There are lots of things that attract women, but the most impressionable trait that hooks us is a guy’s sexiness. Here’s how you can pull that off.
Men don’t talk about being sexy, unless it’s in a humorous context. They joke about it, but it doesn’t mean that they don’t wonder about the practical things that they can do to exude more sex appeal. Since they rarely discuss it, they have to learn as they go. That can waste a lot of time, because being sexy is easy. You just have to know how to do it right.
Sex appeal can be emphasized using the various tools at your disposal, i.e. your body. You can buy expensive clothes and treat yourself to luxurious spa treatments, but none of that matters if you don’t know how to carry yourself.
A man needs to own what he has by being confident and open-minded. Don’t reject the idea of improving your appearance, because this is the first thing that everyone notices. Your personality, your intelligence, your salary – a person can make their assumptions about all of those just by looking at you. [Read: How to be a badass in 25 awesomely bad ways]
What should men do to look sexier?
If you want to leave an impression on the women you meet, you have to work on your game. You need to look good, feel good and exude sexiness on a higher level because you have competition. Men are more conscientious of their appearance these days, which means that you have to make more of an effort. So, here’s what you can do to remedy that:
#1 Have amazing hair. Do not immediately opt for the latest fashion trend when it comes to hair. Go to a semi-expensive barber or hair stylist that can tell you what will work for your facial features and lifestyle. When it comes to sexy hair, women want men to have naturally luscious locks – just make sure that she doesn’t notice the tons of products you used on it.
#2 Strategically grown facial and body hair. It’s time to man up and get yourself plucked, waxed and shaved. Go to your nearest hair waxing/threading/sugaring salon and get rid of all the hair that doesn’t look right on you. I’m talking about unibrows, nose hair, chest hair that comes up to your neck – get rid of any hair that looks good on a monkey.
#3 Wear clothes that fit. A lot can be said for a man who wears tailored clothing. It can be expensive to maintain all your clothes, so make sure that you buy ready-made ones that fit you perfectly. When your clothes fit, it emphasizes the form of your body in all the right places.
#4 Have some style. You need to decide what sort of image you want to portray for the rest of your life, and stick to it. Your style reflects your personality. Women find it sexy when men carry themselves comfortably in whatever clothes they wear.
#5 Smell expensive. Women are suckers for a man that smells good. Bonus points if you smell like you can buy her dinner. If you can’t afford a $100 bottle of cologne, get the next best thing by scouring the whole city for an affordable yet similar scent. Bring a female friend so she can determine whether the cologne you choose goes well with your personality and style.
#6 Be chivalrous. It’s surprising how women consider being a gentleman an aphrodisiac. It’s probably because they rarely see men doing gallant things on a daily basis. Don’t get me wrong. Most men are inherently chivalrous, it’s just that the only chance they show it off is on dates. [Read: 12 tips to transform you from a nice guy to a real man]
#7 Look proportional. Weight and size aside, the only reason why people get away with looking good is because they are fairly proportioned. We fail to see the sexy side of a man who has a huge body with a small head or vice versa. You can remedy that by masking it using clothing or going to the gym in order to sculpt your body to proportionate standards.
#8 Be clean. I cannot stress this enough. You can get away with anything if you look neat and clean. Women don’t notice flaws when a man looks like he can take care of himself. Always consider the state of your skin, breath, clothes and hygiene, because women find it sexy when you look like we can lick something off of you.
#9 Stand up straight. There’s something powerful about a man who “looks” tall. Height is rarely an issue when a man looks like he doesn’t care that other people are taller than him. A short guy with great posture will always win over a six-foot guy who slouches. That’s because your posture can help you exude confidence and poise.
#10 Be confident. In order to look sexy, you have to feel sexy! How do you do that? You can start by telling yourself that. Find the reasons why a woman would think you’re sexy. If that doesn’t work, follow the tips mentioned above, and look in the mirror again. [Read: 25 things women find attractive in men]
Consider these tips a last resort because they can affect your game both ways. You can either successfully pull it off or astronomically shut it down. Women notice almost everything about a man. If you can pull off these tips successfully, your sexy game will be more than on point – you will lock that woman down.
#1 Dance well. Don’t be afraid of what I’m saying. I said dance well, not like Michael Jackson. All you need to do is move with the beat and not look like you’re from another era. Don’t dance to get attention. Dance so a girl can have someone to move with.
#2 Wear pants according to your penis size. Fellas, I’m sorry to tell you this, but we look. We use CIA-level observation and surveillance skills in order to do it, so we never get caught. If we think the bulge is legit, we become fairly interested. If we hardly see a bump, we start to become dispassionate. That is why you should wear form-fitting pants, if you’ve got something to be proud of and loose-fitting pants when you don’t have much to show off. [Read: What do women REALLY think about your penis?]
#3 Wear “some” lip balm. Sexy lips are a foolproof tool when it comes to enticing women. The key to getting kissable lips – and men, please do not laugh this off – is to apply one layer of unscented, unglittered lip balm and blot it with a tissue like how we do it with lipstick. Do this in a high-level security bunker to avoid scrutiny if you must, but do so with confidence.
Even though you have the tools to make yourself look sexier, you have to work on your personality and conversation skills as well. Looking sexy is enough to get you a conversation, but it won’t be enough to keep your girl interested.
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The initial phase of physical attraction can take you a few steps into the relationship, but remember that we need to find you sexy for the long term. Once we’re dating, I recommend that you be the best boyfriend ever, because nothing gets a girl hotter than a man who shows us how badly he wants us.