As they say, size isn’t everything. But when you’re seeing someone new or are interested in a guy, curiosity can run wild. You can try to ignore it, but your eyes can’t help but take a quick glance downwards at his package when he isn’t looking. And your mind can’t help but wonder if he’s big and well endowed! To put all your doubts to rest, here’s how to know if a guy has a big dick, and know how big he really is down there.
Some women prefer a man who’s a bit smaller and some prefer men who are huge, but if you ever come across a woman who says she’s not interested in what size his package is, she’s lying.
Penis size can factor into how sexually compatible you are, and how you view your mate, so it can definitely be a concern when you’ve started seeing someone new.
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We all know that size doesn’t really matter to a large extent, but that doesn’t mean we’re not curious. I mean, sometimes you just want to know. When women meet a guy, knowing how to tell if a guy has a big D is one of the first things that goes through our minds.
Maybe we’ll even think about how good the guy would be in bed, or how his dick would feel inside us. But to get there, we think about the dick. It doesn’t mean we like the guy. It’s just a thought that comes to our minds. It’s equivalent to thinking about whether or not you left the stove on. It comes into your head, and it leaves just as quickly. I know it sounds shallow, but men do the same with women. So, I think we can call it even.
Does size really matter though? Well, apparently it does matter according to the Kamasutra! Check out this article on how the penis size matters and the three different size compatibilities for the best sex!
We don’t want to get into the reasons why you want to know how to tell if a guy has a big D. We’ll leave that for another day. But here’s what you should know.
There are two kinds of penises in the world – the growers and the showers. If you want to read more about them, check it out here – Growers vs showers and why you should pick the grower!
The shower (read: show-er) is a kind of penis that looks big all the time. It makes a guy’s package look bigger, his speedos look fitter and tighter, and makes a girl assume he’s going to get way bigger.
But when he does eventually get hard, he usually just swells up like a toad and the girth increases. His penis doesn’t become any longer, and what you see when he’s flaccid is what you see when he’s hard.
A grower, on the other hand, is a penis that looks small-to-tiny in normal circumstances. The package may seem smaller than you’d wish when you see him with his pants on. But when he gets aroused, the grower grows… and how! You may be surprised how something that looks so small can become so much bigger.
If you’ve watched any porn and see a guy with a tiny flaccid dick to begin with, and then, as the “show” proceeds, the tiny penis turns into a mega-monster, well, you’ve just watched a grower in action.
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Well, we need to know the averages before we go looking for a big penis. So here are the basic averages you need to know about:
– The average erect penis is 5.17 inches long.
– The average flaccid penis is 3.61 inches long.
– The average girth of an erect penis is 4.59 inches.
– The average girth of a flaccid penis is 3.67 inches.
Wanna know more about the average penis size, which ethnicities have the largest ones, and other facts about the average penis, check out these average penis facts that’ll make you a penis know-it-all in no time!
Before delving in further, you should know there’s no actual way to tell the size of a guy. Sure, you can make assumptions, but unless you see it with your own eyes, you’ll never know.
Every body is different. More importantly, you should also know size doesn’t matter all that much. What it really comes down to is how they use their penis. That’s the secret. But yeah, that’s not helping, is it? You just want to know how big his dick is!
Read: What it’s like really to sleep with a big dick
So, how can you tell how big a guy is, without having to get him naked? You don’t want to spend quality time investing in him emotionally, only to have him drop his trousers and be a teeny bit disappointed.
There are ways to find out without sleeping with him, and they could potentially save you from killing the passion of your budding new relationship. It only requires a little bit of snooping.
Yeah, I know you may be bummed to read this, but there isn’t a 100% way to tell if a guy has a big package. Of course, there are generalizations, but that’s about it.
Some men look like they’d have a large penis, and they don’t. While some men who may appear to be smaller, end up having larger penises. You just never know!
This is a scientific paper published in the Asian Journal of Andrology, based on a study conducted in Korea on a limited group of people. And it did give some conclusive evidence you could still use to get an idea about how big a guy’s package is. Take a look at his ring finger and index finger when it’s placed on a table.
Is the ring finger and index finger almost the same length? The ratio between these two fingers is called the digit ratio. The smaller the difference in length between a guy’s shorter index finger and his ring finger, the bigger the size of his erect penis. It’s tested, and it’s true! *although on a limited audience*
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Does he spread his leg while sitting? Okay, let’s be honest, there are many guys who sit with their legs spread as wide as they possibly can even if they’re packing a pencil dick in their shorts.
But if you can sneak a glance when he’s not looking, and see that he’s parted his legs, and his package still seems to spill over, there’s a good chance he’s got something big in his pants.
This is probably the most accurate way to tell if a guy has a big penis. Wait, let me rephrase that. It’s the best way to tell he knows what he’s doing. Just because a man has a big penis doesn’t mean the sex will be better. Try to change your perspective and instead, focus on a man’s confidence. Not cockiness – confidence.
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If you get the chance to speak with him, what’s his personality like? If he’s a big talker and exaggerating about his accomplishments, then he sounds like a talker. But if he’s a generally humble guy that isn’t obsessed with making comments about his dick, well, then he probably has a big one.
Ah yes, you probably know this one. There are thousands of jokes about hands and the size of their penis. This age-old tale is pretty accurate. Though I haven’t slept with every man in the world – my sample size is small. But there are women who believe the secret to knowing if a man has a big penis is in their hands. Big penis = big hands.
If you really want to know if a guy has a big dick without seeing it, one of the things I’ve noticed that is almost always spot on is the correlation between hand size and penis size. It almost never fails! The shape and size of his hands are an indication of how big a guy is, and there’s even science to prove it.
It turns out that when in the womb, the amount of prenatal testosterone that men are exposed to directly controls both the hormone production in hands and penises. Therefore, higher doses of testosterone that lead to bigger hands can lead to other things being big too.
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Besides the size of his hands, it turns out that the way his fingers are shaped could give you an indication of what to expect. If his fingers are short and stubby, chances are so are his penis.
If they’re long but not very thick, then it suggests that he’s got length but not a lot of girth. There is also research that shows that if a guy has a shorter index finger than ring finger then he is above average, size-wise.
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As with hand size, you can figure out if a guy has a big dick without seeing it, by looking at his feet. It may sound like a cliché, but it has been known to be accurate.
Almost every single man that I’ve dated who has had huge feet has turned out to be well endowed. Every now and again, you find men who have massive feet but not much in the penis department, but it’s quite rare.
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This is probably the most accurate way to kind of tell if a man has a big D. If he’s sitting down and you see a giant bulge from his crotch area, he’s probably packing. He may even walk a little funny – it’s because of the third leg. Duh. Check out the way he walks and see if you can spot the bulge. [Read: Why are men so obsessed with their penis size?]
Everyone knows that some ethnicities have larger penises than others. This doesn’t mean if he’s from a “small penis” country, he’ll have a small penis. But if he’s from certain places in South America and Africa, the chances are he has a big penis.
It may seem like a stereotype but it’s a valid one, that is backed up with scientific research. It’s been shown that men from certain parts of the world have larger penises, due to their heritage and the genetic makeup of their ancestors. A study found that the Congo and South America are places where men have the largest penises.
The research notes that men with larger penis sizes hail from places like Colombia, the Congo, and Bolivia. Whereas men that hail from places such as Thailand and Korea aren’t as well endowed. Results of this research may not always be the best indication, but it’s still something to keep in mind.
If you’re wondering how to tell if a guy has a big D, you can know this when you’re spending time with him. Sometimes if you’re out dancing on a date, or just Netflix and chilling, you may get a bit close and get him a bit excited.
If this does happen, and he’s wearing something that isn’t hugely loose, try and brush past him as you may be able to feel a slight outline of what he has hidden away. An unmistakable erection is one of the best strategies for how to tell how big he is without seeing it!
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If you want to know how to tell how big a guy is without seeing it, don’t base it on how muscular or ripped he is. Base it on his natural body type, because any man can pile on muscle with enough hours at the gym to disguise what his true body looks like.
See if you can get hold of an old photo of him before he started getting into lifting weights, to check what he used to look like. Because, if you’re wondering how to tell if a guy has a big D without seeing it, sometimes his current outer appearance can fool you.
On top of this, sometimes super beefy men who practically live at the gym are only sculpting their body to appear more attractive to overcompensate for the parts of their body that they can’t change. Unfortunately, there’s no physical exercise that you can do to increase penis size!
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You know the saying, “big nose, big hose.” Aside from feet, men who have larger noses are known to have bigger penises. Don’t ask me why, I can’t tell you the answer. But if he has a big nose, well, he just might have a big hose.
Sometimes the most obvious sign a guy has a big package is if he walks as if he’s got something big between his legs. Does he have a bit of a bounce in his step? Does he shuffle?
How he walks could be a dead giveaway of what he has concealed, because he’ll move in a certain way to accommodate what he has. Most guys with not much to brag about walk quite casually, as it’s obviously a lot harder to walk easily if you have a third leg that’s always getting in the way!
A lot of guys who are confident and caring are the ones who have the most impressive package. If he’s incredibly passionate, affectionate, or constantly trying to find excuses to brush past you or touch you, then chances are that he knows he has nothing to be worried about.
When a man knows that you’re not going to gasp when he takes off his pants, he acts far more relaxed around you and has no need to not be confident or make up excuses to not be flirtatious around you.
[Read: How to tell if a guy is horny around you – 22 signs he’s horny AF!]
In my personal experience, I’ve found that a lot of men who are generally quite shy, unassuming, or quiet are the ones who are packing the most. I don’t know why this is, but it’s been accurate almost every time.
Something about a shy man equals a large penis, possibly because he doesn’t feel that he has anything to prove. He knows he’s well endowed, so why bother shouting about it?
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Not towards him, run away from him. Listen, he could be telling you the truth and have a big penis. But he probably doesn’t know how to use it. And let me tell you one thing: it’s not going to be good if he doesn’t know what he’s doing. Men with big penises who know how to have sex don’t brag. They just show you.
If he’s constantly going on about how amazing he is in bed, or how big his penis is, or how awesome a person he is, it’s most likely all an act. It seems that if a man is incredibly cocky *excuse the pun* he doesn’t have much going on down below.
This is because he wants to distract from the insecurities he has, and puff up his chest to trick you into thinking he’s some sort of sex god. This classic tactic of overcompensating is not only there to try and fool you into believing it, but to fool himself. Go for a humble, modest guy, and you’ll have better luck if you want to know how big a guy is without seeing it.
A man who is constantly exaggerating his accomplishments or abilities is one to be wary of. It’s a dating rule in general to avoid people who tend to lie or overuse hyperbole in all situations.
But it’s also an indication that he may have an over-amplified view of himself. If he’s exaggerating that much about something you can fact check… what else is he exaggerating about that you can’t see?
[Read: When a smaller penis can mean better sex]
Ultimately, there’s no 100% foolproof way to judge how big a guy is until you get up close and intimate, but these tips should help you attempt to unravel the mystery. But remember, at the end of the day, it’s not about size. It’s about how they use it.
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There you have it – how to know a guy has a big dick without seeing it. But just remember that how big a man is isn’t as important as the connection you have. If he’s not packing much, then chances are he’s packing a hell of an amazing personality. So don’t be discouraged!
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