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How to Steal a Guy from his Girlfriend

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Are you in love with a guy that’s taken? Here’s a sneaky guide on how to steal a guy from his girlfriend, effortlessly and without making it obvious.

how to steal a guy from his girlfriend

When you’re falling in love with a guy, you obviously don’t care whether he’s taken or not.

All you know is that you want him and want him bad.

You can learn how to steal a guy with this guide, but use it only if you truly love him and think he’d be happier with you than he is with his own girlfriend.

It’s never right to break a relationship up for selfish reasons.

And quite frankly, if a guy’s already in a happy relationship, he’s not going to leave his girlfriend anyways.

Try these moves and work your magic.

With a bit of finesse and charm, you’d be well on your way to stealing a guy from right under his girlfriend’s nose.

How to steal a guy from his girlfriend

Guys are easy to manipulate because they usually fall hard for appearances and good lookers. After all, more often than not, a guy falls in love more for the physical appearance than emotional security.

While it’s easy to make a guy like you at first sight, it isn’t easy to steal a guy away or make him fall in love with you because men pay a lot of attention to emotional needs too. [Read: How men fall in love to understand this]

Find a way to get his attention and show him how great you really are, physically and intellectually, and he’ll have a hard time not falling in love with you.

Here are ten little steps that can help you understand how to steal a guy. Use these pointers and you’ll see the difference in no time.

#1 Look your best around him

Men are suckers for good looking girls, but that really doesn’t mean you need a perfectly symmetrical face or a perfect ten body. Of course, they would help a lot. But it’s not all that matters. [Read: How to look sexy]

Dress well and appear confident, and as long as you believe you look sexy, you WILL look sexy. We don’t need to say this all the time, but some of the sexiest women on earth aren’t really the prettiest. They just ooze sex appeal because they’re so confident and happy with their own physique. Feel good about yourself and look good, especially when you’re around him and he’d definitely notice how good you are as a dating potential. [Read: How to make any man fall in love with you]

#2 Play the staring game

Now that we’ve got his attention, it’s time to let him know that something’s brewing in the air. Stare at him now and then, and just as he catches you looking, look away in a cute and coy manner. Do this even if both of you already know each other.

Make him curious subtly and make him wonder if you like him. Guys love attention, especially from a great looking girl. He may already have a girlfriend, but that won’t stop him from giving you a thought. If you do want to know how to steal a guy, you need to make him wonder and think about you.

Once he’s caught you staring a few times, start to play cold for a few days. Let him miss your stare, and soon enough, he’ll try to stare at you and get your attention. Look back at him now and then, but look away quickly. It’ll drive him mad because he’s just not able to get your attention. Yeah, he’ll do all this even if he does have a girlfriend already. [Read: How to get a guy to like you]

#3 Win the attention of his friends

Men are competitive and every single guy wants to be the alpha male in the group. It’s not possible, but all guys try. Have pleasant, flirty conversations with his friends without really bordering into sleazy, and win their attention.

If you’ve managed to make a great impression on his guy friends, chances are, the next time you wave and walk past them, they’re all going to talk about you and how cute and awesome you are. [Read: How to talk to a guy and make him like you]

When the guy you want to steal hears his friends talk about you, it would push him further to impress you and win your attention. See how easy it can get to make him fall for you?

#4 Bring out his protective side

Guys are protective by instinct. If you want to know how to steal a guy, you need to use this in your favor and make him appreciate you a lot more. The next time you’re having a conversation with him or walking down a street, take his help.

If you’re talking to him, rest your palm on his forearm to adjust your heel straps. If you’re walking down a path, pretend like the books in your hand are heavy and wait for him to offer to carry them for you. If you’re trying to cross a street, clasp his hand for assistance. And always thank him for being so sweet with a cute-as-a-button smile even if he didn’t realize he was being helpful. It’ll make him feel good to be around you, especially when you appreciate his company so much.

#5 His girlfriend vs. you

This is a big deal. To understand how to steal a guy, you need to understand his girlfriend’s strengths and weaknesses. Speak to a few friends discreetly or snoop around on her social networking pages and try to find out more about his girlfriend. What kind of a person is she and what kind of differences do they have?

Even the best of couples have a few differences. Your covert operation is to find out what those differences are and which of them you can use to your advantage.

[Read: Annoying girlfriend habits that guys hate]

Once you get to know the little lovers’ tiffs the guy you like and his girlfriend have, try to win his affection by discreetly bringing up similar issues and let him see how similar both your tastes and opinions are. Compatibility is of paramount importance in a relationship, even if most people don’t realize it. Use it to your advantage and you’ll make him wonder if you’re a better girlfriend potential for him than his own girlfriend!

If she’s shy and timid, show off your bold karaoke videos on youtube. If she’s too dominating, allow him to take more decisions when he’s with you. If you want to know how to steal a guy, make him feel like a man, and he’ll fall for you and respect you at the same time.

[Read: What guys always notice in a girl]

We’re just warming up on the steps to steal a guy. Do you want to know everything there is about knowing how to steal a guy? Click here to read the next five pointers on how to get a guy with a girlfriend.


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  • quite frank
    November 24, 2011 | Permalink |

    why on earth would you have an article about how to STEAL another girls boyfriend? That completely put woman against woman!

  • Losers lose
    December 14, 2011 | Permalink |

    If a girl’s not good enough to hold on to her boyfriend, what’s wrong in him dating someone better?

    Seriously, I don’t understand why some girls think telling someone how to steal a guy is bad. Face it, if you’re good, your boyfriend will never leave you, it says so in the article itself. There are many times when great guys get stuck with bitchy loser girls and don’t know what to do. That’s when this would definitely work. If you’re hot stuff, your guy will stay hooked to you, if you’re just lucky, it’s time to kiss your luck goodbye because a better girl who can love him better and treat him right has come along. What’s wrong with that?

    Don’t hate the player, girlie, hate the game.

  • J
    December 31, 2011 | Permalink |

    A relationship is about commitment and loyalty, not about jumping to the next person whenever a guy sees someone more flirty and willing to please him! This article spent 99.99% of the time ADVICING and REASSURING how to successfully steal a boyfriend (also applies to husband), homewrecking is never a good thing!

  • B
    January 21, 2012 | Permalink |

    I agree with the second poster, if a man is truly happy in his relationship he will never cheat / leave you. If he does, well then it was never meant to be. Stealing is a technical term, the real meaning of this article is to get a guy who is stuck / unhappy with a girl who doesn’t treat him right. He deserves better, so this article guides you on how you can get him to see that you are someone who would never treat him as his girlfriend does; that you two would make a better couple as the relationship would be more mature.

  • Kyle
    April 15, 2012 | Permalink |

    Even if we’re married to love of our lives, we don’t need help from ladies (if you can call them such) hacking away at the foundation.

    If he legit likes you over his girlfriend, you wouldn’t need to “hit” on the taken guy.

  • Cia
    April 15, 2012 | Permalink |

    “How to lie your way to a guy’s heart, and stomp over another girl’s heart in the process!”

  • Tangerine
    May 12, 2012 | Permalink |

    One thing I’ve noticed about this site is that it promotes manipulation above all else. Why would you want to be with a guy who’s so easily suckered? And wouldn’t you prefer to have a relationship that is based on openness and honesty?

  • A person
    May 20, 2012 | Permalink |

    This article makes me feel sick. My ‘boyfriend’ kind of likes a girl who has a crush on him, and now this article is telling me that that girl has a chance. A real good chance since I’m shy, and she’s probably attractive, and fun to be around. I’m so sad right now…

  • Anonymous
    July 26, 2012 | Permalink |

    What comes around goes around, look before you leap.

  • nana
    August 29, 2012 | Permalink |

    that is so not true^ “if a guy/girl is happy in a relationship they won’t cheat”

    Some people are selfish like that. Ever heard of the term “Have their cake and eat it too”???

    First off, man or woman, you shouldn’t be breaking your arse to make someone stay with you. A person does whatever the want to do, regardless of what you call yourself making sure they won’t do.
    If you are going through all this struggle to make sure your man doesn’t “stray” that must mean your insecure in your relationship, that you have low self esteem in regards of yourself, and that you’ve placed a mere male mortal on a pedestal so high that not even the clouds in the sky can touch Mr.OhSoMighty. What a way to stroke a mans ego.

    Second, if your man is that stupid to fall for any of this stuff listed above, you don’t want a loser like that anyway.
    Ladies, or guys, you want a man who can walk into a room full of barenaked ladies shaking their junk yet not only is your man not checking them out- he’s looking into your eyes and listening to your conversation.

    Not some sorry weak-willed loser who the minute a woman drops a pen on the floor starts gawking and drooling just because he saw her ass….

    Pathetic.

  • Mckenzie
    September 14, 2012 | Permalink |

    This is just sick. Why would you teach someone how to steal a boyfriend from someone else? That’s selfish and low. Thats all I can say about this article.

  • JDloverr
    November 6, 2012 | Permalink |

    There is this guy whim I adore and he is with a total C word, I can tell he does want to be with me but he is scared she is 16 and acts 2 he is 19 and I’m 16 and act 20 I don’t get it, She is SOOOO clingy and an idiot I love him so much when she is gone like on vacation he always wants to hang out then when she is back we don’t bring it up and we “ignore” eachother, And we went to school together forever and they went to school for a year or 2 and she acts like they known eachother I HAVE KNOWN HIM FOREVER!!

  • JDloverr
    November 6, 2012 | Permalink |

    I meant whom I adore sorry!!!

  • drea
    November 26, 2012 | Permalink |

    but if this guy easily goes for you . whats to say he wont leave you for another girl trying to steal him? leave the couples out of it. go for a single guy.

  • senortaco
    December 25, 2012 | Permalink |

    Two things:

    1. If a guy can get stolen by another girl he obviously isn’t relationship material. What seriously makes you think he’s not going to do the same with you? “Then it wouldn’t have worked out anyway if he can get stolen in the first place.” No, some people just want what they can’t have. It’s not fate, it’s a personality flaw

    2. If a girl knows I’m in a relationship yet continues to hit on me then I get the idea she doesn’t have a problem with cheating. I know other men who think the same way

  • disgusted
    January 8, 2013 | Permalink |

    Men cheat because theres always a girl out there that will help them cheat. Imagine if women would refuse to sleep with a guy unless he was single.

    Why on earth would you promote something like this? Its pathetic & sick.

  • Lynleigh
    January 9, 2013 | Permalink |

    This article actually made me laugh out loud. Firstly at no point in this article does it mention ‘The guy’ being happy or not. Secondly pretending to be his ‘perfect women’ will undoubtedly end in tears when he very quickly finds out ‘The other woman’ is in fact a fraud.

    This article is teaching people how to play mind games. If you truly like someone you should wait to for them to come to you and they will want to be with you for who you are not the pretend version of you. Ever heard the cliches, the grass is greener and you always want what you cant have. Whats to say that when you get the object of your affection you will still want them. There are things that people don’t share with everyone, i mean what potential lover would want to know all those little bad habit that could potentially turn you off someone unless you have developed that bond that can only be built with time.

    In conclusion you could wind up feeling like crap 1) because he is not what you thought and your not what he thought and 2) because YOU took him away from someone who could have possibly been the right person for him (even if you don’t see it)

    Love is not wanting another person to be happy with you no matter what, it is wanting that person to be happy no matter what even if it means it isn’t with you.

    So to all those teenage girls who at this very young naive stage in your life are listening to this appauling advice. That guy your infatuated with, it is not the end of the world that he doesn’t like you too because there is someone out there perfect for you.

  • Orecul
    January 17, 2013 | Permalink |

    This article is disgusting and filled with bad values. Just when you think females may be evolving, you get the immature, self centered c8nt who comes out of the woodwork to bust up something private between two people. I have been the “girlfriend” and didn’t react to the manipilating trash who tried to split us up. She backed off quick. Seems her motive was to get a response from me not necessarily “in love” with him. Some chicks are straight up SAD. Shouldn’t women and men be supporting each other?

  • Chava
    February 28, 2013 | Permalink |

    This is absolutely disgusting. This is why I’m so picky about my boyfriend having female friends: some people have no respect. If you steal someone’s boyfriend, you deserve the schmuck; if he’ll cheat with you, he’ll cheat on you, and you’ll have no right to complain. This article is advice for sociopaths.

  • Lil miss sunshine
    March 2, 2013 | Permalink |

    Wow, this article and *some* of the responses have made me lose what little hope I had in humanity. This dog eat dog mentality makes me want to crawl into a hole surrounded with land mines to live out the rest of my days. You people are sick in the head. Enjoy your lives of deceit, manipulation and failure. At the end of the day, everyone wants someone who will be loyal, all you’re proving by doing the above is that YOU’RE NOT. However, having said that, go ahead, save the good boys and girls of world from their dbag other halves, you guys can be together forever having to look over your shoulders because you know what you’re both like/are capable of.

  • Niamh
    April 6, 2013 | Permalink |

    All u haters of this post if u r so against stealing bfs / husbands then why did u even read the article in the first place ffs wtf is wrong wiv u the person who posted this post thing mentioned that if u want to steal someone then it better b for their own good not ur selfish actions. Just because someone is trying to helo doesnt mean that any1 needs to try and make then think like their a peice of shit which is basicaly all u haters are trying to do . so i ask again if ur so against it why read the post
    All u people that agree wiv me r epic
    All u people that dont go screw a goat biatches coz no one wants to hear ur shitty hate and btw u r making haters for urself so if u dont have any nice comments DONT FRIGIN COMMENT !!!

  • D
    May 18, 2013 | Permalink |

    Put it this way. How would you feel if another woman will really exert her effort to steal your own man? :) Then tell me how this article should be justified. :)

  • Matt
    June 10, 2013 | Permalink |

    @ Niamh – Real intellectual type, huh? Yes, you’d be a real catch, I could just barely read your response.

    Try reading a book. I’m surprised you got through the article.

    As far as this garbage goes, only skanky girls, and scumbag guys go after committed people. Only dirt bags allow it to happen.

  • N
    June 30, 2013 | Permalink |

    It’s easy enough to write and advocate this sort of disgusting garbage when you’re not the one worse off in this situation. For the retards who agree with this article, roles reversed, I’m sure you wouldn’t be happy if it happened to you.

    And Niamh, I feel like my IQ just dropped a few points reading your incoherent nonsense. It’s people like you who make me realise that freedom of speech isn’t always a good thing.

  • Sandra
    August 2, 2013 | Permalink |

    This is a terrible article. This is exactly the same thing some bimbo tried to do to my relationship good thing I have a strong relationship but this article is terrible you shouldn’t want to break up a couple. I call the girls who do that homewrecking b******. But I love this website despite this article

  • Lilsmarter dan u
    August 25, 2013 | Permalink |

    if hes “stuck”with a girl who doesnt in your mind appear to be keeping him happy..ask this: Is he appearing this way to dupe his way into your pants? Do you like scum like this? oh wait let me guess..You will change him -he wont be like that for you.lol. My guess is your longest relationship was 3 weeks. Next scenario..he really is unhappy. Fine. Why isnt he out of this relationship yet? let me guess..yep. Hes a coward. i know..arent cowards so irresistably hot n sexy!!!! gotta get a man like that!

  • a_true_lady
    August 26, 2013 | Permalink |

    if you need to employ any of these methods to get a man, you are more pathetic than you originally assumed. yes, you do need an article to find a man. i hope the woman you steal him from beats the shit out of you.

  • eunhyuk
    October 4, 2013 | Permalink |

    How would you take away other people’s happiness? Are you a bitch or what? No, i would not do that until the couple breaks up or things happen… Watching the guy i like being happy is the best thing.

  • mpbuckley
    December 11, 2013 | Permalink |

    wow. whoever wrote this is a horrible person. i know single women aren’t normally attracted to single men but this goes too far.

  • mpbuckley
    December 11, 2013 | Permalink |

    i’m a guy and if any girl tries to use these skills to try to steal me away from my girlfriend i will beat the shit out of that hoe. i don’t care if i’m a man and that’s illegal. i could go to jail and be happy that i punched that bitch’s teeth out harder than my girlfriend would have.

  • Lisa
    December 16, 2013 | Permalink |

    I think this is a great article, gave me just what I needed. I’m not trying to steal someone who is already taken. I want to make someone mines who has a number of choices. I wanna be their top pick. I think this article gave me just what I needed!

  • Dani
    December 18, 2013 | Permalink |

    all if fair in love and war

  • beanz8683
    January 11, 2014 | Permalink |

    Lol omg mpbuckley. XD. I shouldn’t laugh but you sound so chivalrous. Wish my stupid ex wasn’t so stupid and he’d lick the biotches teeth in that tried to steal him.
    Needless to say it worked. Lol he’s got a hick who could eat me for breakfast… (Obese) and looks like she got hit in the fave with a frying pan a few times by an orangatang. Oh well his loss.

  • kuu
    January 26, 2014 | Permalink |

    oh good. for a second I thought it would say “if all else fails threaten to kill your self if his girl won’t share”

    tee hee giggle giggle. I am fluttering my eyelashes like a llama having a seizure.

    now write one for the 12 year old crowd!

  • really?
    February 10, 2014 | Permalink |

    Putting Women against women actually occurs when you blame the other woman for “STEALING” a boyfriend that clearly WANTS to be stolen. If your man is faithful and happy with you, then he wont leave. Its that simple. If your man leaves you for someone else that is his decision and has everything to do with dissatisfaction within the relationship.

  • Marichuy
    March 7, 2014 | Permalink |

    This article intrigued me, cause it’s teaching me the obvious… Believe it or not, we live in a society that is full of shit, and it really wouldn’t matter. People come and go. For the people that replied negativity shit about this article, I think it’s pathetic. If you don’t like the fact about playing with fire, why bother skimming through the article? That’s the question that has been girding me for minutes. I think it’s ridiculous. In my opinion, I think it fed your curiousity of informing yourself; therefore you now have your own little steps on how to shoplift a male or female from an unsatisfying relationship. Be honest here peoples if it fed my curiosity, I’m sure it fed yours extremely well. ;)

  • tiffany
    March 24, 2014 | Permalink |

    …. you can also be damn sure if he did it once he’ll do it again, or at least that’s what you’ll be thinking.

  • Leah
    April 6, 2014 | Permalink |

    It’s a good list but really 1-4 are superfluous, #5 is the only one that you need.

    It alone has worked flawlessly for every man I’ve stolen. Just find out something negative about his wife or girlfriend and use that as your tool. Once you plant that little seed of negative thought in his mind, his marriage is as good as over, just need to sit back and wait a little while for that seed to grow until it’s too big for him to ignore any more and he’s yours.

  • Anna
    April 20, 2014 | Permalink |

    As a former Director, for two Major Dating services in the country, long before we had on line dating, I found, that this was a problem for all women in relationships! The sad reality, is that women only cheat themselves, by allowing men to have these opportunities! Any women who does this, is seriously missing the boat! Men who can’t get through the normal challenges that all dating or Marital relationships face, while recognizing, there will always be others who look better, as challenges arise, are abundant! They’re abundant, because women make themselves available! Any (person of good Moral Character) wouldn’t cheat, while in a relationship! The men these women end up with, do it again and again! Trust, is the most important value, to have in a relationship! A man of good character, looks for a women of good Character also! If you think you’re winning, by getting a man that will cheat, you’re seriously mistaken and setting yourself up for the same heart ache, the two of you brought to his last Love! You’ve shown him that you’re also lacking in good Character and you’ll both be unhappy, untrusting of each other! These relationships never work! Have more respect for yourselves, choose men, who also respect you, by behaving like a Real Women should! Choose to be a real women, mature and honestly strong in moral character. Never go for the man who’d do that to anyone else. A man who does that is, self centered and cruel! Is that the man you’re after? Beauty comes from the inside out. If you think your better, more loving, beautiful and kind, than his currant women, you will consider what he’s doing to cause her to behave badly, as he say’s she is. Honesty, purity of heart and strong Moral Character, are traits all men really want! Love yourself, by doing what you would want others to do for you and you will be respected and cared about the way you should be! Men only use women because they can! 31 Flavors can be very appealing, to men who don’t know how to really love and understand a women! A women who finds this man, will find herself becoming just as hurt, angry and sick, as the last, because of his interest in others! Don’t cheat yourselves into believing you’ll be better off than the last! You won’t be, when the next, more beautiful, charming, alluring, deceiving, sales girl comes along! You’ll begin to see yourself fall apart and behave badly, just as she did and the cycle continues! Hurt people always hurt again! Don’t hurt yourself, or anyone else and you will be, a beautiful women, worthy of a beautiful loving man! Love should not be part of a Battle field! My warmest wishes are for all of you, because I understand that you want to be Loved! To love, you must be Loving and Smart! A fresh face and a new perspective, is always more attractive, when the thrill of the hunt, is over! It’s not smart to think winning, is taking someone else’s Self Centered Man! Winning, is finding the one who thinks you’re special and wants you, first! Enjoy life, have fun, make yourself the winner you would want and above all else, don’t take yourself too seriously, have a sense of humor! Men love Women who can make them smile! Trust me, I raised three boy’s, that are now, young Men, that just want to be loved, like you! We’re all, really searching for the same thing! The problem is, that when choosing looks like a candy store, with so many options to choose from, a different flavor can often even make the last one taste better! Watch out! That would be a sticky proposition! Don’t let yourselves be gobbled up, or set aside, while he hunts for his next piece of candy!

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