If your dating game has been less that satisfactory, you may need help. These Tinder lines can help get you a date with the person you really want!
Tinder is possibly the fastest growing platform for meeting someone, going on a date with them, and potentially even getting into a relationship. The problem is that some people have trouble actually getting a date with someone they match with, because they just don’t have the right Tinder lines to use and impress.
For those of you who want to go on a date with someone but have no idea what to say, these lines will definitely help you out. Getting up the nerve to ask someone on a date is one thing, but asking them in a way that gets you a “yes” is completely different.
What is Tinder?
For those of you who don’t know what Tinder is, I’ll explain what it is and how it works. Tinder is a dating app that allows you to share about 5 pictures along with a paragraph about yourself and your interests.
If someone in your area is also on Tinder, they can view you, swipe right if they like you and swipe left if they don’t. If you both swipe right on each other’s pictures, you match and can start a conversation – hence, the need for Tinder lines. [Read: Social media sites to use to snag yourself a date]
Tinder lines to snag you a date on the first try
It’s just not enough nowadays to start your conversation with a, “hey,” especially over a dating app. People that you’ve matched with want to be impressed and intrigued. Think of it as sending them a cliffhanger. You have to leave them wanting more.
For those of you who just aren’t that creative, you may need some help figuring out what Tinder lines to use to get you a date on the first try. These are some of the best lines to use when trying to get a date on Tinder.
#1 You have no idea how many times I swiped left before I found you. Not only is this a great compliment – and everyone loves compliments – but it’s also showing that you have standards and aren’t swiping right for just anyone. And that makes it one of the greatest Tinder lines.
They’ll feel special, and we all know that if you really want to get a date with someone, you have to make them feel like they’re unique to you. Nobody wants to feel like you’ve used the same line on 10 different people. [Read: Online dating woes – common Tinder dating horror stories]
#2 I have a feeling you would get me into a lot of trouble. Not only is this intriguing because they would want to know immediately WHY you think this, but you can also follow it up with a witty compliment that will seal the deal. And another plus is that people LOVE being told that they can cause trouble. That feeling of rebellion is highly enticing.
#3 Dinner and a movie, or mini golfing and a picnic? That’s all you need to say, and they’ll be intrigued enough to respond. The fact is you’re asking them a simple question on their interests, and people like that.
They may reply saying yes to one of these choices, but they might also reply with their own idea of a great date. Then, all you have to say is, “Great! Friday at 7?” or whenever you want. It’s sly, quick, and they’ll like the directness. [Read: Best hookup apps for the hot and horny]
#4 Do you play Quidditch? Because you look like a keeper. Now, assuming this person is someone who has taste and actually likes Harry Potter, this will probably work amazingly well! And if they don’t like Harry Potter, then they’ll more than likely respond either way just to tell you they’re not a fan.
The bottom line with this technique is to get a response. If you can get them engaged in a conversation, you’re already halfway to being able to go on a date with them.
#5 Do you want to see my best pick up line? _________________________________ That’s really all that you’ll need to get a response. Why does this work? Because it’s really funny, clever, and I’ll bet they wouldn’t have ever seen it before. PLUS, it’s showing them that you’re interested but aren’t going to be weird or creepy. This will help snag them on that first date. [Read: 30 effective tips to help you win at online dating]
Tips for making the most of your Tinder lines
#1 Make sure they’re someone you would be interested in. Don’t just randomly try to go on a date with someone when the paragraph all about them doesn’t really appeal to you. If you’re just asking them because they’re attractive to you, but you have absolutely nothing in common, move on.
#2 Don’t message them late at night. This just screams “I WANNA HOOK UP!” which is NOT what you’re going for here. This isn’t going to get you that date. In fact, it will cause people to just turn the other way because a lot of them are really on there to find someone they could potentially be in a relationship with.
#3 Mention their interests. If you just compliment them on their looks and leave it at that, they’re going to think that’s all you like about them. Make sure to mention something from their profile, like a common interest, and it’ll help your chances.
If you highlight the fact that you’re interested in them as a person, your chances of scoring a date with them are SO much higher than if you just talk about how good looking they are and how attracted to them you are. [Read: Important do’s and don’ts of online dating]
#4 If they say no, thank them for their time and move on. If anything, this may actually seal the deal, and you don’t even know it. When you get turned down and are polite and you don’t beg for a date, they’ll see how great of a person you are. This can actually change their mind, and you’ll score a date.
A lot of people assume many things based on a few facts and a few pictures. But by politely thanking them and leaving them alone, it can show just how mature and nice you are – something everyone wants in a partner. [Read: How to spot the liars on an online dating site]
#5 Laughter is always a good way to go. If none of these lines are speaking to you, being funny is a great way to go. Everyone likes someone who’s funny, and you can never go wrong with making someone laugh. Just make sure the line isn’t offensive and you’ll be good to go.
You can even use some really cheesy and corny pick-up lines and then follow it up with something like, “Now what if I really tried picking you up like that?” This will get them intrigued to answer the question, and it’ll spark a fun conversation about the worst pick-up lines there are.
Picking up someone with Tinder lines isn’t very easy. If it was, everyone would be in successful relationships. But these lines and tips can help you catch that lucky person and get them to say “yes” to a date!
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