now I am an alpha male at work. This also involved a lot of hard work and long hours at my job duties, but the biggest change was in my inner attitude, then my outward behavior, and recently my apppearance, grooming, clothing. Most recently I’ve noticed others’ attitudes towards me have changed.

    I never thought of doing these things to get a woman. Great idea you have there.

    Though she’d have to be a woman outside of work because I don’t want any woman at workplace because I am keeping control of my work environment, and I am NOT going to allow anyone the opportunity to derail me at work.

    I am now an alpha male at workplace. I never thought of applying these things to my personal life (partly because I’ve been working so much I don’t have much personal life).

  • Mitch Wilson
    February 3, 2012 | Permalink |

    Nice information. I think confidence in yourself is what really makes the difference. If you believe you are confident, others will too.

  • sam
    March 1, 2012 | Permalink |

    another great article from this wonderful website, i find it really helpful thank you so much

  • Abhisek Mukherjee
    March 26, 2012 | Permalink |

    I can just say….IT WORKS. Can’t analyse how, why… etc but these tips have worked for me… :-)… Thanks a lot.

  • Darby
    August 26, 2012 | Permalink |

    Ok guys, girl here. Idk why I’m here but I’m just gonna add on to what this article is about.
    If you want a girl to like you, don’t just be nice to her, be nice to everyone. Chances are she likes you too and watches you. Always be on your best behavior. Don’t act like a bully when she isn’t there, but as soon as she walks in the room you turn into mr. Nice guy.

    Smile a lot.

    Give her hints that you like her. We can notice hints fairly well.

    If you really like her, just ask her out. We like it when YOU make the first move.

    K I’m done bye!;)

  • Andrew
    November 1, 2012 | Permalink |

    I got the girl I had a crush on for about 1 year thank you because this helped me get her.

  • Eyob
    January 4, 2013 | Permalink |

    so that means, Imma gonna me modest/moody right?
    But sometimes the difference between being Intelligent, Moody, Ownself, Improved personality/alpha men gotta be ambigious fo’ me. But I can suggest Imma all tis things I mean I got changeable personality, can’t help how it goes spontaneously & unconciously. Imma so moody sometimes frienzzz like that N wanna spend wit me but that might last only fo’ hours. Plz LP’s or anyone help me the way out.

  • anonymous
    February 11, 2013 | Permalink |

    Wait a minute. This advice explains why a nervous/anxious guy can’t get women to like him often. Any solution that does not include taking anxiolytics? I’d like to know how you can get a girl to like you without changing your personality to be perfect..

  • unknown
    April 30, 2013 | Permalink |

    this does make a lot of sense to me, and cos I keep getting a constant rejection, I’ve become quite pessimistic, and I know she doesn’t like that, be all these steps seem to make a lot of sense to me so thanks, gonna try it

  • jerrylee22
    October 17, 2013 | Permalink |

    If a girl doesn’t like your personality, she’s not compatible…
    Simple as that… You have to find a female that loves you for who you are — but finding this can be difficult [and nearly impossible].
    If you’re just looking for little dates and a little girlfriend, then by all means — go as you may…
    Because if you want a long lived relationship, those thing about you that you made her like might disappear… And then she might not like the real you that lies underneath.

    Another thing: being fidgety can be a sign of attraction — because when a man constantly plays with or touches himself, he is wanting to be touched…
    He could also have ADHD, like me, and find it easier to think and concentrate while playing with himself [not his penis].

    There are many intricate things to watch for in yourself or in a partner…

  • Nicgianni1
    November 8, 2013 | Permalink |

    You really need to be yourself and if she likes you then, that is great. Trying to be something that you aren’t will never work and you will both be miserable. But, if you want some point:
    Dress nice, smell nice, don’t swear, try to be polite without being a kiss axx.
    just have fun with her and if it is meant to be, it will happen.

  • Bob
    April 15, 2014 | Permalink |

    Some people are saying you shouldn’t try to change your personality, find someone who likes you for you and I agree. However, this article is not asking you to do that. It’s saying to mainly take more ownership of your own happiness by showing more respect for yourself. Take better care of yourself, expect more from your friends and keep your own schedule to your satisfaction instead of waiting for someone else to always take the lead.

    Being more fidgety is often a part of personality, but learning some relaxation exercises and preparing for stressful situations ahead of time will make anyone more confident without altering their core personality.

    Good tips here. People are drawn to other people who know how to make themselves happy.

  • Cerulean
    October 28, 2014 | Permalink |

    guys: do not try to be the stereotypical “alpha male” kind of guy. we girls want confidence, but not to the point of being cocky or self absorbed. we want a guy with enough confidence to talk to us without showing signs that we intimidate them. stammering, mumbling, fidgeting, or being too shy to ask the girl out yourself are all signs that you are freaking out. while girls understand some nervousness is normal, you don’t want to come off as scared. we also don’t want a guy who’s too confident. guys like that tend to act like their looks or money alone will be enough to attract a girl, and it usually isn’t.

    basically, what a girl wants is a man that makes her feel like a woman. if you make her feel feminine, you’re a winner.

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