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  • yvonne
    December 16, 2011 | Permalink |

    hey i need help!!!
    i really like this guy and we are going to the movies with a group of friends, what are some ways i can get his attention without looking desperate?

  • Ice
    June 9, 2012 | Permalink |

    The best website with tips, ever!!!!

  • megz
    August 23, 2012 | Permalink |

    So, I thought this was all pretty great stuff, except for one tiny part: “Blush when he compliments you.” I’m sorry, is it just me or does any one else not have conscious control over the surface capillaries of their face? I’d love to be able to blush on command, and in a pretty way, too, not the “my face feels like it’s going to burn off and probably looks like a tomato” way, but it must just not be part of my genetic make up. If you have any tips on how to blush on command in just the apples of your cheeks, I would be SO happy. But until then…

  • December 12, 2012 | Permalink |

    These are great tips on how to flirt. The best part is that anyone can use them and with practice any girl can be a master at flirting with guys! Thank you so much for this.

  • Heather
    January 29, 2013 | Permalink |

    Seriously best flirting article I’ve ever read. It’s so accurate!

  • Annie
    April 11, 2013 | Permalink |

    Omg this totally worked for me!

  • annabelle
    April 12, 2013 | Permalink |

    omg I am going to try it! hope it works! wish me luck!

  • breakherlegs
    July 8, 2013 | Permalink |

    @megz Oh God. Your comment made me lose my shit. XD

  • lola
    December 31, 2013 | Permalink |

    I have been seeing this guy for 2 years, he never wanted a relationship but it was a good company with benefits as he would call it. He knew that I wanted to commit so I brought it up numerous times as he shows me these mixed messages. We have a great chemistry but he doesn’t speak much well he never used to he’s opening up more now but not about his emotions. Recently we decided to give “commiting” to one another a go but he’s still the same doesn’t talk much I don’t know whether he really wants this and I dont feel like bombarding him with 21q again about how he feels or what he wants

  • Lucy
    January 12, 2014 | Permalink |

    I really like this guy but idk if he likes me? Any tips on knowing if a guy likes you or not?

  • Ashley
    January 14, 2014 | Permalink |

    I like this guy but I can’t talk to him and every time he says anything to me the only thing I can do is smile and laugh and I can’t say anything

  • olivia
    February 20, 2014 | Permalink |

    Well being asked out is weird if a boy asked you out during school at a awkward time is weird . It would be better for a boy to ask me out during lunch .

  • Isa
    June 14, 2014 | Permalink |

    Um I know this rather loud and brash girl and she is super cute and popular with guys. I wouldn’t make the assumption that guys are turned off by girls that are too loud or outgoing

  • Haley
    August 23, 2014 | Permalink |

    So there is this guy at my high school. I am a Freshman and he is a Sophmore. I really REALLY like him and he does too…but he also likes two other girls. One is older than him and one lives out of state. I totally understand this and can relate to, but I really want him to like me specifically. He’s nice, chivalrous, funny, nerdy, handsome, and everything I look for in a guy. Any suggestions?

  • Raquel
    September 9, 2014 | Permalink |

    @Hayley Just tell him how you feel. If he likes you, as you say he does, than he will choose you over the others. Remember: the early bird gets the worm. If you keep waiting one of those other girls might confess their feelings first, and snatch him away from you. For all you know he might want you more than both of them, but is afraid you might not feel the same about him anymore; or even to begin with. Be brave and show him you care.

  • Nora
    January 8, 2015 | Permalink |

    So… Basically pretend to be stupider, faker, fluffier and girlier than you are?

  • Kat
    January 31, 2015 | Permalink |

    How do you attract a boy who has every girl crawling on him???

  • Nahhh
    February 18, 2015 | Permalink |

    This article pissed me off. I’m the confidant type who enjoys making the first step and taking the lead, but I guess I just have to kill my entire personality in order to get a man to like me. Jesus fucking Christ.

  • Zoey
    February 27, 2015 | Permalink |

    So I’ve tried some of these tips and others I think r just over the top depending on ur age . But thank u so much the actually work . I’ve liked this guy for a while now but neither of us would make the first move but after a few flirty tips we defiantly have something blooming . But girls always remember if this is not who u r be careful because u can stop the flirting once u got the guy u have to keep it up to keep him interested so don’t change urself .. Just upgrade :)

  • Myours
    March 6, 2015 | Permalink |

    Awesome…..exteamly helpful..!:)

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