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How to Make Your Boyfriend Want You More Than Ever

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Does your boyfriend love you and desire you? Use these 16 do’s and don’ts and learn how to make your boyfriend want you and desire you more than ever! By Jessica Dawson

how to make your boyfriend want you

Do you think your boyfriend could love you more?

Or perhaps, love you better?

Most of the time, girls just learn to accept their boyfriend for who they are.

Even though their boyfriends are nothing like the man of their dreams.

[Read: 10 most important traits of a good boyfriend]

And over time, these girls compromise on their own wants and wait for their boyfriend to show the smallest romantic gesture to feel better about the relationship.

Seriously, don’t be that girl.

How to make your boyfriend want you

Every guy has the potential to be the perfect boyfriend, just as soon as he learns to follow the rules.

And it all starts with these 10 tips on how to make your boyfriend want you more and 6 more tips on things you should avoid doing to be wanted by your boyfriend.

All of us take relationships for granted eventually, even if we don’t intend to at the beginning.

But can you really blame yourself or your partner, when either of you don’t remind each other about it?

[Read: 30 super sexy ways to keep him interested in you]

If you want to have a happy relationship and a boyfriend who appreciates you, don’t compromise on your wants and desires in the relationship just to make your boyfriend feel happy. He’ll start to accept you for who you are, instead of realizing how understanding, accommodating and genuinely nice you actually are.

Sacrificing your happiness for someone is a good sign, but only if it’s mutual. There’s a thin red line between sacrificing and suffering in a relationship.

Understand these tips on making your boyfriend want you and use them. You’ll see the difference in no time.

#1 Look good in his arms. Let’s talk about pleasing your man with appearances first. Guys are shallow, and the physical appearance of their girlfriend plays a big part in his ego and his desire to be with you. Look sexy and have eyes turn towards you when you’re in his arms. If his friends think you’re hot stuff, he’ll desire you and want to be with you more. And he’ll never want to let go of you. [Read: How to look sexy without trying]

#2 Respect yourself. Your boyfriend is not better than you. Falling in love is a mutual experience between lovers. Have an ego and be confident of yourself. If you truly respect yourself, your boyfriend can’t help but respect you and admire you.

#3 Spend time with your own friends. Make your own plans now and then. Go out with your own friends and feel good about yourself, be it in having a good conversation or attracting the attention of another cute guy. Believe in yourself, and remember that you’re still hot stuff. And the best part, he’ll miss you more when you aren’t available at his beck and call.

#4 Have your own life. Your boyfriend is only a part of your life, not all of it. If you’re always with him or he finds you available all the time, he’ll only take you for granted.

#5 Be a wildcat with fiery passion. Try new things in bed. If you want to know how to make your boyfriend want you sexually, don’t be predictable in bed. Try new things and don’t let bedtime get boring. Enjoy sex and take pride in your passion and interest in exploring sex. [Read: Top 50 clean and kinky ideas to try in bed]

#6 Be a smart girl. Be aware of the world around you, be it on the news or in current affairs. Men always think they’re more intelligent and aware. Prove him wrong, he’ll worship you and take you more seriously.

#7 Play hard to get when he takes you easy. Don’t let your boyfriend ever take you for granted. If you ever feel like he’s taking you lightly, put him in place. It’ll scare him, true, but it’ll also make him realize that you’re not someone to be taken for granted. [Read: Why men like a chase to stay in love]

#8 Display PDA. Men love it when their girl shows her appreciation in public. It makes them feel desired and lucky. Wrap your arm around him or place your hand on his cheek in appreciation when he’s being nice. He’ll be a lot nicer and he’ll be happy to have a girlfriend like you. [Read: Public display of affection laws and etiquette]

#9 Walk away if he disrespects you. Snub him or avoid his calls when he disrespects you. He’ll be too scared to take you lightly. You’re not throwing a tantrum by doing this, you’re letting him know that you have self respect.

#10 Follow your own dreams. Be passionate about life and your own ambitions. Your boyfriend will never respect you or desire you if all you do is sit wide eyed and stare when he talks about his ambitions and dreams, and have nothing to share in return. [Read: How to be successful in life]

Six things to avoid if you want your boyfriend to want you

#1 Don’t be too easy to get. Don’t be available for him anytime he calls you. Don’t change your plans just to be with him. Let him know that you have a life too, and he needs to take you more seriously if he wants you by his side.

#2 Don’t be a pushover. If he changes plans in the last minute and leaves you in the middle of a date to hang out with his friends, or cancels a date for silly reasons, don’t accept such behavior. If he walks away, call another cute guy and hang out with him just to get back at your boyfriend. It’s the only way he’ll learn.

#3 Don’t be eager to please him. Pleasing each other should be mutual. If you find that you’re the only one indulging in sweet gestures while he just behaves like a slob, put an end to it and make him work for your attention all over again. [Read: 25 sweet romantic gestures for everyday life]

#4 Don’t be the first one to make up all the time. This is especially important if it’s not your own fault. If your boyfriend’s taking you for granted, and you find yourself being the one who has to make up all the time, ignore him for a while or give him a cold shoulder. If he really cares, he’ll swallow his pride and come back crawling.

#5 Don’t be clingy and needy. Show off your independence even if you’re just idle and sitting at home. Appear like you’re a girl who can sort her own affairs. He should know that spending even a few minutes with you is a privilege! [Read: 13 clingy girlfriend signs and how to avoid it]

#6 Don’t be a bad damsel in distress. Men love a damsel in distress, but only if you play the part in the right manner. Make him feel like a man, but don’t always go trailing him for help. [Read: How to be a perfect damsel in distress]

If you want to know how to make your boyfriend want you more, sexually or otherwise, just follow these 16 tips. And always remember to have self respect. After all, you are awesome!


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  • Stef
    July 9, 2012 | Permalink |

    Thanks a million!!! This article has just helped me get back on tracks when i was being taken for granted in my relationship. Really helpfull article told me all i need to know and more.

  • krissy
    August 26, 2012 | Permalink |

    I really like this page!

  • Alexandra
    September 12, 2012 | Permalink |

    This was probably the best advice I’ve ever read

  • Logan
    October 29, 2012 | Permalink |

    i’m a guy, and i read this out of curiosity. and i have to say that the only ones i want to see in my girlfriend are #1 #2 #5 #8 and #10. Some of that other stuff is just annoying as hell. i don’t want my girl to go and try and catch a few cute guys’ attention. I want my girl to be smart but I don’t want her correcting me all the time just to make herself seem like ‘the boss’. and I don’t want my gf acting like a bitch if i do something that makes her mad, just tell me and i’ll work it out

  • The smart one
    November 1, 2012 | Permalink |

    Hey, I just want to say how stupid this is. I mean some of them, I would never do to my boyfriend. #9 especially, instead of ignoring his calls, I learned to TALK TO HIM, I know it might be totally the logical choice and let’s face it girls are not logical in relationships, but it actually works, he listens to me every time I have a problem. Even if we don’t agree on something we listen to each other and learn to understand. I’ve done #9 to past boyfriends before and it only caused problems to NOT get solved. Some if these things are just flat out immature and things I would have done at 14. And I’m still only 19 and know better.

  • November 21, 2012 | Permalink |

    #1 would be a huge turnoff for me. Don’t try and look good for me ever. Look the way you want. Your not a trophy or an accessory, your a woman. Don’t ever try to look good in his arms, dress in a way that makes you feel good, feel free, in a way that’ll tease him if you’d like but definitely don’t appeal to his shallow mentality if he indeed is like that. Kill that shallow mentallity. If you act like everyone else eventually you will be viewed just like everyone else. Do you want to appeal to him only physically or would you prefer to use your intuitive senses and mind to turn him on as we’ll. don’t focus on the physical. Turn him on mentally and females are already good at that. Physical is a small part of it all

  • November 21, 2012 | Permalink |

    Here’s my advice. Communicate, act, be, the same way with a guy you like as you are with close friends. just add a bit of this: if you know what gets him going, lovingly tease him in a subtle way that drives him wild. That’s it. Goodnight

  • Rox
    December 19, 2012 | Permalink |

    I love these ideas They are awesome

  • Jona
    December 22, 2012 | Permalink |

    Such a typical shitty sexist post. it roughly sais “give your man a constant fear and anxiety that you will go to another”. all women aren’t god damn godesses and neither men are gods. if equality were to teach us something it would be to respect eachother and treat eachother well, women and men alike. if you as a woman treat your man like this and thinks that you create actual “true love” you are misguided by this. Should a man be treated in such ways that he feels exploited at first and then panicks over all the fear and anxiety that your woman have another guy on the hook ready to switch? that is not anything even near respect. women treat your men right. men treat your women right. don’t abuse them in any way or you will end up having a piece of shit girl/boyfriend because of constantly inducing the fear of you going behind their back.

  • jackson
    December 22, 2012 | Permalink |

    Okay number 2,2 about that Call another cute guy doesn`t work, it just makes the guy to hate you.

  • January 6, 2013 | Permalink |

    Looking good in his arms and having your own life is good for the both of you, it will boost your own confidence and remind him how lucky he is to have you. It never hurts to miss each other every now and again, especially when the reunion consists of wild, passionate sex ;)

    Making your bf jealous and insecure is toxic. Men like to feel that you’re devoted to them and them only! He will be very grateful to have you as his girl if he can trust you and knows that you’re not paying attention to any other guy.

  • hannah
    January 8, 2013 | Permalink |

    This is stupid Girls: Talk to your man if he upsets you, dont ignore him! And definitely, MOST DEFINITELY dont go to a different guy to try and make your guy jealous! That is immature and will ruin your relationship! Also, he cant read your mind, you have to tell him what youre thinking or else he wont know! Ive learned to love my guy even if he doesnt deserve it! Love is a choice, not something you feel! Some good words to live by: Always assume the best and doubt the worst! A good relationship is made up of two good forgivers!

  • Jessica
    February 13, 2013 | Permalink |

    I did this and after my boyfriend was so nice he could have been a god xxx

  • fels
    March 10, 2013 | Permalink |

    This is the stupidest article I have ever read. Is it directed at 16 year old girls? “Look good in his arms”, “follow your own dreams” laughable!!!

  • Julie
    March 14, 2013 | Permalink |

    I think this was Bad. I would never go out with another guy if my bf called off our date!!
    That’s rude. And instead of ignoring his calls, i would TALK!!! I dont care what u say im always clingy & needy!! Thats just WHO I AM and im not gonna stop being me.you should read all the comments people wrote and change your stupid tips. Also, my bf loves me just
    The way i am. He would not break up with me for hanging out with him!!! Plus
    He is hot because he’s a hockey player!!! So in your face!!!! Bitch!!!!

  • March 18, 2013 | Permalink |

    Sweet blog! I found it while surfing around on Yahoo
    News. Do you have any suggestions on how to get listed in Yahoo News?
    I’ve been trying for a while but I never seem to get there! Thank you

  • Cheyenna
    March 31, 2013 | Permalink |

    Really? If he does go hang out with his friends, DO NOT hang out with another guy! That is the worst thing you can do to a guys ego, and he sure wont want to be around someone that doesnt pet that! The only way he’ll learn what are you15? If he does go out and you want to also it better be with your family or your GIRL FRIENDS . What are you and that other guy gonna talk about anyway, how bad your bf is… that leads to cheating… i believe thats cheating anyway… going out with a guy other than your bf… :poop:

  • Allana
    April 8, 2013 | Permalink |

    This should be titled “how to send a self respecting man running”!!!!
    Look sexy?? If he loves you he won’t give a damn what you look like! Just don’t intentionally look like a slob or a skank when he takes you to a fancy restaurant or his moms…

    NEVER just walk away when he disrespects you!!! Talk to him, as calmly as possible about what it was that pissed you off! Only walk away when you can’t calm your shit enough to have an adult talk about the situation at hand…

    This shit only works at 14… Smh!!

  • Fairy
    April 8, 2013 | Permalink |

    Need some tips on #7!!! Play hard to get when he takes you easy.

    Like what do I do?
    I wont go out with anothr guy.. It might hurt him… What else can I do????

  • ultra
    April 19, 2013 | Permalink |

    “Guys are shallow”?? Come on.

  • Silvia
    May 10, 2013 | Permalink |

    I kept questioning my bf of almost 5yrs because he wanted a day out with his flatmate. Now he’s acting distant from me told me I’m jelous and that he’s not going … He nor me have been out without each other for the past 3yrs.

    I want him to have a good time now I feel so guilty and he’s not talking to me properly! I told him to go not to cancel about 1000 times but he told me he’s not going to change his mind. I messed up and I know this is going to come back to me 100 times worse! How can I fix it if he won’t listen and go?

  • CJ
    July 16, 2013 | Permalink |

    Act like a lady with some self respect and he’ll be too scared to lose you if he does anything wrong in the first place.

    Remember ladies, he’s privledged to be with you. Sometimes you just have to remind him. I don’t agree with a lot of the statements above, but I do believe guys are oblivious and need a taste of their own medicine sometimes.

    When they talk about how it hurts their feelings, tell him thats exactly how you go off and do me. If you want to stay stuck in this phase, I’ll stay right here with you. But if you want to move forward in our relationship and grow togehter, we can do so. Together.

  • Cry91191
    August 16, 2013 | Permalink |

    Hey, I can honestly say that I do these things and I have had a very great relationship. I learned that this is what works from experience with a past controlling boyfriend. These will work as long as you stick to them and the boyfriend is not controlling. A controlling boyfriend may not allow this. But if he allows it… He may be a keeper.

  • kim
    September 29, 2013 | Permalink |

    i wanna try this, but i realized i’m the selfish one.. we always fight due to my clinging, dependency and nagging.. i don’t know if i should do thing to make him want me more or should i fix first my problem?

  • Angella Johnson
    November 16, 2013 | Permalink |

    I love ideas!!!…i am going to try them all…thanks

  • Issabella Maraz
    January 1, 2014 | Permalink |

    This advice is amazing!!! I have trouble getting my boyfriend’s attention and he seems to take me for granted a lot! If I ask for his help with something, he nags about it every time, but when he asks for my help I just have to smile otherwise he throws a tantrum! He’s doesn’t desire me or do anything romantic for me. He never buys me any gifts or treat me to restaurants or anything… it’s really painful, I’m so hungry for his love but all he talks about his dream/work. Sometimes I even wonder if he still want to marry me one day because if he does, it doesn’t seem like a pretty picture… :’-( Please give more advice!!! thank you

  • sneha
    January 21, 2014 | Permalink |

    can i try this????but i am confused that it will really work or not?
    and i want to know that by doing this he also starts doing the same then what?
    and if he dosn’t care that i am talking with him,then?
    i just want a guareenty that he will starts realising that how valuable i am to him by doing this……can i start doing this or not???
    and when will i get back your answer?
    please reply fast its very urgent………..i am in a big trouble with this relationship……?

  • Tracy
    January 25, 2014 | Permalink |

    What a bunch of manipulation tactics and head games! I can’t even believe articles like this are being published! Using different tactics to trick, persuade, coerce and manipulate your partner’s behaviors instead of being honest and having integrity is good advice? This is the most childish article I have ever seen in my life. What is worse is that some people actually found this helpful! Good luck, folks!

  • annameg
    February 1, 2014 | Permalink |

    I luv dis advice

  • vee
    February 2, 2014 | Permalink |

    This is grt advice guyz myself i ddnt noe how to plz my man …grt stuff

  • Esther
    February 6, 2014 | Permalink |

    This is the best advice ever…. Am gonna try it. Am so certain it will work :-)

  • Thomas Ray welbaum
    March 1, 2014 | Permalink |

    We need a three some like I have been telling you ! How about a nice hot mature women for the both of us?

  • nicole
    March 13, 2014 | Permalink |

    I am struggling with my partner of 3 years we argue over silly things and fall out over childish things too, he has his night out once a week and i stay in constantly apart from doing bills or shopping, but i feel mean if i go out as he works all day and im a stay at home mummy, i feel like we are drifting apart but he tells me to talk to him and i do but then he turns it all on him and makes everything about how he feels, ive compromised with everything, i feel like my life is being taken for granted and nothing is changing by talking. Help please if anyone has any.

  • Alex
    April 24, 2014 | Permalink |

    This was a great article. It should be titled love yourself to be loved by another. I think this can go both ways. It’s not about how to manipulate your man into loving you, it’s about doing these things because you want to. Hanging out with your own friends and following your dreams and being smart, these are things I would hope a girl(or boy) wants to do for themselves regardless if they have a S.O.

  • shanne07
    April 25, 2014 | Permalink |

    I think so of it tips are okay, like having your own life, own friends, own hobbies and dreams and goals but I disagree with giving him the silent treatment when he shows disrespect or hanging out with another man if he takes you for granted. If you are too mad dont say anything but once you calm down tell him what you feel. Sometimes men do not even know that they said or did something that upset you unless you tell them.

  • joyous
    July 29, 2014 | Permalink |

    this is quiet encouraging bt if i start feeling myself by trying to ignore him just to see if he will chase after me and he also does the same wat will happen next

  • Alex
    August 10, 2014 | Permalink |

    call another cute guy and hang out with him just to get back at your boyfriend!!! It was the worst advice to give!!!
    It’s the only way he’ll learn!!! “ONLY”!!! You couldnt find any other way???
    HE’LL LEARN!!! Or HE’LL HATE YOU????

  • Sonni
    September 1, 2014 | Permalink |

    Thank you heapss! The tip sounds very useful!

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