Making out with a girl is an art that has to be learnt with experience. You may have been lucky at times, but if you want a foolproof guide on how to make out with a girl, here’s a guide on how to make out, and make her love it!
So you want to know how to make out with a girl and make her go weak in the knees while you’re at it?
Making out can be so much fun, but at most times, the guy can’t really understand how far he can push his luck or his hands.
Ever been there? You’re kissing a girl, and you place your hand on her boobs.
And all of a sudden, it’s shut down mode.
The girl pulls herself out sharply, tugs her clothes closer together, stares at you like you just violated her and tells you it’s time to go. And then, yeah, there’s that deathly silence. Hmm… awkward!
How to make out with a girl
You may not know this, but there’s a sexy way to make out with a girl, make her love it and make it so hard to resist, she’ll want you all over her in no time.
But before we talk about how to make out with a girl like a sex god, we’re going to have to ask for your ID.
Look, this is no kids stuff, and the Super Fella isn’t here to teach little wankers the game of the players. This is for grown men who want to know the art of seduction. If you’re under 20, you’ve still got time to learn these moves, so go read yahoo answers!
Making out and making her love it
Let’s get straight to the point. You’ve been out on a date, and now, you’ve somehow strategically found yourself in some quiet corner, alone with your date. You may be in a car, your room, her living room or even in a park. And there you are, sweating and gulping air, wondering what to do.
We’ll get talking about how to make out with a girl the smooth way. Don’t put your arms around her, that’s just lame and too dominating. She has to be involved and play the game too. [Read: How to charm a girl]
Now to really understand these steps, you need to slow down and visualize these steps, one at a time. Understand how it works, and you’ll be a super make-outer in no time!
Arouse her with words
Now we’re not talking about getting dirty with words. It’s your first date, so play nice. Talk about feelings. We know how much girls love that anyways. Talk about how nice the date was, how great a time you had, and more butterflies and pillow talk. [Read: What to talk about with a girl]
Breathe and relax
Let’s get creative. When you’re talking to her, face her and sit back in an overly comfortable posture, recline on the car seat like you have no backbone. Be really relaxed and soon, you’ll get over all your nervousness. And you know what they say, your vibes will soon rub off on her and she’ll be really relaxed too.
Tease her with your hands
The first step is to make her comfortable, and now we warm her up. As you’re talking to her, try touching her. You could hold her pinky and slowly run your fingers along her fingers, or you could use your index finger and run it along her arm or over her jeans. Don’t linger and don’t make it seem like a big deal. And while you’re doing this, don’t stop talking. You don’t want all the focus on the touching. You have to make her feel comfortable with your touch. [Read: How to flirt by touching]
Read the signs
Always remember this, watch out for how she reacts. If she feels threatened at any time, or if her tone changes, she’s probably feeling uncomfortable. You’ve got to back away for a while and push your luck again later. [Read: How to get a girl to like you]
If she’s feeling all comfortable with your touch, she’ll probably start speaking a bit slower and look a little sleepy by now. Get the flirty touches right and she’ll be purring inside like a cute kitty that’s just got horny.
Warming up for the kiss
Slide a bit closer to her. Don’t do it discreetly. Girls are good at reading signs, and by doing it discreetly, it can appear a bit creepy or even too desperate. Make it obvious. Slide up closer or shift your butt until you’re only a few inches away from her. Don’t stop your talking or listening, and don’t stop the occasional touching.
Wait for a couple of minutes, and without any hesitation at all, go close to her and kiss her cheek softly. Linger for a second and sit back calmly. Now most experts say you should go close to her and wait for the kiss, but the Super Fella doesn’t like leaving things to chance, so screw that waiting game. [Read: Super Fella’s embarrassing first kiss story]
If things have been going well, she’s probably going to break into a big grin. And if it hasn’t gone too well, just look awkward, apologize and say “I’m really sorry, I just couldn’t help myself…”
You just kissed her cheek. No girl’s going to take offence for that anyways. But if you’ve got the earlier moves right, trust me, she’d love that soft kiss on the cheek.
If you want to know how to make out with a girl and get lucky, you need to play it safe and not take too many chances unless she leads the play.
Moving in really close
Now that you’ve kissed her cheek and she’s feeling all warm and fuzzy, you’ve got to take that next big step. Place your palm near her ear and gently move your fingers from her ears towards her chin. Be very delicate, slow and calm, and move your fingers across her cheek a few times. Stare into her eyes and stop talking.
Now we build up the tension. All the attention should now be focused on your fingers. As you caress her face, move in closer slowly and kiss her cheek. Kiss her cheek again, and this time, kiss her very close to her lips. And then, kiss the other cheek, very nearly missing her lips. Linger for a few more seconds with every kiss, and then come really close to her lips and let both your noses touch on the sides.
It’s kissing time!
If you’ve played by these moves, both of you will probably be breathing heavily and almost panting in excitement.
Go closer and graze her lips with yours a few times, but don’t kiss her. Come as close as you can without touching her lips and stay there for a second. That’s enough time for anyone to back away. But obviously, she’s not going to want to back away! Not after how well you’ve warmed her up, you player!
And then, move in for the kiss. Be gentle and soft, and don’t get pushy even if you’re excited and can’t hold back. You want to know how to make out with a girl, not how to kiss a girl and chew her face off!
You’re less than half way in this guide on how to make out with a girl and you can’t let aggression get in the way of passion.
Get this first step right, and you would have warmed up for a lot of good things to come. To get to know how to make out with a girl and get your hands under her shirt while you’re at it, click her to continue reading about how to touch a woman’s breasts.
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