What Do Girls Like in Guys?

what girls like in guys

Do you want to know what girls like in guys? There are a few things all girls like and a few things all girls hate in a guy. Find out what matters and what doesn’t when you’re trying to impress a girl.

Ever wondered what girls like in guys?

Most guys are pretty confused about what girls like in a guy, and what a guy can do to make a girl like him.

But what really draws girls to a guy isn’t just about the way he behaves around a girl.

What matters is how he is as a person.

What do girls like in guys?

What are the things that girls like in guys, and what exactly puts a girl off?

Each girl may have her own views about this, but here are a few traits that can give you the high and the low with girls and what they want in a guy.

Have you ever come across a nice guy who tries to attract a girl, but always fails? [Read: How to get a girl to like you]

There’s at least one guy in every group of guys who’s like this. No matter what he tries, the girl would just be uninterested in him.

How to make a girl like you

If you want to know what girls like in guys, try to remember a few of these pointers every day and improve yourself, one day at a time.

And here’s also a list of things that girls don’t like in guys.

And remember, the difference between a guy who has these qualities and a guy who doesn’t is the difference between a proverbial knight in shining armor and a village bum who just annoys everyone around him.

Fifteen qualities that girls like in guys

1. Confidence [Read: How to talk to a girl]

2. Sense of humor

3. Intelligence

4. Support

5. Sensitivity

6. Self-worth

7. Focused goals

8. Great imagination

9. Independent streak

10. Passionate and desirous

11. Bravery and courage

12. Compassion

13. Decisiveness

14. Dignity and self respect

15. Sense of integrity

Fifteen qualities that girls don’t like in guys

1. Lack of self-esteem

2. Laziness

3. Lack of humor

4. Lack of confidence

5. Lack of goals

6. Lack of understanding

7. Negativity

8. Self-centered behavior

9. Extreme jealousy

10. Insecurity

11. Smothering dependence

12. Self pity

13. Lack of trust

14. No ambition

15. Lack of tenderness

The guide to becoming a great guy

You may have a lot of these qualities already, and you may have a few qualities that put girls off too.

You don’t need a story or a fable to explain what girls like in guys. These points are simple and clear. It doesn’t really take money or extravagant gifts to make a girl like you. [Read: How to tell if a girl likes you]

All it takes are these little things, and that makes the difference between a great guy who’s desired by girls and envied by other guys.

Now that you know what girls like in guys, are you one of those great guys that girls love? Remember these little pointers, they can change your life forever!

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9 thoughts on “What Do Girls Like in Guys?”

  1. Suzy Q says:

    I don’t think these list is just for guys…

    We are all the same, really.

  2. Kristian says:

    i would want a guy who doesn’t care if you hug his arm every now and again

  3. Urusigh says:

    Great list, except that having the qualities isn’t usually the problem. Showing them off in a way that women will recognize them is.

    The difference between a sense of dignity and lacking a sense of humor can be a fine line (you really can’t laugh and be dignified at the same time), just so can independence be mistaken for a lack of trust (or vice versa). Knowing that these are good qualities is only half the need, knowing what signs and cues women associate with them is the other half.

  4. Caging says:

    @ Urusigh,

    Spot on! You summed it up well. A lot of us have these qualities mentioned, But using them in the right context and environment is the issue. In my view most of the points mentioned work in the right social-economic strata. I can’t see all these things work for those who are poor for example. To me if one is financially comfortable to a certain degree one can spend time to assert or improve on these qualities. If you work like mad day in day out pulling 12 hours shifts a day, It can’t work effectively as there is barely enough time to do anything else.

  5. rick says:

    not once was physical contact or looks mentioned. are you people human.

  6. chris french says:

    Look I’ve been with women and around many women and if there is one thing that seems to be hard for them its truthfulness. Of course none of the women they surveyed for this will say they want a sculpted body or a handsome face because somehow that would make them seem shallow or slutty when it really doesn’t. the fact that looks and health weren’t even on the list means that the women stayed true to their nature and lied to all the guys out there who were expecting to actually find answers here.

    what are the biggest things women want in a long term relationship?

    maturity and selfless compassion. once she knows and trusts you, she will want to move past all of your other shortcomings.

    what’s it going to take to get them to notice you?

    first clear up your acne, then get in shape, make your smile white and presentable and don’t be afraid to show it, women like confidence to be sure but just don’t be a pussy and your fine in that department. attraction is all about your body and your first conversation.

    PRO TIP: don’t ever expect women to tell you straight up what they want

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