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20 Kinky Things to Do With Your Boyfriend Beyond the Bed

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Want to show your boyfriend you’re more than just his mom’s approved choice? Here are 20 kinky things to do with your boyfriend to unleash your inner minx!

Getting kinky comes easy, once you know what you’re doing. Rather than being afraid of your boyfriend’s reaction, be confident about your actions and words, and watch as he loosens up and looks at you like he’s never looked before…

Add some creativity and a new location to that confidence. Put away the good girl act, and tell him what you want—how and where. Think beyond the bedroom, and treat him to a steamy, dirty, insatiable romp on the floor or table, in the car or a public bathroom, and fulfill each others’ desires.

20 kinky things to try with your boyfriend

Here’s a list of guaranteed ways to leave him speechless and coming for more!

#1 Be the biggest tease in the shower. Many couples have sex in the shower, and consider that steamy enough. While it can be exciting, that’s still thinking inside the box. Try intentionally leaving the door cracked when you shower, and letting him spy on you. Let him shave you, lather you up, or both. Whatever you do, don’t have sex until after you’re good and “clean” for him.

#2 Be an exhibitionist. There’s something about going out wearing a dress or skirt, without panties, that makes a woman feel sexy and free—even naughty. While he might be jealous at first, or concerned someone else might lay eyes on you, there are ways around that. Choose a skirt that is just short enough to turn him on, but that won’t show anything, and don’t bend over. It’s a giant tease, especially if you hand him your panties underneath the table. [Read: How to discreetly get naked in public for that sexy rush]

#3 Inappropriate times are the best times to sext your man. Next time he’s at work, visiting relatives, or taking an exam, send him dirty messages. Tell him how it feels when he goes down on you, and send him teasing pictures. Tell him about your fantasies, and describe what you’re doing at the time, assuming it’s relevant *which is probably naughty as sin*.

#4 Have sex in a public place. Bedrooms are a given, but get boring very quickly. Try having sex in a public bathroom, in a hidden spot at a park, a rooftop, or the car while in a parking lot. The only limit is your imagination.

#5 Try role-playing, in public. Role-play is a great idea, and whoever thought of it first is a god. Take it one step further, and have your man dress up as a cop and arrest you out in public. Go to a library dressed as a librarian, and have him ask you for help with his boner in one of the empty aisles. Meet up at a bar, and pretend you’re strangers. [Read: The sexual role play guide and examples for beginners]

#6 Practice some vehicular masturbation. Next time you’re both in the car, heading out to dinner, a friend’s place, or just running errands, start touching yourself. It’ll catch him by surprise, and get him rock hard. He’ll have to focus on the road, so it’s a tease, but that doesn’t mean he won’t reach out and give you a helping hand.

#7 Surprise him on his lunch break for a quickie. Sure, he might be too tired after work, but what about during? Text and ask what time he goes on lunch—unless you already know—and show up, ready to take him out back.

#8 Film it and use it later, together. There’s nothing sexier than looking back as your man gets his way with you—unless, of course, you film it. Not only does it make sex hotter, it also makes for a naughty good time later, once you’re both ready to go again. Play it in the background, and get off to each other like never before.

#9 Heat up the hot tub. Don’t heat up the hot tub, expecting it to make you feel hot. Go into it feeling hot. Practice some oral sex, or even just foreplay, in the hot tub, and tease him for a while, before letting him have his way with you. Then switch. [Read: 12 foreplay moves that work exceptionally well on men]

#10 Flat surfaces aren’t safe. Make it a goal to do it on every table, counter, and wall in your home, and watch how quickly the bedroom is forgotten.

#11 Mirrors are an asset to kinky couples. If there’s a large mirror in your bathroom, home office, or even your closet, try heating things up in front of it. Not only will it be hotter, it will give you access to all sorts of views you couldn’t get otherwise.

#12 Turn productivity into something far more fun. Next time you have work to catch up on at home, do it naked, wearing nothing but his favorite items on you. It may be heels, knee-highs, or glasses. He won’t be able to resist sitting in your home office, watching you, and maybe even touching himself while he watches.

#13 Take the kink outdoors. Some shy couples might opt to do this if they have a private backyard, but others might do it regardless. Having sex outside, in the yard, is a great way to add an element of danger, or exposure, without having to go anywhere “public.”

#14 Have sex in a very inappropriate place. Whether it’s a church, a cemetery, your parent’s car, an elementary school, or a children’s playground at night *when no one’s around!*, no place is safe from you two!

#15 Sexify your kitchen. Next time you feel like baking, but you’re also horny, combine the two. Wear nothing but an apron, and tease him. Let him taste the batter on your finger, and then he’ll want to taste you.

#16 Do him in the back of a sex shop. Slightly trashy, but totally thrilling; you’re both there to get some dirty items, anyway. Take things up a notch and do him in the back of the shop, either behind the curtains, in the dressing room, or even just the back of the building.

#17 Make a sex date. If you know you’re free for a half hour at 4 PM, let him know and watch as he does anything to be there. He’ll spend the whole day staring at the clock. [Read: 10 subtle ways to get your man in the mood for naughty romance]

#18 Surprise sex. If your man just walked in from work, greet him wearing barely anything, and unzip his pants. Take him however you want him: on the floor, couch, table, and anywhere else you want. Take the lead, use him, and watch as he gives you your way willingly and eagerly.

#19 Dirty, steamy lipstick messages. Next time he’s in the shower, leave him a dirty message with lipstick on the mirror. He’ll read it on his way out of the bathroom, and find you waiting on the kitchen counter. [Read: 50 dirty, sexy things to say to your boyfriend]

#20 Spice up those family reunions. If you’re at your parent’s house, visiting family, or even driving with family, don’t be afraid to get frisky. Give him a hand job under a blanket in the backseat, or scurry off into another room in the house. Go outside, or take over the basement. Wherever you choose to do it, you’ll have to be quiet, and you could get caught, making for a kinky time.

[Read: 50 kinky things that are worth doing at least once in your lifetime]

Kinky sex is best when it’s done outside of the bedroom, because you can explore your sensuality together. Don’t be afraid to consider the impossible, and show him how crazy you can really be. Unleash that frisky diva of yours, and take advantage of spare time, hidden places, public places, and *most of all* him.

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3 thoughts on “20 Kinky Things to Do With Your Boyfriend Beyond the Bed”

  1. Orion says:

    I’m definitely up for the idea of sexifying my kitchen. The baking or cooking thrill would be second to none and whenever I’ve been able to get down in this spot with my partners, I’ve never left the experience dissatisfied. However, you need to make sure everything is pretty clean beforehand. I’ve had a few unfortunate infections because of a dirty kitchen, so I’m extra careful to make sure things are clean and sanitized before the big show. At the very least, run a soapy rag around and dry it up before the action. Your bodies will be thanking you later for sure.

  2. Maci says:

    I love all of the suggestions that this author has included. One of my new favorites is having sex in the shower. I used to be afraid of showing anyone that much of my body and then I had a shower with my fiance for the first time. Needless to say, that was not the last time and there have been plenty more. It is such a great feeling of being completely and totally naked with them. It is freeing in a since. There is so much feeling behind seeing the person you love so trusting to you as well. I love shower sex. If you don’t slip and fall, it really can be worth your while and you will want to do it over and over again!

  3. hahaboy says:

    Complete submission. Tied up, held down, gagged, blindfolded, choked, in just about any way. I’ve been tied to an office chair, strapped to a bed, hogtied, had my hands stuck behind my back while being bent over… it’s even more exciting when my toys are used on me. I have what I occasionally call my “arsenal;” a metal locked box of vibrators, dildos, rope, etc. DP is fantastic, either way it goes–toy in my ass and cock in my pussy, or visa versa (not at the same time–I want dirty, not an infection). I especially love the toys being used on me while I’m physically helpless. Also love my ass being smacked, being scratched, being bitten, and my nipples and clit flogged, so long as blood isn’t drawn and the roughness stops if I ask it to (or shake my head violently, if gagged–it’s circumstantial). I also enjoy being called a dirty whore, a bad little girl, and a tight slut. … oh. And I can’t explain why, because it makes no sense to me, but I love watching a guy I’m really into fu*k my tits. Only two have done it so far, but it gets more arousing every time. I also like being tormented by him rubbing his cock against me but refusing to penetrate, going so far as to hit some part of me (aside from my face) if I try to make him. It’s incredibly hot to feel I have to earn penetration. Also being told or forced to be quiet. One of the best moments in my past was when the Hitachi wand was used on high directly on my clit, but I was ordered to keep quiet while he very… very… agonizingly… slowly… counted to 20.

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