If you’re looking to attract a girl, you’ve come to the right place. Here’s how to make a girl jealous and leave her pleading for your attention.
Girls are pretty complicated. I’m not going to lie. We tend to be picky, unreasonable, and sometimes even crazy. The thing men have to understand about women is that we’re not easy to pick up. However, jealousy can definitely trigger our attention. Knowing how to make a girl jealous can be a huge asset in your dating endeavors.
Girls love attention. We want to be the center of yours and when we aren’t, it then gets boring. That’s why making a girl jealous can actually make her want you more. The trick is knowing how to do it in a not-so-obvious way.
Girls just want to feel special
If you only take away one thing from this reading, it’s that girls need to feel special. It’s really what drives us to do what we do. If we feel forgotten and we don’t have your attention, we’ll start working really hard to get it.
It brings out our animal side, to be honest. Women have a competitive nature, too. And if you challenge us, we’ll bring it. That’s why jealousy is a fantastic way to get a girl’s attention and make her work for you. [Read: 14 simple ways to make a girl feel special and loved]
How to make a girl jealous
The trouble with making a girl jealous is that if we realize what you’re doing, we’ll just leave. Therefore, you have to be sneaky about it and do it in a way that we don’t even notice.
If you want to make a girl jealous but aren’t sure how, don’t worry. We’re here with your complete guide for making her work for your attention. Follow these tips and she’ll be all over you in no time. [Read: How to make a girl fall hard for you]
#1 Be hot and cold. This technique for making a girl jealous works fantastically. When you give her attention and then ignore her, it’ll make her fight harder for your attention. She’ll get a little taste of what you have to offer and then she’ll crave it.
So when you’re with her, pay really close attention to her and compliment her for some of the time, but then ignore her other times. It’ll drive her crazy and she’ll be itching to get your attention back.
#2 Compliment the girls around her. Nothing makes a girl more jealous than being left out. If there are other girls around you two, give them small compliments. Nothing too crazy, though. Just comment on how you like their outfits, hair, or even shoes. If you really want to make a girl crazy with jealousy, call another girl “really cool” right in front of her. [Read: How to compliment a girl the right way]
#3 Laugh at something another girl says. The thing about girls is that we all want to be funny. We all want to be the one to make a guy laugh because it’s a rarity. Therefore, if you laugh a lot at something another girl says, she’ll go crazy with jealousy.
#4 Get innocently physical with another girl while she’s watching. This doesn’t mean to slap her ass or make out with another girl. This just means to touch another girl on the arm, lower back, or even just bump your shoulder into her.
Giving these small touches will make a girl really jealous. It’s because you’re making that other girl feel special. And since all girls want that special feeling, it’ll make her jealous she’s not getting it. [Read: How to innocently flirt by touching]
#5 Talk about how great another girl is to her. You don’t have to gush about another girl or anything serious. As long as you’re talking about how fun or cool another girl is, she’ll go crazy with jealousy. She’ll want to prove to you that she’s also fun and cool – which can work great for you.
#6 Ignore her texts and calls but engage with another girl on social media. A great way to make a girl jealous is to ignore her texts and calls, but be actively communicating with other girls online.
If you tag a girl in a picture on Facebook or even share something to another person’s profile, she’ll go nuts. She’ll want to be in on the joke and it’ll make her really jealous. [Read: How to think like a girl and win her over]
#7 Post pictures with other girls on social media. The best way this works is if the pictures you post are of a place where that girl was with you. However, only post the pictures of you with other girls and don’t put up the ones with her. She’ll get really jealous over this. When she’s not being “showed off,” it’ll drive her nuts.
#8 Talk about how much fun you had when you did something without her. This doesn’t necessarily have to be with others girls, either. If you had a great time out with the guys, start talking about how amazing it was.
#9 When you’re with her, laugh at the texts you receive. When you’re looking at your phone and laughing at something she doesn’t know about, it’ll make her jealous. Again, girls want to be responsible for making you happy. We want to be the ones to make you laugh. So if we’re not and someone else is doing that job, we get jealous.
#10 Ignore her while talking to others in a group. If you’re standing in a group with others, ignore her. Talk to everyone else. Laugh at all of their jokes, but don’t acknowledge when she says anything. Don’t be outright rude if she addresses you directly, just don’t converse with her specifically in the group. [Read: Negging game – The philosophy of negging and how to do it right]
What to avoid doing to make a girl jealous
As much as there are great ways to make a girl jealous, there are also a few things you should just avoid altogether. Don’t do the following things to make a girl jealous because they’ll only make her angry. [Read: 21 things guys should never say to their woman]
#1 Kiss another girl in front of her. This just shows a girl that you want someone else. That’s not the point of making her jealous. She’ll just leave and move on if she sees you doing this.
#2 Disengage from her completely. If you just shut her out, that won’t make her jealous. What that does is make her feel like you’re not interested at all.
#3 Put her down. Insults never make a girl jealous. If anything, they’ll only make her angry and hurt. Those two things won’t win you her affection. Instead, they’ll make her write you off as an asshole and she’ll move on to the next guy.