Girly Things: 22 Unintentional Things You Do That Guys Love

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What can you do to get noticed and make your guy go gaga? Apparently, not a lot. Here are 22 unintentional girly things girls do that drive guys wild.

Trying to get a guy to notice you can be hella difficult, whether you’re single or in a relationship with one. Figuring out just what men want and like can also be a tad confusing. This is why women go to so many lengths to look pretty. After all, guys are highly visual creatures and are more quickly drawn to things that are pleasing to their eyes.

However, what we don’t know is that for guys, it really doesn’t take much to please them. Just the fact that you’re a woman is enough to get them to notice you. Even your girliest girly side is enough to melt their hearts and make them fall head over heels.

22 girly things that drive ‘em men wild and make them love you

Read up on these surprising, unintentional girly things you do that drive guys crazy over you.

#1 Wriggling out of tight clothes. You might feel like an elephant wriggling out of your tight LBD, but to your man, you’re an undressing goddess. The way you take off your clothes and shimmy out of them can be a major turn on for guys—especially when they get to see what you’re wearing *or not wearing* underneath. [Read: 18 physical turn ons that arouse guys instantly]

#2 Crawling in bed. For guys, every little move you make can just seem so sensual. This is especially true when you approach him by crawling into bed beside him. Your feline moves are enough to make them purr.

#3 Twirling your hair. There’s something about your long hair that gets men’s senses on high alert. Whether you’re pulling at it, twirling it, or caressing it, there’s something about it that men find cute and sexy.

#4 Your perfume. Maybe it’s man’s animal instinct, but getting a whiff of your perfume as you pass by can leave them giving you a lusty second glance.

#5 Your shampoo. As with perfume, something as unintentional as your shampoo can leave guys crazy over you. Smelling your hair is a major turn on, and you probably don’t even notice it.

#6 Your lingerie. Whether you’re wearing Victoria’s Secret, or your everyday pair of mismatched underwear, there’s something about the sight of you in lingerie that can naughtily provoke your man’s mind—and his groins. [Read: 25 things guys find really sexy and attractive when they see a girl]

#7 Making eye contact. The way you make eye contact with them can also leave them exhilarated. This is especially the case when you look at them and then coyly or innocently look away.

#8 Closing your eyes for a kiss. Men especially love it when they lean in for a kiss and, for that split second, they can see you trustingly kiss them with your eyes closed. The same goes for when they break the kiss and you leave your eyes closed for just a few more seconds, like you’re savoring the feeling—and they savor just how exquisite you look.

#9 Slowly breathing out. There’s also more to a kiss that turns guys on. The way you breathe out a shaky breath after a kiss can be enough to drive them loco. It’s like their assurance that you like them and what they did, and they go crazy for that. [Read: How to turn a guy on and leave him hard with just a kiss]

#10 Pursing your lips. The lips are a very sensual body part. Whether it’s a new guy, or your man who sees you purse your lips, especially when you’re concentrating, they always find it hot and endearing.

#11 Biting your lips. There’s a reason why lip-biting is an age-old form of flirting. There’s something about it that makes men notice you. And when you find some guy staring at you while you unconsciously bite your lips, you can be sure that he’s having nice *or naughty* thoughts about you.

#12 Blushing. Men find blushing girls too cute. Maybe that’s why pick-up lines were invented—to provoke that rosy glow. The sight of you blushing, especially if they caused it, is such a big pat on their backs and it makes them even more drawn to you. [Read: 25 tips to look really cute and melt any guy’s heart effortlessly]

#13 Stretching out. Whether you’re in the grocery store, reaching for that can of pasta sauce, or at a guy’s place, trying to reach the top shelf of his cupboard, believe it or not, men will take their sweet time before helping you, because they’re admiring the view. The view of a woman’s body, stretched out, and perked up—it’s irresistible.

#14 Arching your back. So, you got tired from sitting in your desk, or you just want a good stretch. For you, it’s nothing, but for guys, it’s everything. The sight of you arching your back, with your ta-tas pointing out, can leave them with all the hots for you. [Read: 9 naughty ways to get your boobs noticed without looking trashy]

#15 Your fluttery giggle. That honest giggle that lights up your face is enough to bring guys to their happy place, too. Not only does it put them at ease, it also makes them more attracted to you—especially if it’s their jokes you’re laughing at.

#16 Crinkling eyes when you laugh. Actually, it’s not just the sound of your laughter. It’s also the way your eyes crinkle and smile, that can make guys swoon. It shows you have a good sense of humor and you’re confident enough to let out a good laugh when you feel like it, which guys absolutely adore. [Read: 12 things guys absolutely adore in a girl beyond appearances]

#17 Dressing up. It’s not just the sight of you undressing that can bring all the boys to the yard. The way you get all dolled up and dressed for them is also important. Guys like the idea that you spent time and effort to look great for them, and they’ll appreciate every inch of what they see as soon as you step out of your vanity.

#18 Calling his name. Whether you call out their name in the bedroom, or just whisper it naughtily when you’re out in public, you will find guys loving it. Even something as simple as calling them out for help or greeting them is enough to make them secretly giddy inside. [Read: 15 classy ways to make a guy go crazy over you]

#19 Your wild hair. Flipping out your hair or even tossing it around can be a major turn on for guys, too. There’s something about your rolled-out-of-bed, tousled hair that makes them want to inch closer and comb through your locks.

#20 Biting something between your lips. There’s also something sensual about the way you bite a straw or a pen between your lips. For you, this might be a mannerism you’re completely unaware of, but look across the room, and you’ll find guys dreamily staring at you.

#21 Wearing glasses. Maybe there’s really something good about looking geeky; guys like it when you’re wearing glasses. It could also be because the sight conjures up teacher fantasies for them.

#22 Smiling. There’s nothing that can melt even the toughest guys’ hearts quite like a genuine smile. Showing your pleasure, especially if they’re the ones who caused it, makes men’s hearts puff up with pride because, after all, they too want to impress you and be noticed.

[Read: The secret art of attracting men in a way they just can’t resist]

You may not be aware of it, but there are tons of girly things you unintentionally do that turn guys on. Just being your sweet, girly self is enough to make them notice—and when you let out that little vixen in you… well, you’ll have them in the palm of your hand.

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3 thoughts on “Girly Things: 22 Unintentional Things You Do That Guys Love”

  1. Frankie says:

    Just my thoughts on this, I have a couple to a few Facebook friends that I would call Sex and the City type girly girls. In that, a few to several times a week, they post new pictures of themselves wearing outfits, dresses, and heels either at home in front of a mirror or stomping around the city. I don’t have a problem with it, but it’s a big turnoff to me. I think there’s a difference between posting pictures naturally and trying to make yourself look sexy in photos. Like I said, it’s just not my thing. I have many other female facebook friends who are very cute and more or less don’t do anything like that. I was thinking a couple of things. First, that you have to be pretty in order to have that kind of personality. Which is interesting in itself. If you are a very cute or pretty girl, you could be a girly girl or just the opposite, but the option is not there if you are unattractive. Second, that most men who have any problems with women aren’t really attracted to such women. Which I also think is interesting, because women assume guys struggle because they go for all of the hottest women. Men, if you date or like girly girls, do you like them just because they are hot? Obviously, such women don’t have to compromise any part of their personality to get men, but would you prefer it if they hung out with you in jeans and watched the game and then put on a sexy dress for the proper occasions? Other men, do you tend to go for girly girls? Does it not matter as long as she’s hot? I really think that it’s just depends on the man you want to attract to be honest. I am for one, not attracted at all to girly girls.

  2. Katarina says:

    Haha this really made me blush. I had absolutely no idea that men were turned on simple things like smiling or calling his name. Wow, men really are strange species, aren’t they? I guess from now on I will be aware what my man likes about me and roll more often in the sheets 😉 Do you do these things girls?

  3. Comrp says:

    I am not even joking: say anything nice, or even just smile. As lame as it may sound, if a girl smiles at me, in a way meaning she kind of likes me, despite never seeing her again, I will think about her all day. It’s happened before. On the train, while walking. They didn’t even have to say anything to me or speak to me. I think a lot of guys have a low self-esteem, even if they’re not butt ugly. When a girl. Shows any interest it just causes such elation. While it may seem pathetic, compliments can make my entire week. I’ve been complimented on something stupid, like my hair, my clothes, my eyes, and all hope want lost. I’m not even bad looking. But for some reason I just have a really bad self-esteem. I think this applies to most guys. And even if it doesn’t, no one dislikes a compliment. At worst you’ll have said or done something with good intentions.

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