How to Get a Girl to Like You

how to get a girl to like you

Knowing how to get a girl to like you may seem tricky, but it’s actually quite simple if you understand the mind of a girl and the way she thinks. If you want to be a chick magnet in no time, these are all the tips you’ll need.

how to get a girl to like you

Always remember this, knowing how to get a girl to like you is simple, and yet complicated.

Each girl is different, and has her own likes and dislikes.

And no matter what you do to impress a girl, it really won’t make a difference if the foundation isn’t right.

You can buy a girl flowers, or treat her to an expensive dinner, or do just about anything else.

But a girl will never really like you for who you are, unless you understand what a girl really wants in a guy.

There are many ways to get a girl to like you by impressing her and wooing her, but none will work for you, as long as you don’t understand the one thing that girls want from a guy.

How to get a girl to like you

You can skip reading other features on impressing girl, because there’s one thing that’s more important than anything else – your personality. Without having a great personality, there’s no way you can get a girl to like you.

After all, the only thing that matters when it comes to knowing how to get a girl to like you is your personality. [Read: How to tell if a girl likes you]

Flirting tips and smooth talking guides are very efficient, but they’re really no good unless you have a great personality.

Building your personality to get a girl to like you

If you want to know how to get a girl to like you, you need to understand the big fact. To attract girls and make a girl like you at first sight, you need to become an improved version of yourself. Your personality is the only thing that would ever matter when it comes to getting girls to like you.

These steps can help you improve your personality and become the best man you can ever be, and be someone who will be irresistible to any girl. [Read: How to talk smooth with women]

Get a girl to like you with your personality

Whether you’re talking about one girl, or many girls, it’s all the same. If you want girls to like you, you need to have a great personality. A great personality alone will draw all girls to you like moths to a warm flame.

#1 Be the alpha male

Now we’re not suggesting that you become the top dog of your group. You don’t really need to become the godfather of your group. Rather, don’t be a pushover.

Don’t ever be taken for granted by your friends, and let them respect you for who you are and appreciate your company. Don’t make yourself look like the clown of the group just to get attention. A calm and quiet guy who commands respect from his friends will be more liked by girls than a jack in the box.

#2 Respect yourself

You may consider yourself to be a great guy, but you need to think from another person’s point of view here. Do you really respect yourself? Do you try to cling to your friends and tag along everywhere, whether you’re invited or not? Do you feel left out and lonely when you’re out with your friends? Do they make plans without asking for your opinion? Do they forget to invite you until the last minute when they’re going out?

Then you don’t belong with those friends. They don’t respect you, and because of that, you don’t respect yourself. It’s better you find some new friends. When you’re not given any respect by your friends, you’d end up losing respect for yourself. And no girl would ever be drawn to a guy who has no respect for himself.

#3 Don’t get fidgety

When you’re sitting down idle, what do you do? Do you fidget with your hands, shuffle your feet, play with your hair, move back and forth constantly, or do you sit back comfortably?

Never fidget, they’re a sign of weakness and self-conscious behavior. No one likes someone who fidgets all the time. If you’re really comfortable with who you are, you’ll learn to stay calm and composed. Fidgeting is a distraction and can annoy anyone, not just girls. [Read: How to impress a girl on a date]

#4 Calm voice

We’ve all met a few guys who are really annoying to speak to. They’re whining and grumbling all the time. Calm your voice down. Have you watched the heroes of your favorite movies talk? Did you hear Maximus or William Wallace whine and grumble like sissies when they were at war? Or were they calm and composed? Learn to speak with a low pitched voice that’s calm and pleasant to others’ ears, and you’ll see how much girls will love talking with you. After all, no girl really likes a guy who nags and whines.

#5 Be a great conversationalist

When you meet a girl for the first time, you’d obviously know nothing about her. So think from her perspective and talk to her. Pop in a few questions and see how she responds. If she seems excited to talk about something, then continue talking about it. Otherwise, drop the topic.

We’ve all seen guys who drone on and on about new action movies, gizmos or football teams, when the girl is clearly not interested in talking about it.

Always remember that not every girl shares your interests. If you’re wondering how to get a girl to like you, learn to be a great conversationalist. You need to talk about what would interest the girl more. Be aware of the world around you, and stay up to date on regular events and trends so you can talk about something that can interest the girl you’re with. [Read: How to get a girl with a boyfriend]

#6 Be in command

When you’re out on a date, be in command. Be helpful, and be willing to have answers for her. If she drops her fork in the middle of dinner, ask the waiter for another fork instead of just sitting down and wondering what to do. Take decisions and make her feel like she’s safe and doesn’t have to worry about a thing, as long as she’s with you. Nothing can make a girl feel better than knowing that she’s with a guy who can take care of her, no matter what. [Read: How to pick a date restaurant]

If you want to improve your personality and get the respect of people around you, you need to learn to be in command all the time.

#7 Don’t panic

Many guys lose their nerve as soon as something goes wrong. Don’t be that guy. This completely goes against the earlier point. Don’t shit your pants if you’re late to get somewhere. Don’t chew your nails and whine about how your date was late to the movie. Don’t keep looking at your watch and chewing your lips during a date just because you’ve run out of things to talk about on a date. [Read: What to talk about on a date with a girl]

Girls like a guy who’s relaxed and composed. Panicking and acting like a nervous wreck will only make your date feel jittery and uneasy about being with you.

#8 Be a happy guy

Now, the all important point. Be a happy guy. Period.

If you’re happy, it shows. Girls love happy guys. When you’re happy, the world smiles with you. Girls like you and want to be with you. [Read: How to get the girl you want]

Even in your day to day life, try to be happy all the time. You may have a million problems, but don’t let them get to you. Your positive aura will draw girls to you, and make girls want to be with you. Don’t be frustrated or grumpy all the time, even though you love bitching about how unfair life is to you.

Bring the sparkle into your life by looking at the problems in your life as little obstacles that you have to overcome. Be an optimist, and enjoy your life. And we can assure you, any girl will love your company and would want to be with you!

A good personality is the biggest factor in attracting a girl and making her like you. Follow these steps get a better personality and you’ll see how easy it is to know how to get a girl to like you.

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  • charley

    Great article. I’ve been doing many of these things the last two years at work. NOT to get a woman at work. I did them to improve my work environment.

    I had NOT had a promotion for 10 years, and was stuck in lower management.

    Two years ago, I started doing many of the things you mention and in last two years I’ve been promoted twice, received a LARGE bonus, and now I am an alpha male at work. This also involved a lot of hard work and long hours at my job duties, but the biggest change was in my inner attitude, then my outward behavior, and recently my apppearance, grooming, clothing. Most recently I’ve noticed others’ attitudes towards me have changed.

    I never thought of doing these things to get a woman. Great idea you have there.

    Though she’d have to be a woman outside of work because I don’t want any woman at workplace because I am keeping control of my work environment, and I am NOT going to allow anyone the opportunity to derail me at work.

    I am now an alpha male at workplace. I never thought of applying these things to my personal life (partly because I’ve been working so much I don’t have much personal life).

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  • Mitch Wilson

    Nice information. I think confidence in yourself is what really makes the difference. If you believe you are confident, others will too.

  • sam

    another great article from this wonderful website, i find it really helpful thank you so much

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  • Abhisek Mukherjee

    I can just say….IT WORKS. Can’t analyse how, why… etc but these tips have worked for me… :-)… Thanks a lot.

  • Darby

    Ok guys, girl here. Idk why I’m here but I’m just gonna add on to what this article is about.
    If you want a girl to like you, don’t just be nice to her, be nice to everyone. Chances are she likes you too and watches you. Always be on your best behavior. Don’t act like a bully when she isn’t there, but as soon as she walks in the room you turn into mr. Nice guy.

    Smile a lot.

    Give her hints that you like her. We can notice hints fairly well.

    If you really like her, just ask her out. We like it when YOU make the first move.

    K I’m done bye!;)

  • Andrew

    I got the girl I had a crush on for about 1 year thank you because this helped me get her.

  • Eyob

    so that means, Imma gonna me modest/moody right?
    But sometimes the difference between being Intelligent, Moody, Ownself, Improved personality/alpha men gotta be ambigious fo’ me. But I can suggest Imma all tis things I mean I got changeable personality, can’t help how it goes spontaneously & unconciously. Imma so moody sometimes frienzzz like that N wanna spend wit me but that might last only fo’ hours. Plz LP’s or anyone help me the way out.

  • anonymous

    Wait a minute. This advice explains why a nervous/anxious guy can’t get women to like him often. Any solution that does not include taking anxiolytics? I’d like to know how you can get a girl to like you without changing your personality to be perfect..

  • unknown

    this does make a lot of sense to me, and cos I keep getting a constant rejection, I’ve become quite pessimistic, and I know she doesn’t like that, be all these steps seem to make a lot of sense to me so thanks, gonna try it

  • jerrylee22

    If a girl doesn’t like your personality, she’s not compatible…
    Simple as that… You have to find a female that loves you for who you are — but finding this can be difficult [and nearly impossible].
    If you’re just looking for little dates and a little girlfriend, then by all means — go as you may…
    Because if you want a long lived relationship, those thing about you that you made her like might disappear… And then she might not like the real you that lies underneath.

    Another thing: being fidgety can be a sign of attraction — because when a man constantly plays with or touches himself, he is wanting to be touched…
    He could also have ADHD, like me, and find it easier to think and concentrate while playing with himself [not his penis].

    There are many intricate things to watch for in yourself or in a partner…

  • Nicgianni1

    You really need to be yourself and if she likes you then, that is great. Trying to be something that you aren’t will never work and you will both be miserable. But, if you want some point:
    Dress nice, smell nice, don’t swear, try to be polite without being a kiss axx.
    just have fun with her and if it is meant to be, it will happen.

  • Bob

    Some people are saying you shouldn’t try to change your personality, find someone who likes you for you and I agree. However, this article is not asking you to do that. It’s saying to mainly take more ownership of your own happiness by showing more respect for yourself. Take better care of yourself, expect more from your friends and keep your own schedule to your satisfaction instead of waiting for someone else to always take the lead.

    Being more fidgety is often a part of personality, but learning some relaxation exercises and preparing for stressful situations ahead of time will make anyone more confident without altering their core personality.

    Good tips here. People are drawn to other people who know how to make themselves happy.

  • Cerulean

    guys: do not try to be the stereotypical “alpha male” kind of guy. we girls want confidence, but not to the point of being cocky or self absorbed. we want a guy with enough confidence to talk to us without showing signs that we intimidate them. stammering, mumbling, fidgeting, or being too shy to ask the girl out yourself are all signs that you are freaking out. while girls understand some nervousness is normal, you don’t want to come off as scared. we also don’t want a guy who’s too confident. guys like that tend to act like their looks or money alone will be enough to attract a girl, and it usually isn’t.

    basically, what a girl wants is a man that makes her feel like a woman. if you make her feel feminine, you’re a winner.