Despite the miles between you and your partner, there are still sexy little things you can do to make your love life sizzle with passion!
We used to think that relationships will only be possible if the ones involved have the same zip codes. Back then, like way back then, if the other half is to study or work in a different town, or worst case, fly to a different country, there will not be any possible way to make the relationship work. But thanks to the ever flourishing technology and ingenious app makers, everything is just one click away.
There are tons of long distance relationship couples out there who still manage to make their love lives sizzle, thanks to the power of technology. So if you’re in a relationship with someone who’s far away, you’d be doing your relationship a favor by trying out some sexy games.
Long distance relationships can be sexy even without the physical contact
There are numerous ways to keep long distance relationships interesting and full of surprises. Here are some suggestions to make the distance disappear.
#1 Social media messaging, chat applications, and a whole lot of libido. All you need is a smart phone and a Wi-Fi connection or data plan, and you are both good to go. Sending messages seem to be trivial these days. However, it is what these messages are saying that is the most interesting for the couple.
Try this: compose one long sexy message in your head where you convey your longing for physical intimacy. Be as racy and as detailed as you can be with this message. Now, send this message in parts, or by phrases. Send the first four words through a social media messaging platform such as Facebook or Twitter. Then send the next four words through a chat application like Viber, Whatsapp or iMessage. Continue doing this until you have sent the whole message to tease and excite your other half. [Read: 20 sexts to get your conversation going]
#2 Adult entertainment, anyone? Watching movies together is still possible even when you are not in the same time zone. Using a video call application, such as Skype, you can both set a date and time to watch the same movie together. You should have the same movie available by either streaming or obtaining a copy of it.
The only difference is, the movie should be in the rated R category, or the adult movies. This will get interesting especially when the two of you start getting aroused. And then, you can move on to…
#3 Photo tease. The best part about sending photos is that you get to choose which photo to send, ensuring that this showcases the best possible that you have. Sending teaser photos, such as random parts of your body that will not be recognizable or can be misleading will make your partner crave for more discernible photos.
Send a photo of your shoulder, the fold of your arm or any other body part, but make sure the photos you send look like teasers for your butt, your cleavage or any other body part. Try to make your partner guess which part of your body you just sent, and if they get it wrong, it’s their turn to send in a seemingly racy photo.
#4 Bare it all on the .jpeg. After sending those photo teasers, when your lover has guessed the right body part, send a part of your body that you feel is intimate, or pose intimately. This can be the prize for the guessing game, or you can just randomly send sexy photos exposing intimate parts of your body. The best thing is not to tell it, and just send it out of nowhere. The surprise factor will be really enticing. [Read: 15 ways to look better naked]
#5 Play. Play what? Why, games, of course! There are gaming applications that can be played by 2 players, such as scrabble or monopoly. The trick is, take note of who is always leading on which game, so when you and your significant other finally meet, you should’ve both agreed on a prize for the winner. It could be a 20 minute blow job or a day-long sexual marathon. The winner gets to choose which sexual prize to wish for.
#6 Talk dirty to me. Voice mails used to be a thing of the past. But with the chat applications these days, voice mails or rather voice notes and messages are now making a comeback. You can send your sexy, dirty talk to your lover, or when you feel like it, some moaning sounds might also make this more interesting.
You can even add a bit of a thrill by sending a voice message describing what you want to do to your lover while the noise of other people are in the background. Just the thought of you talking dirty in such a public place can turn your partner on! [Read: How to have really dirty phone sex]
#7 Who says dating cannot be done online? Through the video call application, you can both look at each other and pretend to be having a date in a restaurant or picnicking under the stars. The sky is the limit for your imagination. If you have a laptop or a tablet with a long battery life, you can even lie down on the grass in your backyard or go up the roof and show your partner the things that you are seeing. This can be sexy and sweet at the same time.
#8 Video teasers. Personal adult videos. Tempting? Sending sexy and intimate videos is a total game changer for a long distance relationship. It’s like making a personal adult video for your partner. This will definitely keep your lover holding out for as long as he or she can until you see each other. Just make sure that you do not show your face in a racy photo or video, just in case your gadgets get hacked. [Read: 14 important dos and don’ts of online dating]
#9 Video call tips and tricks. Everyone does video calls with their clothes on. While this helps long distance relationships, one way to make it sexier is to do it naked. You can start off by pretending that you’re wearing something, and then casually let the camera glide down to show that you’re stark naked. This can totally derail your conversation towards a naughtier territory.
#10 Go old school. Remember how dating was years ago? Nothing is sexier than sending a handwritten letter professing how much you miss them and how much you have been longing to be wrapped around their arms. Throw in some printed photos of you or the sexy you in a revealing bikini or show off those ripped abs. You can even add in a memento from a restaurant that you just visited or a postcard from a recent country that you went to.
Even calling during his or her work time is also a gesture that will definitely spice things up for the two of you in spite of the distance. There is nothing sexier than putting that extra effort for your partner.
There are many ways to explore intimacy in a long distance relationship and the aforementioned suggestions may not be conventional or something up your alley, but there is always no harm in trying, unless of course, you have other sexy and hot things to do in mind.