Amazing girls are a dime a dozen. And an amazing girl that is exactly what you’re looking for is even more rare. Most men are looking for a girl who will meet their needs, be really cool with everything they do, and bring joy to their lives.
I think that’s what we all want. The problem is that finding all of those things in one person just isn’t all that realistic. However, you can get pretty close. There’s a certain combination of traits that can make pretty much any girl appealing to you, and they’ll bring exactly what you’re looking for into your life. And those girls are both smart and sexy.
Why you should never settle
Let’s just get one thing abundantly clear, you should never settle in your love life. If you feel as though the person you’re dating is lacking something that you think is vital to making the relationship work *but you’re with them anyways because you don’t think you can do better*, you’re settling.
Settling is really harmful in your love life. Love is supposed to be exciting and monumental. You shouldn’t just feel like, “meh,” when thinking about if your relationship makes you happy. You deserve to be with someone that challenges you, pushes you to new boundaries, and makes you happy. [Read: 16 signs you’re just settling in an unhappy relationship]
Reasons you should find a girl who’s smart and sexy
I’m sure you’re probably picturing a sexy schoolteacher right now, but that’s not the kind of smart and sexy I’m talking about. There are women out there who are intelligent, respect themselves, respect you, and have the confidence to make them appear sexy to anyone.
Those are the kinds of girls I’m talking about when I say you should find someone who is smart and sexy. If you’re on the hunt for Ms. Right, then here is why you should look for a girl who meets the criteria for smart and sexy.
#1 She’ll be ridiculously confident. Smart girls are usually really confident already, and that confidence will make her even sexier. Since she’s both smart and sexy, she’ll be intelligent enough to know her worth, and that will exude from her in the form of confidence. [Read: How to date a girl who seems way out of your league]
#2 No jealousy. Since she is so confident, she won’t really get jealous. I mean, unless you cross a line that justifies her being mad, you won’t have to worry with a crazy jealous girlfriend.
She’s smart enough to know that she’s the bomb.com and that you’d be stupid to ruin things with her. That will allow her to not overreact during certain times, and it means less stress for you. So, you should find a girl who’s sexy and smart for this reason.
#3 She’ll call you out on your bullshit. Now, some may see this as a negative, but really, it’s the best thing. Do you really want to be with a girl who will let you walk all over her? That’s boring and usually the type of girl who has no self-esteem.
If you find a girl who is smart and sexy, she will not put up with your bullshit. If she thinks you’re lying, she will call you out on it. If you’re being mean for no reason, you best believe she will tell you to fix your attitude – and then try talking to her again. [Read: How to treat a woman right – 15 ways to make her want to stay]
#4 She can give great advice. Smart girls are a wealth of knowledge. If you’re going through a tough time with your friends or even need some work advice, having a smart girl will benefit you greatly because she will give you solid and logical advice.
#5 It’s basically the best of both worlds. On one hand, you get a sexy woman that looks amazing all the time, and on the other hand, she can hold an intelligent conversation and satisfy you both intellectually and physically. What more could you want, really? [Read: 15 highs and lows of dating someone smarter than you]
#6 Bragging rights. Don’t you want to bring your girl around your friends and just brag about her accomplishments and the fact that she looks amazing? You can totally do this with a girl who’s smart and sexy. You can brag about how smart she is and just how incredible-looking she is and make all your friends jealous.
#7 She’ll prefer books over jewelry. And books are much, much cheaper! Smart girls usually like to read and have less of an interest in material objects like jewelry. They know that jewelry doesn’t really mean as much as you buying her a book she’s been pining over for the past month. This will save your wallet hundreds!
#8 She’ll challenge you. This is just a really fun thing to have in a girlfriend, and it can also make you a better person all around. When you have a girl who is both smart and sexy, this will challenge you to be at her level. She’ll make you think, and also make you salivate at the sight of her.
#9 You’ll learn something from her. You can never learn too much, and if you have a smart girlfriend, you’ll learn a lot of things – and often. By learning new things, you’ll become smarter yourself. And in turn, you’ll become a more well-rounded individual. [Read: Should I ask her out? 30 ways to know if she wants you to]
#10 You don’t have to entertain her. Smart girls know how to take care of themselves, and this includes being entertained. If you find yourself a smart and sexy girl, you can breathe easily knowing you don’t have to be talking to her 24/7 in order for her to be happy.
#11 She can hold a conversation with your mother. If this isn’t the best reason to find a girl who’s both smart and sexy, I don’t know what is. Dating a smart girl means you can leave her alone with your mother and she can have a conversation with her easily. And I’ll be willing to bet your mom would be impressed by her and even by you for finding such a smart girl.
#12 She’ll be well-educated on the male reproductive organs. AKA, she’ll know just how to please you because, well, she’s smart! And in this case, her intelligence goes a long way in making her that much sexier. [Read: 12 signs you have a slutty girlfriend – Be proud of it!]
#13 She’ll impress your friends in more than one way. Don’t you love to be the talk of your friends when it comes to who has the best girl? Because if you date a girl who is smart and sexy, you definitely will be. Your friends will be extremely impressed with her intelligence – especially since she’s so sexy.
#14 She’ll let you have your personal time. She’s not an idiot. So, she knows more than anyone else that in order for you to be happy and have a fulfilling life, you need to have your space. Smart girls know when it’s that time for you to hide away in your room and place video games for hours – and you don’t even have to drop a hint for her to get it.
#15 You’ll never be bored. This is the single best reason to find yourself a girl who’s smart and sexy. Her smartness goes a long way in keeping the conversation interesting, and her sexiness is more than enough to keep you satisfied in bed. Putting those together means you’ll never really be bored of her.
[Read: Instant chemistry – 25 flirty questions to ask a girl you like and impress her]
Finding that special person isn’t as easy as some people make it out to be. But if you’re looking for a girl who will make you happy, finding one who’s both smart and sexy is almost sure to find you the girl of your dreams.
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