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How to Steal a Guy from his Girlfriend

Are you in love with a guy that’s taken? Here’s a sneaky guide on how to steal a guy from his girlfriend, effortlessly and without making it obvious.

how to steal a guy from his girlfriend

When you’re falling in love with a guy, you obviously don’t care whether he’s taken or not.

All you know is that you want him and want him bad.

You can learn how to steal a guy with this guide, but use it only if you truly love him and think he’d be happier with you than he is with his own girlfriend.

It’s never right to break a relationship up for selfish reasons.

And quite frankly, if a guy’s already in a happy relationship, he’s not going to leave his girlfriend anyways.

Try these moves and work your magic.

With a bit of finesse and charm, you’d be well on your way to stealing a guy from right under his girlfriend’s nose.

How to steal a guy from his girlfriend

Guys are easy to manipulate because they usually fall hard for appearances and good lookers. After all, more often than not, a guy falls in love more for the physical appearance than emotional security.

While it’s easy to make a guy like you at first sight, it isn’t easy to steal a guy away or make him fall in love with you because men pay a lot of attention to emotional needs too. [Read: How men fall in love to understand this]

Find a way to get his attention and show him how great you really are, physically and intellectually, and he’ll have a hard time not falling in love with you.

Here are ten little steps that can help you understand how to steal a guy. Use these pointers and you’ll see the difference in no time.

#1 Look your best around him

Men are suckers for good looking girls, but that really doesn’t mean you need a perfectly symmetrical face or a perfect ten body. Of course, they would help a lot. But it’s not all that matters. [Read: How to look sexy]

Dress well and appear confident, and as long as you believe you look sexy, you WILL look sexy. We don’t need to say this all the time, but some of the sexiest women on earth aren’t really the prettiest. They just ooze sex appeal because they’re so confident and happy with their own physique. Feel good about yourself and look good, especially when you’re around him and he’d definitely notice how good you are as a dating potential. [Read: How to make any man fall in love with you]

#2 Play the staring game

Now that we’ve got his attention, it’s time to let him know that something’s brewing in the air. Stare at him now and then, and just as he catches you looking, look away in a cute and coy manner. Do this even if both of you already know each other.

Make him curious subtly and make him wonder if you like him. Guys love attention, especially from a great looking girl. He may already have a girlfriend, but that won’t stop him from giving you a thought. If you do want to know how to steal a guy, you need to make him wonder and think about you.

Once he’s caught you staring a few times, start to play cold for a few days. Let him miss your stare, and soon enough, he’ll try to stare at you and get your attention. Look back at him now and then, but look away quickly. It’ll drive him mad because he’s just not able to get your attention. Yeah, he’ll do all this even if he does have a girlfriend already. [Read: How to get a guy to like you]

#3 Win the attention of his friends

Men are competitive and every single guy wants to be the alpha male in the group. It’s not possible, but all guys try. Have pleasant, flirty conversations with his friends without really bordering into sleazy, and win their attention.

If you’ve managed to make a great impression on his guy friends, chances are, the next time you wave and walk past them, they’re all going to talk about you and how cute and awesome you are. [Read: How to talk to a guy and make him like you]

When the guy you want to steal hears his friends talk about you, it would push him further to impress you and win your attention. See how easy it can get to make him fall for you?

#4 Bring out his protective side

Guys are protective by instinct. If you want to know how to steal a guy, you need to use this in your favor and make him appreciate you a lot more. The next time you’re having a conversation with him or walking down a street, take his help.

If you’re talking to him, rest your palm on his forearm to adjust your heel straps. If you’re walking down a path, pretend like the books in your hand are heavy and wait for him to offer to carry them for you. If you’re trying to cross a street, clasp his hand for assistance. And always thank him for being so sweet with a cute-as-a-button smile even if he didn’t realize he was being helpful. It’ll make him feel good to be around you, especially when you appreciate his company so much.

#5 His girlfriend vs. you

This is a big deal. To understand how to steal a guy, you need to understand his girlfriend’s strengths and weaknesses. Speak to a few friends discreetly or snoop around on her social networking pages and try to find out more about his girlfriend. What kind of a person is she and what kind of differences do they have?

Even the best of couples have a few differences. Your covert operation is to find out what those differences are and which of them you can use to your advantage.

[Read: Annoying girlfriend habits that guys hate]

Once you get to know the little lovers’ tiffs the guy you like and his girlfriend have, try to win his affection by discreetly bringing up similar issues and let him see how similar both your tastes and opinions are. Compatibility is of paramount importance in a relationship, even if most people don’t realize it. Use it to your advantage and you’ll make him wonder if you’re a better girlfriend potential for him than his own girlfriend!

If she’s shy and timid, show off your bold karaoke videos on youtube. If she’s too dominating, allow him to take more decisions when he’s with you. If you want to know how to steal a guy, make him feel like a man, and he’ll fall for you and respect you at the same time.

[Read: What guys always notice in a girl]

We’re just warming up on the steps to steal a guy. Do you want to know everything there is about knowing how to steal a guy? Click here to read the next five pointers on how to get a guy with a girlfriend.



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  • quite frank
    November 24, 2011 | Permalink |

    why on earth would you have an article about how to STEAL another girls boyfriend? That completely put woman against woman!

  • Losers lose
    December 14, 2011 | Permalink |

    If a girl’s not good enough to hold on to her boyfriend, what’s wrong in him dating someone better?

    Seriously, I don’t understand why some girls think telling someone how to steal a guy is bad. Face it, if you’re good, your boyfriend will never leave you, it says so in the article itself. There are many times when great guys get stuck with bitchy loser girls and don’t know what to do. That’s when this would definitely work. If you’re hot stuff, your guy will stay hooked to you, if you’re just lucky, it’s time to kiss your luck goodbye because a better girl who can love him better and treat him right has come along. What’s wrong with that?

    Don’t hate the player, girlie, hate the game.

  • J
    December 31, 2011 | Permalink |

    A relationship is about commitment and loyalty, not about jumping to the next person whenever a guy sees someone more flirty and willing to please him! This article spent 99.99% of the time ADVICING and REASSURING how to successfully steal a boyfriend (also applies to husband), homewrecking is never a good thing!

  • B
    January 21, 2012 | Permalink |

    I agree with the second poster, if a man is truly happy in his relationship he will never cheat / leave you. If he does, well then it was never meant to be. Stealing is a technical term, the real meaning of this article is to get a guy who is stuck / unhappy with a girl who doesn’t treat him right. He deserves better, so this article guides you on how you can get him to see that you are someone who would never treat him as his girlfriend does; that you two would make a better couple as the relationship would be more mature.

  • Kyle
    April 15, 2012 | Permalink |

    Even if we’re married to love of our lives, we don’t need help from ladies (if you can call them such) hacking away at the foundation.

    If he legit likes you over his girlfriend, you wouldn’t need to “hit” on the taken guy.

  • Cia
    April 15, 2012 | Permalink |

    “How to lie your way to a guy’s heart, and stomp over another girl’s heart in the process!”

  • Tangerine
    May 12, 2012 | Permalink |

    One thing I’ve noticed about this site is that it promotes manipulation above all else. Why would you want to be with a guy who’s so easily suckered? And wouldn’t you prefer to have a relationship that is based on openness and honesty?

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