Have you ever flirted while SMSing a friend? Do you want to? Flirting with a friend via texting can be easy, but it can also pull you into a world of lust and dirty imagination. So if you really do want to flirt lusty over phone, think twice.
“Hi wt r u dn?”
“Jst bout 2 slip in2 my bed”
“Really? Wt r u wearin? lol!”
“Umm.. nthin! lol!”
It’s that simple, really. Texting late at night, the mood set just right, and no inhibitions between friends, can lead to a explicit and flirtilicious conversation. Well, if you’re surprised, think twice and look around the next time you’re with your bunch of pals. Almost all the time, there will be at least a few of them who secretly indulge in these SMS chats occasionally, if not everyday. Your friends wouldn’t be surprised if you’re indulging in it either.
Men and women have always been attracted towards each other, and at times, even the best of friends can set off the vibes that can arouse a lustful interest in each other. SMS flirting can start off as a cute funny thing, something worth a giggle in the start, but as the days go by, the messages can get kinkier and more lustful. And another thing is that, neither of the involved friends would feel awkward about it, but would look forward to messaging this friend the next night. You might be seeing someone, but the urge to message this friend of yours in an intimate manner can be such a turn on that it might be very hard to resist!
Psychologists say that this feeling is an echo of the feeling you get when you fall in love, or are aroused by someone new in a lustful manner. This person might be a friend, but when you have these intimate messaging moments, you’re actually looking at the same friend of yours from another point of view, and every new message shows something new about this person, and at times, you start falling for this person. These texts can affect you in many ways. It might bring both of you closer, but there will always be carnal tension that is created between you and this friend.
SMS flirting at night
Have you ever wanted to flirt with someone through messages, but didn’t know how to go about it? It’s not hard at all. All you have to do is take your cell phone and message your friend, preferably late at night. In all probability, you would find yourself flirting outrageously in a matter of days, or in a couple of weeks. It begins with a message that could be intimate, even something as trivial as “So do you lie on your back or on your tummy when you sleep?”
The conversation could get steamier soon, and you might just be on your way to a night of text flirting. We always feel more confident and daring when we message using our cell phones, rather than a conversation face to face. And the fact that you can add a little line mentioning you’re kidding, takes away all the pressure while your friend replies to you.
Your friend, on the other hand, would obviously know what your intentions are, but there’s something in text messaging that makes these conversations all the more fun. It could give you hours of pleasure and a secret relationship may bloom between the both of you. You would also know a lot about each other eventually, physically or otherwise. But surprisingly, when two people indulge in a bit of text flirting, their regular day lives do not change much. It would be more like a secret flirty relationship the both of you share, late at night with a cell phone in your hands.
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I have found flirting over text is great fun!
it works well to text at night and build up to a good flirty standard
Good post