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How to Impress a Girl Over Text: 7 Rules to Make Her Fall for You

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Texting is complicated at the start of a relationship. Just be yourself and do what is in your heart, and that is how to impress a girl over text.

There was a day when you couldn’t text. I know, right? I am nothing if I am not a texter, which I found is either the best form of communication or the downfall. If you want to know how to impress a girl over text, it is about being communicative and putting yourself out there. Two things guys aren’t always great at.

If you like a girl and want to impress her over text message, then there are things you should do that might not feel natural or leave you fearful of rejection. But, a girl wants someone real and in touch with their feelings, not an evasive guy who plays games.

How to impress a girl over text

There is nothing more frustrating to a girl who is into a guy than getting one-word answers or waiting days to get any answer at all. Let me clue you in on a little secret, playing hard to get is getting you nowhere, especially when it comes to texting.

On the other end of your texting screen is a girl who waits and wonders where she stands with you. If you blow her off, waiting too long to show her you aren’t too into her or giving her nothing but straight answers, then she reads that you don’t like her, which is not impressive. Follow these simple rules for how to impress a girl over text and win her over. [Read: How to impress a girl – 15 atypical secrets you HAVE to know]

#1 Never wait too long to answer. Sure, there will be times when you can’t answer back right away. But, if you purposely wait to show her that you aren’t more into her than she is into you, she will know. Playing games by playing hard to get isn’t going to get or impress her. More likely, you turn her off.

If she texts you and you are available to text back, do so. She is trying to establish a rapport with you. If she puts herself out there, then you owe her the same. No one wants to be rejected, and girls certainly don’t want to be played with. So, don’t not answer on purpose. [Read: How often should you text a girl? 17 must-know rules of texting]

#2 Be funny. If you want to know how to impress a girl over text, then find things to make her laugh. Send her funny GIFs, images, or just be light-hearted. A girl likes to feel like you enjoy life and see the funny all around.

They also want to feel included on those things that you find amusing to make their day brighter.

#3 Don’t use it as your resume. If you want to impress her through text messages, don’t be a braggart. She doesn’t care that you drive a high-end car or that you own something expensive. Don’t use texting to give her a resume of how awesome you are.

Texting is supposed to be a way to get to know the lighter side of someone and their personality, not to be a thing to toot your own horn. If you want to impress her—stop trying to impress her. Just be you without all the nonsense. [Read: A complete guide to texting before the first date]

#4 Text often. Okay, I say this lightly. There is a fine line to walk between texting often to get her attention and bombarding her with text messages. You want to text her when you think about her and have something relevant to say, not just to badger her all day.

If you see something that you want to share or something cute to say, then it is totally okay to pick up the phone often. If you aren’t getting any answers, back off. You might be coming on too strong or scaring her off. [Read: Should I text her? What to know before you text her]

#5 Say sweet things. If you want to impress her through text messages, say sweet things. There is a difference between saying sweet things and creepy things. Speak from the heart and tell her how you feel about her. But, don’t come on super strong, jealous, or obsessive, if you want to impress her.

Text her things in the morning to brighten her day or in the evening just before bed to let her know you are thinking about her. Being sweet is super easy if you just say those things that you feel in your heart.

Try to stay away from the sexual things until you both agree that is where you want to take your texting conversation. If you send her messages of the sexual kind, you run the risk of making her uncomfortable. So, in the beginning, at least, stick to sweet. [Read: 50 flirty texts that are sure to make her smile]

#6 Understand the double texting rule. There is an unspoken double text rule that says that you shouldn’t ever text someone you like until you get an answer. Sometimes that rule applies and sometimes it doesn’t. If you want to impress her, then figure out right from the start what type of girl she is.

If she is someone who likes a challenge, then the double text rule applies, which means you don’t text her more than once before she texts back or that could turn her off. If she is a romantic at heart, then send her more than one without waiting. Sometimes she’ll shit test you by playing hard to get and not answering without waiting.

If you feel like she is playing games, you have two options, stop the games and be honest or play along. Girls are complicated creatures, so sometimes you just have to take a chance. After all, if she is a game player and you aren’t, then you might not want to get too invested. Typically, games don’t just end with text messages. [Read: Double texting and second texts – 6 simple rules to play it cool]

#7 Just be yourself. What most girls want is a guy who can be himself. So, maybe instead of researching how to impress her over a text, just try to be who you are and say what you want. The key? Text her as you would anyone else and not play into all the rules and games out there.

If you like her, I mean really like her, put yourself out there and show the inner you. Because after you impress her, you have to be you anyway. [Read: How to impress any girl – 18 secrets that’ll work every single time]

Text messaging when you first start a relationship is a tricky thing. It isn’t “real”, and what I mean by that is whatever you write in a text message is read by the recipient in whatever frame of mind they are in. So, in reality, sometimes it really doesn’t matter what you write, people read what they want to.

[Read: How to tease a girl over text and get her to flirt back with you]

If you want to win her heart, learning how to impress a girl over text might get you in the door, but once there, she’s going to either fall in love with you or not. So, being yourself up front is the best way to move along with a real and lasting relationship.

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Julie Keating
Julie Keating

A writer isn’t born, but created out of experiences. No lack of subject matter, my life reads more like fiction than anything that could have been imagined...

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