It’s normal for things to get a little routine in the bedroom. You know what they like; they know what you like. You both know each other in and out. But even then, you want to try different ways to rock your man’s world, which is why you need to learn the right kind of sexual things to do with your boyfriend.
I mean, relationships take work—even though no one tells you this. Sadly, you always find out on your own. I’m here to tell you if you want your relationship to last, put effort into it.
I’ve been with my partner for almost two years, and we sometimes need to remind each other to try new things. It’s easy to get sucked into a regular routine and lose your desire to try new things in bed.
So, if you and your partner are hanging out tonight, it’s time to shut off Netflix and try something new. I know, who wants to give up Netflix, but there’s more to life than just Netflix and chilling *I think so? Maybe? Let’s leave that for the scientists*. [Read: [Read: 12 ways to take your sex life from vanilla to OMFG!]
15 sexual things to do with your boyfriend
You may not know what to do, and that’s okay. That’s why you’re here. I’m going to help you out and put you back on track. Here are 15 activities and games you can try when you and your partner are interested in throwing something new into the mix. And let’s be honest, mixing things up a bit is always a good idea.
Let’s spice things up with a list of sexual things to do with your boyfriend!
#1 See if they want to try something new. Communicating with your partner is always a good idea. Maybe they already have an idea of something new they want to do. What’s important is you talk to your partner and see what they’re thinking. You can always surprise them, but a surprise is always better if the activity is a long-term fantasy. [Read: How to keep a relationship going when you feel it slipping away]
#2 Have sex more often. Yup! This is a sexual thing, right? Right! Having sex is like exercising, if you’re not doing it often, you get out of shape. To get yourself out of a dry spot, start having more sex. It may sound simple, but it can actually be much harder than you think. Just have more sex.
#3 Switch up power dynamics. Your partner may be used to taking control, but surprise them by switching up the power dynamics. Be the one who initiates sex. Blindfold your partner and lightly tie them, teasing them with your hands, lips, and tongue. The best part you don’t need much to make this work. [Read: 17 of the best naughty ideas to spice up long-term sex]
#4 Seduce your partner. Everyone loves to be seduced. But when you’re in a relationship, the seduction comes to a slow halt. You get comfortable and routine in the relationship. Seduce your partner. Leave a treasure map to your bedroom while you lay naked on the bed. When it comes to seduction, it’s all about the element of surprise.
#5 Get a little kinky. Most couples don’t think about incorporating kink into their sex life. Now, vanilla sex is all good and fun, but a little kink never hurt anyone. Dirty talk with your partner, get some costumes, whips, and paddles. [Read: 50 kinky ideas that every couple must try at least once]
#6 Heighten your senses. Turn your senses on by asking yourself what you want to hear, smell, touch, and taste during sex. Heighten different senses during sex by lighting candles, using different foods, or playing music. These activities will heighten the sexual experience.
#7 Incorporate sex toys. Get a little frisky by throwing a vibrator into the mix. He can use it on you or you can use it on yourself. It doesn’t matter what the toy is, have fun experimenting with different ones. Whether it’s a penis ring, vibrator, or butt plug, amp your sex up a notch with these toys. [Read: 15 common types of sex toys and singles and couples must know]
#8 Touch yourself in front of them. Sex is usually with two *or three* people, but what about solo sex? You masturbate on your own, so do it in front of your partner. When they least expect it, sit next to or across from them, and slowly start to touch yourself. They’ll notice quickly, but don’t let them get involved. They can only watch.
#9 Take out the whipped cream. Into food? Who isn’t? So why not bring it into the bedroom? Get whipped cream out of the fridge, some chocolate syrup and spread it all over your naked body. Oh, and the thing is you can’t wash it off, your partner needs to lick it off. Super-naughty and fun.
#10 Go public. Where do you usually have sex? Most likely, in your bedroom. But why not do something a little more thrilling? When you are driving, tell your partner to pull over and start making out with them. When you’re at the cinema, be naughty by touching each other in the back seats. [Read: Wild and naughty ideas for places to have sex beyond the bedroom]
#11 Shower together. Many couples have never showered together, but you and your partner need to change that. When you’re about to shower, casually invite your partner to shower with you. Initially, they may be surprised, but they’re not going to turn down the opportunity for a steamy shower with their partner.
#12 Pegging, anyone? No, we’re not talking about the penis. Well, at least not a real one. Grab a strap-on and try to see if your partner is willing to test out power dynamics. If your partner is male, pegging will help them hit their G-spot. If they’re not ready for pegging, use a couple of fingers to relax the area. [Read: What is pegging? All the backdoor facts to get you started]
#13 Hot body massages. Never under-estimate the power of touch. Grab some warm oil, and strip your partner down. Oh, and make sure you’re naked as well. We can’t have any clothes when there’s warm oil around. When massaging your partner, use your body as well to rub up against them.
#14 Do a strip tease. Whether you’re a guy or girl, do a little strip tease. It can either bring some giggles in the bedroom or make your partner want to pounce on you. When they least expect it, turn on the music and start to remove your clothes slowly. Your partner is going to love it. [Read: How to sexy strip tease 101]
#15 Ease up on the pressure. You may be putting pressure on yourself to blow your partner’s mind, but that’s not what sex is about. These tips should inspire you, but don’t put pressure on yourself to check all these ideas off the list. Take your time, and enjoy the experience with your partner.
[Read: How to achieve the highest level of ecstasy with full-body orgasms]
If you were looking for some mind blowing sexual things to do with your boyfriend, try some of these tips on our list!
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