And once you’re through there, you’re ready for step three in the art of girlfriend stealing.
You’ve read about the obvious ways, the not-so-obvious ways and the sneaky ways of stealing a girlfriend. Now we talk about the five things you should never do while stealing a girlfriend.
Things you should never do while stealing a girl
When you’re trying out the earlier steps while talking to the girl you like, it’s easy to get carried away and say the wrong thing at the wrong time. Unless you want to create irreparable damage, avoid these five things at all costs.
Never badmouth her guy
Do this at your own risk, risk of being thrown out of her field of vision. She would definitely not want to hear anything bad about her guy. After all, he is her guy and she does love him, still. Insulting her boyfriend also insults her. A little bit of humor is great, but overdoing it, especially at the cost of her boyfriend is something no girl would want to put up with.
Bumping in when she’s with her guy
Did she tell you she’s going out to watch a movie with her guy that evening? Then, don’t ever purposely bump into her at the movies. She may have a great time with you when it’s just the both of you, but bumping someplace just to meet her is a definite breach of privacy. It might annoy her a bit the first time, but a few times in a row, and you can say goodbye to her.
Don’t try to get physically intimate
I would kill you myself if you did that. Unless, of course, she starts it first or reciprocates your flirty touches with more wild flirting. [Read: How to touch a girl and excite her]
Touching a girl unnecessarily makes her feel cheap. Respect her private space and let her be comfortable around you. An accidental brush or a stroke of her hair when there’s something there is fine, but unnecessary rubbing of arms and cheeks is repulsive. Go get yourself a happy ending massage if you’re turned on by that.
Don’t try too hard
I know you really want to flatter her and impress her, but there’s a line. Just like there is in any other circumstance. If you like a girl who has a boyfriend, she may enjoy your flirting, but if you’re going to do that all the time, it would just be plain annoying.
Give her a chance to know you as the person you are, and don’t just focus on your overdone flirty charisma. Let her have a nice time with you. And don’t stare at her cleavage, or stare too hard at her in the first place. That’s going to creep her out. Definitely. [Read: How to compliment a girl]
Don’t ever, ever propose!!!
Gosh, you’d rather kill yourself than do this. Look, she knows you like her, and you know she likes being with you. But a direct “I love you” is a binder. It brings things back onto the spotlight, and it can make her feel uneasy around you.
A proposal from your end confirms in the open that you are interested in her only to hook up. Both of you know you like being around each other so why speak about it before it’s time? Let things stay as they are. You really can’t make her break up with her guy just by saying “I love you” to her. It could actually rip your relationship with her apart.
You may like a girl who has a boyfriend, but if you really want her, you have to play your moves as smoothly as you can. Or you’ll just go from “the girl I like has a boyfriend” to “the girl I like has walked all over me”! Click here to read about the last part in the series on do you like a girl who likes someone else.