Technology is a wonderful thing, don’t you think? From shopping to booking vacations, finding a new job to messaging a crush, you can do it all from your cell phone. Do you know what else you can do? FaceTime sex.
We all use FaceTime, so why not add a little spice to your video calls occasionally? If you’re long-distance lovers, this is the perfect way to maintain a sexual connection. And even if you’re not, it’s still a fun way to spice things up!
Check that your lover is free on their lunch break at work and tell them to go into the bathroom. Surprise them with some steamy video action! Why not?
So, whether you’re miles apart over the long-term, or you’re just away for a few hours, you’ll be able to still get “laid.” Not a bad deal, right?
Isn’t technology amazing? [Read: Tips for having steamy Skype sex with your guy]
FaceTime sex is a great thing, but there are a few things you need to bear in mind. We want you to have an enjoyable time here, so check out these tips to make sure that happens.
The alternative? You embarrass your partner in front of their boss. Not good.
Before you call them, send a quick text and ask if they’re busy or whether they’re available for a sexy surprise. If it’s not a good time, you’ll save yourself the effort. If it is a good time, you know you’ve got space to really go for it!
If this is the first time you’ve ever tried to have FaceTime sex with your partner, make sure they’re actually up for it.
Some people don’t like it, while others love it. So, just send a quick text and put the idea into their head. They’ll probably excuse themselves from whatever they’re doing and make themselves free! [Read: 20 new things to try in bed at least once with your lover]
Before you call, tell them to go somewhere they can’t be seen or heard. That way, they’ll be more comfortable and able to participate.
By this, we mean don’t call and present yourself naked and ready to go. They may not have managed to get away from their boss or a friend who is nearby, and you’ll accidentally reveal far more than you ever wanted to!
The same goes for sexy noises when they pick up the phone, wait for the nod of the head to confirm they’re in a private setting, and then go for it. [Read: Top 50 kinky sex ideas worth trying at least once in your lifetime]
So, we’ve covered what to do before you call, so now we need to talk about how you can make your FaceTime sexcapades as much fun as possible! Handily for you, here are a few tips.
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Before you call your lover, choose something to wear that will get them in the mood. Perhaps their favorite item of clothing on you, or something that leaves little to the imagination.
Whatever makes you look and feel sexy, wear it. That way, when they answer the phone to you, they’ll feel the stirrings of arousal from the get-go.
We mentioned earlier about making sure that your partner is up for having FaceTime sex in the first place. That’s something you can talk about on an earlier occasion. Once you know they’re down for it, you can initiate it at a time they least expect it – as long as it’s a good time! But, how? [Read: Naughty games for long distance relationships]
While you’re on FaceTime, just tell your partner that you’re turned on. That should get the ball rolling!
Bite your lip, play with your hair, loosen your clothing a little, and basically show your partner that you’re hot under the collar in more ways than one.
Once you’ve made it clear that you’re turned on and you’ve shown them a few visual signs, ask them if they’re horny too. They’re very unlikely they’ll say no!
Ask them if they’re somewhere private and ask if they want to play a little on video. Sometimes a direct approach is always the best!
To move things in the right direction, perhaps pan down your body and show a little skin. They’ll no doubt want to move somewhere a lot more private so they can enjoy the show. [Read: How to tell if a guy is turned on]
Once you’ve initiated the FaceTime sex that’s about to come your way, lock the door, make sure nobody outside can see you, and get ready to enjoy. This might be boring before the fun starts, but having someone walk in on you isn’t fun.
Obviously, they’re not there in person so you’re going to have to use your imagination. Tell them what you would want them to do to you if they were there, and use your hands to pretend it’s them.
Pan the camera down and let them see what you’re doing. Don’t be afraid to use dirty talk, they can’t touch you so you’ll have to rely on words.
Use words that’ll rouse your partner, but make sure you’re comfortable with them. Words like “vagina” are too formal, it’s not much of a turn-on when you hear it. Use a naughtier version of the word like “pussy.” Don’t be shy to loosen up – nobody can hear you but your partner. [Read: How to talk dirty and turn on your lover]
This isn’t for them, this is for you. When you see yourself looking sexy on camera, you feel more comfortable, thus looking more confident. When you’re loving yourself, there’s nothing sexier than that.
Check yourself out in the mirror occasionally as you’re having FaceTime sex with your partner. It will give you extra confidence, for sure. However, remember to keep the bulk of your focus on your partner!
The big difference between phone and FaceTime sex is the camera. So, use it!
Touch yourself on camera while telling them what you’re doing and ask them if they like it. You need to feel good and sexy about yourself, and nothing is sexier than seeing yourself on camera. [Read: How to use lingerie selfies and perfect the art of seducing from afar]
Make sure you and your partner are communicating. Do they like what you’re doing? Do you like what they’re doing? If not, change it up.
Ask them what they’d like you to do, their fantasies, and what they want to try with you but haven’t yet. You might discover something totally new!
If you’re on the verge of having an orgasm, don’t hold yourself back. Embrace it! Show it off! There’s nothing wrong with showing it off. Your partner is going to be so proud that you had an orgasm. [Read: Intense orgasms checklist – Moves to guarantee one every time]
Listen, you’re only human, so don’t treat this so seriously! It’s only sex!
So, if you fart or if your camera falls, just shake it off because you’re supposed to have fun. If you’re not having fun, rethink if this is really for you.
The fact you have a camera in front of you means that you can pretend you’re there in person. Eye contact during sex can make everything ten times more intimate and special.
FaceTime sex is no different! Look your partner in the eye as you’re touching yourself and they’ll feel like they want to explode! [Read: Eye contact during sex will take your orgasm to the next level]
You’ve both chosen to have FaceTime sex, which means you’re already trying new, possibly taboo things. So, while you’re at it, why not just let your inhibitions go and really enjoy yourself?
Moan until your heart’s content, and touch yourself in ways you’ve never let your partner see before. This is a time to connect, and you can only do that if you really go for it.
It might take your partner a little longer to get warmed up, or vice versa. Slow things down or speed things up to make sure you’re both at the same point and that one of you isn’t enjoying it more than the other.
Keep asking questions, keep talking, and tell each other how it feels. [Read: Orgasm denial – How to withhold orgasms for ultimate pleasure]
A good way to enjoy FaceTime sex and get things moving is to give your partner a phone striptease. Prop your phone up and make sure that they can see you properly. Then, put on some sexy music and give them a striptease they’ll never forget.
If you find that it’s a little awkward and you need to loosen up, why not play sex games on FaceTime? Perhaps truth or dare with a very sexy twist. How about snap, and the one who loses has to drop a piece of clothing?
The list is endless, and it will no doubt lead to full-on FaceTime sex in no time. [Read: Naughty sex games for couples to feel horny again]
At the end of the day, FaceTime sex is never going to feel as natural as regular sex. But, it’s a great second option and it’s ideal for keeping things fresh during a long-distance relationship or when you just want to surprise your partner.
If the Internet is glitchy, laugh it off. Perhaps one of you will drop the phone, again, have a giggle about it.
Just be as open and intimate as you would be in person, and you’ll enjoy everything that this sexy side of FaceTime has to offer!
[Read: How to keep your sanity in a long-distance relationship]
Now that you know how to have FaceTime sex, what are you waiting for? Give your partner a call and go wild!
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