Falling in love with a married man can be one of the most confusing affairs that a woman can ever have. Affairs with married men can wreck you, give you a bad name and ruin your own life. And yet, most women can’t help but fall for them. Read this experience to understand more.
Click here to read the author’s introduction of her having an affair with a married man.
Affairs with married men and happiness just don’t mix.
When you find yourself falling in love with a married man, life can seem so much simpler and easy in some ways, but there’s always a dark side to it.
And a woman will always love the attention, even if it comes from someone who’s already married or seeing someone.
Is this some evolutionary flaw in women or some mistake we end up making over and over again?
No one can tell. But we all know how it starts, don’t we? It starts when we least expect it.
Falling in love with a married man
Love is a funny thing. I don’t really know how women make the first move while falling in love with a married man, because I really haven’t done that. So I’m going to tell you about how married men try to hit on you in the first place.
You may know that a charming married man’s taken already, but if you find that he gives you a few second glances or a roguish smile, it would be pretty hard for you to overlook that.
And once you get past the stares, and hit conversation mode, you’d realize that he’s totally hitting on you. [Read: Is he in love with you?]
And even if you do speak about his wife, he might just shrug the conversation away like it’s too trivial to talk about. And let’s admit it, if a sweet guy hits on you very subtly, in a manner you love, would you want him to stop? Most married men may not be really smooth, but it’s the smooth ones who learn to throw their ball outside family grounds.
Why do women have affairs with married men?
What is it about a married or committed man that makes us women flip the lid and have an affair? The way I see it, it’s probably the fact that he’s already taken. I mean, if he’s already taken, that means he has to be good, right? Otherwise, why would a woman pick him?
And if his woman is a pretty looker in the first place, I’d be flattered if the guy leaves her to come to me. That would just show how good looking I am myself, wouldn’t it? A great guy who loves his family and kids is a tempting offer and women like that in men, a lot. Though the woman might just end up as a home wrecker who has affairs with married men, it probably would start off as casual flirting, [Read: How to flirt by touch] but then it takes a nosedive into sexual overtones in no time.
In some cases, a woman might just want to be good friends while the man spins his chance on the wheel of seduction fortune.
Do women fall in love with married men for sex or love?
Sometimes, women too, are afraid of commitment. They admire others who can hold on to happy relationships and they envy them. If it’s a man we’re talking about, inevitably they end up falling in love with them. In other cases, it’s the story of the ‘Forbidden Fruit’. All the fun and no hang ups, so what if a relationship is shattered because of you, who cares? You’re happy. And in a few others, emotional support and concern turn to lust. These women have affairs with married men because they can be in love with them without exactly having to commit to them.
Women can be attracted to men for different reasons, all the way from the silliest to the biggest reasons. Bottom line? Women do get attracted to men they can’t have. And women find themselves falling in love with a married man more often than not. And if it’s not married men, women also get attracted to men who are dating someone else.
Whose fault is it, the woman’s?
Most people say it’s the woman who’s the home wrecker, the one who has affairs with married men all the time. But you wouldn’t say the same if you were that woman. It may be the case for a few women, but definitely not everyone.
I haven’t come across any woman who pretends to fall in love with a married man just for the heck of it, but those women do exist, I guess. In my life, and in many other women’s lives, it’s just the case of the sweet talk laced with goodness that does the trick, that, and the second round of confessions and sharing problems. From what I know, it’s usually the men who are ever ready for a quick fling. But a woman could do the same too!
Falling in love with a married man or sugar daddy?
A friend of mine who was seeing a guy once told me, “I don’t want a man to take care of me, I just want a man who wants me.” That’s the point, because men do get attracted to women outside their relationship almost all the time.
When a man hooks up outside wedlock, he doesn’t want to take care of her, he just wants her and what she’s got to give. And some women like that. The allure of the “other woman” excites them. They don’t have to worry about cooking dishes, cope with his spending sprees, entertain his friends, nothing! They can lead their own life without having to worry about his. [Read: Money can buy happiness in love]
And the fact is, they know he’s committed and will never come to them, and they love the guy for that one reason. It’s just a fling thing. And beyond that, a rich married man with real money can provide a lot more than a young hot man with penniless dreams. Who needs Einstein wannabe when you can have Sugar Daddy? Now any woman who’s trying to hook up like this is nothing less than a home wrecker and a whore, but hey, who am I to judge someone? Sigh!
Falling in love with a married man is just as easy as falling in love with a single guy. Actually it’s easier! Affairs with married men happen more often than people give it credit for. But you know how it starts now, through my eyes. But find out how your life can change when you actually start dating a married man here.
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