How to Make Him Want You
Do you want to know how to make him want you all the time? You may be thinking about your man 24/7, but is he doing the same? Learn to mesmerize your man and make him love you and think about you all the time with these simple tips.
Are you wondering how to make him want you more?
The beginning of a new relationship is arguably the best part. The tingly feelings of butterflies that come with a first meeting can never be replicated.
But can you make this last forever? Can you make him love you more with each passing day?
How can you make him think about you all the time?
You may catch his eye, but how can you ensure that he’s hooked to you? How can you make him want you, and love you for who you are?
How to make him want you
Men are essentially more single-minded than women. Let’s just say they don’t see things as we do.
Every situation does not have the typical million alternatives in a man’s life.
For him, not calling simply would mean you’re busy, and he’d never think that you’re not interested.
So your task is to keep him interested, and make him want you.
[Read: How to get a guy to like you]
Your weapons? Self confidence and control. Here is your modus operandi to make him love you more, effortlessly.
HOW TO MAKE HIM LOVE YOU
#1 Be busy
Never make it look like you’re sitting by the phone waiting for his call, even if you are. Go out, meet people, start a hobby even if it’s just to get your mind off things.
And make sure he knows your busy bee activities, as not only will it keep him intrigued by you, it will make him feel grateful for getting to spend a little time with you.
#2 Never show that it bothers you
The biggest mistake most women make is to whine “but why didn’t you call me last night/yesterday/every hour?” To clobber him with questions is only going to push him away rather than make him love you more. A wistful “but you used to do it before…” is even worse. Remember, men hate questions about relationships all the time.
In the beginning of every relationship, hormones are on overdrive and that would make him want you all the time. And without even realizing it, he would want to spend every waking moment with you. But a relationship, like everything else, is progressive.
So it then goes into the stage where you’re both comfortable with each other, which means you don’t need to call each other every few hours in order to feel loved.
#3 Feel good about yourself
If you’re wondering how to make him want you all the time, wear something you feel desirable in, be it your favorite pair of jeans or a pair of sexy boy shorts. When you feel sexy, it shows! And he’s going to reciprocate the desire. [Read: What to wear to bed with your boyfriend]
#4 Pay attention to appearance
As shallow as this sounds, you have to make a first impression or a good series of first impressions. It should be a while before you can let him see you with a bed head and no makeup.
#5 Take initiative
Forget about playing hard to get, take over in the bedroom and otherwise. Just not all the time, unless you want it predictable and yawn-inspiring. If you want to make him want you all the time and make him love you helplessly, you need to keep his interest piqued. So leave him a message commanding him to meet you at your favorite restaurant and plan an evening of fun to follow.
#6 Inflate his ego
This is an obvious one. Turn him on by complimenting him on what he’s wearing and how good he looks, lightly brush against his shoulder as you walk by, and make lots of eye contact and smoldering looks. Knowing that a girl is smoking hot and that she desires him, will only make him want the girl, a.k.a. you, even more. [Read: Tips on turning a guy on]
Remember, a guy may say he wants his space or that he needs to have some guy time without thinking about his girlfriend, but it isn’t always true. You can accept it and move along. Or you can make him want you and be with you without even asking him to do that!
Just let him see that true confident girl that you are, and let him know that you don’t really need him around all the time too.
If you follow these tips, you won’t be wondering how to make him want you or make him love you, you’ll make him beg to be around you all the time! Click here to read about ways to make him miss you more.