Men love receiving blowjobs! Most learned how to do it through trial and error. But we have some oral sex tips for women to blow your man out of the water.
When it comes to a guy, women know they love receiving blowjobs. Which makes sense, as women love receiving oral sex as well. But you know, oral sex is only as good as the technique applied. If you’ve ever received bad oral then you know the horrors of it. Having someone in between your legs missing all the right spots isn’t fun for anyone. What makes oral sex enjoyable is watching the receiver having their mind blown. That is why we compiled these oral sex tips for women. [Read: How to master the art of the perfect blowjob]
Oral sex tips for women
With that being said, you may want to brush up on your oral sex techniques. I’m not saying you do a bad job. In fact, I have no idea, but I’m just saying some of these tips certainly change the way you give a blowjob and change it in the best way possible.
Practice these techniques, and I’m sure he won’t mind, right? Anyways, let’s get the ball rolling, no pun intended. Learn these tips, and they’ll be begging for more.
#1 Don’t do it if you don’t like it. If you genuinely don’t like giving blow jobs then don’t give them. There isn’t a requirement that you have to, it’s just an act that’s a part of sex. But if you choose not to do it, it doesn’t make the sexual experience any less than what it is. If you don’t truly enjoy giving them, your partner is going to feel and see it. So, it’s better to not to do it at all then. [Read: The ultimate blowjob guide for women who hate to give head]
#2 Get sloppy. Yes, you read right. You don’t need to have manners when giving a blowjob. What you do need though is a decent amount of saliva. So, rule number one: the wetter the better. If you’re naturally low on salvia, try drinking orange juice or anything acidic prior. It helps you salivate due to the low pH level. Don’t be afraid to get messy because he’ll love it. [Read: Messy, sexy, and dirty things to do in bed!]
#3 Develop a solid rhythm. You could say that giving a blowjob is like dancing, you need to have a steady beat and rhythm. Now, the rhythm you develop needs to sync up with your hand and mouth at the same time.
I know this sounds difficult but once you do it, it makes complete sense. A solid rhythm will allow you to have control and increase or decrease speed whenever you want.
#4 Do some foreplay before. People just love to skip foreplay which makes no sense to me. Have you ever tried driving a car when the engine is cold? Exactly. It doesn’t go so well. So, warm up the chemistry between you and create the scene.
#5 Use your tongue first. Before you engulf his penis in your mouth *sorry for the visual* you want to use your tongue to lick his frenulum. The frenulum is the underside of the tip of the penis and it’s the most sensitive spot. From there, you can continue licking up and down his shaft, making sure to continue licking the frenulum as well, you don’t want to leave it out. Once you get into it, then you can use your mouth.
#6 Mix up the movements. I know this may sound confusing, but you need to mix up the movements of your mouth and hands. You can squeeze it a little harder, increase or decrease speed, going up and down isn’t going to cut it. Use your tongue during the blowjob to touch the head of the penis or swirl it around the tip. You can also give some attention to the testicles as they’re often left out of the fun. [Read: 13 secrets to take control and blow your man’s mind]
#7 Don’t forget your hands. At some point, you’re going to get tired which is completely natural. But this doesn’t mean you have to completely stop what you’re doing. Remember, you have two hands, so don’t be afraid to use them.
You can use your hands to grab the shaft and gently rub it, just as you would with a hand job. Or you can use your hands at the same time while giving him head. Or you can also use your hands to rub his testicles while blowing him. [Read: The sexiest, slutty moves to give the best hand job ever]
#8 Eye contact. Men love keeping eye contact while receiving a blowjob. Now, this doesn’t mean you have to keep your eyes locked on him the entire time. But every now and then, look at him while you’re giving him a blowjob. He’ll lose his mind.
#9 Don’t be silent. This is both for you and him – being completely silent during sex, in general, is kinda weird. Why not show that you’re enjoying it? You don’t have to scream and yell but moaning shows that you’re having a good time which will arouse him even more. Plus, the humming and moaning will offer extra stimulation through the vibration in the throat. [Read: How to turn a guy on with these sensual moves]
#10 No teeth. Some people say you can use teeth, and, you can, but generally speaking, men are very sensitive about this area. So, teeth may cause them to hesitate which will distract them from what’s going on. Try not to use your teeth unless they specifically tell you too.
#11 Give a little deep throat. Every guy likes a little deep throat. Now, this doesn’t mean you have to do it, some women don’t like the gagging sensation, and I don’t blame them. But if you don’t mind it, deep throating can really amp up the stimulation for your man. You will need to practice this a couple times to get it right. [Read: How to deep throat like a porn star]
#12 Listen to his suggestions. Now during the blowjob, he’s not going to stop you and explain to you what he likes and dislikes, but he will move his body in a certain position or hold his penis, etc. The point is, he’ll make subtle hints to you as to what he’s into and what he’s not into. Now, your job is to try to pay attention to those hints.