12 Signs He Wants to Cheat with You: What Do You Want to Do Now?

signs he wants to cheat with you

You know he has a girlfriend, but there’s something about him that makes you question his feelings for you. Maybe these signs he wants to cheat with you?

Having a girlfriend doesn’t mean he’s faithful. Are you unsure of his motive or what his behavior means? Maybe he just wants to be friends. So, it’s time you stopped questioning yourself and understood the signs he wants to cheat with you or not.

Once you figure it out, then it’s your choice as to what you’re going to do about it. One thing I can say though is that I wouldn’t like to be his girlfriend. [Read: 10 sneaky giveaways of a potential cheater]

Signs he wants to cheat with you

I was at the club once when this good-looking guy approached me. He was talking to me, flirting with me, but never made a move. I was confused, I thought he was into me. Why wouldn’t he ask me for my number?

As the night progressed he would ask me certain questions about relationships and what I thought about men with girlfriends. At the time, I never thought about it. I was single and wasn’t interested in guys who were taken. But, that’s the thing, he was testing me. Why? Because he was in a relationship and thinking he could cheat with me. [Read: How to steal a guy from his girlfriend – The complete guide]

Now, whether you sleep with him or not is your choice, I’m not here to lecture you—you already know.

#1 You feel it. Girls, we have intuition. The problem is we look past it and don’t believe in ourselves when we feel something. If you feel that he’s sweet talking you because he wants to cheat with you, well, then you’re probably right. Don’t overlook your intuition because you have it for a reason. If you feel it, you’re most likely right. [Read: A guy with a girlfriend likes you? Here’s how you can deal with it]

#2 He tells you he has a girlfriend but flirts with you. He has no problem telling you he has a girlfriend. In fact, he reminds you he has one. But he doesn’t mind flirting with you and touching you in a way that doesn’t scream taken. He’s letting you know this so that if something happens, it’s not serious for him. Basically, he tells you that whatever happens, don’t get attached. [Read: 10 reasons he’s only interested in a hot hook-up]

#3 He initiates. Now, when a guy initiates a flirty conversation with someone, he’s interested. Let’s not play stupid and give him excuses as to why he’s approaching you. He approaches you because he’s interested in you. It doesn’t matter what the conversation is about, just the fact that he approached you is enough of a sign that he’s curious about you.

#4 He hides his relationship. Now, you have guys who tell you straight up that they have a girlfriend and continue to flirt with you and cross the line. They do that so that you know that whatever happens isn’t serious for them. However, you also have guys who completely hide their personal life, giving the impression that they’re single when they’re not.

#5 He tells you. If he tells you that he wants to cheat with you, well, you don’t need to hunt for clues anymore. He tells you that he has a girlfriend so that you’re clear with where you stand in his life. He’s looking for a hookup, one that won’t ruin the relationship he already has with his girl. Basically, he’s looking for a side chick. [Read: 14 side chick rules to be a happy mistress minus the drama]

#6 He compliments you… a lot. Listen, if you have a new haircut and he says you look nice, that doesn’t mean he wants to cheat with you. But, if he’s noticing all these small details about you and telling you that you’re beautiful every time he sees you, he’s into you. There’s a time and place for compliments, but overdoing it shows that he wants you. 

#7 He hides you. You may work together, but his girlfriend has no idea who you are. That’s strange, why would he hide you from her? Well, he doesn’t want her to know about you because he doesn’t want there to be any suspicions. But why would she be suspicious? Well, that’s because he wants to sleep with you.

#8 He talks about his issues in his relationship. Usually, men don’t talk about their relationship issues with other women. Sure, they may mention it to their male friends, but if they talk to a woman they flirt with about their issues, they let her know things are rocky at home. What happens when things are rocky? People look for cover. Meaning, this is one of those big signs he wants to cheat with you and is looking for an escape. [Read: 17 sordid signs you’re just a hookup and nothing more]

#9 He’s jealous of other men around you. If you’re single, you probably have other men coming around, asking you out. This is completely normal. And sure, guys can be jealous, but if he’s in a relationship then there’s no need for him to care. But, here’s the thing, he’s into you and wants you. Naturally, he has a problem with other men wanting and getting you.

#10 He tries to spend alone time with you. Now, why else would he try to hang out with you at his house for a movie night? It’s not because the theater was sold out of tickets. He wants in your pants. His girlfriend may be out with her friends. Now is the perfect time for him to have you over to finally make his dream of sleeping with you come true. [Read: 15 signs a married man is clearly attracted to you and is falling for you]

#11 He ignored his girlfriend’s calls around you. The last thing he wants you to hear is “I love you” come out of his mouth when he’s on the phone with his girlfriend. Instead, he ignores her calls until you’re not around. If he does answer them, he keeps them short and sweet. His sketchy behavior is because he doesn’t want to get caught. [Read: 18 emotional affair signs you probably didn’t notice]

#12 He stalks you on social media. Though he may play calm and cool around you, on social media, he likes all your photos and watches all your Insta stories. This is because he wants you. Yeah, he’s in a relationship, but his biggest desire is to get you in his bedroom. That’s why he’s so attentive when it comes to liking your photos and seeing where you are and who you’re with.

[Read: The reasons why a cheater can’t help themselves]

See, just because he’s in a relationship doesn’t mean he’s going to be faithful. If you feel something’s weird in his behavior, it could be one of the clearest signs he wants to cheat with you.

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Natasha Ivanovic
Natasha Ivanovic
A serial dater, Natasha Ivanovic knows a thing or two about men and the dating scene. Much of her writing is inspired by her encounters with men - and for good ...
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