The world is an ever-changing place and with all the changes taking place, getting lucky on the first date has seemed to take its rightful place among them. There seems to be more and more people heading out for dates for the purpose of getting lucky! This guide on how to get lucky on the first date will help you get there.
Back in the day, this would have been considered ridiculously taboo. But in today’s society, getting lucky on the first date is something happening more often than you might think. A shocking 22% of adults aged 18-24 has sex on the first date while a whopping 39% of adults 25-54 hop in between the sheets after only one date. [Read: Sex on the first date – Should you give in to the urge?]
Should you try to get lucky on the first date?
While it may seem really fun to hop right in and go for the touchdown after only one date, there are people who are completely against it. Those people seem to be more familiar with the three date rule.
While it’s completely up to the person whether or not they jump someone’s bones after only going on one date with them, it’s not always the easiest thing to pull off for a number of reasons.
How to get lucky on the first date
As much as you may think getting lucky on the first date has to do with luck, it’s really all about what you do during the date to get you there. Here’s how you can go above and beyond the average person and make sure you get some on the first date.
#1 Look good. If there’s one thing to help your chances of getting laid on the first date, it’s your appearance. Never show up to a date unkempt and dirty looking. Shower, shave *or at least groom*, and put on something casual, but very crisp and fresh looking. [Read: How to make your vagina smell good and taste even better]
#2 Smell great. Looking good isn’t all that gets you in the sack after date one. If you smell fantastic, your chances of someone hopping into your bed after the date are going to be increased dramatically.
A tip about this though, avoid going overboard. Your goal is to have them want to stay as close to you as they can be, not wear cologne or perfume so strong they need to stay five feet away from you at all times in order to breath properly. [Read: 16 first date tips for girls to dazzle your date]
#3 DON’T be creepy. If your goal is to get lucky on the first date, do NOT come across as that being your only goal. Don’t make sexual comments or be a pig in any way. Being creepy like that is going to have the complete opposite effect. [Read: 16 first date tips for guys to charm your date]
#4 Make them feel comfortable. If your date doesn’t feel comfortable around you, they’re most certainly not going to have sex with you. You have to make them feel as comfortable as they can be when on a date with a new person.
In order to do this, make fun of yourself from time to time and do anything to alleviate the tension they may feel. Bring them around an environment where they can relax. [Read: 18 clear signs your date really likes you on the very first date]
#5 Start the night off at your place. Have them meet you at your place for a drink before heading out for your event or for dinner. Getting them into your place first and allowing them to become familiar with it will make them feel more comfortable going back there when the date is done. The more comfortable they are, the more likely it is that they’ll want to get naked and hop into your bed.
#6 Keep your date moving. It’s a proven fact the more time you spend with someone in different environments the closer they’ll feel to you. Meaning if you have your date jump from place to place, you’ll have a better chance of your date feeling like they know you better than they do. This translates to them being more comfortable around you and ups your chances of getting lucky on the first date.
#7 Make your moves early rather than later. Don’t save your kiss for the end of the night. How can you naturally progress to sex when you have only touched them once throughout the night?
You have to make your moves earlier in the evening if you want a natural-feeling progression to sex. Don’t kiss them first thing, but wait for a nice moment and then lay one on them! [Read: 15 kissing techniques for that heartbeat-skipping kiss]
#8 Pick a date where you can initiate repeated physical contact. Bowling is probably the best date to go on if you want to get lucky on the first date. Mini golf is also a close second choice.
The point is to pick a date where you can easily find ways to be physical with them. Dinner and a movie is not a good plan because you’ll have hardly any contact at all. Mini golf and a picnic, for example, gives you the same entertainment and food with much more opportunity for contact. [Read: How to get a guy to kiss you when you want him to]
#9 Don’t act nervous. Emotions are very contagious. That being said, if you’re acting like a nervous wreck, they’re going to be nervous as all hell, too. Remain calm and collected in order to come across as someone they can see themselves having sex with at the end of the date.
#10 Treat them like you’ve known them for a long time. The best advise I can give for someone who wants to get lucky on the first date is to treat your date like you’ve known them for a very long time.
Talk to them like an old friend and be yourself. You’ll be surprised how much doing this calms them down and really give them a glimpse into the real you, increasing your chances of them liking you. [Read: How to touch a girl on a date and make her desire you]
#11 Be goofy and fun–not serious. Nobody really wants to sleep with someone who is nothing but serious all the time. It’s proven that people enjoy the company of those who keep them entertained and are fun.
If you make them have such a good time that they don’t want the night to end, they might just stick around so the night doesn’t have to end.
#12 Don’t spend too much money. You never want your date to feel like you’re buying your way into their pants. Spending a lot of money on a date doesn’t make you look desirable, it actually makes you look like a d-bag. And nobody wants to bang a d-bag. [Read: Top 50 amazing first date to wow your first date]
#13 End the date within walking distance of your place. Then ask them if they’d like to take a walk. Taking a walk, if the weather permits, is a great way to get some close contact and great conversation in. Then you can just walk towards your home and ask them if they’d like to come inside to continue the conversation where it’s a bit warmer.
#14 Read the situation correctly. Not much messes up the end of your date like reading into the situation wrong. If you try to take them up to your place and they’re clearly telling you that they’re not ready for it, your chances with that person are over for good. [Read: Instant chemistry: 25 flirty to ask a girl you like]
#15 Don’t be disappointed or angry if they don’t want to come inside. You never know how somebody feels about sex on the first date until the end of the date comes along. That being said, you can NEVER get mad or disappointed if you don’t end the night with a bang.
[Read: Why there’s nothing wrong with having sex on the first date]
Not every first date is going to end in your favor. But if you really want to increase your odds at getting lucky on the first date, these tips help you get there.
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